FabSwingers.com forum: Cjs visits for single women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve read quite a few threads where women comment saying it’s their first time going to cjs by themselves and they’re nervous etc

Or girls who won’t go because they’re too nervous to go alone.

Do you think a kik chat group for single fems attending would be beneficial?

It can be quite daunting going in for the first time, let alone by yourself...maybe if other single fems can chat before hand and meet in the bar or something it’ll ease the nerves a bit? Prevents the whole awkward “where do I go or what do I do” feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve read quite a few threads where women comment saying it’s their first time going to cjs by themselves and they’re nervous etc

Or girls who won’t go because they’re too nervous to go alone.

Do you think a kik chat group for single fems attending would be beneficial?

I Would be more likely to go if I knew I could meet up with people in similar position

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

The 2nd time I went to Cj's I went in my own. A little daunting at first, but I ended up bumping into people I already knew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my first visit I arranged to meet up with people and it was much less daunting not sure I’d have been brave enough otherwise

I’ve been a few times now though and I’d happily go alone as everyone in my experience was friendly and welcoming x

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Maybe choose your night carefully, as in try couples & single female night only first? As Angel has said, everyone is usually very welcoming.

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Why not put a meet on the appropriate section for drinks first before going and you can go in together?

I don't think kik groups are meant to be discussed or set up on the forum

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not put a meet on the appropriate section for drinks first before going and you can go in together?

I don't think kik groups are meant to be discussed or set up on the forum

V x"

Thanks I hadn't thought of that. That's a good idea xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why not put a meet on the appropriate section for drinks first before going and you can go in together?

I don't think kik groups are meant to be discussed or set up on the forum

V x"

Oops didn’t realise that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why not put a meet on the appropriate section for drinks first before going and you can go in together?

I don't think kik groups are meant to be discussed or set up on the forum

V x

Thanks I hadn't thought of that. That's a good idea xx"

Cupcake I’ll be your pal haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not put a meet on the appropriate section for drinks first before going and you can go in together?

I don't think kik groups are meant to be discussed or set up on the forum

V x

Thanks I hadn't thought of that. That's a good idea xx

Cupcake I’ll be your pal haha

Ooooh thanks

I'm quite shy at first so need a buddy lol

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

"Why not put a meet on the appropriate section for drinks first before going and you can go in together?

I don't think kik groups are meant to be discussed or set up on the forum

V x

Thanks I hadn't thought of that. That's a good idea xx"

I think you'll find quite a few ladies all having the same nerves! Strength in numbers and all that haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been a few times myself cupcake and heading along on Saturday again myself, I would be happy to meet you 1 night before hand if you wanted to head along sometime

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By *cottishMrsWoman
over a year ago

Wishaw

I think this is a great idea. I'm married but would also love to nosey on my own lol. Would definitely feel better if I went with another girl xx

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Always happy to meet for a coffee or a drink sometime. There’s the pub quiz on a Tuesday if anyone wants to meet up as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Aw look at us being all friendly and nice

I’m happy to buddy up with you ladies as well

The more the merrier and like V said strength in numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went on my own for my first (and so far only) time. I would have loved to have gone with a couple of girls, it took me a while to warm up but ended up having a very fun night!

Hope to get back again one day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure ill make sat night but definitely looking to go in the next few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been by myself and it was fine but would definitely have preferred heading in with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to always go on my own, first ever time I went I just posted in forum please if anyone sees me come say hi so I’m not sat on my own like a lemon and everyone was so friendly that was 11 years ago and I still go alone even now, there’s actually a lot of single females go alone and usually found in the kitchen, if you’re bi then cpls and single fem night might be good but personally they’re not my cup of tea and the fun for all tend to be the best nights

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By *oo_BiesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow / Ayrshire

I would perhaps go if I knew 1 or 2 girls that were going and felt comfortable with them, meeting for drinks beforehand is a good shout. It’d be even better if there was a ladies only night!

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I would perhaps go if I knew 1 or 2 girls that were going and felt comfortable with them, meeting for drinks beforehand is a good shout. It’d be even better if there was a ladies only night!

I don't think cj's does a ladies only night, but there is 1 posted in the forums.

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By *ottieBBWWoman
over a year ago

West of Scotland

Pre club drinks is a great idea x

Ive been a few times but always with friends/ or arranged to meet friends there. But have been a few occasions where they have been unable to make it last minute- I ended up not wanting to go myself…knowing other singles ladies would certainly help with that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time I went alone and met lovely people. Since then I've also been to a social and met some lovely people before it. Come say hi on Saturday as ill be heading along x

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By *inUpGirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I used to always go on my own, first ever time I went I just posted in forum please if anyone sees me come say hi so I’m not sat on my own like a lemon and everyone was so friendly that was 11 years ago and I still go alone even now, there’s actually a lot of single females go alone and usually found in the kitchen, if you’re bi then cpls and single fem night might be good but personally they’re not my cup of tea and the fun for all tend to be the best nights "

This

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

nottingham

I think quiz social is a good way to meet before club to make friends

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

nottingham

I would try the quiz sounds a good way of making friends for ckub

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By *oo_BiesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow / Ayrshire

"I would perhaps go if I knew 1 or 2 girls that were going and felt comfortable with them, meeting for drinks beforehand is a good shout. It’d be even better if there was a ladies only night!

I don't think cj's does a ladies only night, but there is 1 posted in the forums.

No it doesn’t but it would be good if they did!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been couple times walking in my self and a few hours alone, does not bother me going here myself, as we all know what we are there for and the people that do go are friendly and always chat with you, next night I am going with a freind as she not been so moral support for both of us x

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By *tillGame4ItCouple
over a year ago

ayrshire

Well we will be in Arta on Sat from 8.30pm for anyone who fancies pre nerve drinks before CJs? Lol x

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