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By *on12xx OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

I'm new to the area and trying to get to know the area in Glasgow centre

Does anyone actually meet for socials

Love a drink in Glasgow centre anyone know how can meet for social here

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By *on12xx OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

All people so far let me down been fakes

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By *ictiiWitchCouple
over a year ago

Helensburgh


"All people so far let me down been fakes"

What do you mean by fakes?

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By *on12xx OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Men pretending to be a lady or couple

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By *on12xx OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

I would be happy for a man to show me round if honest

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By *on12xx OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Anyone fancy drinknow tonight

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By *on12xx OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Can anyone help find a geniue person on hrre

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By *lut Sara and bobCouple
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

People with verifications from meets more likely to be genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm new to the area and trying to get to know the area in Glasgow centre

Does anyone actually meet for socials

Love a drink in Glasgow centre anyone know how can meet for social here "

There's a lot of fakes on here, a few new profiles have popped up recently and every one say "up for fun" and nothing else. There's also "certain" profiles that encourage you to message them saying they'll reply and don't, beginning to look like there's a few cliques, if you're not in my gang you're not getting in .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm new to the area and trying to get to know the area in Glasgow centre

Does anyone actually meet for socials

Love a drink in Glasgow centre anyone know how can meet for social here "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope meet never happen around here, we are all just here for the bants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm new to the area and trying to get to know the area in Glasgow centre

Does anyone actually meet for socials

Love a drink in Glasgow centre anyone know how can meet for social here "

I've had several messages from couples and single ladies in England but getting a reply on here from someone closer to home is like trying to get blood from a stone

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By *on12xx OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Thanks

any fems or couples from Glasgow here fancy a drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks

any fems or couples from Glasgow here fancy a drink"

Good luck with that request, it's like a secret society and fk knows what you have to do to get In .

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By *ack-of-RollosMan
over a year ago

Rolloshire

Attend some socials? Fab works best when you use it to maintain contact with folk you've met already. R

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate


"I'm new to the area and trying to get to know the area in Glasgow centre

Does anyone actually meet for socials

Love a drink in Glasgow centre anyone know how can meet for social here "
Site is full of fakes guys pretending to be female or even couples. Best way to do it is look for verification's of people actually meeting and having fun. Sorry we do not except the we met at a social or we seen this person on cam FUN is what you want so you want to meet someone that has been verified for what you want. We don't believe socials is the way to go sorry that is our opinion tried a while back turned out to be very clique Not saying they are all like this but look for verification's for what you want. good luck

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By *ack-of-RollosMan
over a year ago

Rolloshire


"Sorry we do not except the we met at a social or we seen this person on cam FUN is what you want"

I would say if you don't except offline social meetings, you kinda have to expect online non-meetings :p

Nobody is owed FUN here, they can only offer it. R

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By *on12xx OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Anyone social drink glasgow

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

There are some big social events coming up in Glasgow. If you scroll a bit further down you'll find them x

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Another vote for socials or heading to a club. Just don't expect to get a shag from either, just take it as a bonus if it goes that way.

V x

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By *on12xx OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Just looking to get to know people.

Shag not priority

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate

Having an opinion on this site always did spark of negatively!

Someone turning up to a social does not make them reliable to show up at a play meet total different ball game meeting for a drink and meeting a bunch of people naked.

As for clubs yes we have also tried in the past the one in Edinburgh is like a meat market guys standing watching for the fresh new meat arriving.

Yes this site is full of time wasters and yes we will stand by that and that is why our profile is the way it is it cuts it down!

So please get your toys back in the cot we are entitled to our opinion on here just like anybody else.

Advice if you don’t like our views or profile Block us it really is that simple.

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By *ack-of-RollosMan
over a year ago

Rolloshire

Relax yo - all just opinions from folk with experience, no daggers. Not sure people are arguing there aren't loads of fakers, just that physical socials help combat the mistrust the fakers create.

Also, re clubs - play friends and I bolt straight to the couples rooms after meeting and greeting in the main rooms. There be a more even ratio R

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"I'm new to the area and trying to get to know the area in Glasgow centre

Does anyone actually meet for socials

Love a drink in Glasgow centre anyone know how can meet for social here

There's a lot of fakes on here, a few new profiles have popped up recently and every one say "up for fun" and nothing else. There's also "certain" profiles that encourage you to message them saying they'll reply and don't, beginning to look like there's a few cliques, if you're not in my gang you're not getting in . "

Cliques how exactly?

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By *et Boy Jet GirlCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

There's a fab walking group as well! Might have to scroll a bit further down the Scotland forum to find out about that one, but I'm sure I've seen it x

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Hi I'm looking to get to know people sex is a bonus and so is nudism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks

any fems or couples from Glasgow here fancy a drink

Good luck with that request, it's like a secret society and fk knows what you have to do to get In . "

Sounding kinda bitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you not go to a boozer yourself op and get chatting to folk already there?

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

This is a free site and even when you do pay it is dirt cheap. So there are always going to be tonnes of fakes. Best to only look for people with verification's but even then you need to watch out as some of them are fakes as well. So maybe look for women with 3-4-5+ veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks

any fems or couples from Glasgow here fancy a drink

Good luck with that request, it's like a secret society and fk knows what you have to do to get In .

Sounding kinda bitter "

My experience so far re messaging both couples and singles is about 70 % seem to put up a brick wall when a simple not interested will suffice. The other 30% have been a mixture of really nice people and messages unread which is entirely understandable from females. Am I annoyed about the 70%? Yes, Am I bitter ? Absolutely not, bitterness consumes you and steals your happiness x

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By *ictiiWitchCouple
over a year ago

Helensburgh


"Thanks

any fems or couples from Glasgow here fancy a drink

Good luck with that request, it's like a secret society and fk knows what you have to do to get In .

Sounding kinda bitter

My experience so far re messaging both couples and singles is about 70 % seem to put up a brick wall when a simple not interested will suffice. The other 30% have been a mixture of really nice people and messages unread which is entirely understandable from females. Am I annoyed about the 70%? Yes, Am I bitter ? Absolutely not, bitterness consumes you and steals your happiness x"

It's not a secret society sweetie, it's just down to trust. The people you see on here that seem to be in the "clique" are usually the ones that have been to socials etc or have been around long enough for people to get to know them, know things about them that can hold conversation etc. This is why just about everyone will tell you to get to a social event or go to the clubs. You put a huge burden of trust on the people you play with in this lifestyle so people are going to be cautious. I talked to one guy twice, didn't meet him, didn't play with him and he still threatened to mess up my life because I wouldn't go further. So no clique, just very cautious people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP get yourself up to Aberdeen as it seems to be the place for meets the now. .

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By *uburban_kinkCouple
over a year ago

Motherwell


"My experience so far re messaging both couples and singles is about 70 % seem to put up a brick wall when a simple not interested will suffice. The other 30% have been a mixture of really nice people and messages unread which is entirely understandable from females. Am I annoyed about the 70%? Yes, Am I bitter ? Absolutely not, bitterness consumes you and steals your happiness x"

I understand your frustration, but if you try and see it from the perspective of the females/couples it’ll may help clarify why 70% of us literally can’t send a “not interested” message.

I logged on 20 mins ago to have a wee nosey at the forums, in that time I’ve now got 7 messages waiting for me in our inbox ... so as frustrating as it is for you (and I do genuinely sympathise), I just don’t have time to read each message, review their full profile, pics and verifications then reply to each one saying that I’m not interested.

I prefer to save that effort for the ones we ARE interested in - that’s why a good introductory message and profile is so important as it helps separate the wheat from the chaff.

Now everyones approach to Fab is different and I admire those that have the time to respond to each and every message, but we just can’t and use the delete button as our way of saying that we’re not interested.

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By *on12xx OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Thanks sur ban couple much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scottish forums is always so happy isn't it they are so friendly and nice

No need for it some people just want help yet it always ends up an argument chill oot

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

If you are a decent person look after yourself are intelligent and have the gift of the gab. You should have sex with about 20-50 women a year. If not there is always porn and cleanex.

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By *hris211978Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

No it is a chancers paradise on here. Very few genuine people who are here for the right reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My experience so far re messaging both couples and singles is about 70 % seem to put up a brick wall when a simple not interested will suffice. The other 30% have been a mixture of really nice people and messages unread which is entirely understandable from females. Am I annoyed about the 70%? Yes, Am I bitter ? Absolutely not, bitterness consumes you and steals your happiness x

I understand your frustration, but if you try and see it from the perspective of the females/couples it’ll may help clarify why 70% of us literally can’t send a “not interested” message.

I logged on 20 mins ago to have a wee nosey at the forums, in that time I’ve now got 7 messages waiting for me in our inbox ... so as frustrating as it is for you (and I do genuinely sympathise), I just don’t have time to read each message, review their full profile, pics and verifications then reply to each one saying that I’m not interested.

I prefer to save that effort for the ones we ARE interested in - that’s why a good introductory message and profile is so important as it helps separate the wheat from the chaff.

Now everyones approach to Fab is different and I admire those that have the time to respond to each and every message, but we just can’t and use the delete button as our way of saying that we’re not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks

any fems or couples from Glasgow here fancy a drink

Good luck with that request, it's like a secret society and fk knows what you have to do to get In .

Sounding kinda bitter

My experience so far re messaging both couples and singles is about 70 % seem to put up a brick wall when a simple not interested will suffice. The other 30% have been a mixture of really nice people and messages unread which is entirely understandable from females. Am I annoyed about the 70%? Yes, Am I bitter ? Absolutely not, bitterness consumes you and steals your happiness x

It's not a secret society sweetie, it's just down to trust. The people you see on here that seem to be in the "clique" are usually the ones that have been to socials etc or have been around long enough for people to get to know them, know things about them that can hold conversation etc. This is why just about everyone will tell you to get to a social event or go to the clubs. You put a huge burden of trust on the people you play with in this lifestyle so people are going to be cautious. I talked to one guy twice, didn't meet him, didn't play with him and he still threatened to mess up my life because I wouldn't go further. So no clique, just very cautious people. "

Thank you, I withdraw the clique remark x

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Thanks

any fems or couples from Glasgow here fancy a drink

Good luck with that request, it's like a secret society and fk knows what you have to do to get In .

Sounding kinda bitter

My experience so far re messaging both couples and singles is about 70 % seem to put up a brick wall when a simple not interested will suffice. The other 30% have been a mixture of really nice people and messages unread which is entirely understandable from females. Am I annoyed about the 70%? Yes, Am I bitter ? Absolutely not, bitterness consumes you and steals your happiness x

It's not a secret society sweetie, it's just down to trust. The people you see on here that seem to be in the "clique" are usually the ones that have been to socials etc or have been around long enough for people to get to know them, know things about them that can hold conversation etc. This is why just about everyone will tell you to get to a social event or go to the clubs. You put a huge burden of trust on the people you play with in this lifestyle so people are going to be cautious. I talked to one guy twice, didn't meet him, didn't play with him and he still threatened to mess up my life because I wouldn't go further. So no clique, just very cautious people. "
sorry there are cliques.

take solice in the fact they dont even constitute .5%.

Ive been to many socials and witnessed all i say first hand.

Im sure others could attest to the golden ones

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By *ilkand2Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Most of the guys on here would probably shit themselves if they got a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What constitutes a “clique”?

In my mind it’s just a group of people who are friends and who have similar interests..... I’m not sure how this is a bad thing.

In every walk of life and in and situation there will be cliques and there’s nothing wrong with that......

Can someone tell me what’s wrong with a clique of people who share common interests?

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Yes they do .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

clique

/kli?k/

noun

noun: clique; plural noun: cliques

a small close-knit group of people who do not readily allow others to join them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"clique

/kli?k/

noun

noun: clique; plural noun: cliques

a small close-knit group of people who do not readily allow others to join them.

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And your point is? I still fail to see what the issue is here

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"clique

/kli?k/

noun

noun: clique; plural noun: cliques

a small close-knit group of people who do not readily allow others to join them.

And your point is? I still fail to see what the issue is here "

Why is it bothering you so much that people think there's cliques?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Most of the guys on here would probably shit themselves if they got a meet "

Yep. This happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the guys on here would probably shit themselves if they got a meet

Yep. This happens"

Or they fainted and knocked themselves out when they fell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"clique

/kli?k/

noun

noun: clique; plural noun: cliques

a small close-knit group of people who do not readily allow others to join them.

And your point is? I still fail to see what the issue is here

Why is it bothering you so much that people think there's cliques? "

I wouldn’t exactly say it’s bothering me lol.

It’s just frustrating when people complain there’s a clique as an reason for not getting a meet.

But that’s just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree, a meet is earned with good chat and a mutual attraction

I read so much about cliques and not being able to get a meet...I find on fab the more effort you make the more rewards so my advice is go to organised socials and meet people or attend a club don’t just sit back and wait for it to happen with a few message

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"clique

/kli?k/

noun

noun: clique; plural noun: cliques

a small close-knit group of people who do not readily allow others to join them.

And your point is? I still fail to see what the issue is here

Why is it bothering you so much that people think there's cliques?

I wouldn’t exactly say it’s bothering me lol.

It’s just frustrating when people complain there’s a clique as an reason for not getting a meet.

But that’s just my opinion "

There are cliques on here but I do agree with you that it's not a reason people aren't getting meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"clique

/kli?k/

noun

noun: clique; plural noun: cliques

a small close-knit group of people who do not readily allow others to join them.

And your point is? I still fail to see what the issue is here

Why is it bothering you so much that people think there's cliques?

I wouldn’t exactly say it’s bothering me lol.

It’s just frustrating when people complain there’s a clique as an reason for not getting a meet.

But that’s just my opinion

There are cliques on here but I do agree with you that it's not a reason people aren't getting meets"

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"clique

/kli?k/

noun

noun: clique; plural noun: cliques

a small close-knit group of people who do not readily allow others to join them.

And your point is? I still fail to see what the issue is here

Why is it bothering you so much that people think there's cliques?

I wouldn’t exactly say it’s bothering me lol.

It’s just frustrating when people complain there’s a clique as an reason for not getting a meet.

But that’s just my opinion

There are cliques on here but I do agree with you that it's not a reason people aren't getting meets"
oh i will say its a reason people dont get meets i will say it with ease knowing its true these cliques converse on many limits and DO send out the msg to steer clear of this one or that one it would suprise some which sugar sweet folk are guilty of this but naming and shaming aint allowed oppps turned out not such a nice thread

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I work in the town centre if you fancy a coffee.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"clique

/kli?k/

noun

noun: clique; plural noun: cliques

a small close-knit group of people who do not readily allow others to join them.

And your point is? I still fail to see what the issue is here

Why is it bothering you so much that people think there's cliques?

I wouldn’t exactly say it’s bothering me lol.

It’s just frustrating when people complain there’s a clique as an reason for not getting a meet.

But that’s just my opinion

There are cliques on here but I do agree with you that it's not a reason people aren't getting meetsoh i will say its a reason people dont get meets i will say it with ease knowing its true these cliques converse on many limits and DO send out the msg to steer clear of this one or that one it would suprise some which sugar sweet folk are guilty of this but naming and shaming aint allowed oppps turned out not such a nice thread "

Actually who am I kidding, you're right they do. But if people would rather listen to hearsay than get to know the person they aren't worth meeting

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"clique

/kli?k/

noun

noun: clique; plural noun: cliques

a small close-knit group of people who do not readily allow others to join them.

And your point is? I still fail to see what the issue is here

Why is it bothering you so much that people think there's cliques?

I wouldn’t exactly say it’s bothering me lol.

It’s just frustrating when people complain there’s a clique as an reason for not getting a meet.

But that’s just my opinion

There are cliques on here but I do agree with you that it's not a reason people aren't getting meetsoh i will say its a reason people dont get meets i will say it with ease knowing its true these cliques converse on many limits and DO send out the msg to steer clear of this one or that one it would suprise some which sugar sweet folk are guilty of this but naming and shaming aint allowed oppps turned out not such a nice thread

Actually who am I kidding, you're right they do. But if people would rather listen to hearsay than get to know the person they aren't worth meeting "
your 100% right unfortunatly some see chat or forums as their only means to chat and meet folk and if one of the almightys dont like you your fucked

Fold need to remember chat and forums are a miniscule % of users on fab to many see the pretty pics on chat or forums and get lap happy chasing their tail attempting to be in the crowd.

My advice be you and feek em all

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


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My advice be you and feek em all "

Thanks kola, I'll try and be more myself, dry and sarcastic

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"

My advice be you and feek em all

Thanks kola, I'll try and be more myself, dry and sarcastic "
think you got it down pat......will i chase my tail and compliment ya or.......be me and leave it there pmsl

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"

My advice be you and feek em all

Thanks kola, I'll try and be more myself, dry and sarcastic think you got it down pat......will i chase my tail and compliment ya or.......be me and leave it there pmsl "

thanks I do try. Best leaving it there

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"clique

/kli?k/

noun

noun: clique; plural noun: cliques

a small close-knit group of people who do not readily allow others to join them.

And your point is? I still fail to see what the issue is here

Why is it bothering you so much that people think there's cliques?

I wouldn’t exactly say it’s bothering me lol.

It’s just frustrating when people complain there’s a clique as an reason for not getting a meet.

But that’s just my opinion

There are cliques on here but I do agree with you that it's not a reason people aren't getting meetsoh i will say its a reason people dont get meets i will say it with ease knowing its true these cliques converse on many limits and DO send out the msg to steer clear of this one or that one it would suprise some which sugar sweet folk are guilty of this but naming and shaming aint allowed oppps turned out not such a nice thread

Actually who am I kidding, you're right they do. But if people would rather listen to hearsay than get to know the person they aren't worth meeting your 100% right unfortunatly some see chat or forums as their only means to chat and meet folk and if one of the almightys dont like you your fucked

Fold need to remember chat and forums are a miniscule % of users on fab to many see the pretty pics on chat or forums and get lap happy chasing their tail attempting to be in the crowd.

My advice be you and feek em all "

There are cliques without a doubt but for some it’s the first thing they shout when they can’t get a meet! Nothing to do with their constant whining or shit sense of humour, or badly written profiles or one sentence messages .... nope it’s the cliques!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just my personal experience of the first couple of months,the only members I've asked for a meet are a handful of those who have it on their profiles. Their replys range from nada to the odd polite no thanks. Not once have I been miffed at any refusal to meet, I HATE misogynistic assholes and would be mortified if anyone thought I was like one. I promise you all ladies, there's a very complex story behind me wanting to make new friends, the thought of anything sexual really isn't part of it. I'm very much an open book but I don't think I can or should discuss that complex story on here,privately not a problem. What I will say is I've had 3 sexual partners in my life, you're all lovely ladies but I'll never initiate a conversation about Sex. Friendship? Absolutely! Michael xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just my personal experience of the first couple of months,the only members I've asked for a meet are a handful of those who have it on their profiles. Their replys range from nada to the odd polite no thanks. Not once have I been miffed at any refusal to meet, I HATE misogynistic assholes and would be mortified if anyone thought I was like one. I promise you all ladies, there's a very complex story behind me wanting to make new friends, the thought of anything sexual really isn't part of it. I'm very much an open book but I don't think I can or should discuss that complex story on here,privately not a problem. What I will say is I've had 3 sexual partners in my life, you're all lovely ladies but I'll never initiate a conversation about Sex. Friendship? Absolutely! Michael xx "

If complex isn't working for you, give straightforward a try

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"It's just my personal experience of the first couple of months,the only members I've asked for a meet are a handful of those who have it on their profiles. Their replys range from nada to the odd polite no thanks. Not once have I been miffed at any refusal to meet, I HATE misogynistic assholes and would be mortified if anyone thought I was like one. I promise you all ladies, there's a very complex story behind me wanting to make new friends, the thought of anything sexual really isn't part of it. I'm very much an open book but I don't think I can or should discuss that complex story on here,privately not a problem. What I will say is I've had 3 sexual partners in my life, you're all lovely ladies but I'll never initiate a conversation about Sex. Friendship? Absolutely! Michael xx "

I’m going to be really honest here and it’s not all directed at you just in general.... we are here for the sex, that’s it! To get an occasional sexual kick doing something different. We are not interested in other people’s complex lives, making friends for life etc. The site is used in so many ways by so many people but ultimately it is a sex-site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only here for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just my personal experience of the first couple of months,the only members I've asked for a meet are a handful of those who have it on their profiles. Their replys range from nada to the odd polite no thanks. Not once have I been miffed at any refusal to meet, I HATE misogynistic assholes and would be mortified if anyone thought I was like one. I promise you all ladies, there's a very complex story behind me wanting to make new friends, the thought of anything sexual really isn't part of it. I'm very much an open book but I don't think I can or should discuss that complex story on here,privately not a problem. What I will say is I've had 3 sexual partners in my life, you're all lovely ladies but I'll never initiate a conversation about Sex. Friendship? Absolutely! Michael xx

I’m going to be really honest here and it’s not all directed at you just in general.... we are here for the sex, that’s it! To get an occasional sexual kick doing something different. We are not interested in other people’s complex lives, making friends for life etc. The site is used in so many ways by so many people but ultimately it is a sex-site. "

I understand that but this is the first site I've been on where I can get to meet a lot of the members without having to ask, (well apart from asking cj) . It's important to me to meet people on here socially, for my own reasons and definitely not about Sex tho I take your point that ultimately it is a sex site..

In saying that I know people on here have become the very best of friends through swinging xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only here for sex "

One of the things I love about the majority of women is they don't mince their words ,in a world where so many men believe they are superior there should be more Oldie but godies

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over a year ago


"It's just my personal experience of the first couple of months,the only members I've asked for a meet are a handful of those who have it on their profiles. Their replys range from nada to the odd polite no thanks. Not once have I been miffed at any refusal to meet, I HATE misogynistic assholes and would be mortified if anyone thought I was like one. I promise you all ladies, there's a very complex story behind me wanting to make new friends, the thought of anything sexual really isn't part of it. I'm very much an open book but I don't think I can or should discuss that complex story on here,privately not a problem. What I will say is I've had 3 sexual partners in my life, you're all lovely ladies but I'll never initiate a conversation about Sex. Friendship? Absolutely! Michael xx

If complex isn't working for you, give straightforward a try "

I'll give it a go , I don't mean I have to tell everyone my life story btw. I've never a female to have the pants bored off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*known*

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Of course people meet. It can often depend on how your approach is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s lots of organised meets in Glasgow like the walking group, weekly pub quiz, and big social events like rocky horror and speed dating, as for smaller individual meets they tend to be posted on the meet me page

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"Most of the guys on here would probably shit themselves if they got a meet "

Funny that, in my experience it's usually the females who do that.

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over a year ago


"What constitutes a “clique”?

In my mind it’s just a group of people who are friends and who have similar interests..... I’m not sure how this is a bad thing.

In every walk of life and in and situation there will be cliques and there’s nothing wrong with that......

Can someone tell me what’s wrong with a clique of people who share common interests? "

People with little or low intelligence don’t actually understand the meaning of the word and therefore treat Unknown’s with contempt and think a clique is a bad thing, cliques can mean a variety of different things and yes fab itself is one large clique broken down onto lots of smaller ones, your various football team supporters are in cliques, your religious beliefs can place you in cliques, the mothers and toddlers group is a clique, your family is a clique

I’m happy to say that o am such a diverse and open minded person I can and do mix in all the cliques I’ve encountered on fab

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy


"It's just my personal experience of the first couple of months,the only members I've asked for a meet are a handful of those who have it on their profiles. Their replys range from nada to the odd polite no thanks. Not once have I been miffed at any refusal to meet, I HATE misogynistic assholes and would be mortified if anyone thought I was like one. I promise you all ladies, there's a very complex story behind me wanting to make new friends, the thought of anything sexual really isn't part of it. I'm very much an open book but I don't think I can or should discuss that complex story on here,privately not a problem. What I will say is I've had 3 sexual partners in my life, you're all lovely ladies but I'll never initiate a conversation about Sex. Friendship? Absolutely! Michael xx

I’m going to be really honest here and it’s not all directed at you just in general.... we are here for the sex, that’s it! To get an occasional sexual kick doing something different. We are not interested in other people’s complex lives, making friends for life etc. The site is used in so many ways by so many people but ultimately it is a sex-site. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would also say that socials are the best way to suss folk.out im heading to the 23rd feb one in glasgow x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I have to get along to a social I'm just not sure about going on my own. I'd get lost in Glasgow.

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over a year ago


"What constitutes a “clique”?

In my mind it’s just a group of people who are friends and who have similar interests..... I’m not sure how this is a bad thing.

In every walk of life and in and situation there will be cliques and there’s nothing wrong with that......

Can someone tell me what’s wrong with a clique of people who share common interests?

People with little or low intelligence don’t actually understand the meaning of the word and therefore treat Unknown’s with contempt and think a clique is a bad thing, cliques can mean a variety of different things and yes fab itself is one large clique broken down onto lots of smaller ones, your various football team supporters are in cliques, your religious beliefs can place you in cliques, the mothers and toddlers group is a clique, your family is a clique

I’m happy to say that o am such a diverse and open minded person I can and do mix in all the cliques I’ve encountered on fab "

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over a year ago


"What constitutes a “clique”?

In my mind it’s just a group of people who are friends and who have similar interests..... I’m not sure how this is a bad thing.

In every walk of life and in and situation there will be cliques and there’s nothing wrong with that......

Can someone tell me what’s wrong with a clique of people who share common interests?

People with little or low intelligence don’t actually understand the meaning of the word and therefore treat Unknown’s with contempt and think a clique is a bad thing, cliques can mean a variety of different things and yes fab itself is one large clique broken down onto lots of smaller ones, your various football team supporters are in cliques, your religious beliefs can place you in cliques, the mothers and toddlers group is a clique, your family is a clique

I’m happy to say that o am such a diverse and open minded person I can and do mix in all the cliques I’ve encountered on fab "

The idea that people who don't fully understand the meaning of a particular word is a sign of little or low intelligence is one of the most ridiculous comments I've ever heard. By definition you're saying the difference between a functional human being and another form of life with a differently wired brain is their interpretation of a single word.

In other words we're all thick as mince, because I'm sure we all know a word but don't actually know the full meaning.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


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People with little or low intelligence don’t actually understand the meaning of the word and therefore treat Unknown’s with contempt and think a clique is a bad thing"

Has that been scientifically proven or you've just decided?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

People with little or low intelligence don’t actually understand the meaning of the word and therefore treat Unknown’s with contempt and think a clique is a bad thing

Has that been scientifically proven or you've just decided?

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over a year ago


"What constitutes a “clique”?

In my mind it’s just a group of people who are friends and who have similar interests..... I’m not sure how this is a bad thing.

In every walk of life and in and situation there will be cliques and there’s nothing wrong with that......

Can someone tell me what’s wrong with a clique of people who share common interests?

People with little or low intelligence don’t actually understand the meaning of the word and therefore treat Unknown’s with contempt and think a clique is a bad thing, cliques can mean a variety of different things and yes fab itself is one large clique broken down onto lots of smaller ones, your various football team supporters are in cliques, your religious beliefs can place you in cliques, the mothers and toddlers group is a clique, your family is a clique

I’m happy to say that o am such a diverse and open minded person I can and do mix in all the cliques I’ve encountered on fab "

You sure you've got that right??

Clique as per the Oxford English Dictionary - A small close-knit group of people who do not readily allow others to join them.

The last 9 words of that definition don't apply to any of your examples of a clique.

I don't have an issue with cliques, they're just part of life, the reality is they are dominated by stronger personalities and the weaker ones just go with the flow.

There are cliques on here, so what?? I'm not interested in chatting to anyone who doesn't have a mind of their own and can't form their own opinions so they don't bother me.

In fact I have a clique of my own, me and me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I have met many people for a social and we have become good friends. It's a matter of who is willing to take the time to know you. A good flow of conversation is somewhat I look for when messaging first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I have met many people for a social and we have become good friends. It's a matter of who is willing to take the time to know you. A good flow of conversation is somewhat I look for when messaging first."

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy


"Yes, I have met many people for a social and we have become good friends. It's a matter of who is willing to take the time to know you. A good flow of conversation is somewhat I look for when messaging first."

Thats all very nice, people knowing exactly what they want in a meet swingingly,straightforwardly is pretty nice too.

As an example, if a couple were to ping up a "meet today" thing, declaring they are in search of a spontaneous wild threesome,they are going to think me rather odd responding with me firstly wanting to become friends and hey lets bounce lots of messages between each other first are they not?

There are folks who put a lot of store in having to become friends and there are people that equally dont have it as a priority either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the fact that every response the OP has had on this thread has been him just asking anyone to meet, with no actual attempt at a conversation may be the reason he's not had a meet. Just an observation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What constitutes a “clique”?

In my mind it’s just a group of people who are friends and who have similar interests..... I’m not sure how this is a bad thing.

In every walk of life and in and situation there will be cliques and there’s nothing wrong with that......

Can someone tell me what’s wrong with a clique of people who share common interests?

People with little or low intelligence don’t actually understand the meaning of the word and therefore treat Unknown’s with contempt and think a clique is a bad thing, cliques can mean a variety of different things and yes fab itself is one large clique broken down onto lots of smaller ones, your various football team supporters are in cliques, your religious beliefs can place you in cliques, the mothers and toddlers group is a clique, your family is a clique

I’m happy to say that o am such a diverse and open minded person I can and do mix in all the cliques I’ve encountered on fab

The idea that people who don't fully understand the meaning of a particular word is a sign of little or low intelligence is one of the most ridiculous comments I've ever heard. By definition you're saying the difference between a functional human being and another form of life with a differently wired brain is their interpretation of a single word.

In other words we're all thick as mince, because I'm sure we all know a word but don't actually know the full meaning. "

It’s all in the learning, it’s not difficult to check a thesaurus or dictionary but most folk nowadays don’t have the intelligence to educate themselves and follow the masses like sheep, one word creates so much debate yet people don’t think hmmmm I’m going to actually find out what this means, to me that’s ignorance ! These same folk tend to believe everything they see and read in the media etc

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over a year ago


"I think the fact that every response the OP has had on this thread has been him just asking anyone to meet, with no actual attempt at a conversation may be the reason he's not had a meet. Just an observation. "

Who really wants to meet someone who’s a negative nelly ? If someone’s habitually moaning all the time it’s an instant turn off for me and most folk I know, yes we would like to think we have attractive personalities and that’s important but on here most folk are looking for physical attraction and some folk are just plain ugly and unattractive to other members in these posts it’s quote often folk trying to male the op feel better about themselves but often you just want to scream look you’re an ugly fucker with zero personality, no offence to this OP as I’ve not bothered my ass to actually read your profile or look at your pics

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over a year ago


"I think the fact that every response the OP has had on this thread has been him just asking anyone to meet, with no actual attempt at a conversation may be the reason he's not had a meet. Just an observation.

Who really wants to meet someone who’s a negative nelly ? If someone’s habitually moaning all the time it’s an instant turn off for me and most folk I know, yes we would like to think we have attractive personalities and that’s important but on here most folk are looking for physical attraction and some folk are just plain ugly and unattractive to other members in these posts it’s quote often folk trying to male the op feel better about themselves but often you just want to scream look you’re an ugly fucker with zero personality, no offence to this OP as I’ve not bothered my ass to actually read your profile or look at your pics "

Sorry, are you implying that I'm negative? Slightly confused by your reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the fact that every response the OP has had on this thread has been him just asking anyone to meet, with no actual attempt at a conversation may be the reason he's not had a meet. Just an observation.

Who really wants to meet someone who’s a negative nelly ? If someone’s habitually moaning all the time it’s an instant turn off for me and most folk I know, yes we would like to think we have attractive personalities and that’s important but on here most folk are looking for physical attraction and some folk are just plain ugly and unattractive to other members in these posts it’s quote often folk trying to male the op feel better about themselves but often you just want to scream look you’re an ugly fucker with zero personality, no offence to this OP as I’ve not bothered my ass to actually read your profile or look at your pics

Sorry, are you implying that I'm negative? Slightly confused by your reply."

No these kind of posts how they reflect the op and the fact as you’ve said he hasn’t exactly made much in the way of conversation in the post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh right I see, sorry I've seen the OP post on a few forums looking for people to meet with not much conversation.. none of my business lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"What constitutes a “clique”?

In my mind it’s just a group of people who are friends and who have similar interests..... I’m not sure how this is a bad thing.

In every walk of life and in and situation there will be cliques and there’s nothing wrong with that......

Can someone tell me what’s wrong with a clique of people who share common interests?

People with little or low intelligence don’t actually understand the meaning of the word and therefore treat Unknown’s with contempt and think a clique is a bad thing, cliques can mean a variety of different things and yes fab itself is one large clique broken down onto lots of smaller ones, your various football team supporters are in cliques, your religious beliefs can place you in cliques, the mothers and toddlers group is a clique, your family is a clique

I’m happy to say that o am such a diverse and open minded person I can and do mix in all the cliques I’ve encountered on fab

The idea that people who don't fully understand the meaning of a particular word is a sign of little or low intelligence is one of the most ridiculous comments I've ever heard. By definition you're saying the difference between a functional human being and another form of life with a differently wired brain is their interpretation of a single word.

In other words we're all thick as mince, because I'm sure we all know a word but don't actually know the full meaning.

It’s all in the learning, it’s not difficult to check a thesaurus or dictionary but most folk nowadays don’t have the intelligence to educate themselves and follow the masses like sheep, one word creates so much debate yet people don’t think hmmmm I’m going to actually find out what this means, to me that’s ignorance ! These same folk tend to believe everything they see and read in the media etc "
hate to point it out but the person wás saying that you dont understand what the word means.

I know what it means and its why i used it

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over a year ago

just for the fact that minority groups like swingers fetishists kinky fuckers in general can get enough negativity towards them from people who dont understand dont agree with or disapprove of anything not society's norm would make you think that users of this site might be more understanding and supportive of others of the same ilk.

we have met some lovely people privately and in club and at socials but have also encountered cliquey wee groups who made it perfectly clear you were wasting your time even being friendly.

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over a year ago


"just for the fact that minority groups like swingers fetishists kinky fuckers in general can get enough negativity towards them from people who dont understand dont agree with or disapprove of anything not society's norm would make you think that users of this site might be more understanding and supportive of others of the same ilk.

we have met some lovely people privately and in club and at socials but have also encountered cliquey wee groups who made it perfectly clear you were wasting your time even being friendly.

"

Last couple of lines there I sussed out after receiving my first message. Each to their own I say but stop judging people you've never met .

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"just for the fact that minority groups like swingers fetishists kinky fuckers in general can get enough negativity towards them from people who dont understand dont agree with or disapprove of anything not society's norm would make you think that users of this site might be more understanding and supportive of others of the same ilk.

we have met some lovely people privately and in club and at socials but have also encountered cliquey wee groups who made it perfectly clear you were wasting your time even being friendly.

Last couple of lines there I sussed out after receiving my first message. Each to their own I say but stop judging people you've never met ."
why.....why not judge everyone which we all do even though the majority profess they dont.

Its not bad to say nope sorry shes definatly not for me shes a nasty bitch

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