FabSwingers.com forum: Age range frustration.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So frustrating how many lovely ladies of about my age use 45 as their upper limit. 46 but can manage without my zimmer and can even wipe my own arse in occasion.

Seriously, many a guy in his late 40's can be more youthful than one in his 30's, age is an attitude.

Going to raise my "looking for" age range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brad Pitt, George Coloney, Mark Walberg would all struggle to get a meet on Fab. Too old and past it.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"So frustrating how many lovely ladies of about my age use 45 as their upper limit. 46 but can manage without my zimmer and can even wipe my own arse in occasion.

Seriously, many a guy in his late 40's can be more youthful than one in his 30's, age is an attitude.

Going to raise my "looking for" age range."
you just have to respect peoples age ranges,even you have set age preferences too

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

What about the people outwith your age preferences do they not count?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"What about the people outwith your age preferences do they not count? "
nope because like most social media rants........its all abouuuuuut me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think on that a lot of the ladies are possibly flexible,if someone gets your juices flowing you'll not be thinking about that particular number

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

With the amount of liars on here i always suspect a 45yr old man to be 50 and a 50yr old man to be 55.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With the amount of liars on here i always suspect a 45yr old man to be 50 and a 50yr old man to be 55. "

And women

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So frustrating how many lovely ladies of about my age use 45 as their upper limit. 46 but can manage without my zimmer and can even wipe my own arse in occasion.

Seriously, many a guy in his late 40's can be more youthful than one in his 30's, age is an attitude.

Going to raise my "looking for" age range.you just have to respect peoples age ranges,even you have set age preferences too

True, 10 years older or young enough to be my grandaughter is my limit. Just annoying when i see a profile that ticks all the boxes including being the same age as me but she has hit her upper limit as onenyear younger.

C'est la vie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why worry about what you can't have and concentrate on those you can?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With the amount of liars on here i always suspect a 45yr old man to be 50 and a 50yr old man to be 55. "

That’s a shame for the honest people though we have seen cases where their email/Kik address gives them away. They’re 40 on here but their Kik profile is Fred1969 and when you meet they are actually 50.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"With the amount of liars on here i always suspect a 45yr old man to be 50 and a 50yr old man to be 55. "

You however go the opposite way, from your pics you are clearly mid 30's but claim to be 53!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This week iv actually had about 3 guys message with me with face pics and clearly lying about their ages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This week iv actually had about 3 guys message with me with face pics and clearly lying about their ages.

By how many years are they lying do you think ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Brad Pitt, George Coloney, Mark Walberg would all struggle to get a meet on Fab. Too old and past it.

Good point. I'm well older than most of the guys I work with but they would be blowing out their arse on a run or cycle with me...

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"This week iv actually had about 3 guys message with me with face pics and clearly lying about their ages.

Its worse when you meet them and discover their face pics must be 10yrs old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With the amount of liars on here i always suspect a 45yr old man to be 50 and a 50yr old man to be 55. "

That says more about you....i.e you don't trust anyone, no offence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With the amount of liars on here i always suspect a 45yr old man to be 50 and a 50yr old man to be 55.

You however go the opposite way, from your pics you are clearly mid 30's but claim to be 53!"

Sook

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"With the amount of liars on here i always suspect a 45yr old man to be 50 and a 50yr old man to be 55.

That says more about you....i.e you don't trust anyone, no offence"

Sadly i do find it hard to trust people. This is one of the reasons why i prefer going to clubs and parties to meet folk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With the amount of liars on here i always suspect a 45yr old man to be 50 and a 50yr old man to be 55.

That says more about you....i.e you don't trust anyone, no offence

Sadly i do find it hard to trust people. This is one of the reasons why i prefer going to clubs and parties to meet folk."

You make a good point about going to clubs and parties. They short circuit the whole age range and bad photos problem. George Clooney probably would get some action at a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This week iv actually had about 3 guys message with me with face pics and clearly lying about their ages.

By how many years are they lying do you think ? "
some were clearly about 5 yrs older than they were saying

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By *ittle_missknowitallWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

"With the amount of liars on here i always suspect a 45yr old man to be 50 and a 50yr old man to be 55.

That says more about you....i.e you don't trust anyone, no offence

Sadly i do find it hard to trust people. This is one of the reasons why i prefer going to clubs and parties to meet folk."

I’m actually getting to feel like this too

Hate being cynical but it’s a bloody joke at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This week iv actually had about 3 guys message with me with face pics and clearly lying about their ages.

By how many years are they lying do you think ? some were clearly about 5 yrs older than they were saying "

So 49 versus 44? Can you really tell ?

Gerard Butler is 49 but probably fitter than many 40 year olds. Personally we couldn’t, with certainty, tell if someone was lying over a 5 year age difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but I'm saying they say 45 or 47 when they are clearly in there 50s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why lie as you know if you eventually meet then it spoils what you are actually looking for and would never meet without a face pic first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why lie as you know if you eventually meet then it spoils what you are actually looking for and would never meet without a face pic first.

Haha I learnt this through experience.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Why lie as you know if you eventually meet then it spoils what you are actually looking for and would never meet without a face pic first.

Haha I learnt this through experience. "

Never lied about my age but never get many meets so ya know. Little white lies might be ok.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Why lie as you know if you eventually meet then it spoils what you are actually looking for and would never meet without a face pic first.

Haha I learnt this through experience.

Never lied about my age but never get many meets so ya know. Little white lies might be ok."

Or maybe some pics on your profile might help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why lie as you know if you eventually meet then it spoils what you are actually looking for and would never meet without a face pic first.

Some people lie and also have old pics they can use.

We had one guy send a face pic and we thought ‘Wow he’s got a pic next to a vintage car’ until we realised all the other cars in the pic were vintage too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why lie as you know if you eventually meet then it spoils what you are actually looking for and would never meet without a face pic first.

Haha I learnt this through experience.

Never lied about my age but never get many meets so ya know. Little white lies might be ok.

Or maybe some pics on your profile might help."

Touche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes but I'm saying they say 45 or 47 when they are clearly in there 50s"

This.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Why lie as you know if you eventually meet then it spoils what you are actually looking for and would never meet without a face pic first.

Some people lie and also have old pics they can use.

We had one guy send a face pic and we thought ‘Wow he’s got a pic next to a vintage car’ until we realised all the other cars in the pic were vintage too.

A haha! Brilliant

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

Imagining this strict spec in the party or club situation, "and how old are you before we go any further?"

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"With the amount of liars on here i always suspect a 45yr old man to be 50 and a 50yr old man to be 55.

That says more about you....i.e you don't trust anyone, no offence

Sadly i do find it hard to trust people. This is one of the reasons why i prefer going to clubs and parties to meet folk.

I’m actually getting to feel like this too

Hate being cynical but it’s a bloody joke at times "
trust should be earned never just given

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Why lie as you know if you eventually meet then it spoils what you are actually looking for and would never meet without a face pic first.

Haha I learnt this through experience.

Never lied about my age but never get many meets so ya know. Little white lies might be ok.

Or maybe some pics on your profile might help."

Nah, that’s going to scare off even more.

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Brad Pitt, George Coloney, Mark Walberg would all struggle to get a meet on Fab. Too old and past it.

You certainly put that claim.to bed

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I turn 52 next Sunday

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

Age is just a number but always respect others preferences. I'm 41 feel 35 . Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel 24

Look 84 without the war paint

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Was actually going to put our ages to 99 so we'd deffo impress lol. I can understand age difference along with location etc as to not be found by nosey friends etc but to use 10yrs old face & bodypics if meeting off here is disception, surely if turned up you'd just walk away.

We're clubs, events only so use this in reverse, connect on fab once met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she looks gorgeous, has a nice personality and looks after herself I don't care what age she is or claims to be.

I state I am 50 because thats what age I actually am.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"44

Feel 24

Look 84 without the war paint

Half of 2 fat ladies feels like droopy drawers.

Hope my mrs looks like you when she is 84! Maybe not, heart attack material.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"With the amount of liars on here i always suspect a 45yr old man to be 50 and a 50yr old man to be 55.

That says more about you....i.e you don't trust anyone, no offence"

I'm the same. Add at least 5 years (and often this is not enough!), take off a few inches from their listed height as well

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

" trust should be earned never just given"

Wise words Kola

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"With the amount of liars on here i always suspect a 45yr old man to be 50 and a 50yr old man to be 55.

That says more about you....i.e you don't trust anyone, no offence

I'm the same. Add at least 5 years (and often this is not enough!), take off a few inches from their listed height as well

Shame for them thinking their best years are behind them. I am mid 40s and never felt better, physically or psychologically.

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