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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi folks I thought seek the advice of others, I'm trying to make friends on this but I'm having trouble trying to talk on this I don't know the netiquette lol any pointers? Thanks, happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Comment on something you like in their profile text. Be friendly.

Most won't reply as they're only on here for an ego boost and not meeting, so don't take no reply to heart.

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By *lancheifMan
over a year ago

Ayr

Yep ... I'm starting to see that too

Send polite messages including punctuation etc so they can see your not an uneducated fuckwit.

I realise single women will get loads of messages but a mean c'mon tae fuck even copying and pasting a no thanks to everyone at least would be polite, but like you said i think they are only here to get the ego massaged so they think they're the shit when they're just being a shit

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Say hello. Compliment the photos and profile. Ask a question or two.

When we are given a compliment we will reply. Even if it's a thanks but know thanks. Almost all other times it will be ignored. But that's because we aren't really wanting single guys to mail us right now and the men that do mail don't read our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say something that shows you have actually read their profile and not just perved the pics and darted a fancy a shag message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep ... I'm starting to see that too

Send polite messages including punctuation etc so they can see your not an uneducated fuckwit.

I realise single women will get loads of messages but a mean c'mon tae fuck even copying and pasting a no thanks to everyone at least would be polite, but like you said i think they are only here to get the ego massaged so they think they're the shit when they're just being a shit "

Actually no, I thought that too at the beginning and I discussed it st length with a very lovely lady who I had met with and she gave me a very valid reason as to why not to reply. Simply because it opens up a line of communication that guys see as a 'foot in the door' and continue to pester. Not saying that this is the case for all women but gives a little understanding as to why. Best thing is be polite and if no reply then don't take it personally and don't follow up with an abusive message.

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By *nox.Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Dick pic "hi"

Or

Dick pic "howz u"

Or if your feeling chatty

Dick pick "sit on my face"

Works every time

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Dick pic "hi"

Or

Dick pic "howz u"

Or if your feeling chatty

Dick pick "sit on my face"

Works every time "

Just alotta dick really.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

The problem and reason I don't reply to every message I get is, if you have messaged someone in the past a guy for example to say no thanks but I then decide to block guys from messaging those guys can get through the blocked message filters because I've replied to a message already from them. So I'm still getting messages from the guys I'm not interested in meeting. Same obviously applies to couples and women. So for that reason and the sheer volume of messages no I'm not going to reply to everyone, sorry.

But there will be different reasons to mine for women/couples whoever not replying

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By *ittle_missknowitallWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I don’t think you can take any advice as everyone is different

I reply to a message that interests me only if I am then interested in the profile of that person

And it’s really not great the ratio of men to woman here as it gives us females an ego boast that we are really not worthy of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi folks I thought seek the advice of others, I'm trying to make friends on this but I'm having trouble trying to talk on this I don't know the netiquette lol any pointers? Thanks, happy fabbing "

Cock picture and a message with, " hi, do you wanna fuck right now!"

That seems to work a treat around here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From personal experience I find the lack of a reply most helpful as the non answer is all I need to know. I've even included the request of 'don't reply if not interested' to help speed that way along.

To the OP I would say: "Hi there. I would certainly be interested in a meet today. Face pic available." is worth mentioning. I've had 0% success rate with it but that's not to say it isn't sound advice.

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

Im not sure about "speed the way along", a positive response can be a minute,an hour,day or a few days from when you messaged.

If your first message sounds like your in a hurry/too kean,thats increasing the zero interest/no reply chances too.

Nice to be nice, offer up the simple choice of,"would be good to hear from you anytime".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes when my inbox is full and I’ve had a few dodgy mails I just delete all

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"I don’t think you can take any advice as everyone is different

I reply to a message that interests me only if I am then interested in the profile of that person

And it’s really not great the ratio of men to woman here as it gives us females an ego boast that we are really not worthy of "

With an ass like yours, why would you say that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes when my inbox is full and I’ve had a few dodgy mails I just delete all "

I must say I’ve done this as well.

I’ve replied before with a polite no thanks and the either been met with abuse or umpteen questions asking “why not”. Sometimes it’s easier just to delete

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

Im guessing rate of messages increase while online and logged into the site too?

Too many,too often assume,logged in = want to meet, they forget folks just want to check stuff out and have a browse like most do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes when my inbox is full and I’ve had a few dodgy mails I just delete all

I must say I’ve done this as well.

I’ve replied before with a polite no thanks and the either been met with abuse or umpteen questions asking “why not”. Sometimes it’s easier just to delete "

I get the same!!

I reply to 95% of my mail. Even if it's very clear they haven't read profile even if it's a no thanks nd some of the abuse u get !! But I also get polite nice messages back too saying thank u for the reply etc.. it just depends on the person...

Honestly... read their profile make sure u are in the limits of what the person is looking for guy girl age limit etc..

Then a polite hello r3mark on profile a compliment .. not to short not too long.. AND DEFO NO COOY N PASTE .. x

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife


"Sometimes when my inbox is full and I’ve had a few dodgy mails I just delete all

I must say I’ve done this as well.

I’ve replied before with a polite no thanks and the either been met with abuse or umpteen questions asking “why not”. Sometimes it’s easier just to delete

I get the same!!

I reply to 95% of my mail. Even if it's very clear they haven't read profile even if it's a no thanks nd some of the abuse u get !! But I also get polite nice messages back too saying thank u for the reply etc.. it just depends on the person...

Honestly... read their profile make sure u are in the limits of what the person is looking for guy girl age limit etc..

Then a polite hello r3mark on profile a compliment .. not to short not too long.. AND DEFO NO COOY N PASTE .. x"

Yes you do reply and in my case I offered to meet as you sounded down although your profile did state you weren’t meeting but sometimes someone comes along and helps you get up again

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