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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sometimes I think I am a push over and I need to toughen up.

I have had meets arranged with this certain guy over the past few years and each time they have been cancelled, grant it I have cancelled one or two.

When I say cancelled they havent really been, it was more like a few days before meet all communications from me to him have been ignored. I again (Stupid me ) after him asking to meet agreed to arrange one for Saturday and guess what, yes all communication has been yet again been ignored.

Should I wait and see what happens or just delete and block.

Please help all advice appreciated.

Kat xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Sometimes I think I am a push over and I need to toughen up.

I have had meets arranged with this certain guy over the past few years and each time they have been cancelled, grant it I have cancelled one or two.

When I say cancelled they havent really been, it was more like a few days before meet all communications from me to him have been ignored. I again (Stupid me ) after him asking to meet agreed to arrange one for Saturday and guess what, yes all communication has been yet again been ignored.

Should I wait and see what happens or just delete and block.

Please help all advice appreciated.

Kat xx"

Ask for an explination why the contact stops when u arrange a meet if the reply is not what u want tot hear block and move on.

I had a coffee meet fall through on sat because of the same thing altho no contact until the day i presumed we wernt meeting because i hadnt heard from him for a few days so if you want meets to happen then you both need to keep in touch and keep all communication channels open (my meet for sat has been reschedule with us both agreeing contact should have continued lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only solitary is played by one. Most other games are played by two.

If you want to stop the game...stop playing...

Block....do wot your heart says...but think block is a bit harsh till you be hohnest with him and your self and try and figure oot wot you two are doing...

just my view...

Hugs,

Lee

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

To clarify?

These arranged meets with this one guy has been going on for years? You have ever actually met him?

XxX MT

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I sent him a message saying that if he wants to meet to get intouch by Thursday. I have asked him to keep up communication when we have arranged previous meets and it never happens.

Kat xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We met on a sort of social meet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id just give up xx

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

Yes, im afraid so, Soapy is right. Give up and move on.

It feels like your hurting over it. Dont beat yourself up about it any longer!

There are a trillions of decent guys who would step in this mans slot in a flash!

XxX MT

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys all very much appreciated xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lifes too short and some guys never get beyond enjoying the idea of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lifes too short and some guys never get beyond enjoying the idea of meeting."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This aint for you chick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

youre obviously keen to meet him to have put up with all that shit over a long period of time, dont know you may feel you need to meet him to get him out of your system. if he doesnt contact you by the weekend i would say give up, and im sure you agree but then he will get in touch at a later date and although you know you shouldnt you will probably give him another chance. unless as you say you toughen up. good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

defo block

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Block....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

his loss not yours

i have had that a few times with working offshore and some have thought i was being rude

but i cant get fab offshore and 3 weeks away some thing ,, ohh i this guys a cock

bu ti allways try to explain before i go and after

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Communication is the key.... One side of the "bargain" going quiet usually spells disaster as far as the meet goes.

I'd ask why he went quiet, if you dont get a reasonable answer then just ignore his next request.

Blocking is a last resort for us. has to be a major let down,ie a no show without even a courtesy call/text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have one like this, again and again HE asks if we will meet him, we think yes, we'll give this one a chance and wham... a week before 'the meet' he up and leaves the site, only to re-appear with a new name a few weeks later and start thwe process all over again. well he's had his last chance, IF he asks again the answer is definately gonna be a big firm NO THANKS, there's lots more nice guys out there who do turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sent him a message saying that if he wants to meet to get intouch by Thursday. I have asked him to keep up communication when we have arranged previous meets and it never happens.

Kat xx"

You've got more paitience than I'd have had

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Your similar to me in that i would always like to presume there is a reason for lack of communication but as soon as i reaslise i'am being messed about then block. So my advice, block. His loss to not meet you and if he can't even manage to send a small message then what does this say about the effort he'll put into fun in bedroom!

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

ive taken cpl days of work as holidays to meet and then like u said cpl days before after said everything ok dont reply messages. u want to believe it just bad luck but nebver sure x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had the same problem with a lady. Would organize a meet then BAM, nothing. When I asked what happened she just said " I was busy". Have now stopped communicating with her. My advice is move on.

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By *crummi3Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Block, sounds like a pure waste of time !

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

i always keep in mind the saying "fool me once ,shame on you . fool me twice ,shame on me ! ".

he has no intention of meeting .dont waste another thought or further effort on him. plenty of other guys out there !

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Very good saying Sensual and so true!

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