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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

it's strange that I don't give out my number? been chatting with a guy, discussed our likes and dislikes, exchanged photos and to be honest really thought that we were going to have a great time together. however, as i won't give him my number he's not interested. his argument is that he thinks that it's strange that i could meet a guy and fuck him without him having my number. what's your thoughts? xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yur choice to give out number or not.

some folks are obsessed with msn and mobile number/chat etc etc

as a female , very wise move me thinks Elaine.

xx

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Even as a single guy, i prefer not to give out my mobile number too much.

Most things can be arranged here on the site without the need for phone calls (proving there is a fem in a couple by phone is a different matter of course)

Your number is yours, and nobody needs an unexpected "fancy a fuck" text or call when having a family dinner, even if it's from someone you know/like!

Just my 2p worth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

aah wisdom, another fine quality to add to my already amazing repertoire lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your choice Elaine, personally only the people close and we trust have our number, you are better safe than sorry and if he can't accept that.......tough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having someone's number isn't a cast-iron guarantee that they would turn up for a meet anyhow - as evidenced by some posts on here. I think it should always be safety first and if YOU don't want to give out your number then thats your choice and if the person you're referring to doesn't understand that then his loss !

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By *assie4Couple
over a year ago

highlands

elaine your choice n your privacy ....if he cant deal with that then he not worth wasting any more of your time on him xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks guys and your absolutely right, it's his loss xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi hun sorry to hear your getting hassled.

A lot of people on these sites have seperate phones for meets.

It means that you never get them calling when you are sitting with family and such like.

Many people have told me how cheap mobiles are on ebay and you can get free sim cards online.

And when you aint in the mood to read txts saying "show me you ****" you can leave it in a drawer collecting all the daft txts and you dont get any to your main mobile.

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

COMPLETETLY UP TO U IF U GIVE UR NUMBER OUT OR NOT.... U WILL HAVE PLENTY MORE MEN TO PICK FROM ANYWAY!!!! XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"COMPLETETLY UP TO U IF U GIVE UR NUMBER OUT OR NOT.... U WILL HAVE PLENTY MORE MEN TO PICK FROM ANYWAY!!!! XXX"

Ohh meant to add this as well hun lol

You should only do what you wanna do and tough cheese if they dont like it!!

Shona

x x x

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By *umboarderMan
over a year ago

east lothian

Elaine, just give me your address, forget the number lol

I will be round as soon as I finish doing the dishes lol

xxx

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By *rs kemeaCouple
over a year ago

angus

we are the same as tajandjay, only the people we trust have our number.

Its your choice if you give the number out or not.

Kev

x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

We only give our number out if we have decided to meet someone, and then it is only a phone and sim card we use just for that.

We think it is wise you seem to be doing the same.

However, I can't see anyone wanting to meet a couple/female until they have heard them on the phone, even if it is just to hear the females voice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

security first and foremost..a wise move elaine. s x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Elaine....Cmere hunni....xxxxxxxxxx

Its entirely upto you who you give your number too.

End of the day its your number...

But , if you do meet a guy its better too let someone know as a close friend ,where you are.

Buboo ....xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree with Elaine why do some guys seem to expect to get your number, i learned my lesson the hard way with loads of calls at all times so now i only give it to ones i trust

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks again guys, really appreciate it. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for the delay elaine....have been away...the cops finally caught up with me for questioning about the incident where the lingerie vanished off next doors washing line...but that's a whole different story....

Really is your choice whether or not you give out your number...and it sure as hell should not end up being a "deal breaker" if the guy was serious....

As a great philosopher once said....well broadly speaking....don't sweat the small stuff

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, would agree that as it's still a free country, just(!!), it's totally up to you.

However, things do occasionally and genuinely crop up at the last minute and so it is useful to be able to contact someone to maybe advise that you're going to be late or unable to meet at all.

I was held up for nearly 30 mins trying to get out of Aberdeen yesterday, and for people in the Midlands and South of England a 30 min and more holdup can be an everyday occurence!!

But at the end of the day, it's an individual's choice. And I think a lot of it has to do with trust.

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By *ENDON69Couple
over a year ago

tayside

Hi we have a fun phone number we use and it works for us.

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