FabSwingers.com forum: Bad Boy or Gentleman??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Question Ladies:

Would you prefer a Gentleman in public and a master in the Bedroom?

A Bad Boy on the street and a considerate Lover in the bedroom?

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Is that the only options?

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"Is that the only options? "

Not at all, you could have me.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Any man who could not conduct himself well in public would ever get near my bedroom.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

I'd say most of us behave in the street, manners cost nothing.

Don't know if we're masters in the bedroom, but is anyone? Think chemistry plays a part in what makes a great lover. I like to think that I'm considerate in that respect, just need someone to consider me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First option.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is that the only options? "

What other ones would you add?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d much rather a 24/7 gentleman who cooks cleans and doesn’t get in the way when I’m doing the DIY unless he’s skilled then he can hold my tools

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Any man who could not conduct himself well in public would ever get near my bedroom."

It's possible that how one behaves in public gives you an impression on how they conduct themselves in private.

It's also possible that how one behaves in public is simply a guard to stop people understanding how they are in private.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd say most of us behave in the street, manners cost nothing.

Well said I'm not disagreeing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"First option."

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Is that the only options?

Not at all, you could have me.

And what are you classed as?

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Is that the only options?

What other ones would you add?

A gentleman and considerate lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate these fixed choice response questions

I'd go for a decent guy...the rest should fall into place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had to choose then the bad boy that is a considerate lover probably. I'm not looking to date, I'm looking for good sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I had to choose then the bad boy that is a considerate lover probably. I'm not looking to date, I'm looking for good sex

There was a discussion about socks being kept on last week, I think I'd let you keep your trainers on!

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"Is that the only options?

What other ones would you add?

A gentleman and considerate lover"

You got me spot on with this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I had to choose then the bad boy that is a considerate lover probably. I'm not looking to date, I'm looking for good sex

There was a discussion about socks being kept on last week, I think I'd let you keep your trainers on!

Well you can't get more considerate than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I had to choose then the bad boy that is a considerate lover probably. I'm not looking to date, I'm looking for good sex

There was a discussion about socks being kept on last week, I think I'd let you keep your trainers on!

Well you can't get more considerate than that

Hey, that'd be a big concession on my part!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I had to choose then the bad boy that is a considerate lover probably. I'm not looking to date, I'm looking for good sex

There was a discussion about socks being kept on last week, I think I'd let you keep your trainers on!

Well you can't get more considerate than that

Hey, that'd be a big concession on my part!

Aww you're too good to me

I'll let you pick what pair at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man should always be a gentleman no matter what he's like in the bedroom. The rest should happen naturally. All any woman wants is to be treated well and with respect, well I do anyway. It shouldn't be too much to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A man should always be a gentleman no matter what he's like in the bedroom. The rest should happen naturally. All any woman wants is to be treated well and with respect, well I do anyway. It shouldn't be too much to ask

Gentleman is a bit of an outdated term I think

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Gentleman is a bit of an outdated term I think "
not very pc or equalitarian.....go me may have just made a word away to check and lay dibs on if not entered yet......just need 50000 to use it now

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Cancel its already a word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Question Ladies:

Would you prefer a Gentleman in public and a master in the Bedroom?

A Bad Boy on the street and a considerate Lover in the bedroom?

Whats up with having both , lol

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

When you're younger and like the bad boys, do you think when you're older you'll wonder where all the nice guys are?

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

Gentleman is a bit of an outdated term I think "

Yet you did accept it as a choice earlier when you said you hate these fixed CHOICES questions. Was it just the last couple of hours it became outdated. ?

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By *teve_it_aloneMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Gentleman is a bit of an outdated term I think

Yet you did accept it as a choice earlier when you said you hate these fixed CHOICES questions. Was it just the last couple of hours it became outdated. ?

I’d say she didn’t accept the premise of your question... and that the second comment doesn’t contradict the first... but I’m not one to stir!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gentleman is a bit of an outdated term I think

Yet you did accept it as a choice earlier when you said you hate these fixed CHOICES questions. Was it just the last couple of hours it became outdated. ?

Thanks for telling me

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By *teve_it_aloneMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I’d say she didn’t accept the premise of your question... and that the second comment doesn’t contradict the first... but I’m not one to stir!

* correction to the above - i’d say *it seems like*... she didn’t accept the premise... etc.

Not wanting to put words in anyone’s mouth.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

Gentleman is a bit of an outdated term I think

Yet you did accept it as a choice earlier when you said you hate these fixed CHOICES questions. Was it just the last couple of hours it became outdated. ?

Thanks for telling me

You know me, always happy to be of assistance . Xx

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Is that the only options?

What other ones would you add?

A gentleman and considerate lover

You got me spot on with this one.

Hokay then

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

"I’d say she didn’t accept the premise of your question... and that the second comment doesn’t contradict the first... but I’m not one to stir!

* correction to the above - i’d say *it seems like*... she didn’t accept the premise... etc.

Not wanting to put words in anyone’s mouth. "

Not words... Other things maybe...

I'd rather have a good person just be a good person, preferably with a deviant streak when it matters

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any man who could not conduct himself well in public would ever get near my bedroom."

Totally agree!!!

Defo first option

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By *teve_it_aloneMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I’d say she didn’t accept the premise of your question... and that the second comment doesn’t contradict the first... but I’m not one to stir!

* correction to the above - i’d say *it seems like*... she didn’t accept the premise... etc.

Not wanting to put words in anyone’s mouth.

Not words... Other things maybe...

I'd rather have a good person just be a good person, preferably with a deviant streak when it matters

V x"

I’ve no idea what you could possibly mean....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is that the only options?

What other ones would you add?

Be yourself!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hate these fixed choice response questions

I'd go for a decent guy...the rest should fall into place "

True.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I had to choose then the bad boy that is a considerate lover probably. I'm not looking to date, I'm looking for good sex

Interesting response RIB.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is that the only options?

What other ones would you add?

A gentleman and considerate lover"

Fair Play (Clapping Hands)

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By *ittle_missknowitallWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I like Gentlemen, Considerate lovers,

Masters in the bedroom for sure and I’ve also been partial to a bad boy

However although that seems like I’m not overly fussy it’s actually the opposite as

The perfect one for me is a mix of all of those things

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well there are some that just don't understand the opening of doors, pulling out chairs and treating a lady nice.

Also it's such a difficult thing to get across unless you meet people face to face. Which for newbies like me is so hard to get across on a profile.

I've had more interest and messages since changing my profile picture to me in my boxers and coming across direct.

I would like to think I'm a gentleman but on the face of it I would say it's not what creates an initial attraction from you ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pulling out chairs?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pulling out chairs?

Yeah so everyone laughs when they fall.

*Joking

Seriously I genuinely believe if your a gentleman you would pull out a chair for a female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pulling out chairs?

Yeah so everyone laughs when they fall.

*Joking

Seriously I genuinely believe if your a gentleman you would pull out a chair for a female.

It smacks of trying a bit too hard to make yourself sound like one.

You can still be a decent guy without trying to be a chivalrous old timer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pulling out chairs?

Yeah so everyone laughs when they fall.

*Joking

Seriously I genuinely believe if your a gentleman you would pull out a chair for a female.

It smacks of trying a bit too hard to make yourself sound like one.

You can still be a decent guy without trying to be a chivalrous old timer

No trying needed just how I was brought up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Big thank you to all who replied.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"Pulling out chairs?

Yeah so everyone laughs when they fall.

*Joking

Seriously I genuinely believe if your a gentleman you would pull out a chair for a female.

It smacks of trying a bit too hard to make yourself sound like one.

You can still be a decent guy without trying to be a chivalrous old timer

It might surprise you but lots of ladies like to be treated in a chivalrous old timer. I will bet your attitude is not in touch with the majority of females. Good morning britain done a wee episode on this and there was 3 times more people liked the term gentleman being used as opposed it, more facts and figures for you to ponder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pulling out chairs?

Yeah so everyone laughs when they fall.

*Joking

Seriously I genuinely believe if your a gentleman you would pull out a chair for a female.

It smacks of trying a bit too hard to make yourself sound like one.

You can still be a decent guy without trying to be a chivalrous old timer

You can bet all you like. My attitude is very much the same as many women.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"Pulling out chairs?

Yeah so everyone laughs when they fall.

*Joking

Seriously I genuinely believe if your a gentleman you would pull out a chair for a female.

It smacks of trying a bit too hard to make yourself sound like one.

You can still be a decent guy without trying to be a chivalrous old timer

You can bet all you like. My attitude is very much the same as many women.

But no where near all women eh. ?

To the OP you keep doing what your doing mate . Most women like a man to act like a gentleman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of women prefer men to be polite and respectful and the saying chivalry is dead is truly a major loss thanks to feminism gone mad

I love men to be gentlemen and I like the idea of a man who can and would support me financially, emotionally and physically look after and protect me, I don’t need a man like that becUse I am perfectly capable, I’m also perfectly capable of taking a man out for dinner and paying for dinner if I ask him out, but if he asks me out and sits there looking at me to pay Dutch then he can go take a fuxk to himself

It’s all down in the language fancy meeting for dinner as opposed to I’d like to take you out for dinner sometime !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pulling out chairs?

Yeah so everyone laughs when they fall.

*Joking

Seriously I genuinely believe if your a gentleman you would pull out a chair for a female.

It smacks of trying a bit too hard to make yourself sound like one.

You can still be a decent guy without trying to be a chivalrous old timer

You can bet all you like. My attitude is very much the same as many women.

But no where near all women eh. ?

To the OP you keep doing what your doing mate . Most women like a man to act like a gentleman.

It's the terminology and the fact some guys seem hellbent on making self serving claims about how gentlemanly they are that irks me.

Decent guys manage to be decent without crowing about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my men to be considerate, courteous and show respect both in and out the bedroom.

Whether that’s when he’s being a gentleman or a bad boy.

A good mix of both for me

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