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By *oi93 OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

So I recently took the advice of someone on here and decided to get back into the dating game regardless of my skin issues (eczema) saves you asking lol.

So it's been a minute since I've had a date and I'm curious, what do other do to calm there pre date /meet jitters?

I'm fairly confident but I do still get butterflys and what works for me is listening to some upbeat music the stuff that just makes me smile. But what do you do??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just try not to worry about them if you don’t appear a little nervous you can perhaps come across as too confident/cocky and remember she will prob be prettt nervous too

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Those nerves are part of the dating game. I wouldn't have it any other way

Good luck with your date x

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By *dinBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Nerves are a good thing, just go along and be yourself and you will be absolutely fine. Good luck with the date

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Learn to be comfortable in your akin nothing else matters

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

Pre nerves are normal.

Go & enjoy & be yourself.

As the saying you have got to kiss a few frogs before you meet your prince/princess.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Those nerves are part of the dating game. I wouldn't have it any other way

Good luck with your date x"

This

Without the butterflies and the buzz you get from the unknown, whats the point. ?

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

The day I stop getting butterflies is the day I stop having sex with strangers

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Those nerves are part of the dating game. I wouldn't have it any other way

Good luck with your date x

This

Without the butterflies and the buzz you get from the unknown, whats the point. ? "

Funnily enough i dont get nervous ever when meeting someone new. Guess its because i have usually chatted for ages so feel i know them a bit already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The day I stop getting butterflies is the day I stop having sex with strangers "
snap!! The nerves are what keeps me going!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I recently took the advice of someone on here and decided to get back into the dating game regardless of my skin issues (eczema) saves you asking lol.

So it's been a minute since I've had a date and I'm curious, what do other do to calm there pre date /meet jitters?

I'm fairly confident but I do still get butterflys and what works for me is listening to some upbeat music the stuff that just makes me smile. But what do you do?? "

Try breathing.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love pre meet nerves it’s one of the things that makes meets exciting.

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By *exySara87Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

I feel you. I get worried about my exzema as well. It's fairly under control at the moment but dosen't always stay that way. Just try and be your fabulous self and remember if someone is going to judge you for something you can't help like exzema then they arn't worth your time. I get nervous. Today I have a social with someone I have met before and I'm nervous as f. I know it will be fine but still worry. Hopefully the nerves will have subsided by the time I meet him but if not I will just try and use it to my advantage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those nerves are part of the dating game. I wouldn't have it any other way

Good luck with your date x

This

Without the butterflies and the buzz you get from the unknown, whats the point. ?

Funnily enough i dont get nervous ever when meeting someone new. Guess its because i have usually chatted for ages so feel i know them a bit already."
i don’t align butterflies with nerves more to anticipation, and I agree with earlier poster , fur me , no butterflies no point , without that it’d be “pull the nighty down when your finished “ sex , can get that monthly at home

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