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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any tips or that for my profile, getting views but only messages from guys! Any info welcome ??

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

On over a year & never verified is a bit of a concern.

Are you actively searching/messaging or waiting for someone to contact you?

You can block single guys from messaging/winking, but I'm not sure you can stop them looking.

Is your age range really 18-99?

And as swinging is technically mf couples, you do not have them listed, so cutting down your odds dramatically.

Hope this helps for starters.

R

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On over a year & never verified is a bit of a concern.

Are you actively searching/messaging or waiting for someone to contact you?

You can block single guys from messaging/winking, but I'm not sure you can stop them looking.

Is your age range really 18-99?

And as swinging is technically mf couples, you do not have them listed, so cutting down your odds dramatically.

Hope this helps for starters.

R "

I set up profile ages ago but didn't finish it. Got in a relationship out of that. Turmoil in private life and just started getting nights off since April. Verified yesterday as noticed that ?? but even then a simple question could calm those doubts. Many thanks ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just noticed the age range so that's been updated. Yes actively searching and sending messages as well

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Of course, it should. But by verified I meant in person.

R

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Just noticed the age range so that's been updated. Yes actively searching and sending messages as well "

Good luck.

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks ok.

Good luck

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By *cottishMrsWoman
over a year ago

Wishaw

I think your profile looks okay. Looks like you've taken the advice from the girl who was kind enough to fill you in about age range etc. I do agree with her though, get verified by a person. Even if it's just a friend who is also on Fab.

I'm sure you'll get on great now that you've changed it up a bit. Good luck babe x

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

You look like a decent enough human so I'm sure if you popped up a meet for a social coffee then someone would bite and at least you'll have an in person verification. Might even lead to more!

As for the who's looking at you, don't worry about it. A lot of women and couples are ninja mode so won't show.

V x

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By *lancheifMan
over a year ago

Ayr

Hard to get verified in person if people won't even reply to your messages or just delete them

I'm new to this too and still trying to find my way round here

This is the first time i've even been able to post in the forums because it wouldn't let me before for some reason

So any tips, tricks, and feedback for us single guys new on this is always appreciated, because it mostly looks like if your not a gym rat and look like brad pitt then your pissin against the wind to start with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys seems patience is a must. Happy fabbing ??

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

What’s wrong with the over 65’s. They experienced the swinging 60s. I mean excluding them is a travesty.

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy


"Hard to get verified in person if people won't even reply to your messages or just delete them

I'm new to this too and still trying to find my way round here

This is the first time i've even been able to post in the forums because it wouldn't let me before for some reason

So any tips, tricks, and feedback for us single guys new on this is always appreciated, because it mostly looks like if your not a gym rat and look like brad pitt then your pissin against the wind to start with "

If your messaging the women you regard as sexy/hot,your messages will be amongst hundreds she recieves(daily),thats the main reason for delete/not read.

Any new member has a 7day wait before access to forums,think its less if get pic verified and verified by a meet.

Coming across as laid back and relaxed often helps,try and look at your own profile as if you were a single female or couple,see if you conclude you like the sound of you.

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Don't tell am your name Spike

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness


"On over a year & never verified is a bit of a concern. "

It's almost impossible to get a meet on here if your male, so it doesn't suprise me there was no verifications. If you can't get a meet, you don't get verifications. It's been near 4 years since I've had a meet despite my best effort, so the one I have is pretty old. If I hadn't had that meet, I'd have been on for over 10 years on and off without one. I'm not surprised there's a lot of guys on here without any.

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Have a look for the big, organised socials and get yourself down for one of those. Most need a veri but the organisers would meet you first if you can arrange it just to be sure you're a real human and match up to your profile.

Otherwise try going to CJs or after8 and being sociable there. Don't expect a shag. Ask for usernames and see if they'd be happy to leave you a verification.

V x

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"On over a year & never verified is a bit of a concern.

It's almost impossible to get a meet on here if your male, so it doesn't suprise me there was no verifications. If you can't get a meet, you don't get verifications. It's been near 4 years since I've had a meet despite my best effort, so the one I have is pretty old. If I hadn't had that meet, I'd have been on for over 10 years on and off without one. I'm not surprised there's a lot of guys on here without any. "

Your profile is your USP... You have to sell yourself (not literally). Make yourself stand out from the crowd... What can you offer, what would make someone reading your profile want to meet you?

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Don't tell am your name Spike"

Dont tell them you come fae Livi either!!! Lol

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Any tips or that for my profile, getting views but only messages from guys! Any info welcome ??"

Go on the parkrun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think your doing ok now...

1 little thing..you have your face pics as public which is nice.. if it were me I would put a face pic as your profile pic...

When I have loads of male from No pic profiles or abs bums etc.. they tend to merge ..I forget who I've said what to..and unless something sparks my interest I then to just be like hi hello... bye.

A face pic profile is more memorable for me.

Also poss a liytl3 bit more about what kinda fun your looking for.. any fantasies fetishes things you would like to try..

Kind woman u looking for etc x

There are plenty of socials in the forum u bye a ticket u go long u chat u meet folk... u get verified..

Go to a club me3t folk chat get verified...

And to the ones that moan that no one meets I can't get verified etc etc don t put it on your status... it's off putting!!!! Pull up your socks nd try something diff.

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