FabSwingers.com forum: Cuckolding

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Definition from Wiki answers

“Without simply copying and pasting another persons answer here, cuckolding is when a married women has sex with one or more men with the husband's knowledge. The husband may not only be aware, but may encourage this and even find it stimulating. In other words, she is screwing other guys and he knows and likely even likes it. He may get off on the "badness" of it, the humilation of it, watching it or simply hearing about it. Some men are aroused at the idea that their mate prefers the other guy especially if he is better endowed. He may want to be made to feel like a women while she gets a "real man".”

Sooooooo We have seen this on others profiles as interests (as well as ours) and wanted to hear some of your views, likes and dislikes.

How hard is it for a wife to have sex with someone in front of her hubby?

How hard is it for a Bull to use another mans wife…while he watches?

Who liked, who didn’t, who has, who wont and so on.

We might ask a few more of these questions from the interests list (unless others beat us to it….lol)

We think the interests list is a hot subject area anyway…and always good to see some intelligent view and experiences.

Hugs,

Lee and Nessarosa

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not for me. I am the female half of a couple, and would prefer if my partner joined in. Wouldnt consider having sex with a man in front of him if he wasn't allowed to participate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not for me (Jo)......not intimate enuff for me....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thank you to _eenonfun2 and JandS Cool, thank you for being honest...thats how good conversations start.

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By *berdeenblokeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

well I've got to be honest... I've done it to a Fem whilst her hubby watched. It was a bit off putting as he never said anything, but was ok and would do it again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"well I've got to be honest... I've done it to a Fem whilst her hubby watched. It was a bit off putting as he never said anything, but was ok and would do it again

cool, thanks for honesty. thats another side of it.

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Lee and Nessa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well I've got to be honest... I've done it to a Fem whilst her hubby watched. It was a bit off putting as he never said anything, but was ok and would do it again

cool, thanks for honesty. thats another side of it.

Hugs,

Lee and Nessa"

could imagine it quite daunting to the guy...but then some might like the no contact .

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By *reacherUKMan
over a year ago

Livingston

Met a couple in a hotel ... we were both at different functions. I went along and had sex with the wife while he watched. It blew my mind as well as made me cum way to quick ... just knowing he was watching ... I asked him to join but he said he was just enjoying the view.

Never had the opportunity to do it again tho'.

Perhaps I keep thinking I was staring in a private porn movie!!!

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By *berdeenblokeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

yip... Im always 100% honest ... and I'd love to get the opportunity to try it again and maybe the guy joins in the next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had the, "hubby kicking back and just watching" scenario, "hubby eventually joining in" scenario, "hubby not even wanting to be there", scenario, and "hubby/partner content with a video of it,after" scenario, all erotic as hell, exciting, sexy and lots of fun for Everyone.

Is there a best one? Nope all great for diffrent reasons, its the spice of life, variety.

Its an honest account of things, but occured over a long period of time,like all things, it would get a bit less exciting if over done i guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would never dream of having sex infront of jas and him not joining in? Think it would be really weird and id be thinking..why dosnt he want to join in ? Lol.nope if we have 3somes or 4somes we both are getn some! Lol. Auds.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Met a couple in a hotel ... we were both at different functions. I went along and had sex with the wife while he watched. It blew my mind as well as made me cum way to quick ... just knowing he was watching ... I asked him to join but he said he was just enjoying the view.

Never had the opportunity to do it again tho'.

Perhaps I keep thinking I was staring in a private porn movie!!!"

lol....thank you....like the private porn movie part. thanks for honesty...

so guess it was a turn on....chalk that up to you liked and would do again.

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Lee and Nessa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ayne n JockCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

As the female of a couple .. I personally would feel weird if my man was not involved in some way physically. I would want him with me as a 3some at the least .. but prefer 4+ then everyone 'catered' for LOL

Looking at it a different way .. I would hate to watch him with another female [even if it did turn me on] when I was not getting any hahaha .. I would be so jealous!!

Jayne x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya, i' ve been with the 'wife ' while hubby watches on a fewoccasions, and it was a bit strange to start with, but when i realsed that he was getting off on it, it was ok.

As long as everyone is happy and getting something from it, it turns out god. Rob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by the pms we get The general opinion that single guys seem to have is that they join a cuckolding couple because he is more of a man than the woman's partner is utter bollocks in my eyes and why I am not interested in it at all xx

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By *dultfunscotland2000Man
over a year ago

Scotland and beyond

Most of my meets with couples the hubby has wanted to play, occasionally they want to watch. I had one great session where me and another guy serviced a beautiful young wife while hubby took poppers and wanked, whilst sitting in the corner, filming it. She was hot we loved it, she loved it and so did hubby.

I did have one meet where hubby watched, but I got the distinct feeling that she was doing it more for him, than for herself, that was not as good a meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definition from Wiki answers

“Without simply copying and pasting another persons answer here, cuckolding is when a married women has sex with one or more men with the husband's knowledge. "

I (mr) disagree with this definition.

My wife has sex with other men with my full knowledge but that certainly doesn't make me cuckold.

I don't get any details of her single meets, nor do I want any, as what she does when she's with them is her business, much the same as she doesn't get any details from me about my single meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cuckolding element is usually more to do with the fact that the husband is very much secondary to the wife's activities rather than a willing participant.

An interesting lifestyle choice, but I'd definitely find it strange with the husband sat in the corner watching.. Being out the room, or taking part, yes.. but just watching.. kinda creepy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi yall,

Really appreciated the honest answers and opinions....

I was a wee bit disappointed on the amount of private messages from people that had interest in cuckolding and also Rimming and were ashamed to write it in the open....

I will say this... We stand to who we are, and understand not all are tastes are those of others.

Big hugs,

Lee and Nessarosa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost my virginity in a cuckold situation... explains a lot about my preferences now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The cuckolding element is usually more to do with the fact that the husband is very much secondary to the wife's activities rather than a willing participant.

An interesting lifestyle choice, but I'd definitely find it strange with the husband sat in the corner watching.. Being out the room, or taking part, yes.. but just watching.. kinda creepy

Not sure its a lifestyle choice, its a fantasy acted out by the couple, i doubt hubby/partner regards himself as this person who has to be anything 24/7, its just another erotic scenario the couple enjoy at times possibly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definition from Wiki answers

Sooooooo We have seen this on others profiles as interests (as well as ours) and wanted to hear some of your views, likes and dislikes.

How hard is it for a wife to have sex with someone in front of her hubby?

How hard is it for a Bull to use another mans wife…while he watches?

Who liked, who didn’t, who has, who wont and so on.

We might ask a few more of these questions from the interests list (unless others beat us to it….lol)

We think the interests list is a hot subject area anyway…and always good to see some intelligent view and experiences.

Hugs,

Lee and Nessarosa

1/ how hard is it ? Not hard at all we love doing it. Trust is what its all about.

2/ how hard is it for the bull? Silly question the other guys are gagging to have me or any other lady for that matter.

3/ Liked it love it and do when the chance comes along.

4/back to your first question just to add the husband is not always present thats up to me to decide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did this once, had chatted to a nice couple, met them for drinks in a hotel I was staying at and went to my room. They made it clear that what they wanted was for me to be in charge. I had sex with the woman while the husband sat on a chair wanking and watching us. The cuckolding part was they wanted him to be sort of humiliated and while that doesn't do a great deal for me it gave them pleasure so that made it enjoyable, seeing them enjoy when I told him to sit, or wank or stop wanking. At the end he changed back to the big confident guy he was and we said our goodbyes, fun was had by us all and that's really all that counts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks to the above comments....thanks for honesty

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Lee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have done it and well i was not sure what to expect

he as there for her safety but sat in same room

i still gave her pleasure and forgot he was there after 10 or so mins

some guys find it a turn on , i dont know

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Don't think this would work for us as D does like to get in on the fun although he does enjoy watching and occasionally steps back a tiny bit to watch me enjoy. He would see no point to just sitting watching though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done this, and it wasn't weird in the slightest. I must admit i was a little apprehensive on the way there, but was made to feel very welcome when i got to their house.

the guy made me a cup of coffee, while his wife proceeded to pull down my pants and give me head. after a couple hours of fun, the guy shook my hand and thanked me for coming along. i didn't ask about their arrangement, its not my place to.

seems odd to some folk, but each to their own, im not here to judge. but i have to admit, it is much easier to play with someone elses partner/wife when they are joining in.

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By *reacherUKMan
over a year ago

Livingston

After reading this an replying above, I approached the subject during a coffee break at work. I was amazed at the response from both males and females. A couple of them 'sort of' admitted they could get off on watching their partner. Tho' as you would imagine most wanted to join in, though none admitted to ever doing it. Might be another topic for discussion ... how non swingers react to the IDEA of swinging!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only came in here because I thought it said Cock Holding- my mistake

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By *isssexysensualityCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

I (Mr) have been on the giving and receiving end. Mostly giving though.

- Done a married women without her husband's knowledge. [True definition of a cuckold]

- Doing a married woman with her husband's knowledge (although he doesn't want to know details).

- Done women with their partners watching.

- Done women with their partners joining in.

All of these are a thrill. But to begin with, I wasn't really turned on by the fact it was another guy's wife. It's only after reading up on this stuff that I found it exciting and a thrill. And one of the first ones was more like an affair than anything adult set/swinger related, so was more complicated.

Anyway, on the receiving end (although technically not cuckold, since we're not married lol):

- Have had my girlfriend visit guys, with my knowledge. Usually this would be when I'm busy with another woman elsewhere having my fun.

- Have had MMF threesomes. (usually arising from the other guy's false promises of bringing a woman along. So better than no meet.)

- Have done couple Swaps.

- Have watched my girlfriend get fucked by another guy(s), with me having zero-to-minimal interference. [cuckold]

I only really consider the last one real cuckold experiences. The others are just swinging/open sexual-relationship things. This was also a thrill. (One or two of these were with my girlfriend just watching - she didn't find it a thrill. So I guess it's a guy thing.)

So I guess that'd make me a Cuck and a Bull. Although I'm not into all the other stuff like dressing like a sissy, being locked up, cleaning up etc.

Maybe I'm odd. But I just find it a turn on, a woman that I know intimately for years enjoying herself with another man, watching it from the 3rd person. A mindfuck at first, the first time we went to an adult party together, and she ended up getting gangbanged, I didn't know what to think, I thought she'd leave me for a 'superior guy'. But as I got to know her, I realised this would never happen. You know what I think, it's the knowing that in the 'real world', something like this would have serious repercussions. In this isolated bubble you can experience something as radical as this, shake hands at the end 'thanks mate, for doing my wife.', then go back into the real world.

I think the cuckold non-active "watching" role is such that the cuck can see that the two lovers are engrossed in each other, as it would be if your partner were having a real affair. If he gets involved in any dominant position (even if just a blow job), then it renders the situation more like any old MMF threesome.

So it's listed as one of our "interests" (to give or receive - can't really see it working out in the giving sense, unless I were to meet a couple on my own). But it's not our raison d'etre, we'd much rather meet another couple, with the comforting knowledge that some guy is doing my girlfriend, while I'm doing his partner.

The other aspect is that it's educational. You can watch and pick up tips from the way other guys treat your lady. So I'm always asking for feedback "Did you like it when he did that? Oh you want me to do more of that..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only came in here because I thought it said Cock Holding- my mistake

LOL....i think thats Masturbation...LOL

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Lee

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By *auradCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Mr d here, we have cuckold in our profile as I love watching Laura flirt and be with guys particularly out in public. I enjoy going to a bar where we are obviously a couple and having another guy join us and the two of them flirt and become the couple.

When it comes time to have fun I enjoy watching Laura and her friend having fun and maybe taking some pics before joining in and doubling the fun for Laura.

I think cuckolding has some more 'extreme' sides to it including verbal humiliation and the guy becoming a 'sissy' that isn't our bag at all. Maybe a better definition of where we are at is hotwifing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe a better definition of where we are at is hotwifing?"

Is that not what you do with a car to steal it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we take part in cuckolding as a couple, j is vwe and dominant and i can be very dom too so we quite often, er, tag team the fem while both or either of us humiliate the cuck. we are perhaps coming from it from the fetish side of cuckolding where the cuck has absolutely no say in what goes on and it is the fem of that couple who sets the boundaries with us.

its been mentioned in the thread that some guys consider cucking to involve enjoying watching their fems with another guy/couple, we would consider this voyuerism.

any cuck situation we have been involved in, the cucks enjoyment is the ladst thing his fem partner has cared about.

although we enjoy cucking as the dominant couple, we don't seek it out but are sometimes contacted by couples looking for that kind of scenario. we always make sure of the boundaries and what is expected of us first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"we take part in cuckolding as a couple, j is vwe and dominant and i can be very dom too so we quite often, er, tag team the fem while both or either of us humiliate the cuck. we are perhaps coming from it from the fetish side of cuckolding where the cuck has absolutely no say in what goes on and it is the fem of that couple who sets the boundaries with us.

its been mentioned in the thread that some guys consider cucking to involve enjoying watching their fems with another guy/couple, we would consider this voyuerism.

any cuck situation we have been involved in, the cucks enjoyment is the ladst thing his fem partner has cared about.

Oh nice (Lee writing), you got Nesss's attention....LOL

Thanks for the openness and also honesty (and my wet lassy...mmmmm)

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Lee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol, you are welcome, thanks for the interesting forum topics you have posted recently, interesting and thought inducing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"lol, you are welcome, thanks for the interesting forum topics you have posted recently, interesting and thought inducing

We thought it was be nice to get some fresh ideas or even see if some people have same tastes. I know its hard to write messages sometime....ask someone if they have that interest or just clicked it to make there profile look good.

thanks again for complement...

Hugs,

Lee (and kisses from Nessarosa)

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

Firs time I played with a couple, the husband watched me and her together for a while and then joined in. It helped relax my nerves a bit.

I've done a bit more of the cuckold thing since then - most recently with a couple where the husband sat in a chair and watched me and his wife together. What they wanted was for me to cum and then leave, which suited me fine.

have also done it the other way - the wife watching me and her hubby and then joining in, that was different but no less enjoyable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been involved in cuckolding for a number of years....

First time was awkward yes.....

Like anything else practice becomes perfect

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi you two (above this post)

thanks for sharing....

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Lee and Nessa

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