FabSwingers.com forum: How Much Does Fabswingers Control You or Take Up Your Time

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How Much Does Fabswingers Control You or Take Up Your Time ?

So what do you think singles and couples, your views and if you have been on fab even for a year or couple of years, do you see yourself on more or less or the same as when you first started on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends...sometimes I find myself reading threads or looking at pics and think "Fuck sake, that's 10 mins of my life I won't get back"...other times it can be quite addictive and funny.

Always easy enough to logout and go back to real life without a second thought though.

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

Back on today after a few days without logging in. Can easily go without fab but i do enjoy coming in and having a read.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

It doesnt control me at all.

I do have lots of free time while 'working' , so it kills a lot of time and as doggy says it can be hilarious at times.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I hardly ever have my tv on so find Fab good for both relaxation and entertainment. It also stops me feeling lonely when alone but it certainly does not control my life.

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By *pinCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

"How Much Does Fabswingers Control You or Take Up Your Time ?

So what do you think singles and couples, your views and if you have been on fab even for a year or couple of years, do you see yourself on more or less or the same as when you first started on fab

Is this more about you Peter? The forum will go on without you

Don’t stress

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Certainly doesn't control me or my life... it fills a wee gap throughout the days when I need some banal distraction

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Since I started the forum it's more it's become addictive as I quest for fun mission impossible

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How Much Does Fabswingers Control You or Take Up Your Time ?

So what do you think singles and couples, your views and if you have been on fab even for a year or couple of years, do you see yourself on more or less or the same as when you first started on fab

Is this more about you Peter? The forum will go on without you

Don’t stress"

Pmsl, Love it when these types of people drag themselves out.

I'm flattered that you actually pay attention when I post and cant help yourself but to ONLY make a dig, lollllllll.

Funny enough, this is prob the only time I'm ever gonna reply to you but you cant say the same about me.

Any post/thread I post to on here isn't about me, contrary to what people think, (only the ones who haven't met me think this) but when people like you make comments like that, then your the ones who like giving me exposure for some reason, I can handle that

Shame you didn't put your view in regards to the question, its actually good to think for yourself and say, "yeah I'm on more that I should", or "naw I'm on it less than when I started" etc...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Back on today after a few days without logging in. Can easily go without fab but i do enjoy coming in and having a read."

Yeah not been on for a few days and came into the forums straight for a read, some good laughs at times

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Since I started the forum it's more it's become addictive as I quest for fun mission impossible "

I suppose you can put the forums as one section, I used to be more in the chat rooms, so that was the main placed I chilled and why I can onto fab. Now for me, its less and less time spent on here

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By *dinburgerMan
over a year ago

Perthshire

You are = you’re. Not ‘your’.

As (mainly) an observer of the forums, I do think some people ask questions where they’re maybe seeking answers about themselves.

It’s like anything in life. Moderation is a good thing.

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By *dinburgerMan
over a year ago

Perthshire

Sorry about the grammar pedantry, but it’s making my teeth itch.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are = you’re. Not ‘your’.

As (mainly) an observer of the forums, I do think some people ask questions where they’re maybe seeking answers about themselves.

It’s like anything in life. Moderation is a good thing."

Pmsl, you need to get me off your mind, honestly, its not good for you.

Do you think you can post on a post I commented and not be negative towards me lolllllllllll,

Gonna look to see what song titles have jealous on them or jealousy

just 'anwser' the question, if not, go and observe some more.

As one persons moderation is another persons 'hooked'

omfggggggggg I typed Answer and got the letters mixed up woohooooooo

I must be mad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are = you’re. Not ‘your’.

As (mainly) an observer of the forums, I do think some people ask questions where they’re maybe seeking answers about themselves.

It’s like anything in life. Moderation is a good thing.

Pmsl, you need to get me off your mind, honestly, its not good for you.

Do you think you can post on a post I commented and not be negative towards me lolllllllllll,

Gonna look to see what song titles have jealous on them or jealousy

just 'anwser' the question, if not, go and observe some more.

As one persons moderation is another persons 'hooked'

omfggggggggg I typed Answer and got the letters mixed up woohooooooo

I must be mad

Genuine question- why do you assume folk who disagree with you are jealous?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *dinburgerMan
over a year ago

Perthshire

"You are = you’re. Not ‘your’.

As (mainly) an observer of the forums, I do think some people ask questions where they’re maybe seeking answers about themselves.

It’s like anything in life. Moderation is a good thing.

Pmsl, you need to get me off your mind, honestly, its not good for you.

Do you think you can post on a post I commented and not be negative towards me lolllllllllll,

Gonna look to see what song titles have jealous on them or jealousy

just 'anwser' the question, if not, go and observe some more.

As one persons moderation is another persons 'hooked'

omfggggggggg I typed Answer and got the letters mixed up woohooooooo

I must be mad

Any chance of that again in English Peter?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are = you’re. Not ‘your’.

As (mainly) an observer of the forums, I do think some people ask questions where they’re maybe seeking answers about themselves.

It’s like anything in life. Moderation is a good thing.

Pmsl, you need to get me off your mind, honestly, its not good for you.

Do you think you can post on a post I commented and not be negative towards me lolllllllllll,

Gonna look to see what song titles have jealous on them or jealousy

just 'anwser' the question, if not, go and observe some more.

As one persons moderation is another persons 'hooked'

omfggggggggg I typed Answer and got the letters mixed up woohooooooo

I must be mad

Any chance of that again in English Peter?"

lolol, didn't think you had time to read, 4000 women and all lolllll

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By *dinburgerMan
over a year ago

Perthshire

It’s always interesting how some people seem to think it’s about them, go off on a huge, intelligible rant, not realising the point being made wasn’t specifically about them.*

Mind you, if the shoe fits, Get that mother laced up!

*well the grammar maybe was...

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By *dinburgerMan
over a year ago

Perthshire

Remember when your profile said your age was 45? Now it’s 49? Are you sure it wasn’t 15 mate? “Lolllolll”

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By *dinburgerMan
over a year ago

Perthshire

"You are = you’re. Not ‘your’.

As (mainly) an observer of the forums, I do think some people ask questions where they’re maybe seeking answers about themselves.

It’s like anything in life. Moderation is a good thing.

Pmsl, you need to get me off your mind, honestly, its not good for you.

Do you think you can post on a post I commented and not be negative towards me lolllllllllll,

Gonna look to see what song titles have jealous on them or jealousy

just 'anwser' the question, if not, go and observe some more.

As one persons moderation is another persons 'hooked'

omfggggggggg I typed Answer and got the letters mixed up woohooooooo

I must be mad

Genuine question- why do you assume folk who disagree with you are jealous?"

There’s a theme developing in the replies....quite telling too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

some people just canny help themselves but make condescending remarks to people, its shows them up lololl

Why do people think that others are on rant when in fact they are having a chilled night just having a giggle while sitting with stringed pants, eating from a box of cornflakes and drinking from a bottle o irn bru

awww ffs, did I say that out loud

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By *dinburgerMan
over a year ago

Perthshire

"some people just canny help themselves but make condescending remarks to people, its shows them up lololl

awww ffs, did I say that out loud

Because of the rants maybe? Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The topic of this post is

"How Much Does Fabswingers Control You or Take Up Your Time"

but for some it should be …. wait for it

How Much Does peter horsey Control You or Take Up Your Time

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By *dinburgerMan
over a year ago

Perthshire

"The topic of this post is

"How Much Does Fabswingers Control You or Take Up Your Time"

but for some it should be …. wait for it

How Much Does peter horsey Control You or Take Up Your Time

Or, it could be;

“why he does he always post a thread title and then repeat the same thing at the start of his first post.”

Someone asked me to ask you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The topic of this post is

"How Much Does Fabswingers Control You or Take Up Your Time"

but for some it should be …. wait for it

How Much Does peter horsey Control You or Take Up Your Time

Or, it could be;

“why he does he always post a thread title and then repeat the same thing at the start of his first post.”

Someone asked me to ask you."

naw I think we will stick with...

How Much Does peter horsey Control You or Take Up Your Time

The proof is in the pudding, some people cant help themselves but reply.

Oh its all about me isn't it

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By *dinburgerMan
over a year ago

Perthshire

"The topic of this post is

"How Much Does Fabswingers Control You or Take Up Your Time"

but for some it should be …. wait for it

How Much Does peter horsey Control You or Take Up Your Time

Or, it could be;

“why he does he always post a thread title and then repeat the same thing at the start of his first post.”

Someone asked me to ask you.

naw I think we will stick with...

How Much Does peter horsey Control You or Take Up Your Time

The proof is in the pudding, some people cant help themselves but reply.

Oh its all about me isn't it

Would you rather have no replies to your posts? I’ve only replied to, oh, maybe 4 of your amazing threads. Clearly I’ve made an impression!

You seem awfully.......defensive for someone just ‘chilling out’.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"You are = you’re. Not ‘your’.

As (mainly) an observer of the forums, I do think some people ask questions where they’re maybe seeking answers about themselves.

It’s like anything in life. Moderation is a good thing."

You need a comma after your first 'you're', not a full stop.

When being pedantic it's usually better to be correct.

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By *dinburgerMan
over a year ago

Perthshire

"You are = you’re. Not ‘your’.

As (mainly) an observer of the forums, I do think some people ask questions where they’re maybe seeking answers about themselves.

It’s like anything in life. Moderation is a good thing.

You need a comma after your first 'you're', not a full stop.

When being pedantic it's usually better to be correct."

Actually no. It’s correct either way. I could continue the sentence with a comma, or end it like I did and start a new one.

When being smart it’s better to be sure of your facts.

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

"You are = you’re. Not ‘your’.

As (mainly) an observer of the forums, I do think some people ask questions where they’re maybe seeking answers about themselves.

It’s like anything in life. Moderation is a good thing.

You need a comma after your first 'you're', not a full stop.

When being pedantic it's usually better to be correct."

He is right, “your” is a single word, a possessive pronoun .

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

"How Much Does Fabswingers Control You or Take Up Your Time ?

So what do you think singles and couples, your views and if you have been on fab even for a year or couple of years, do you see yourself on more or less or the same as when you first started on fab

Fab doesn’t control me. I will however say sometimes I use fab as a stress reliever by having a joke with people on the forums. Sometimes if there’s a particularly good thread I can lose an hour or two scrolling. Other times real life dictates I have no time for fab or more likely I’ve took a scunner to it. Normally when I see the same people jumped on for posting anything, then the fab pals join in and it’s tantamount to bullying, I have to refrain from commenting my true opinions. That’s when I take a step back for a few hours/days whatever instead of ripping some people a new arsehole.

People will no doubt comment saying I shouldn’t take it so seriously but that’s just me always been the champion for the under dog and always will be.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"You are = you’re. Not ‘your’.

As (mainly) an observer of the forums, I do think some people ask questions where they’re maybe seeking answers about themselves.

It’s like anything in life. Moderation is a good thing.

You need a comma after your first 'you're', not a full stop.

When being pedantic it's usually better to be correct.

He is right, “your” is a single word, a possessive pronoun ."

Your not wrong.

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

It’s not fab, fab is just like another app to browse amongst various others for a lot of people.

The bigger picture is, people are gradually gradually becoming like apps themselves, I have watched first hand a friend more and more absolutely become utterly addicted to their phone which is pretty much a hand held pc.

Examples of this, the chat quickly going quiet, the head in the phone and nothing but daft wee deafening silence for company.

Once was just the other side of the street, I stood and watched them, head in phone while they walked and walked closer to me, diddly, no recognition or realisation of where they were.

I click on fab habitually but not with the same drive and determination to create a meet, just to simply see people I know and of course it’s fun to look up folks I don’t know however brief that may be.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

My iPhone tells me how much time I spend online.

Yesterday it was under 30 minutes. Today, with an unscheduled day off due to snow 5 hours!!!

It’ll probably go back down to zero when my Site Support ends as I tend to go AWOL for extended periods.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the minute a lot if the time. Only because im bored, not because I've someone on the go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I spend between 10 to 30 mins on fab every couple of days, sometimes even 3 or 4 days. Quick pop into chat room and then on here. That's usually all that I'm upto on fab.

Downsizing big style from what I used to be like on fab

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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago

Anstruther

No where near what it used to ...used ti b in chat every night noe maybe once a week but I'm fine with that loving my life in the real world

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sometimes too much, other times not too much. Forums are probably the most distracting as I can ignore messages & reply to them eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same when u try find a fuck n still cant cos men have forgotten the art of being a gentleman and messages like let me lick your fart box become rather unappealing!

I prefer the real world of swingers and not sitting on a screen men feel they have too much power that way

So my time on fab hardly on it these days n not met a fabber for sex in a verrryy long time

Change my mind will you?

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By *hatsmynameagainCouple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

If I'm bored during the day or waiting around for something I come on and have a look around to kill sometime.

Only time Im really sure to be on fab is nights after kids are in there beds, Mostly to look at updates and a browse through the fourms.

I'm not overly a massive fab fan, Theres nothing wrong with it I just prefer to speak to fab friends on kik and any potential new meets are usually people we bumped into one night or fab friends of fab friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How Much Does Fabswingers Control You or Take Up Your Time ?

So what do you think singles and couples, your views and if you have been on fab even for a year or couple of years, do you see yourself on more or less or the same as when you first started on fab

Some days I scroll the forums and have to get involved but I don’t use fab as much at the minute I’m however chatting off fab to a lot of fabbers and socialising with them, and I’m no where near using it like I did years ago when I was single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are = you’re. Not ‘your’.

As (mainly) an observer of the forums, I do think some people ask questions where they’re maybe seeking answers about themselves.

It’s like anything in life. Moderation is a good thing.

You need a comma after your first 'you're', not a full stop.

When being pedantic it's usually better to be correct."

Pmsflofrau

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 mins when I wake up in the morning and half an hour before I go to bed. Any more than that and you need to get a life

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