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By *wazulu OP   Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Hi good folks! Living this fab place. Just new to the scene and forum, hooked on the amazing threads in here. I've heard a good way to meet folk is at socials, how do you get to hear about socials in the vicinity?

I know about the clubs and intend visiting them too. At some clubs I notice a few couples attend and ask the couples in here, what their thoughts are on chatting/ playing with single males?

I'm straight....so have no interest in "playing" with the guy, but would enjoy chatting to them and is it appropriate to play with the woman separately, or is this not the thing to do?

It's just a thought that occurred to me if I went to a club and it was all couples, and are single makes a no go?

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

We are still semi new here too but the best advice I can give is be active in the forums so people get to know you. Keep an eye our as socials are posted here. There are normally limited number of single males invited so get in early and keep checking the events and forums. We went to our first social and my wife is so active on the forums everyone already heard of us. Great way to click with people straight away. You'll need to work hard as a single male and make lots connections through the forum

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Social events are usually posted in the forums & on the meets/events section. They usually fill up quickly, & places for single guys can often be restricted.

Clubs hold different nights, some are only for couples & single females. If attending open nights then never assume the female will leave her partner. Always assume they will only play together unless told otherwise.

Parties are usually invite only, & again single males places are limited.

Also, when messaging a couple, always remember that both are often present, so be respectful of the fact there are 2 people.

R

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By *wazulu OP   Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Thanks folks, great advice I certainly want to enjoy this new life and look forward to making some good friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi good folks! Living this fab place. Just new to the scene and forum, hooked on the amazing threads in here. I've heard a good way to meet folk is at socials, how do you get to hear about socials in the vicinity?

I know about the clubs and intend visiting them too. At some clubs I notice a few couples attend and ask the couples in here, what their thoughts are on chatting/ playing with single males?

I'm straight....so have no interest in "playing" with the guy, but would enjoy chatting to them and is it appropriate to play with the woman separately, or is this not the thing to do?

It's just a thought that occurred to me if I went to a club and it was all couples, and are single makes a no go? "

The big socials are found on here, the forum, every social has been brilliant to say the least, meeting and chatting to like minded people.

Clubs, for me, definet no no. You can still have an amazing time on fab, going to socials, being invited to parties, having private meets with couples and singles and still not go to clubs. I never have, never will go to a club and I've had amazing times on here.

Get yourself known on here, chatting on the forums, your views tec.. can be such a blast and right good giggle, try not to take things personal.

If interested in couples always treat them as a couple, no exception. Find out what they are looking for, their wants, their interests and if they suit yours even better

Good luck Op and hope you have a blast

Regards

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