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By *elsbells2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

fife

We are a cuckold couple seeking to meet a regular bull. We used to have someone regular but he has since moved away and we are on the hunt for a replacement. This will be a regular long term arrangement and through time will lead further and more in depth into the cuckold ways. We seem to be having trouble finding experienced guys who know what’s expected in cuckolding. Seems most just think the husband watching is classed as cuckold and a smack on the bottom is being rough dominant. Does anyone actually know the difference between true cuckolding and the more popular acts such as hotwifing? If anyone is experienced in this would love to hear from you only if verified. Finding it a nightmare to find people up to the task. No dreamers please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We still looking for a reliable bull too

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By *elsbells2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

fife

It’s a nightmare trying to find this. Met few guys who are good but not suitable for this scenario

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Dominated a few times and fairly experienced. I don’t think people speak plainly enough in these situations and actually say what they want. Just be clear no doubt there will be volunteers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dominated a few times and fairly experienced. I don’t think people speak plainly enough in these situations and actually say what they want. Just be clear no doubt there will be volunteers."

Stewart!!!

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Dominated a few times and fairly experienced. I don’t think people speak plainly enough in these situations and actually say what they want. Just be clear no doubt there will be volunteers.

Stewart!!! "

Sorry, mistress

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I like to think I understand the cuckold dynamic and have some experience, however as always I am not local so can't offer the regular meets you both need. I wish you well in your search. It really shouldn't be this hard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds very good offer and would love to discuss

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

The problem is your clasification of the word dosnt coincide with everyone else so your only option is to spell out your wants and needs to prospective candidate

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

We are a hot wife/stag and vixen couple and we have the problem of men assuming G is a cuck. They have no clue, and we’ve had numerous messages from guys claiming to be doms (doubtful) despite us being clear we don’t want doms. I think a lot of hassle could be avoided if people would read profiles and educate themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are a cuckold couple seeking to meet a regular bull. We used to have someone regular but he has since moved away and we are on the hunt for a replacement. This will be a regular long term arrangement and through time will lead further and more in depth into the cuckold ways. We seem to be having trouble finding experienced guys who know what’s expected in cuckolding. Seems most just think the husband watching is classed as cuckold and a smack on the bottom is being rough dominant. Does anyone actually know the difference between true cuckolding and the more popular acts such as hotwifing? If anyone is experienced in this would love to hear from you only if verified. Finding it a nightmare to find people up to the task. No dreamers please"

there is a good website / forum specific for cuckolds, "hotwifes" bulls etc, I think if you look hard enough online you may find it and it may well be appropriate for your needs although I suspect it would be against the rules of this forum to advertise another forum.

I wish you well on your search and hope you find a regular, as once trust, cleanliness, discretion and friendship are all established all three can then focus on the exact needs and desires, a one night stand will simply not satisfy this situation in my view and again I wish you well on your search

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

I can’t do bossy or dominant lol, or anything even resembling it, just end up laughing at myself.

I’m guessing it’s either within a person or a well thought out fantasy to act in that way,,,,,,I just can’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am outside you age range but I understand the finer points of being a bull and the mind games to play within the role. As some have said you need to make sure you communicate how far down the line you both want to go, then find a bull to push you both a little further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dominated a few times and fairly experienced. I don’t think people speak plainly enough in these situations and actually say what they want. Just be clear no doubt there will be volunteers.

Stewart!!!

Sorry, mistress "

Great messages, made me chuckle, thanks

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

You are likely on the wrong website for what you are looking for.

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By *uckoldandnaughtywifeCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

[Removed by poster at 26/01/19 08:39:52]

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By *uckoldandnaughtywifeCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Can somebody pm us the other site name please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can somebody pm us the other site name please "

information private messaged. xx

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By *elsbells2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

fife

Could someone pm us too, could be worth a try

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By *olmeyMan
over a year ago

Koh Lanta

Hi Hels,

As somebody who enjoys and has been in several Bull/Cuckold relationships over the years, I’ve found that Bulls can have similar problems finding a suitable Cuckold couple where every bodies needs are met too, especially when it comes to couples that are new to the Cuck life, as for many, the reality, (normally for 1 of the couple), of being Cuckold can raise unexpected worries, insecurities and fears that spoil things all round for all.

Same with being rough dominant, the last thing a serious Bull wants to do being invoke the safe word from the wife and stop the fun prematurely, with as Rocket Man says, communication is the important thing, and a Bull who knows his subject will quickly question the couple and find out how far to go.

I’m a little older than your preference states too, but I am local, and if you’re interested in meeting up and discussing things, I’d be happy to meet up with you, and also confident you won’t be disappointed if you did, as from what you’ve said and the photographs on your profile, you’re clearly an experienced couple who knows what you want and how hard you want it, and I think you’d not only my enjoy company, but the pain and pleasure I’d elicit in you too, even more so were Paul to be there…

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple someone pm us name off site please be appreciated x

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Could someone pm us too, could be worth a try"

Could we get this address also ??

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

It's called fetlife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't aware that there was hard n fast rules to cuckolding. I thought it was like most fetishes personal to you n your needs as a couple . Maybe I should have bought a copy of the handbook .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasn't aware that there was hard n fast rules to cuckolding. I thought it was like most fetishes personal to you n your needs as a couple . Maybe I should have bought a copy of the handbook ."

Can I read it after you’ve finished lol!

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We are a hot wife/stag and vixen couple and we have the problem of men assuming G is a cuck. They have no clue, and we’ve had numerous messages from guys claiming to be doms (doubtful) despite us being clear we don’t want doms. I think a lot of hassle could be avoided if people would read profiles and educate themselves."

That sounds really frustrating. For all that men spend so much time and energy on here, they don't actually seem to understand sex as play, y'know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always hard to find , Im interested in finding a genuine cuckolding couple. Its not easy but I would not be too elitist as good conversation and understanding can result in a good mix. The cuckold couple I met initially were quite cautious but we managed to talk and it developed into a good regular arrangement. You will get there Im sure.

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Why do I feel there is a requirement now to revisit my CV and inwardly question my history to date and if In actually meet the required criteria lol.

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By *elsbells2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

fife

There isn’t really but I think the lines are very blurred when we have had various socials with guys who proclaimed to be experienced bulls and vast experience with the more extreme side of cuckolding. Promise the earth and pretend or lie that it’s what they are looking for thinking it’s an easy way to a quick shag then shit their pants when hubby expects to be in the same room or when we want more than plain sex while hubby watches. One guy even got the droop and blames it because he’s not experienced with hubby being present and all the previous cuckolding meets he has had were just with himself and the wife without hubby.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"There isn’t really but I think the lines are very blurred when we have had various socials with guys who proclaimed to be experienced bulls and vast experience with the more extreme side of cuckolding. Promise the earth and pretend or lie that it’s what they are looking for thinking it’s an easy way to a quick shag then shit their pants when hubby expects to be in the same room or when we want more than plain sex while hubby watches. One guy even got the droop and blames it because he’s not experienced with hubby being present and all the previous cuckolding meets he has had were just with himself and the wife without hubby. "

Nothing worse than a droopy bull.

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate


"We are a cuckold couple seeking to meet a regular bull. We used to have someone regular but he has since moved away and we are on the hunt for a replacement. This will be a regular long term arrangement and through time will lead further and more in depth into the cuckold ways. We seem to be having trouble finding experienced guys who know what’s expected in cuckolding. Seems most just think the husband watching is classed as cuckold and a smack on the bottom is being rough dominant. Does anyone actually know the difference between true cuckolding and the more popular acts such as hotwifing? If anyone is experienced in this would love to hear from you only if verified. Finding it a nightmare to find people up to the task. No dreamers please"
Most guys will say what you want to hear just to get what they want. We have also been looking for A regular guy but most just want a wam bam thank you mam and you never hear from them again. Most guy don't understand swinging let alone cuckold lol. good luck with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are clearly not meeting the right people and probably have a few prejudices and assumptions which leads you to make bad judgement calls on who you are chatting to and meeting. Reading between the lines I think you are probably assuming that experienced guys know what they are doing, often they dont and often they will be basing past experiences on your situation and expecting a similar outcome.

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By *unrigMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

I was a Bull to the same couple for over five years.It certainly got better over time as we both pushed the boundaries.We met several times for coffee before we had any fun.Would love to meet another long term couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thinks it’s more do you with yourselves to be honest! From what I have heard you are not the most reliable and a few unsavoury incidents regarding males. Maybe look in the mirror!

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By *elsbells2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

fife

We know what we are looking for. If we meet someone and they are not for us we won’t meet again and if we meet someone and they are not up to all they have bigged themselves up to be then we won’t hesitate to stop the meet or leave a verification stating so. Yeh I guess this can look negative but hey we are on here for us and nobody else. As to the reliability issues we have kids and a busy family life. Always has and always will come first. Sometimes meets made weeks in advance can’t be managed. Can’t easily plan family issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"or leave a verification stating so. "

Good luck with that one

Never seen a bad veri. Ever

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By *elsbells2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

fife

Never leave a bad veri usually just say the person is real but not to our taste. Either that or just don’t verify

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