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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So is it wrong to ask a fella for one of these 1st if no attraction i would not be doing sex anyone agree.I have had plenty 1st meets and moved to more fun later ongoing but sum not for me no offence but fellas way i c it is if u want me make an effort dont say yes then no show just be honest say no just want sex think there are too many females doing it 1st meet good for you but i know sex site but cum on

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Absolutely not wrong I always say social first

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I cant even get a social meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely not wrong I always say social first "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes im glad another fem agrees with me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh sum females like face pic first x

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

There has to be a connection. We always have social meet first and both agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat then swap face pics then a public place social and if we fancy more then it's a sex meet.

Too old for 1st sex meets anymore! Way too many nutters about these days.

Don't like it.dont meet me.

Simple.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Chat then swap face pics then a public place social and if we fancy more then it's a sex meet.

Too old for 1st sex meets anymore! Way too many nutters about these days.

Don't like it.dont meet me.

Simple."

Totally this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always best to have a social meet first to ensure social and physical attraction, always concerning people who are happy to play immediately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always best to have a social meet first to ensure social and physical attraction, always concerning people who are happy to play immediately"

Agree with this especially safety as a single woman on her own x

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

Always 1st meet is social then see what happens next time if it happens again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand that for some people both meets need to be separated, for me, when I meet, I meet for social but I'm open to make the social become a sexual meet, is not meet-fuck-go thing, is like having a social meet and the sexual meet with no time in-between

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Always a social 1st but I have been known to combine the two if time permits .

However I like the flirty build up to a playmeet

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

On 2 occassions my coffee meets have ended up in the bedroom. I am not a child and know within 10mins whether i want to sleep with the person i have met. My coffee meets are planned after weeks of chat so i usually feel as if i know them well before we meet. Spontaneous sex for me is usually more exciting than pre planned sex.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Never know for sure if I fancy someone until I meet them. So yeah, definitely social first. Might get naked on the same night mind x

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

Social first makes sense to me for numerous reasons. Is anyone really so desperate for a shag that they wouldn't?

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Asking for a social first is often a good way of filtering out timewasters/fantasists... tell them a first meet will be a social or theres no guarantee of play and just watch them dissapear

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local


"So is it wrong to ask a fella for one of these 1st if no attraction i would not be doing sex anyone agree.I have had plenty 1st meets and moved to more fun later ongoing but sum not for me no offence but fellas way i c it is if u want me make an effort dont say yes then no show just be honest say no just want sex think there are too many females doing it 1st meet good for you but i know sex site but cum on "

Social meet is a must, even after a face pic!

Got to have a connection on top of attraction!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is it wrong to ask a fella for one of these 1st if no attraction i would not be doing sex anyone agree.I have had plenty 1st meets and moved to more fun later ongoing but sum not for me no offence but fellas way i c it is if u want me make an effort dont say yes then no show just be honest say no just want sex think there are too many females doing it 1st meet good for you but i know sex site but cum on "

Basicly most guys will shag anything given the chance! You have every right to ask for a social first

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"Never know for sure if I fancy someone until I meet them. So yeah, definitely social first. Might get naked on the same night mind x"

Naked and spin the bottle is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with asking for a social first in my eyes. I'd rather have a social, see if the attraction is there before jumping in. I've done it without socials before and it's made for awkward chemistry... Nah! Never again lol - Kitty x

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Never know for sure if I fancy someone until I meet them. So yeah, definitely social first. Might get naked on the same night mind x

Naked and spin the bottle is good "

Still haven't had a chance for a rematch!!

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"Never know for sure if I fancy someone until I meet them. So yeah, definitely social first. Might get naked on the same night mind x

Naked and spin the bottle is good

Still haven't had a chance for a rematch!! "

We havent been around much lately but hoping to rectify that, kettles on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I swap face pics then if we're both happy move on to social meet. In this day and age it's also a security thing for me. If I get a bad vibe or there's no click it goes no further but I'm up front about that to the person .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a new member of the site I would definitely want to meet socially and get to know anyone before taking it further. I was supposed to meet a couple last night but from the word go my gut instinct was screaming at me, from the initial contact up until the meet was supposed to happen absolutely nothing felt right. No pics, private or public.From the initial contact up to a message asking me to get a cab very late last night there was total silence.

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I would even be happy to get a social meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try to have social first or at least cam each other a fair bit...definitely so no awkwardness if you don't fancy etc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having a social first is much about safety for guys aswell as girls imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a social meet first makes me feel a little safer

However most men don't care and very often have let me down cause they ain't getting what they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it impossible to create an impression with a first message and tbh most pictures aren't a true representation of said person, I prefer to meet face to face socially at a location of the females choosing just so they are in control of the situation and can choose to leave without being in a strange place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is it wrong to ask a fella for one of these 1st if no attraction i would not be doing sex anyone agree.I have had plenty 1st meets and moved to more fun later ongoing but sum not for me no offence but fellas way i c it is if u want me make an effort dont say yes then no show just be honest say no just want sex think there are too many females doing it 1st meet good for you but i know sex site but cum on "

actually prefer a first - no sex meet to be honest, would rather meet for a chat, coffee and laugh and then if both happy, arrange a further meet for fun

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

You suggest that to a guy..they read it but don't say yes or no to it....mind boggles at times

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By *rMrsWTFCouple
over a year ago

Arbroath


"Nothing wrong with asking for a social first in my eyes. I'd rather have a social, see if the attraction is there before jumping in. I've done it without socials before and it's made for awkward chemistry... Nah! Never again lol - Kitty x"

This

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"You suggest that to a guy..they read it but don't say yes or no to it....mind boggles at times"
I'm just happy to meet socially even for a chat I never expect anything more

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By *olly90Woman
over a year ago

Arbroath

Oh yes socials first. Sometimes they go into fun meets and sometimes it's a sex meet after an hour or so... cos I just can't be good apparently haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it impossible to create an impression with a first message and tbh most pictures aren't a true representation of said person, I prefer to meet face to face socially at a location of the females choosing just so they are in control of the situation and can choose to leave without being in a strange place"

Absolutely, that's the way it should always be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo

I actually really like social meets first, i think they are important as like said before there needs to a click, an attraction and a social meet is the best way to do this

Not to say a social meet if it goes well can't end in a wee snog lol but first meet social if lucky for a second meet them who knows

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

def nothing wrong with that always feel a fem has to feel comfortable and safe as well as feel an attraction

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone for their replies sum fellas get huffy cause i ask for social first.

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Social first is good anything else is a bonus

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

It their problem minx and if they missed out on meeting such a sexy woman then they not right in head either xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it best to make sure we are both clear on what is expected when a social meet is arranged.. Basically, I expect a good cup/pot of tea, decent conversation and a lot of laughs... No expectation of anything physical... If it happens then great... If not that's good too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social meet always.

Met a few that I’ve never had fun with as no real connection face to face.

Agreed up front that social may not always lead to play

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local


"Thanks to everyone for their replies sum fellas get huffy cause i ask for social first. "

Like I said, I think it's essential.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

I have to admit that many of my 1st Meets ended up in the sack. However I do enjoy a wee Social too. More important these days as the site has a few I wouldn’t let over the moat at Random Towers.

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Prefer a social... it may turn into something else, but I've been down the road of someone turning up at my door and not being like the pics they sent... who then went in a huff because I turned them down

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

Social meet 1st

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I like a face pic and then meet for a coffee. We can then arrange to meet another time or continue and play the same day.

I’ve had a lot of coffees that have gone no further.

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By *nicorn on wheelsWoman
over a year ago

scotland


"So is it wrong to ask a fella for one of these 1st if no attraction i would not be doing sex anyone agree.I have had plenty 1st meets and moved to more fun later ongoing but sum not for me no offence but fellas way i c it is if u want me make an effort dont say yes then no show just be honest say no just want sex think there are too many females doing it 1st meet good for you but i know sex site but cum on "

Not wrong at all, I require the same, not all are gonna get motor running, some can say all the right things on here but when you meet there’s nothing there. Not gonna shag cozyouve agreed to meet and I find it frustrating that some (not all) think because your on here the gagging for it by anyone. Sorry for a wee rant x

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By *heone999Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Thanks to everyone for their replies sum fellas get huffy cause i ask for social first. "
Yes soical first what's your kik

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to everyone for their replies sum fellas get huffy cause i ask for social first. "
social meet is always good to see if there is anything attractive then the playing can progress further x

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