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By *jwire OP   Man
over a year ago

Atherstone

Hi all... I struggle to get accepted as genuine because so many fakes mess this site up..

What advice would you recommend to me to help prove I'm a genuine guy to couples..?.. cheers Aj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verified by 6 people, newest 3 months ago

3 fem. 3 cpl. By 7 meet

I’d say your doing better than most

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By *jwire OP   Man
over a year ago

Atherstone

I have been verrified by singles but want to meet couples now... not doing so well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been verrified by singles but want to meet couples now... not doing so well"

You been verified by 3 couples though

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By *uburban_kinkCouple
over a year ago

Motherwell

If you’re keen to interact with couples then attending large socials and CJ’s is the best approach, at least then you have the opportunity to interact with both at the same time.

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By *jwire OP   Man
over a year ago

Atherstone

Only socials... or phone calls.. hopefully I can actually find a genuine meet soon

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I have the same problem how can you get verified if no-one will meet my age

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By *jwire OP   Man
over a year ago

Atherstone

Not sure its an age thing just a case of ass holes messing it up for us genuine ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the same problem how can you get verified if no-one will meet my age "

You can’t accomidate. limits your chances and some may perceive rightly or wrongly your attached.

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"I have the same problem how can you get verified if no-one will meet my age

You can’t accomidate. limits your chances and some may perceive rightly or wrongly your attached. "
I'm single I can't accommodate def not attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the same problem how can you get verified if no-one will meet my age

You can’t accomidate. limits your chances and some may perceive rightly or wrongly your attached. I'm single I can't accommodate def not attached"

It’s others who make the call on that though. Hence the rightly or wrongly.

The fact you can’t accomidate limits your chances.

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

It's not easy

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Not sure its an age thing just a case of ass holes messing it up for us genuine ones "

I can assure you that's absolute nonsense. The ass hole just ruine their own chances . Trust me decent guys stand out like beacons among that dross . So in fact they are only making you look even better. So take heart .

As for you wanting to meet more cpls ..then gear your profile to show that's what you want .Also as said Clubs and site socials great way to get known to cpls .

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I don't have anyone to go with to socials and cj

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I don't have anyone to go with to socials and cj "

Go yourself then. You are a grown up afterall.

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

That's true they say though it's always best to go with someone

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"That's true they say though it's always best to go with someone "

Who is "they" ? And since when do you listen to " they".

Go on your own. That said i wont go to a club on my own . But then you could always team up with another single fem to go. Either way clubs will have what you seek.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I don't have anyone to go with to socials and cj "

Nor did I to begin with, you meet people and form friendships.

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By *magine all the peopleCouple
over a year ago

Perth

Of you can't accommodate, say why.... Mostly we block folks who can't, cos they're normally cheats.

Good luck x

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Maybe your not what couples are looking for OP.

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Not everyone is a cheat who can't accommodate everyone has their own reason

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I'm finding it harder on here

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I'm finding it harder on here "

Well folk have tried to give you advice but still you grumble and feel sorry for yourself which is very off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding it harder on here "

I’d suggest putting some pictures up and re writing some of your profile to make it easier to understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all... I struggle to get accepted as genuine because so many fakes mess this site up..

What advice would you recommend to me to help prove I'm a genuine guy to couples..?.. cheers Aj"

You seem lovely but I have to respectfully disagree.

I hear this A LOT from guys, about how other guys mess things up for genuine people. I disagree, I think all it does is make truly genuine and decent people stand out.

Everyone is responsible for their own behaviour so just be yourself and if you are indeed genuine (whatever that really means) then you won’t have a problem.

Good luck

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"I'm finding it harder on here

I’d suggest putting some pictures up and re writing some of your profile to make it easier to understand.

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ok thanks for the advice i have pics kept them on friends page

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"I'm finding it harder on here

Well folk have tried to give you advice but still you grumble and feel sorry for yourself which is very off putting."
sorry miss

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

As one of the posters above mentioned, you have been verified 7times on here, a good ratio in the time you've been on the site, a site that's very hard for guys.

So maybe we should be asking for advice on getting a meet from you.

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"As one of the posters above mentioned, you have been verified 7times on here, a good ratio in the time you've been on the site, a site that's very hard for guys.

So maybe we should be asking for advice on getting a meet from you.

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good idea

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By *oast888Man
over a year ago

cambuslang

I feel your pain to a degree. Obviously on here the onus is put on a man to try and essentially catch attention with a message to someone who no doubt gets bombarded with hundreds of messages a day in the hope that they like your message enough to look at you, decide they like you, then engage in a conversation to see if it can actually go anyway.

Tougher than the Krypton Factor!

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I agree krypton factor was mild this is more like the chase

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"I agree krypton factor was mild this is more like the chase "

Ach, the chase is a doddle, more like total wipe out.

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Ok for me more like mission impossible

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