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By *ustpassionandfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Port Dundas

I’m finding it soooo difficult to meet anyone on here and therefore can’t get verified.

Most people only meet with verified folks and I’m very eager but getting frustrated. ??????

Any hints tips or offers. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials or club meets...

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By *ustpassionandfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Port Dundas

I can’t really do them though as I can only really meet daytime for now. Thanks for the advice though. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined over a year ago and not had a TV guide.

Delete account

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I’m going to be very honest your profile entices nobody. Personally I wouldn’t meet you, you claim looks and age are not important which implies you would meet just anybody. I suggest a profile overhaul.

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By *rinthiaMan
over a year ago

dundee

It’s not easy I’ve been on a week and not much positive .

I thought keeping it local was the right thing to do , but I’m thinking cams get verified so your genuine and people might talk to you

Single males are not to be trusted on here apparently

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

You have on your profile that you are also looking to meet TVs. I’d suggest changing your sexual orientation to at least bi curious then.

Your pics look half arsed at best and are not enticing.

Profile blurb makes it sound like you are using fab only as a form of escapism from day to day life. Doesn’t come across like you’re interested in the social side of fab or getting to know people.

I would suggest socials it clubs (Cjs has a few afternoon parties if you can’t do nights).

As someone above said, your profile is over a year old and no verifications, no up to date pics. This usually raises red flags to people who will just assume you’re a fake or fantasist here to look at pics.

Best bet would be delete profile and start afresh with better pics and a more interesting bio

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have on your profile that you are also looking to meet TVs. I’d suggest changing your sexual orientation to at least bi curious then.

Your pics look half arsed at best and are not enticing.

Profile blurb makes it sound like you are using fab only as a form of escapism from day to day life. Doesn’t come across like you’re interested in the social side of fab or getting to know people.

I would suggest socials it clubs (Cjs has a few afternoon parties if you can’t do nights).

As someone above said, your profile is over a year old and no verifications, no up to date pics. This usually raises red flags to people who will just assume you’re a fake or fantasist here to look at pics.

Best bet would be delete profile and start afresh with better pics and a more interesting bio

Mrs"

You are fab at this btw good advice!

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"You have on your profile that you are also looking to meet TVs. I’d suggest changing your sexual orientation to at least bi curious then.

Your pics look half arsed at best and are not enticing.

Profile blurb makes it sound like you are using fab only as a form of escapism from day to day life. Doesn’t come across like you’re interested in the social side of fab or getting to know people.

I would suggest socials it clubs (Cjs has a few afternoon parties if you can’t do nights).

As someone above said, your profile is over a year old and no verifications, no up to date pics. This usually raises red flags to people who will just assume you’re a fake or fantasist here to look at pics.

Best bet would be delete profile and start afresh with better pics and a more interesting bio

Mrs

You are fab at this btw good advice!"

Lol ta most people hate my bluntness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have on your profile that you are also looking to meet TVs. I’d suggest changing your sexual orientation to at least bi curious then.

Your pics look half arsed at best and are not enticing.

Profile blurb makes it sound like you are using fab only as a form of escapism from day to day life. Doesn’t come across like you’re interested in the social side of fab or getting to know people.

I would suggest socials it clubs (Cjs has a few afternoon parties if you can’t do nights).

As someone above said, your profile is over a year old and no verifications, no up to date pics. This usually raises red flags to people who will just assume you’re a fake or fantasist here to look at pics.

Best bet would be delete profile and start afresh with better pics and a more interesting bio

Mrs

You are fab at this btw good advice!

Lol ta most people hate my bluntness "

We all love and appreciate your bluntness... Until it is directed at us.

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland


"You have on your profile that you are also looking to meet TVs. I’d suggest changing your sexual orientation to at least bi curious then.

Your pics look half arsed at best and are not enticing.

Profile blurb makes it sound like you are using fab only as a form of escapism from day to day life. Doesn’t come across like you’re interested in the social side of fab or getting to know people.

I would suggest socials it clubs (Cjs has a few afternoon parties if you can’t do nights).

As someone above said, your profile is over a year old and no verifications, no up to date pics. This usually raises red flags to people who will just assume you’re a fake or fantasist here to look at pics.

Best bet would be delete profile and start afresh with better pics and a more interesting bio

Mrs"

Well this saved me typing

What she said!

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s tough for everyone to get a meet or veri.

We started a fresh profile a few months back and haven’t managed to meet any new couples. We’ve only met people from our old profile. Imagine it’s a lot more difficult for a single guy.

Probably easier going on Tinder or a hook up app.

Fab is a lot of effort for very little return but we all live in hope.

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local

Been here 11 years, on my 2nd or is it 3rd profile...? And can still count my meets on one hand!

If you want verified you're going to have to get along to a social, party or club.

Like anything else, if you want it bad enough you will MAKE the time!

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By *andy apMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

Best advice I could give you is anything you have on your profile ensure it is accurate. Everything from your bio to pictures etc. Keep it updated.

If you are going to message people. Read their profile. Ensure what they are looking for is what you are looking for. If they engage you in conversation follow up with that conversation without sounding pushy or pestering people. Include a bit of humour. Offer up say your mobile or another form of contact. It shows you are genuine and don't have a hidden wife in the background.

When messaging ensure any message isn't half arsed. Sell yourself and ensure you give plenty of detail on it. Stand out from the crowd.

Don't sound desperate. Don't pester people.

These are all just general things. And purely just my opinions.

I hope this helps .

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Hints or tips mmmmm let me think lie, hang on every word your target says, white knight at every oportunity and above all dont be yourself and when the shit hits the fan re-invent yourself with another profile......your welcome

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local


"Hints or tips mmmmm let me think lie, hang on every word your target says, white knight at every oportunity and above all dont be yourself and when the shit hits the fan re-invent yourself with another profile......your welcome "

Ahahahahhahahshahshaha

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