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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Trying to get new gf into idea of swinging is there any clubs or meets we could go to just to take it slowly see what she thinks

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Have you discussed it with her, and have you mentioned the possibility of visiting anywhere?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you discussed it with her, and have you mentioned the possibility of visiting anywhere? "
yes few times shes just bit nervous and im new to it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she's not sure don't push her to your way of thinking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If she's not sure don't push her to your way of thinking."
she likes the idea of going somewhere for a look 1st but can u do that

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By *imbo57Man
over a year ago

kilmarnock ish

Course you can well you can at cjs

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By *MCFUN5Couple
over a year ago

GLASGOW

CJ’s will always make you welcome and show you around the full venue ; no pressure at all. Great for first timers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she's not sure don't push her to your way of thinking. she likes the idea of going somewhere for a look 1st but can u do that "

And if she doesn't like it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m trying to get my gf into this as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"CJ’s will always make you welcome and show you around the full venue ; no pressure at all. Great for first timers x"
great thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If she's not sure don't push her to your way of thinking. she likes the idea of going somewhere for a look 1st but can u do that

And if she doesn't like it?"
well its up2 her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Course you can well you can at cjs "
thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get some random dick pics printed off the internet and post them to her house with the message 'Hi, howz u' scribbled below.

At least that would get her an introduction to here.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Get some random dick pics printed off the internet and post them to her house with the message 'Hi, howz u' scribbled below.

At least that would get her an introduction to here."

that made me chortle but to be fair we never get dick pics sent maybe I’m doing something wrong

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By *adyHGlasgowWoman
over a year ago

GLASGOW

A meet at CJ's would be good. The rooms down stairs allow for good conversations, a laugh and even as a single female I have always felt safe and comfortable. Staff are welcoming, will show you around at the start of the night, when not much is happening upstairs. Avoid greedy girl nights, to much for a newbie, it would put her off forever. Remember you don't need to swing, you could just be with each other until you both feel like trying.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

A club wouldnt be a good option imo its a decision a person needs to come to themselves and should never be coerced into it by any means.

mention its an intrest and let her decide herself in her own time

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By *ittle_missknowitallWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Get some random dick pics printed off the internet and post them to her house with the message 'Hi, howz u' scribbled below.

At least that would get her an introduction to here."

That was class x

Cjs as a wee introduction to this side of life - you don’t need to play at all

Have a nosey and leave if it’s not for you

I think from what you are saying she’s keen but nervous ? So go and chat to some people but don’t put any pressure on yourselves

Just don’t take her to a gggb perhaps a couples night to start with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trying to get new gf into idea of swinging is there any clubs or meets we could go to just to take it slowly see what she thinks"

And does she know your on here and vetified from meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get some random dick pics printed off the internet and post them to her house with the message 'Hi, howz u' scribbled below.

At least that would get her an introduction to here."
hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A meet at CJ's would be good. The rooms down stairs allow for good conversations, a laugh and even as a single female I have always felt safe and comfortable. Staff are welcoming, will show you around at the start of the night, when not much is happening upstairs. Avoid greedy girl nights, to much for a newbie, it would put her off forever. Remember you don't need to swing, you could just be with each other until you both feel like trying. "
ok thanks we wi look into cjs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trying to get new gf into idea of swinging is there any clubs or meets we could go to just to take it slowly see what she thinks

And does she know your on here and vetified from meeting. "
yip

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get some random dick pics printed off the internet and post them to her house with the message 'Hi, howz u' scribbled below.

At least that would get her an introduction to here.

That was class x

Cjs as a wee introduction to this side of life - you don’t need to play at all

Have a nosey and leave if it’s not for you

I think from what you are saying she’s keen but nervous ? So go and chat to some people but don’t put any pressure on yourselves

Just don’t take her to a gggb perhaps a couples night to start with "
yes she is keen but very nervous thank u

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

Clubs are a good option, you must keep telling her to have an open mind and not to judge anyone no matter what she sees. Assure her you are going for a look only and to chat to people and ask questions . Explain its just like a pub with a bit more sexily dressed patrons and prepare her for more forward conversations. You will be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" you must keep telling her to have an open mind and not to judge anyone no matter what she sees. "

You've really no idea how manipulative that sounds, have you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trying to get new gf into idea of swinging is there any clubs or meets we could go to just to take it slowly see what she thinks"

If you've brought up the subject and she doesn't appear into it then leave it. I fucking hate it when someone assumes they know what I need or want sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trying to get new gf into idea of swinging is there any clubs or meets we could go to just to take it slowly see what she thinks

If you've brought up the subject and she doesn't appear into it then leave it. I fucking hate it when someone assumes they know what I need or want sexually. "

Sorry, just saw your message saying she likes the idea but not sure where to look. Let her set up her own profile on here then and get chatting, looking at socials, clubs, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she's not sure don't push her to your way of thinking. she likes the idea of going somewhere for a look 1st but can u do that "

I went cjs just after Xmas really great place to go but I kinda what it.lol left before we had any fun, gf was laughing her head off.lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


" you must keep telling her to have an open mind and not to judge anyone no matter what she sees.

You've really no idea how manipulative that sounds, have you?"
I agree mainly because I judge everything and everyone I see

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


" you must keep telling her to have an open mind and not to judge anyone no matter what she sees.

You've really no idea how manipulative that sounds, have you?"

I take it the rest of my advice was great thats why you carefully edited my FULL post to serve your agenda.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now as she knows your already on here and she is ok with it why not introduce her to the couple you have meet and do some same room swapping and see if she is ok watching you with another woman and your ok watching her with a different man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now as she knows your already on here and she is ok with it why not introduce her to the couple you have meet and do some same room swapping and see if she is ok watching you with another woman and your ok watching her with a different man "
shes not wanting to meet local to start with

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By *areBares7778Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Show her the CJ's site book in and take her, we went to CJ's before we knew anything about Fab met some lovely people who made us feel at ease and answered everything we had to ask or know, never played left had another discussion never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what is a GGGB night ?

Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Show her the CJ's site book in and take her, we went to CJ's before we knew anything about Fab met some lovely people who made us feel at ease and answered everything we had to ask or know, never played left had another discussion never looked back "
thank u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GGGB possible Greedy Girls Gang Bang

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