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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it realistic to think that a good looking, fit and healthy male say in his late 40' early 50's can meet a young female 20-30 year old on Fab?

I have seen a few posts regrading this topic and most views usually say that its not really ever going to happen unless said female is looking for a 'daddy' like man to meet up with her.

What's your views folks? Me , I think its not beyond the realms of reality aslong as they both find each other attractive and are looking to have fun and not to be thinking about the age gap, but as i said that's only my opinion.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I’ll let you know when a 20-30 year old wants to sleep with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah daddy thing a lot of rubbish...I have always met men at least 20.years older with a few exceptions

But I'm no.spring chicken any more lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often wonder if guys considering this have daughters in that age bracket, and how they'd feel about them hooking up with guys that age.

Especially on here

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"I often wonder if guys considering this have daughters in that age bracket, and how they'd feel about them hooking up with guys that age.

Especially on here"

Would be even more awkward for a parent to see their son/daughter on here, or vice-versa

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I often wonder if guys considering this have daughters in that age bracket, and how they'd feel about them hooking up with guys that age.

Especially on here"

My daughter fits into that age range and is living with a man who is 15 years her senior, Whats wrong with it? they have 2 beautiful twin boys, a gorgeous house, both working and earn their own money and shes the happiest I have seen her in her whole life, which as her father I am eternally grateful for so I am not getting what you meant by your last statement?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 27 and having a great sex life with a 50 year old x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wonder if guys considering this have daughters in that age bracket, and how they'd feel about them hooking up with guys that age.

Especially on here

My daughter fits into that age range and is living with a man who is 15 years her senior, Whats wrong with it? they have 2 beautiful twin boys, a gorgeous house, both working and earn their own money and shes the happiest I have seen her in her whole life, which as her father I am eternally grateful for so I am not getting what you meant by your last statement?"

I mean if she's at the younger end of the scale, and he's at the older end, I find it a bit creepy and predatory.

( he and she isn't in relation to your daughter and her partner)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I often wonder if guys considering this have daughters in that age bracket, and how they'd feel about them hooking up with guys that age.

Especially on here

My daughter fits into that age range and is living with a man who is 15 years her senior, Whats wrong with it? they have 2 beautiful twin boys, a gorgeous house, both working and earn their own money and shes the happiest I have seen her in her whole life, which as her father I am eternally grateful for so I am not getting what you meant by your last statement?

I mean if she's at the younger end of the scale, and he's at the older end, I find it a bit creepy and predatory.

( he and she isn't in relation to your daughter and her partner)"

Why is it creepy and predatory? If they are both happy is that not what counts or are you just seeing that hes a old pervert who should know better than to be with someone half his age...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your original question was in the context of fab, so that's what I'm basing my response on.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I would be suspicious if anyone used the term daddy when looking for an older male.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I often wonder if guys considering this have daughters in that age bracket, and how they'd feel about them hooking up with guys that age.

Especially on here

My daughter fits into that age range and is living with a man who is 15 years her senior, Whats wrong with it? they have 2 beautiful twin boys, a gorgeous house, both working and earn their own money and shes the happiest I have seen her in her whole life, which as her father I am eternally grateful for so I am not getting what you meant by your last statement?"

To me there's a huge difference in 15 years, & a guy of 50 (for example) having a 20 year old daughter & meeting someone of the same age. I understand we all have different likes/dislikes/tastes/standards etc, but I for one won't meet guys the same age as my children, & I don't meet guys who choose to do so. Personal choice of course & each to their own, & I don't bend my rules for anyone.

R

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"I often wonder if guys considering this have daughters in that age bracket, and how they'd feel about them hooking up with guys that age.

Especially on here

My daughter fits into that age range and is living with a man who is 15 years her senior, Whats wrong with it? they have 2 beautiful twin boys, a gorgeous house, both working and earn their own money and shes the happiest I have seen her in her whole life, which as her father I am eternally grateful for so I am not getting what you meant by your last statement?

I mean if she's at the younger end of the scale, and he's at the older end, I find it a bit creepy and predatory.

( he and she isn't in relation to your daughter and her partner)"

When Catherine Zeta Jones was 29, she met Michael Douglas when he was 54. They are happily married and noone has battered an eyelid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wonder if guys considering this have daughters in that age bracket, and how they'd feel about them hooking up with guys that age.

Especially on here

My daughter fits into that age range and is living with a man who is 15 years her senior, Whats wrong with it? they have 2 beautiful twin boys, a gorgeous house, both working and earn their own money and shes the happiest I have seen her in her whole life, which as her father I am eternally grateful for so I am not getting what you meant by your last statement?

I mean if she's at the younger end of the scale, and he's at the older end, I find it a bit creepy and predatory.

( he and she isn't in relation to your daughter and her partner)

When Catherine Zeta Jones was 29, she met Michael Douglas when he was 54. They are happily married and noone has battered an eyelid "

And everyone knows Hollywood stars are representative of ordinary people

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Why would anyone want to meet someone the same age as their children though!

R

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would be suspicious if anyone used the term daddy when looking for an older male."

Do you browse female profile on here? I can tell you I have seen that expression on numerous occasions on younger females profile text, heck I even see it on their updates.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would anyone want to meet someone the same age as their children though!

R "

if you are asking me I can honestly say no but that's not because shes the same age as my daughter, it would be for other reason that I am not going to go into on forum thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be suspicious if anyone used the term daddy when looking for an older male.

Do you browse female profile on here? I can tell you I have seen that expression on numerous occasions on younger females profile text, heck I even see it on their updates."

Up your age limit and you won't see those updates

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your original question was in the context of fab, so that's what I'm basing my response on.

"

I still dont see what your point is but its ok I will just assume you dont have a valid point and that all men aged above are sick old perverts who should be ashamed of themselves for even thinking he could attract a much younger female.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would be suspicious if anyone used the term daddy when looking for an older male.

Do you browse female profile on here? I can tell you I have seen that expression on numerous occasions on younger females profile text, heck I even see it on their updates.

Up your age limit and you won't see those updates "

Why? because you dont agree with it? in that case I will keep it where its at then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your original question was in the context of fab, so that's what I'm basing my response on.

I still dont see what your point is but its ok I will just assume you dont have a valid point and that all men aged above are sick old perverts who should be ashamed of themselves for even thinking he could attract a much younger female."

My assumption is that I don't think many 20 year old women are emotionally mature enough to negotiate some of the goings on here, and it might not give them a healthy view of sexual relationships.

Which is quite different to what you said

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By *ollyAmorousCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I’m at the opposite of this were I get messages from guys 20+ years younger than me but when they fall into the age bracket of my grown up kids it’s a no no ; nothing would turn me on to them so age differences can definitely make or break having fun for me

M x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your original question was in the context of fab, so that's what I'm basing my response on.

I still dont see what your point is but its ok I will just assume you dont have a valid point and that all men aged above are sick old perverts who should be ashamed of themselves for even thinking he could attract a much younger female.

My assumption is that I don't think many 20 year old women are emotionally mature enough to negotiate some of the goings on here, and it might not give them a healthy view of sexual relationships.

Which is quite different to what you said"

And is that the way you thought at 20 years old, times have changed a lot in that time have they not? girls these days are mostly experiencing the dating world online so know how exactly what they are looking or searching for, its very unlikey but not possible that they will find a meet or date the old fashioned way of actually going outside to a bar or club and find one, doesn't mean it never happens but not as often as you think, so you now speak on behalf of them do you?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Why would anyone want to meet someone the same age as their children though!

R "

I have a stepson who is 43 and my own son who is 26. Both are men and its men that i am on Fab to meet. I have encountered some ridiculously childish older men and some very wise younger men so i tend to judge guys on here for their personalities rather than their age.

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

In my 20's I much preffered men in thier 40's and 50's. Nothing to do with daddy issues more just a respect thing. I find older men more respectful and less cocky.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I often wonder if guys considering this have daughters in that age bracket, and how they'd feel about them hooking up with guys that age.

Especially on here

My daughter fits into that age range and is living with a man who is 15 years her senior, Whats wrong with it? they have 2 beautiful twin boys, a gorgeous house, both working and earn their own money and shes the happiest I have seen her in her whole life, which as her father I am eternally grateful for so I am not getting what you meant by your last statement?"
ask your daughter to bang one of her friends you will soon find out lol

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Apply the creepiness formula????

If they’re less than half your age plus 7 it is probably going to appear creepy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would anyone want to meet someone the same age as their children though!

R

I have a stepson who is 43 and my own son who is 26. Both are men and its men that i am on Fab to meet. I have encountered some ridiculously childish older men and some very wise younger men so i tend to judge guys on here for their personalities rather than their age."

As do most i assume, so if a 20+ mature, level-headed young man with a great personality wanted to meet you and you found him attractive would you say yes or no?

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Age means nothing. If you get on well and the attraction is there, go for it. Since i signed up to fab when i was 40 I've had my share of fun with guys in their 20s (the mature ones who know how reigns work) and I've come across some people in their 50s as well who definitely floated my boat.

Would defo stay clear of people looking for daddies mind

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Why would anyone want to meet someone the same age as their children though!

R

I have a stepson who is 43 and my own son who is 26. Both are men and its men that i am on Fab to meet. I have encountered some ridiculously childish older men and some very wise younger men so i tend to judge guys on here for their personalities rather than their age.

As do most i assume, so if a 20+ mature, level-headed young man with a great personality wanted to meet you and you found him attractive would you say yes or no?"

I always say no & explain why.

As I said, it's all down to personal choice. I have my rules & others have their own.

R

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

I'm 44 my husband was 55.

Maybe only 10 years difference but it worked for us for nearly 23 years

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Age means nothing. If you get on well and the attraction is there, go for it. Since i signed up to fab when i was 40 I've had my share of fun with guys in their 20s (the mature ones who know how reigns work) and I've come across some people in their 50s as well who definitely floated my boat.

Would defo stay clear of people looking for daddies mind "

Haha yea if they can work the reigns and are legal of course. Sure it’ll be fine any age on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I often wonder if guys considering this have daughters in that age bracket, and how they'd feel about them hooking up with guys that age.

Especially on here

My daughter fits into that age range and is living with a man who is 15 years her senior, Whats wrong with it? they have 2 beautiful twin boys, a gorgeous house, both working and earn their own money and shes the happiest I have seen her in her whole life, which as her father I am eternally grateful for so I am not getting what you meant by your last statement?ask your daughter to bang one of her friends you will soon find out lol"

Stupid statement, for one shes in a relationship and would never cheat on her partner and secondly shes straight and has no males friend her own age to as you so eloquently put it 'bang' him.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Why would anyone want to meet someone the same age as their children though!

R

I have a stepson who is 43 and my own son who is 26. Both are men and its men that i am on Fab to meet. I have encountered some ridiculously childish older men and some very wise younger men so i tend to judge guys on here for their personalities rather than their age.

As do most i assume, so if a 20+ mature, level-headed young man with a great personality wanted to meet you and you found him attractive would you say yes or no?"

Months ago i would have said no but lately im more likely to think i would. We only live once and i plan to live my life how i choose and not how other people think i should.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Age means nothing. If you get on well and the attraction is there, go for it. Since i signed up to fab when i was 40 I've had my share of fun with guys in their 20s (the mature ones who know how reigns work) and I've come across some people in their 50s as well who definitely floated my boat.

Would defo stay clear of people looking for daddies mind

Haha yea if they can work the reigns and are legal of course. Sure it’ll be fine any age on here."

Should've maybe said guys in their 20s, that really meant late 20s. Don't fall under the creepy category yet

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I often wonder if guys considering this have daughters in that age bracket, and how they'd feel about them hooking up with guys that age.

Especially on here

My daughter fits into that age range and is living with a man who is 15 years her senior, Whats wrong with it? they have 2 beautiful twin boys, a gorgeous house, both working and earn their own money and shes the happiest I have seen her in her whole life, which as her father I am eternally grateful for so I am not getting what you meant by your last statement?ask your daughter to bang one of her friends you will soon find out lol

Stupid statement, for one shes in a relationship and would never cheat on her partner and secondly shes straight and has no males friend her own age to as you so eloquently put it 'bang' him."
ehhhh you eloquently put bang one of your daughters female friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would anyone want to meet someone the same age as their children though!

R

I have a stepson who is 43 and my own son who is 26. Both are men and its men that i am on Fab to meet. I have encountered some ridiculously childish older men and some very wise younger men so i tend to judge guys on here for their personalities rather than their age.

As do most i assume, so if a 20+ mature, level-headed young man with a great personality wanted to meet you and you found him attractive would you say yes or no?

Months ago i would have said no but lately im more likely to think i would. We only live once and i plan to live my life how i choose and not how other people think i should."

So your comment previously "Why would anyone want to meet someone the same age as their children though! goes out the window then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I often wonder if guys considering this have daughters in that age bracket, and how they'd feel about them hooking up with guys that age.

Especially on here

My daughter fits into that age range and is living with a man who is 15 years her senior, Whats wrong with it? they have 2 beautiful twin boys, a gorgeous house, both working and earn their own money and shes the happiest I have seen her in her whole life, which as her father I am eternally grateful for so I am not getting what you meant by your last statement?ask your daughter to bang one of her friends you will soon find out lol

Stupid statement, for one shes in a relationship and would never cheat on her partner and secondly shes straight and has no males friend her own age to as you so eloquently put it 'bang' him.ehhhh you eloquently put bang one of your daughters female friends"

where? copy and paste it into here

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Your the one asking the queation or have you confused yourself

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Why would anyone want to meet someone the same age as their children though!

R

I have a stepson who is 43 and my own son who is 26. Both are men and its men that i am on Fab to meet. I have encountered some ridiculously childish older men and some very wise younger men so i tend to judge guys on here for their personalities rather than their age.

As do most i assume, so if a 20+ mature, level-headed young man with a great personality wanted to meet you and you found him attractive would you say yes or no?

Months ago i would have said no but lately im more likely to think i would. We only live once and i plan to live my life how i choose and not how other people think i should.

So your comment previously "Why would anyone want to meet someone the same age as their children though! goes out the window then "

Yes. I have recently met some very nice people who made me change my outlook on life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your the one asking the queation or have you confused yourself"

And i said show me where i said that, if you cant do that stay quiet son, you are making a fool of yourself

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Why would anyone want to meet someone the same age as their children though!

R

I have a stepson who is 43 and my own son who is 26. Both are men and its men that i am on Fab to meet. I have encountered some ridiculously childish older men and some very wise younger men so i tend to judge guys on here for their personalities rather than their age.

As do most i assume, so if a 20+ mature, level-headed young man with a great personality wanted to meet you and you found him attractive would you say yes or no?

Months ago i would have said no but lately im more likely to think i would. We only live once and i plan to live my life how i choose and not how other people think i should.

So your comment previously "Why would anyone want to meet someone the same age as their children though! goes out the window then "

You are getting Bluebell & myself mixed up I think. I stand by my original post & always sign off the same way. Everyone has a choice & I have mine.

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would anyone want to meet someone the same age as their children though!

R

I have a stepson who is 43 and my own son who is 26. Both are men and its men that i am on Fab to meet. I have encountered some ridiculously childish older men and some very wise younger men so i tend to judge guys on here for their personalities rather than their age."

I agree

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Your the one asking the queation or have you confused yourself"

Celebrities do it with folk younger than their kids and no one moans.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Your the one asking the queation or have you confused yourself

And i said show me where i said that, if you cant do that stay quiet son, you are making a fool of yourself "
lol son get over yourself.

your op I presume is about you meeting with a fem aged 20-30 so instead of reading all about it ask your daughter to have relations eloquently enough) with one of her fem friends in that age group

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would anyone want to meet someone the same age as their children though!

R

I have a stepson who is 43 and my own son who is 26. Both are men and its men that i am on Fab to meet. I have encountered some ridiculously childish older men and some very wise younger men so i tend to judge guys on here for their personalities rather than their age.

As do most i assume, so if a 20+ mature, level-headed young man with a great personality wanted to meet you and you found him attractive would you say yes or no?

Months ago i would have said no but lately im more likely to think i would. We only live once and i plan to live my life how i choose and not how other people think i should.

So your comment previously "Why would anyone want to meet someone the same age as their children though! goes out the window then

You are getting Bluebell & myself mixed up I think. I stand by my original post & always sign off the same way. Everyone has a choice & I have mine.

R "

The same choice that we can all have no matter what age difference?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Your the one asking the queation or have you confused yourself

Celebrities do it with folk younger than their kids and no one moans. "
im not moaning folk can and will do what pleases them.

the op is off to ibiza according to his previous posts which he was having trouble coming to terms with.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Why would anyone want to meet someone the same age as their children though!

R

I have a stepson who is 43 and my own son who is 26. Both are men and its men that i am on Fab to meet. I have encountered some ridiculously childish older men and some very wise younger men so i tend to judge guys on here for their personalities rather than their age.

As do most i assume, so if a 20+ mature, level-headed young man with a great personality wanted to meet you and you found him attractive would you say yes or no?

Months ago i would have said no but lately im more likely to think i would. We only live once and i plan to live my life how i choose and not how other people think i should.

So your comment previously "Why would anyone want to meet someone the same age as their children though! goes out the window then

You are getting Bluebell & myself mixed up I think. I stand by my original post & always sign off the same way. Everyone has a choice & I have mine.

R

The same choice that we can all have no matter what age difference? "

I don't change my choice for anyone! My profile, my choice, my rules. Everyone else can make their own mind up.

R

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm sure lots of people wouldn't meet me because I'm too old for them. If that's their choice then I respect that.

R

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your the one asking the queation or have you confused yourself

And i said show me where i said that, if you cant do that stay quiet son, you are making a fool of yourself lol son get over yourself.

your op I presume is about you meeting with a fem aged 20-30 so instead of reading all about it ask your daughter to have relations eloquently enough) with one of her fem friends in that age group"

See there you go and assume something that is incorrect, where in my original post did i say it was about me? I said a man...

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Your the one asking the queation or have you confused yourself

And i said show me where i said that, if you cant do that stay quiet son, you are making a fool of yourself lol son get over yourself.

your op I presume is about you meeting with a fem aged 20-30 so instead of reading all about it ask your daughter to have relations eloquently enough) with one of her fem friends in that age group

See there you go and assume something that is incorrect, where in my original post did i say it was about me? I said a man... "
ahhh got it asking for a friends amazing how many questions are for a friend chin up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your the one asking the queation or have you confused yourself

And i said show me where i said that, if you cant do that stay quiet son, you are making a fool of yourself lol son get over yourself.

your op I presume is about you meeting with a fem aged 20-30 so instead of reading all about it ask your daughter to have relations eloquently enough) with one of her fem friends in that age group

See there you go and assume something that is incorrect, where in my original post did i say it was about me? I said a man... ahhh got it asking for a friends amazing how many questions are for a friend chin up "

No not for a friend but for any male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's legal, and no one is getting hurt what's it got to do with me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's legal, and no one is getting hurt what's it got to do with me."

At last !! common sense prevails lol cheers Doc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've pretty much always gone older.

So long as it's safe sane and consensual just get on with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've pretty much always gone older.

So long as it's safe sane and consensual just get on with it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh near me 53 years young go on but older for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ah daddy thing a lot of rubbish...I have always met men at least 20.years older with a few exceptions

But I'm no.spring chicken any more lol"

Perhaps not age wise Ann but your body could give some of the young lassies a run for their money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer your original question OP...the thought of a 20yr old female old with a man in his early 50's does not sit well with me for some of the reasons already given. Whilst 20 somethings may seem to be more savvy nowadays with online dating etc, none of that can replace life experience. But, legally the girl in question would be an adult so crack on if that's your thing.

I couldn't fuck any one young enough to be my kid....just how I'm made. And I regularly receive messages from guys in their early 20s offering me the shag of my life. I'm probably too cynical as I often suspect a 44yr mother of 2 is just something on their bucket list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wonder if guys considering this have daughters in that age bracket, and how they'd feel about them hooking up with guys that age.

Especially on here

Would be even more awkward for a parent to see their son/daughter on here, or vice-versa

"
My daughter is on here , met her partner at a private party . Don't feel weird to us .Just don't go on each others profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To answer your original question OP...the thought of a 20yr old female old with a man in his early 50's does not sit well with me for some of the reasons already given. Whilst 20 somethings may seem to be more savvy nowadays with online dating etc, none of that can replace life experience. But, legally the girl in question would be an adult so crack on if that's your thing.

I couldn't fuck any one young enough to be my kid....just how I'm made. And I regularly receive messages from guys in their early 20s offering me the shag of my life. I'm probably too cynical as I often suspect a 44yr mother of 2 is just something on their bucket list. "

Is that why you keep turning me down Mrs..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To answer your original question OP...the thought of a 20yr old female old with a man in his early 50's does not sit well with me for some of the reasons already given. Whilst 20 somethings may seem to be more savvy nowadays with online dating etc, none of that can replace life experience. But, legally the girl in question would be an adult so crack on if that's your thing.

I couldn't fuck any one young enough to be my kid....just how I'm made. And I regularly receive messages from guys in their early 20s offering me the shag of my life. I'm probably too cynical as I often suspect a 44yr mother of 2 is just something on their bucket list. "

I wish people would stop assuming I asked the question in relation to myself, if you look above you'll see that I said I wouldn't go near any female who was the same age as my daughter who is 23.

The question I asked was 'a male'not me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your original question was in the context of fab, so that's what I'm basing my response on.

I still dont see what your point is but its ok I will just assume you dont have a valid point and that all men aged above are sick old perverts who should be ashamed of themselves for even thinking he could attract a much younger female.

My assumption is that I don't think many 20 year old women are emotionally mature enough to negotiate some of the goings on here, and it might not give them a healthy view of sexual relationships.

Which is quite different to what you said

And is that the way you thought at 20 years old, times have changed a lot in that time have they not? girls these days are mostly experiencing the dating world online so know how exactly what they are looking or searching for, its very unlikey but not possible that they will find a meet or date the old fashioned way of actually going outside to a bar or club and find one, doesn't mean it never happens but not as often as you think, so you now speak on behalf of them do you? "

If I had a daughter who at 20 joined here to meet guys at least twice her age I'd be wondering where I went wrong with her.

I haven't claimed anywhere to be speaking on behalf of young women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To answer your original question OP...the thought of a 20yr old female old with a man in his early 50's does not sit well with me for some of the reasons already given. Whilst 20 somethings may seem to be more savvy nowadays with online dating etc, none of that can replace life experience. But, legally the girl in question would be an adult so crack on if that's your thing.

I couldn't fuck any one young enough to be my kid....just how I'm made. And I regularly receive messages from guys in their early 20s offering me the shag of my life. I'm probably too cynical as I often suspect a 44yr mother of 2 is just something on their bucket list.

I wish people would stop assuming I asked the question in relation to myself, if you look above you'll see that I said I wouldn't go near any female who was the same age as my daughter who is 23.

The question I asked was 'a male'not me..."

The "your thing" I referred to was directed at any one reading the thread. We are all adults here, so legally folk can do whatever the fuck the like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex and I had a 22 year age gap but still had 10+ years of happiness and are still good friends.

I suppose it was a little different from just having a shag but each to their own and if that's what they like then who is anyone to judge?

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

My dad used to be in a relationship with a woman who actually went to school with my sister. At first we were shocked and worried that he would be made a fool of but it turned out they had a great relationship and we were happy for them.

I myself used to date only older men when I was in my twenties (eg I was 22 he was 46). There was no daddy issues I just fancied him.

When I hit my 30s my tastes changed and I prefer younger men now.

If it’s not hurting anyone and no one is being taken advantage of then what’s the harm?

Mrs

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Dave grohl just turned 50. I wouldn't rule him out pretty sure if I were 5 years younger then I still wouldn't

On here it's very easy to make a judgement based on age but meeting someone in a club or a vanilla setting you're most likely not wearing a badge with your age on it so people make a judgement based on your looks and personality. I'd rather go with that than a number.

I'm saying that... Younger is off-putting for me. Especially 4 years younger or more. There's an ick factor there for me. Older is more an issue when someone looks and acts it (yes, I'm that shallow).

Fully understand the point of people not wanting to meet anyone the same age as their kids. I'm sure in 15/20 years I'd say the exact same.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet women who are 25 years older than me, no less

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your original question was in the context of fab, so that's what I'm basing my response on.

I still dont see what your point is but its ok I will just assume you dont have a valid point and that all men aged above are sick old perverts who should be ashamed of themselves for even thinking he could attract a much younger female.

My assumption is that I don't think many 20 year old women are emotionally mature enough to negotiate some of the goings on here, and it might not give them a healthy view of sexual relationships.

Which is quite different to what you said

And is that the way you thought at 20 years old, times have changed a lot in that time have they not? girls these days are mostly experiencing the dating world online so know how exactly what they are looking or searching for, its very unlikey but not possible that they will find a meet or date the old fashioned way of actually going outside to a bar or club and find one, doesn't mean it never happens but not as often as you think, so you now speak on behalf of them do you?

If I had a daughter who at 20 joined here to meet guys at least twice her age I'd be wondering where I went wrong with her.

I haven't claimed anywhere to be speaking on behalf of young women.

"

Maybe not but your u seem to know what a 20+ year old female might do, I know it's only your opinion but it doesn't mean it's right the same as my opinion but let's agree to disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your original question was in the context of fab, so that's what I'm basing my response on.

I still dont see what your point is but its ok I will just assume you dont have a valid point and that all men aged above are sick old perverts who should be ashamed of themselves for even thinking he could attract a much younger female.

My assumption is that I don't think many 20 year old women are emotionally mature enough to negotiate some of the goings on here, and it might not give them a healthy view of sexual relationships.

Which is quite different to what you said

And is that the way you thought at 20 years old, times have changed a lot in that time have they not? girls these days are mostly experiencing the dating world online so know how exactly what they are looking or searching for, its very unlikey but not possible that they will find a meet or date the old fashioned way of actually going outside to a bar or club and find one, doesn't mean it never happens but not as often as you think, so you now speak on behalf of them do you?

If I had a daughter who at 20 joined here to meet guys at least twice her age I'd be wondering where I went wrong with her.

I haven't claimed anywhere to be speaking on behalf of young women.

Maybe not but your u seem to know what a 20+ year old female might do, I know it's only your opinion but it doesn't mean it's right the same as my opinion but let's agree to disagree."

It seems quite important to you for others to agree that you are right.

I've given an opinion...I haven't claimed to be right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to think that younger men are just piss taking.

Older men I can understand sort of.

I'm not great looking so why would they go for me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your original question was in the context of fab, so that's what I'm basing my response on.

I still dont see what your point is but its ok I will just assume you dont have a valid point and that all men aged above are sick old perverts who should be ashamed of themselves for even thinking he could attract a much younger female.

My assumption is that I don't think many 20 year old women are emotionally mature enough to negotiate some of the goings on here, and it might not give them a healthy view of sexual relationships.

Which is quite different to what you said

And is that the way you thought at 20 years old, times have changed a lot in that time have they not? girls these days are mostly experiencing the dating world online so know how exactly what they are looking or searching for, its very unlikey but not possible that they will find a meet or date the old fashioned way of actually going outside to a bar or club and find one, doesn't mean it never happens but not as often as you think, so you now speak on behalf of them do you?

If I had a daughter who at 20 joined here to meet guys at least twice her age I'd be wondering where I went wrong with her.

I haven't claimed anywhere to be speaking on behalf of young women.

Maybe not but your u seem to know what a 20+ year old female might do, I know it's only your opinion but it doesn't mean it's right the same as my opinion but let's agree to disagree.

It seems quite important to you for others to agree that you are right.

I've given an opinion...I haven't claimed to be right"

Not necessarily, I have agreed and disagreed of different aspects of my thread the difference is i ask a specific question and as per usual some folk misinterpret what it meant, I am not here to rectify or even justify for that matter if they don't understand fully what I wrote that's down to them but i do take on board your opinion as all other opinions that where given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask your questions more clearly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ask your questions more clearly "

Its perfectly clear, you just didn't understand it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask your questions more clearly

Its perfectly clear, you just didn't understand it "

Dumb it down for me, summarise it in a sentence

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"Ask your questions more clearly

Its perfectly clear, you just didn't understand it "

Its maybe getting confused because of your other post about going on holiday with some women in their 20s

You can see how people might conflate the two ideas

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ask your questions more clearly

Its perfectly clear, you just didn't understand it

Dumb it down for me, summarise it in a sentence "

Why? so you still wouldn't understand it? I got better things to be getting on with, are you just determined to have the last word?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you look good enough, it doesn't matter what age you are. If Jeff Goldblum was on here I'd jump at a chance to meet him but you don't get many 60+ year olds like that in real life. Alas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask your questions more clearly

Its perfectly clear, you just didn't understand it

Dumb it down for me, summarise it in a sentence

Why? so you still wouldn't understand it? I got better things to be getting on with, are you just determined to have the last word?"

Come now Tarzan...this ain't the jungle. Let me make sure I've answered your question properly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you look good enough, it doesn't matter what age you are. If Jeff Goldblum was on here I'd jump at a chance to meet him but you don't get many 60+ year olds like that in real life. Alas."

Its refreshing to see a man of Jeff's stature not giving into having plastic surgery and deciding on growing old gracefully, more power to that man i say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ask your questions more clearly

Its perfectly clear, you just didn't understand it

Dumb it down for me, summarise it in a sentence

Why? so you still wouldn't understand it? I got better things to be getting on with, are you just determined to have the last word?

Come now Tarzan...this ain't the jungle. Let me make sure I've answered your question properly "

Take it to pm then, I want other peoples opinions not just yours, if not then let it be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask your questions more clearly

Its perfectly clear, you just didn't understand it

Dumb it down for me, summarise it in a sentence

Why? so you still wouldn't understand it? I got better things to be getting on with, are you just determined to have the last word?

Come now Tarzan...this ain't the jungle. Let me make sure I've answered your question properly

Take it to pm then, I want other peoples opinions not just yours, if not then let it be."

I don't want to talk to you in private though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ask your questions more clearly

Its perfectly clear, you just didn't understand it

Dumb it down for me, summarise it in a sentence

Why? so you still wouldn't understand it? I got better things to be getting on with, are you just determined to have the last word?

Come now Tarzan...this ain't the jungle. Let me make sure I've answered your question properly

Take it to pm then, I want other peoples opinions not just yours, if not then let it be.

I don't want to talk to you in private though "

Well in that case our conversation ends here but I wish you well on you're fab voyage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that's me told!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it realistic to think that a good looking, fit and healthy male say in his late 40' early 50's can meet a young female 20-30 year old on Fab?

I have seen a few posts regrading this topic and most views usually say that its not really ever going to happen unless said female is looking for a 'daddy' like man to meet up with her.

What's your views folks? Me , I think its not beyond the realms of reality aslong as they both find each other attractive and are looking to have fun and not to be thinking about the age gap, but as i said that's only my opinion."

Its quite common infact for an older man on here to meet a younger female, yes definitely.

Yes I have met a couple of younger females last year and had fantastic times with them. Not specifically the daddy type, just had time together and fun and lasted a while.

Some younger females want the daddy roleplay and some younger females just want to sample the experience of being with an older man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lollllllll

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it realistic to think that a good looking, fit and healthy male say in his late 40' early 50's can meet a young female 20-30 year old on Fab?

I have seen a few posts regrading this topic and most views usually say that its not really ever going to happen unless said female is looking for a 'daddy' like man to meet up with her.

What's your views folks? Me , I think its not beyond the realms of reality aslong as they both find each other attractive and are looking to have fun and not to be thinking about the age gap, but as i said that's only my opinion.

Its quite common infact for an older man on here to meet a younger female, yes definitely.

Yes I have met a couple of younger females last year and had fantastic times with them. Not specifically the daddy type, just had time together and fun and lasted a while.

Some younger females want the daddy roleplay and some younger females just want to sample the experience of being with an older man "

Perfectly summed up Peter, hopefully a certain person will read it and take note but I somehow don#t think that will happen

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Is it realistic to think that a good looking, fit and healthy male say in his late 40' early 50's can meet a young female 20-30 year old on Fab?

I have seen a few posts regrading this topic and most views usually say that its not really ever going to happen unless said female is looking for a 'daddy' like man to meet up with her.

What's your views folks? Me , I think its not beyond the realms of reality aslong as they both find each other attractive and are looking to have fun and not to be thinking about the age gap, but as i said that's only my opinion.

Its quite common infact for an older man on here to meet a younger female, yes definitely.

Yes I have met a couple of younger females last year and had fantastic times with them. Not specifically the daddy type, just had time together and fun and lasted a while.

Some younger females want the daddy roleplay and some younger females just want to sample the experience of being with an older man

Perfectly summed up Peter, hopefully a certain person will read it and take note but I somehow don#t think that will happen"

Can I ask why anyone should “take note” of someone else’s opinion? You asked for opinions, everyone’s are different for different reasons that’s par for the course

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it realistic to think that a good looking, fit and healthy male say in his late 40' early 50's can meet a young female 20-30 year old on Fab?

I have seen a few posts regrading this topic and most views usually say that its not really ever going to happen unless said female is looking for a 'daddy' like man to meet up with her.

What's your views folks? Me , I think its not beyond the realms of reality aslong as they both find each other attractive and are looking to have fun and not to be thinking about the age gap, but as i said that's only my opinion.

Its quite common infact for an older man on here to meet a younger female, yes definitely.

Yes I have met a couple of younger females last year and had fantastic times with them. Not specifically the daddy type, just had time together and fun and lasted a while.

Some younger females want the daddy roleplay and some younger females just want to sample the experience of being with an older man

Perfectly summed up Peter, hopefully a certain person will read it and take note but I somehow don#t think that will happen

Can I ask why anyone should “take note” of someone else’s opinion? You asked for opinions, everyone’s are different for different reasons that’s par for the course "

I was getting different opinions as what I asked for in my op I just didn't want to have the same persons opinion that was hell bent on taking away from the actual question I asked and not her ideas as to what she thought I had asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was getting different opinions as what I asked for in my op I just didn't want to have the same persons opinion that was hell bent on taking away from the actual question I asked and not her ideas as to what she thought I had asked."

You need to remember Tarzan, some people are on the forums to ruin posts, start arguments, take posts off route. Some actually openly state this on other posts. Don't take it personally and don't try to explain yourself. Let everyone have their view regarding the questions on the post. If some just want to wind it up, let them and just ignore them

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Is it realistic to think that a good looking, fit and healthy male say in his late 40' early 50's can meet a young female 20-30 year old on Fab?

I have seen a few posts regrading this topic and most views usually say that its not really ever going to happen unless said female is looking for a 'daddy' like man to meet up with her.

What's your views folks? Me , I think its not beyond the realms of reality aslong as they both find each other attractive and are looking to have fun and not to be thinking about the age gap, but as i said that's only my opinion.

Its quite common infact for an older man on here to meet a younger female, yes definitely.

Yes I have met a couple of younger females last year and had fantastic times with them. Not specifically the daddy type, just had time together and fun and lasted a while.

Some younger females want the daddy roleplay and some younger females just want to sample the experience of being with an older man

Perfectly summed up Peter, hopefully a certain person will read it and take note but I somehow don#t think that will happen

Can I ask why anyone should “take note” of someone else’s opinion? You asked for opinions, everyone’s are different for different reasons that’s par for the course "
because the hive mentality means if yours is diffrent its wrong so must be corrected by attempting to " show how wrong you are" with matching views by those who agree with you

independant thinking is a wrongful sin........apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He also needs to remember that once you post a thread asking for opinions you don't get to decide who posts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was getting different opinions as what I asked for in my op I just didn't want to have the same persons opinion that was hell bent on taking away from the actual question I asked and not her ideas as to what she thought I had asked.

You need to remember Tarzan, some people are on the forums to ruin posts, start arguments, take posts off route. Some actually openly state this on other posts. Don't take it personally and don't try to explain yourself. Let everyone have their view regarding the questions on the post. If some just want to wind it up, let them and just ignore them "

Good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their presences and I’ve seen plenty of girls my age say they find much older guys attractive. Maybe it is a fetish relating to the daddy thing but who cares eh, everyone has their own kinks and turns on, just make the best of it; and it really is quite popular!

Look it it this way, I’m 21 and absolutely meet a woman that age if I was attracted to her. So it’s applicabkw to women too.

Good luck mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a girl who’s man is older than her parents what I find weird is the four of them always go on holidays etc together and act like best mates out drinking at weekend together I don’t get it litterally no other social groups of friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When in my 20s I slept with a few women old enough to be my mum 40+, but that didn't affect me in anyway. They was happy and so was I.

So now i find myself in my 40s and have slept with a couple of females in their 20s. I find nothing wrong with either act,every person involved was happy to participate..... especially me.

If both people are more than happy for it to happen then great. If people are against it for what ever reason then great. All be happy and enjoy what you do.

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By *loobookMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Just came across this post and it seems to have brought up some controversy - Im a 49yo guy tho i dont look it - my regular swing partner is 25 - i dont have kids so i kinda get how some people might find that weird but ultimatly we enjoy each others company a lot - she likes the older guys - always has - and ive always dated younger women - we are both enjoying it tho not a couple - at the end of the day i care not a jot for anyone who thinks its wrong etc - i dont know you - it isnt harming you or affecting your life - same goes for anyones sexuality - be happy for people being happy - just my 2 cents - bloo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know a girl who’s man is older than her parents what I find weird is the four of them always go on holidays etc together and act like best mates out drinking at weekend together I don’t get it literally no other social groups of friends "

the two of them going on holiday with her parents, definitely not

Oufft, fecked that lolol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know a girl who’s man is older than her parents what I find weird is the four of them always go on holidays etc together and act like best mates out drinking at weekend together I don’t get it literally no other social groups of friends

the two of them going on holiday with her parents, definitely not

Oufft, fecked that lolol

"

Can you imagine if they where staying in the next room to her parents? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just came across this post and it seems to have brought up some controversy - Im a 49yo guy tho i dont look it - my regular swing partner is 25 - i dont have kids so i kinda get how some people might find that weird but ultimatly we enjoy each others company a lot - she likes the older guys - always has - and ive always dated younger women - we are both enjoying it tho not a couple - at the end of the day i care not a jot for anyone who thinks its wrong etc - i dont know you - it isnt harming you or affecting your life - same goes for anyones sexuality - be happy for people being happy - just my 2 cents - bloo x"

Spot on Bloo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know a girl who’s man is older than her parents what I find weird is the four of them always go on holidays etc together and act like best mates out drinking at weekend together I don’t get it literally no other social groups of friends

the two of them going on holiday with her parents, definitely not

Oufft, fecked that lolol

Can you imagine if they where staying in the next room to her parents? Lol"

Can you imagine the 4 of them wur sharing one big feck off room

lolllllllllllllllllllllll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know a girl who’s man is older than her parents what I find weird is the four of them always go on holidays etc together and act like best mates out drinking at weekend together I don’t get it literally no other social groups of friends

the two of them going on holiday with her parents, definitely not

Oufft, fecked that lolol

Can you imagine if they where staying in the next room to her parents? Lol

Can you imagine the 4 of them wur sharing one big feck off room

lolllllllllllllllllllllll "

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just came across this post and it seems to have brought up some controversy - Im a 49yo guy tho i dont look it - my regular swing partner is 25 - i dont have kids so i kinda get how some people might find that weird but ultimatly we enjoy each others company a lot - she likes the older guys - always has - and ive always dated younger women - we are both enjoying it tho not a couple - at the end of the day i care not a jot for anyone who thinks its wrong etc - i dont know you - it isnt harming you or affecting your life - same goes for anyones sexuality - be happy for people being happy - just my 2 cents - bloo x

Spot on Bloo "

True if it's not hurting anyone and it's consensual who gives a feck. Personally the youngest girl I've been with is 10yr younger it never bothered us or any of our mates.

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local


"I often wonder if guys considering this have daughters in that age bracket, and how they'd feel about them hooking up with guys that age.

Especially on here"

Could say the exact same for the women who go for younger guys!

Let's not start gender bashing!

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local


"Why would anyone want to meet someone the same age as their children though!

R

I have a stepson who is 43 and my own son who is 26. Both are men and its men that i am on Fab to meet. I have encountered some ridiculously childish older men and some very wise younger men so i tend to judge guys on here for their personalities rather than their age."

Well said!

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By *witcherooMan
over a year ago

Muirhead

Great chance of it happening on here. Just depends on how much the “escort” wants paid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great chance of it happening on here. Just depends on how much the “escort” wants paid. "

I got £4.59, a pkt of spearmint, a free button and a snotty handkerchief in my pockets, she welcome to them as that's all I got

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By *witcherooMan
over a year ago

Muirhead

That’s a button more than I’ve got

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That’s a button more than I’ve got "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wonder if guys considering this have daughters in that age bracket, and how they'd feel about them hooking up with guys that age.

Especially on here

Could say the exact same for the women who go for younger guys!

Let's not start gender bashing!"

The Op wasn't about that though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve had couples in their early 30s contact us but we’ve pretty much rejected all those approaches. We tend to think the chance of a meet with a couple 20 years younger is very low so not worth the chat/risk of exchanging face pics.

It’s not an age thing as our kids are much younger but we just believe a fit, attractive 30s couple won’t be looking for a 50s couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on fab when i was 20 and he was 48 so it does happen.

Im nearly 24 and hes nearly 53 now.

We are engaged and live together to

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local

A lot of these comments above go on what ppl THINK, ie it's not actually reality.

A lot of perception and people view of the world being shared which is fine, but always remember someone's opinion is always based o their view of the world - including their personal experience of life with and without traumatic life experiences!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people on this thread saying if their 20 year old daughter joined here to meet older guys,they would ask themselves where they went wrong

So would they ask the same question if she joined to meet only girls?

It's called freedom of choice,im with my man because i want to be,im not going thro a phase,held against my will or with him cos he has money.

I am actually the one with the money

No one should think they have the right to tell an adult male/female who to be with.

They could end up losing a son or daughter for being stuck in the 17th centuary and being narrow minded.

End of rant

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local

And why is THIS lifestyle ok for them but not ok for their kids...?

Height of hypocrisy if you ask me!

Again, this is only an opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless both people in a couples relationship are born on the same second,minute,hour,day,month and year, then they have an age gap.

Who died and made them the age gap police who say "ah 15 years gap is ok but 16 isnt"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who knows. My 40 year old husband left me for a 25 year old. She then left him for a 50 year old.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Who knows. My 40 year old husband left me for a 25 year old. She then left him for a 50 year old. "
pmsl never happens they all live happily ever after

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

It’s not unrealistic OP, we know a couple that have a 36 year age gap with the older gentleman being in his late 60’s!

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wonder if guys considering this have daughters in that age bracket, and how they'd feel about them hooking up with guys that age.

Especially on here"

My thoughts exactly,. I feel the same when younger guys ask me to meet..I think God no same age as my kids doesn't sit well with me but heh each to their own..

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local

If you feel sick at the thought it is because you are not comfortable with some element of swinging or a sexual life and sexual experience.

When ppl say it makes them eeeek or squirm or makes them uncomfortable, you are speak ing from your view of reality based on your life experience which will include any negative experience or abuse, remembered or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you feel sick at the thought it is because you are not comfortable with some element of swinging or a sexual life and sexual experience.

When ppl say it makes them eeeek or squirm or makes them uncomfortable, you are speak ing from your view of reality based on your life experience which will include any negative experience or abuse, remembered or not!"

Right you are Freud

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local


"

Right you are Freud "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would anyone want to meet someone the same age as their children though!

R

I have a stepson who is 43 and my own son who is 26. Both are men and its men that i am on Fab to meet. I have encountered some ridiculously childish older men and some very wise younger men so i tend to judge guys on here for their personalities rather than their age."

Love this response X

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I don't think age should matter if you are both happy together and want to be together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would anyone want to meet someone the same age as their children though!

R

I have a stepson who is 43 and my own son who is 26. Both are men and its men that i am on Fab to meet. I have encountered some ridiculously childish older men and some very wise younger men so i tend to judge guys on here for their personalities rather than their age.

Love this response X "

Love it too but is it so apt.

There are all types on here, age and in wisdom and some acting childish from younger person but also childish people who are older than myself and you think, seriously. .

I have my preference set and go by that preference, there are people of all ages whom I enjoy being in their company and there are people of all ages whom I do not or would not enjoying being in their company.

I totally understand each individual older persons choice not to meet, date, fuck someone who is the same age or closer an age to their own children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer older men.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Disgusting all those big age gaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere around my age is ideal.

Few years older or younger will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're looking for someone 35-45?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're looking for someone 35-45?"

Is 46 deemed to old then?

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By *ecret-64Couple
over a year ago

Wrexham

Looking for older male for long term relationship.

Pm if interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's unrealistic. When I was young I liked an older man... Now I'm older I like a younger man lol

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By *clayairMan
over a year ago

central west

Old guy here,

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By *clayairMan
over a year ago

central west

It’s just a fantasy -yes!

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