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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m all for swapping face pics of us as a couple, and if the other profile isn’t interested and say “sorry, you/your man isn’t my type” that’s absolutely fine, don’t take offence and we move on...

But...when I send a pic and they reply with “are you sure he’s 32? Looks like he’s had a very hard paper round” I find that pretty insulting! Or is that just me? I also feel I should delete the message so my man doesn’t read it as this can have quite a knock in confidence..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete the message but tell him to check the forum instead

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I’m all for swapping face pics of us as a couple, and if the other profile isn’t interested and say “sorry, you/your man isn’t my type” that’s absolutely fine, don’t take offence and we move on...

But...when I send a pic and they reply with “are you sure he’s 32? Looks like he’s had a very hard paper round” I find that pretty insulting! Or is that just me? I also feel I should delete the message so my man doesn’t read it as this can have quite a knock in confidence..

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its a hard one in written form it doesnt carry inflection this could have been written in jest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m all for swapping face pics of us as a couple, and if the other profile isn’t interested and say “sorry, you/your man isn’t my type” that’s absolutely fine, don’t take offence and we move on...

But...when I send a pic and they reply with “are you sure he’s 32? Looks like he’s had a very hard paper round” I find that pretty insulting! Or is that just me? I also feel I should delete the message so my man doesn’t read it as this can have quite a knock in confidence..

"

Delete, block and move on , some people have no respect and politness. There is no need to be offensive ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being funny but if actually said this to guys before.

Never saw your partner but so many guys do lie about their ages and when they get called out on it admit it.

I'd have laughed it off and said aye it's living with me that's done it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Brilliant!

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

So only you and the other couple knew this but you decide to share on a forum ! Why worry about what strangers on a sex site say, I think you need to grow a thicker skin tbh

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"So only you and the other couple knew this but you decide to share on a forum ! Why worry about what strangers on a sex site say, I think you need to grow a thicker skin tbh"

Get him to wear a belt at least

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was just a general question I asked...

As I said, we accept when others don’t find one of us or both attractive, just don’t see the need to be ‘rude’ about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was just a general question I asked...

As I said, we accept when others don’t find one of us or both attractive, just don’t see the need to be ‘rude’ about it. "

Well it's a good job you didn't make a big scene about it at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was just a general question I asked...

As I said, we accept when others don’t find one of us or both attractive, just don’t see the need to be ‘rude’ about it. "
I don't think it was rude I think they were just saying what they felt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP don't even give it a second thought

I'm everyone's dream ..and countless many mores nightmare lol

Don't care x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put his face up as your profile pic and we can decide if the comment was warranted

Only kidding....I'd just think "cheeky bastard" but move on. No point in splitting hairs over a total stranger's opinion.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"I’m all for swapping face pics of us as a couple, and if the other profile isn’t interested and say “sorry, you/your man isn’t my type” that’s absolutely fine, don’t take offence and we move on...

But...when I send a pic and they reply with “are you sure he’s 32? Looks like he’s had a very hard paper round” I find that pretty insulting! Or is that just me? I also feel I should delete the message so my man doesn’t read it as this can have quite a knock in confidence..

"

Your only on 4 weeks, give it 4 months you will be taking those kind of let downs as a compliment. As said just laugh it off or get gobby like doggy. Her man was a paper delivery boy when he entered doggys garden. She sunk her teeth in and hes never escaped.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m all for swapping face pics of us as a couple, and if the other profile isn’t interested and say “sorry, you/your man isn’t my type” that’s absolutely fine, don’t take offence and we move on...

But...when I send a pic and they reply with “are you sure he’s 32? Looks like he’s had a very hard paper round” I find that pretty insulting! Or is that just me? I also feel I should delete the message so my man doesn’t read it as this can have quite a knock in confidence..

Your only on 4 weeks, give it 4 months you will be taking those kind of let downs as a compliment. As said just laugh it off or get gobby like doggy. Her man was a paper delivery boy when he entered doggys garden. She sunk her teeth in and hes never escaped. "

We’ve been on here nearly a year but I started off as a single profile for ff fun

I get what everyone’s saying, just wondering what thoughts people had and if I was being too ‘offended’ by it...

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By *hrekfionaCouple
over a year ago

Leven

We have had your man is not our type, or female half is attracted to your partner.

I find it more cheeky, after all we are taught it's what on the inside that counts.

I have spoke to a few guys that weren't lookers but oh my they knew what they were doing!

So everyone should be giving the chance even if it's a social first you might feel different after that.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"We have had your man is not our type, or female half is attracted to your partner.

I find it more cheeky, after all we are taught it's what on the inside that counts.

I have spoke to a few guys that weren't lookers but oh my they knew what they were doing!

So everyone should be giving the chance even if it's a social first you might feel different after that. "

Sorry I disagree.... if we are not attracted to them we will not waste our time or their time meeting for a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with the above..

No initial attraction no point meeting.

Not here to meet friends for coffee?.

It's a sex site after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely think that if you are the kind of person who worries about what people think then Fab probably isn’t the best place to be!

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife


"I’m all for swapping face pics of us as a couple, and if the other profile isn’t interested and say “sorry, you/your man isn’t my type” that’s absolutely fine, don’t take offence and we move on...

But...when I send a pic and they reply with “are you sure he’s 32? Looks like he’s had a very hard paper round” I find that pretty insulting! Or is that just me? I also feel I should delete the message so my man doesn’t read it as this can have quite a knock in confidence..

"

Haha fantastic question as a couple we got things ...

Your man is a lucky guy and punching above his !!!&&@££! ...??

My Mrs isn’t sure there’s an attraction with your man sorry !! If we do meet and there’s still no attraction we can still play swap with you and hubby can watch ?? Pmsl

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Haha and I can pop out for half an hour for some shopping, chancing buggers out there ????

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife

Oh and more often than not if you ask the insulting couple probably most important..,

So how long have you guys been a couple ?

Been together 6 days now ?? Haha there’s uout answer xx

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Ive commented the other way as some guys have msgd me and looked way younger than their profile says but i wouldnt be rude about it x

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

That's the issue with messages - no way to convey tone. Could have been a dick, could have been a joke. No way to know really. At least they replied! we've had a few that have disappeared after a face pic. It's just what happens. We've done the same

V x

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By *itness_FornicatorsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

How rude, I would just say nothing if I didn't fancy someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can be such rude arseholes! dont say anything at all...if can't say something nice x

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By *b12345678Man
over a year ago

Highlands

Some people think it’s acceptable to be rude on here - they’d never even think of saying something like that to someone in person

Just block them & move on

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"I’m all for swapping face pics of us as a couple, and if the other profile isn’t interested and say “sorry, you/your man isn’t my type” that’s absolutely fine, don’t take offence and we move on...

But...when I send a pic and they reply with “are you sure he’s 32? Looks like he’s had a very hard paper round” I find that pretty insulting! Or is that just me? I also feel I should delete the message so my man doesn’t read it as this can have quite a knock in confidence..

Your only on 4 weeks, give it 4 months you will be taking those kind of let downs as a compliment. As said just laugh it off or get gobby like doggy. Her man was a paper delivery boy when he entered doggys garden. She sunk her teeth in and hes never escaped.

We’ve been on here nearly a year but I started off as a single profile for ff fun

I get what everyone’s saying, just wondering what thoughts people had and if I was being too ‘offended’ by it..."

Being honest OP , yes i think you are being to offended. Dont let it spoil your fun on here. You wont play with some husbands from the couple and say so , i bet the feelings are similar to him no matter how you let someone down whether gently or by a joke. Guys on Fab know they wont be everyones cup of tea . Laugh it off, block and move on. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s disgusting.

There’s no need to for anyone to be like that.

Just delete the message and block the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m all for swapping face pics of us as a couple, and if the other profile isn’t interested and say “sorry, you/your man isn’t my type” that’s absolutely fine, don’t take offence and we move on...

But...when I send a pic and they reply with “are you sure he’s 32? Looks like he’s had a very hard paper round” I find that pretty insulting! Or is that just me? I also feel I should delete the message so my man doesn’t read it as this can have quite a knock in confidence..

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Just block and move on. If hubby trusts your judgment to block someone for whatever reason then there's no need to let him know why. Or if you want reminded why then add a private note reminding you about the offensive/disrespectful person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore it.

The rudeness of some on here used to really piss me off when we first joined, now I just let it go over my head.

The longer you're here, the more you realise that there are more genuinely decent folk than there are idiots.

Don't let the small minority spoil your fun.

L x

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By *haring is caring ABCCouple
over a year ago

near edinburgh/borders


"Was just a general question I asked...

As I said, we accept when others don’t find one of us or both attractive, just don’t see the need to be ‘rude’ about it. "

There always folk who will be rude block and move on it’s fab

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By *haring is caring ABCCouple
over a year ago

near edinburgh/borders


"People can be such rude arseholes! dont say anything at all...if can't say something nice x"

Well said

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife


"I’m all for swapping face pics of us as a couple, and if the other profile isn’t interested and say “sorry, you/your man isn’t my type” that’s absolutely fine, don’t take offence and we move on...

But...when I send a pic and they reply with “are you sure he’s 32? Looks like he’s had a very hard paper round” I find that pretty insulting! Or is that just me? I also feel I should delete the message so my man doesn’t read it as this can have quite a knock in confidence..

Your only on 4 weeks, give it 4 months you will be taking those kind of let downs as a compliment. As said just laugh it off or get gobby like doggy. Her man was a paper delivery boy when he entered doggys garden. She sunk her teeth in and hes never escaped.

We’ve been on here nearly a year but I started off as a single profile for ff fun

I get what everyone’s saying, just wondering what thoughts people had and if I was being too ‘offended’ by it...

Being honest OP , yes i think you are being to offended. Dont let it spoil your fun on here. You wont play with some husbands from the couple and say so , i bet the feelings are similar to him no matter how you let someone down whether gently or by a joke. Guys on Fab know they wont be everyones cup of tea . Laugh it off, block and move on. X"

???????????? just worked this one out talk about slow or what ahh duck off a waters back and guys were much tougher than we look

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I imagine he’ll be fine. The insults on fab are pretty steady and normally worse. So need to have a tough skin.

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