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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When viewing certain profiles . The heading is always the same “ Once again another time waster or no show “ . When you then suggest that you are available message is read but no reply. Does it not strike you that you are looking in the wrong place and they wonder why guys get pissed off on this . Also the site is very clique and to get involved in the “ swinging scene “ you have to attend certain socials or cj’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When viewing certain profiles . The heading is always the same “ Once again another time waster or no show “ . When you then suggest that you are available message is read but no reply. Does it not strike you that you are looking in the wrong place and they wonder why guys get pissed off on this . Also the site is very clique and to get involved in the “ swinging scene “ you have to attend certain socials or cj’s "

What are you hoping would happen? If you joined fab thinking every message you sent would result in you getting sex then you've joined the wrong site, going to parties and mixing with fellow like minded folks may get you a meet but again nothing is guaranteed. Oh and a silhouette avatar isn't going to make you stand out, try putting a decent nice pic of yourself and that may change. best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am not expecting sex from every message but some have the arrogance and cheek to to not reply at all and then give it the big yahoo as if they are a sex god ffs .

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

I am a bit wary of messaging a profile let alone replying to ones with no pic...got something to hide maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When viewing certain profiles . The heading is always the same “ Once again another time waster or no show “ . When you then suggest that you are available message is read but no reply. Does it not strike you that you are looking in the wrong place and they wonder why guys get pissed off on this . Also the site is very clique and to get involved in the “ swinging scene “ you have to attend certain socials or cj’s "

I understand it might be frustrating but sometimes people get loads of messages and can't message everyone back. I agree with other commenter if you stand out a wee bit more than avatar image may change things a bit. Not everyone's in a clique either i regularly go cjs and fab socials myself...as I'm here to make friends as well as have meets i want to enjoy it all.

Good luck and show off that bod more! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Av not got anything to hide at all . I work in a job that does require me to be discreet as it is a large construction company I work for in managerial position. Wouldn’t mind the socials aspect of things if I could get to find out what is going on lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Av not got anything to hide at all . I work in a job that does require me to be discreet as it is a large construction company I work for in managerial position. Wouldn’t mind the socials aspect of things if I could get to find out what is going on lol . "

They always post on here about Socials, ill pm u info ..n the fun for all nights are great at CJs xx

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"Av not got anything to hide at all . I work in a job that does require me to be discreet as it is a large construction company I work for in managerial position. Wouldn’t mind the socials aspect of things if I could get to find out what is going on lol . "

Way to be discreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Av not got anything to hide at all . I work in a job that does require me to be discreet as it is a large construction company I work for in managerial position. Wouldn’t mind the socials aspect of things if I could get to find out what is going on lol . "
why don't you go along to one off the quiz nights where it would be a smaller group off people , and put up something rather than the Silhouette all these things help , now if your not willing to make the effort then best thing to do is stop moaning ,

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

If someone messages me with no pics i dont reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of every reply here, the only thing that I perked up at , no not like that! Was the mention of a quiz night!

I loves me a quiz!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Av not got anything to hide at all . I work in a job that does require me to be discreet as it is a large construction company I work for in managerial position. Wouldn’t mind the socials aspect of things if I could get to find out what is going on lol . "

Am sure everyone doesn't want their boss or family members and friends to know they are on here just like you but you can't have it both ways bud, we are all on here for one reason or another so even receiving a message from a female is an achievement in itself, being patient is way more important a factor on here as having a massive ego will get you nowhere, am not suggesting you have a massive ego but your still a newbie, give it time, add more pics and join in on the chatrooms and forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Av not got anything to hide at all . I work in a job that does require me to be discreet as it is a large construction company I work for in managerial position. Wouldn’t mind the socials aspect of things if I could get to find out what is going on lol .

Am sure everyone doesn't want their boss or family members and friends to know they are on here just like you but you can't have it both ways bud, we are all on here for one reason or another so even receiving a message from a female is an achievement in itself, being patient is way more important a factor on here as having a massive ego will get you nowhere, am not suggesting you have a massive ego but your still a newbie, give it time, add more pics and join in on the chatrooms and forums. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah look at me, regularly post in forums and 90% of time get bummed for it, but hey that's what it is all about, bit of fun and banter, love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Av not got anything to hide at all . I work in a job that does require me to be discreet as it is a large construction company I work for in managerial position. Wouldn’t mind the socials aspect of things if I could get to find out what is going on lol .

Am sure everyone doesn't want their boss or family members and friends to know they are on here just like you but you can't have it both ways bud, we are all on here for one reason or another so even receiving a message from a female is an achievement in itself, being patient is way more important a factor on here as having a massive ego will get you nowhere, am not suggesting you have a massive ego but your still a newbie, give it time, add more pics and join in on the chatrooms and forums. "

Are you a patient man?

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

To be honest we would block you also for having no pics.

Nothing personal involved just part of our selection process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op as much as it is frustrating for you please bare in mind that females and couple's get a hell of a lot of messages that are very hard to reply to especially since we can't be on here every minute of the day, go and have a think about the ratio of men to women and couple's there is a huge difference. We all have to be trusting and feel safe about meeting someone for the first time so most people will want to meet socially for safety reasons plus neeri f in clubs is a great way to meet folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Av not got anything to hide at all . I work in a job that does require me to be discreet as it is a large construction company I work for in managerial position. Wouldn’t mind the socials aspect of things if I could get to find out what is going on lol .

Am sure everyone doesn't want their boss or family members and friends to know they are on here just like you but you can't have it both ways bud, we are all on here for one reason or another so even receiving a message from a female is an achievement in itself, being patient is way more important a factor on here as having a massive ego will get you nowhere, am not suggesting you have a massive ego but your still a newbie, give it time, add more pics and join in on the chatrooms and forums.

Are you a patient man? "

Not really but am also not a desperate one pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op as much as it is frustrating for you please bare in mind that females and couple's get a hell of a lot of messages that are very hard to reply to especially since we can't be on here every minute of the day, go and have a think about the ratio of men to women and couple's there is a huge difference. We all have to be trusting and feel safe about meeting someone for the first time so most people will want to meet socially for safety reasons plus neeri f in clubs is a great way to meet folk"
Meeting in clubs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Av not got anything to hide at all . I work in a job that does require me to be discreet as it is a large construction company I work for in managerial position. Wouldn’t mind the socials aspect of things if I could get to find out what is going on lol .

Am sure everyone doesn't want their boss or family members and friends to know they are on here just like you but you can't have it both ways bud, we are all on here for one reason or another so even receiving a message from a female is an achievement in itself, being patient is way more important a factor on here as having a massive ego will get you nowhere, am not suggesting you have a massive ego but your still a newbie, give it time, add more pics and join in on the chatrooms and forums.

Are you a patient man?

Not really but am also not a desperate one pmsl"

There's evidence to the contrary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of every reply here, the only thing that I perked up at , no not like that! Was the mention of a quiz night!

I loves me a quiz!"

Can't beat a good quiz

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By *r humanMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Think meet at social or swingers club like after eight or cjs good ideal safe that way women and men not all women time to Reply on fab might work look after family not forget get near 400 message day look at

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