FabSwingers.com forum: CANCER

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi folks .. i'm pretty sure there is no one on here that has not been affected with cancer in one way or another !!myself personay has recently found out my mother has been diagnosed with it and its terminal...although theres is nothing i can do to save her raising funds for research may save another ..thats the best i can wish for..

so in saying that i intend to at next ayrshire social is to be waxed ..and i mean waxed chest back sac ab crack from neck down it goes so i'm askinm my fab friends to dig deep an lets make it wotrt while

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"hi folks .. i'm pretty sure there is no one on here that has not been affected with cancer in one way or another !!myself personay has recently found out my mother has been diagnosed with it and its terminal...although theres is nothing i can do to save her raising funds for research may save another ..thats the best i can wish for..

So sorry to hear this hun my heart goes out to you im in a similar position with my dad and now myself very worthy cause ...... on a lighter note if its happening on the nite il have ten strips please and lets ripppppppppppppppppppppppppp ouch lol

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

just had a recent close call with the disease myself - i'm one of the lucky ones and my tumours turned out to be benign. my heart goes out to you hun will message you in pm to discuss donation. not much i'm afraid as only a student but will find something.(((hugs)))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lots my mum suddenly to lung cancer just over 5 years ago and a good friend of mine lost his father in October. Am happy to make a donation hon. Let me know how.

Dess xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry to hear of your loss and heartened that you are trying to do something positive out of it. Let me know how to donate.

A couple of paracetamol beforehand may help.... In a placebo kind of way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Puck m8 .... count us in ..... let us know details for paying donations ..

a worthy cause m8

So very sorry to read about your mum , know your pain m8.

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I have to work with terminally ill children who suffere from C and CF and it's a horrible disease but raising those funds do help and can also make the last few years for people more comfortable. If you can give to local wards, certainly in Aberdeen it is well used and helps children/adults hugely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lost my nephew puck to it just in novemeber he was only 29 so i hope it raises loads and hope your time with mum left is best you have xxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

many thanks for all your comments

soon as i have things organised i'll let manyone intrested know how an where to donate

an again thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put my name down for a donation, a very good cause. I am one of the lucky ones diagnosed early, been clear now two and a half years, fingers crossed. Good luck and all the best. Andy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my!! good on u hunni, this gets my money

Can I rip a strip of u?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

puck fella fully understand what your going through and aiming to raise funds is a great way to do it..

been there myself and with family too, let me know how to donate....couple of stiff drams before the show m8 and choose the sadistic rippers with caution, good luck

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By *ussman1Man
over a year ago

Paisley

let me know how to make donation. Lost wife to this dreadful illness three years ago.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi folks and again ty for your support

anyone wishing to donate to this really worthwhile cause can send donations to paypal honeybags@hotmail.com or if attending march social there will be ppl collecting on night i'm also thinking of holding small raffle on night where winners actually get to pull some strips ....give some of you a chance to get your own back on me lol

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"I'm sorry to hear of your loss and heartened that you are trying to do something positive out of it. Let me know how to donate.

A couple of paracetamol beforehand may help.... In a placebo kind of way!

Words are never enough but we is standing with you Puck.

Not sure about the paracetamol - think you need a leather belt - to bite when your fur gets ripped away - I'm sure there must be a teacher or two on FAB who would happily lend you the taws for the night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear about that mate. I myself have had cancer twice as well as family members so heart goes out to u mate. Tell us where to donate and will gladly help the cause. Plus be a laugh to see the pain etched onto your face lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

will make sure i have a strip.....of tickets that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im rippin an strippin them aff an also collectin the cash so gawd help ye awe yer goin hame skint hahahahhahh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

word of advice - don't get strip waxed on your sac and that whole area. use hot wax and get a professional to do it. you dont want your skin ripped of. being serious lol

good luck and hope you raise loads mate

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Taz has got a good point, hot wax for that area is better. God help us all sioux hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks for your concern guys ...and yeah it has been said i'm bit mental ...but i'm not daft ...i will have a profesional there who will be doing the bulk of waxing and will oversee the lucky ones who win raffle to rip strips off ...so everything will be done with safety in mind ...i can take the pain i just dont wanny lose ma bawsac in process lol

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

Good luck on that as this is something close to my heart also, having lost family and friends to this disease including just last yr i think if i remember and i know a few that are also in remission as well.

Best of Luck and yeah ouch to all them parts being waxed...you might not feel the pain, but im thinking many guys that night might just be wincing for you when you get the sensitive areas done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cant remember if i got told this or if i read it in the news, a while ago a guy did a similar thing for charity purposes at a pub, and he ended up in hospital because they used strip wax on his bawsac, apparently ripped four layers of skin off and nearly lost his testicles :/ Ouch!

Anyway was thinking maybe more guys should step up to the challenge and also get waxed on the night, in order to raise more money? just a thought and idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

excellent cause babe and i will give you a donation in person when i see you as wont make the social. i really wanted to rip a strip off to

As you know ive been through the same with my mum and lost her 12 yrs ago. theres not a day goes past i dont miss her so cherish every day you can and you know were i am if you want to talk just give me a call babes.

love you honey xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

aww ty honey luv ya too babes xxlook forward to seeing you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lost 5 members of my family to cancer in the last few years, including both of my parents.

I'll certainly donate something

Well done puck

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

A gentleman today in Tesco was asking for donation's for breast cancer charity and he is being waxed. He appeared to also be one hair man!:o

SO another guy in a similar position and he was saying he has done this before and actually loved the buzz of it all!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i actually done it before a few years back to raise money for breast cancer when a good friend of mine who's on here was diagnosed with it although then it was just my chest but still managed to raise over £400

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Well Done, that's a great amount!

Here's hoping for a similar total or above

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just bumpin this

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By *az n _avy42Couple
over a year ago

Ayr

this was not agreed to be done at the ayrshire social, was in discussion,

but anyone wanting to help puck with donations please feel free to look at the paypal account that is set up,

we are both sorry to hear about your mother and thinking of you both on theses sad times,

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I think with the support shown on the forum for Puck to do the waxing at the ayrshire social shows that a lot of people think this is very worthwhile.

Perhaps davy u should think again about it happening there and I am sure there isnt a venue anywhere which would disagree with money being raised for charity.

Sorry to hear the organiser thinks its a no go.

Good luck in raising cash for this charity where ever you choose to do it Puck and i also hope people dont pull out of the social now that the event isnt going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pull out at their peril loz im still takin awe their cash aff those who do come lol xxxxx

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

lmao sioux , i am sure they would be shaking in their boots when u have ur bucket shaking in there direction , good luck with all the collecting for the cancer charity which ever one puck is choosing to donate to. xxx

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By *avy42Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire

ok for people reading this,

1, i aint stopping a social night for 1 hour or more when there is food about,

2 nothing was said to me about charity raffel,

3 someone out of fab swingers coming to an event is a no go area,

4 we do charity stuff thats also close to jans heart as people know when she just lost her dad with illness,

5, i am not heartless, but this was a social event for people to come and have fun enjoying there night,

6, it was also disscused he could maybe do it at valentines or ayrshire social, as we never agreed,

IF anyone wants to cancel there place at the social as we are not agreeing to this please let us know,

if enough cancellations, we will cancel social, and return peoples payments,

we are not heartless, we could set up a charity night if someone asks us to do one for them as agreed,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ppl i wanny thank everyone for there support its muchly appreciated

point 1 ..davy it was discussed with you at lenth i discussed it with you before i started this thread

point 2 the proffesional that had agreed to do the waxing is actually a fab member ( been on here long enough to know rules about non members attending socials)

point 3 ..no one asked to actually stop social nor would it be near any foodstuffs it would have been done at the side where if anyone wanted to come watch they could those that wanted to carry on dancin well thats what socials are for

point 4 charity raffle was just an idea for on the night for ppl to participate

however i take on board you objections and will myself arrange another night fot it to take place where we can focus on raising money for this fantastic charity

and again folk i thank you for your support

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Will watch for ur posting at a future date puck and will hopefully manage along , good luck . xxx

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By *avy42Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire

as said to you in a message,

we never talked in length,

we said if we agreed we would sort something out but wait till we sort out few problems here,

we do support charity events,

but we have done all the running around, paying hall, dj,food,

and also said to you if you held a charity event we would be prepared to help you at a future time,

so please do not make us out the bad ones on this post as its seems that way,

p,s the charity for cancer,

what charity are you giving it as no mention on forum post nor to us,

also you did state the person was not on fab, so we said no to this,

this is well blowing out of propotion, and would be best this forum post deleted,

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

maybe the tit for tat would be better suited in private, this would allow sufferers of this terrible disease a little dignity.

well done with the intent to raise funds and I am happy to donate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe the tit for tat would be better suited in private, this would allow sufferers of this terrible disease a little dignity.

well done with the intent to raise funds and I am happy to donate.

i agree

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I think the grievances you both have with each other would be better done in pm rather than open forums .

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By *avy42Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire

as said, think this forum post should be deleted,

and for people who think we are being hard on here, we aint,

jan has also had cancer, and another cancer scare two years ago and we do understand where puck is coming from,

if puck wants any help in setting up a charity night ayrshire or glasgow, we would help in any way we can,

if puck and others agree, we will see if we can do one in june, and anyone invited, not just off fab as will be a charity night for cancer research,

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I think the grievances you both have with each other would be better done in pm rather than open forums .

Could'nt agree more!

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