FabSwingers.com forum: Straight Talking ??

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

What kind of person are you ... ??

A straight talker who says things as they are and calls a spade a spade

Someone who says what they think people want to hear ?

Personally im very much a straight talker but not to the point where id hurt someone with nasty words deliberalty altho have been known to in anger but always appologise once its been brought to my attention or i realise myself.

Some dont like me for my straight talking but thats their problem not mine and some respect me for it

How about you straight talker or suger and spice ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider myself quite straight talkng...

I would love to fuck you

( class that as straight talking? ) lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i allways say what i feel

even if it does come across wrong

no point in beeting about the bush and if you cant be stright then whats the point

but and a big but , if its work then i might thro a curve ball if needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being bi can I say I'm a STRAIGHT talker?

Seriously, saying it the way t is has landed me in hot water at work many times over the years. I don't go out of my way to hurt anyone's feelings though and apologise if I do but I'm definitely not a yes person or a nodding dog!

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

It's simplifying things waaaay too much think we can be classified as either of the above. I'd say I'm neither.

Lins

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I am a straight talker...to the point of bluntness at time. This does not mean that I do not think about what I am about to say...and know what the impact maybe...not always good...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think alot of people on here will just say anything if it helps there chances of a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, and we say it as it is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to be intelligent about it, brain in gear mouth in neutral. If it needs saying and its delicate, be diplomatic about it. If its a friend being a tool, it's your job to say it how it is.

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Me like to think me is straight talking in a diplomatic way. But being human i do sometimes get it wrong. Always try to think before i jump in wi both feet. But i don't sign up for all that PC malarkey. A spade was never a gardening implement when i were a lad. Lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"You have to be intelligent about it, brain in gear mouth in neutral. If it needs saying and its delicate, be diplomatic about it. If its a friend being a tool, it's your job to say it how it is. "

so so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a straight talker, but there are ways to say things without being confrontational or hurtful in how you say it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strait talker ..... to a fault sometimes ..lol

Think i'm rather well known for it ....lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to call a spade a shovel; gets me into trouble from time to time, but hey, that's other folks' problem!

Can't be bothered with ponces and double-talkers!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say I was a bit of both. I'f something needs to be said I will try and say it in a polite way... Usually fail and end up insulting them.

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

"Being bi can I say I'm a STRAIGHT talker?

i dunno anna last time i saw you not much talking going on and a lot of head nodding was most definitely going on lol

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

"I'm a straight talker, but there are ways to say things without being confrontational or hurtful in how you say it. "

i agree with you how i would describe myself too

ps. love the onesy look hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight talker too...probably too much at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a straight talking gal if a friend asks me summit they will get a straight answer whether they want to hear it or not all friends know that but there are times its best to keep quiet so not to start a argument

Jess

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"It's simplifying things waaaay too much think we can be classified as either of the above. I'd say I'm neither.

Lins"

ffs shockarooney,a bird who cant make up her mind.

i usually just agree with everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think alot of people on here will just say anything if it helps there chances of a meet.

Or claim anything, ok, im sussed the DBS is a clio actually,,ok,,ok,,ok? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i try to be upfront an honest as i can be without upsetting folk.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

i dont say boo to a goose ......

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

im very submissive girl and therefore tend to go with the flow being honest.

howeever when i do have a blast people tend to know i mean it as not like me lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just say it as it is some people like that some dont tough shit they'll get over it

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I'am definately a straight talker but never rude about it and like to think i put things in a polite way without any bullshit! However having BPD my straight talking has got me into alot of trouble over the years, as i tend to just blurt things out without thinking and say things like it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say I'm cheesy, buy in a gd way. A few ppl don't know how to take my replies to msgs and blocked me because they prob think I'm being cheeky, but sometimes when you write something, ppl take it literally too much!

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think some people say they are a straight talker because they think that's what people want to hear. :p Personally I'm a cheeky git most of the time, straight talker (tempered with gentleness) when necessary, sometimes too honest, sometimes too reserved, sometimes too gregarious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer straight talking , sometimes it dont always come out way i want to say it but hey sorry dont come from me often so when said its ment ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me a straight talker.... Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer straight talking as well, cannot stand all the b.s associated with swinging, people should say what they mean, and mean what they say, lifes too short to faff about, with dithering, straight talking sometimes gets folk into bother, but then again isnt it just as well to be honest rather than string folk along?

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By *ancho_panzaMan
over a year ago

glasgow

would reaaaally like to be straight talking especially at work! outside of work depends on the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well what can i say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am usually just polite until the eejits start demanding then i get very straight taliking.... why cant folks just be nice or is it the usual with these sites where 10% are good honest folks followed by a large percentage who just like to think they are swingers with the final percentage being absolute twats with no sense of humour/manners/real world living???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on the situation . example going to a funeral , everyone talking about how nice the guy was etc etc im not likely to say sorry folks i thought he was a dick i only here for the food , or someone shows you a pic of thier kids and says how gorgeous are they ? Again not likely to say actually they look like a couple of cross breeds of shrecks and umpa loompas , however right circumstances yeah i am , it causes offence and no i dont really care, way i dee it is if they dont like the answer they shouldnt have asked me . not all negative though , sometimes works boith ways where folk are maybe unsure how they look , when they look amazing , or they low in cnfidence in life and yet they are amongst the martest folk i know , so like i said depends on the situation .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like to have my diplomatic hat on but always try to be straight and honest with folks...eapecially at work and on here!!!I won't lie about who I am.I'm short but deep!!?Lol.no point in lying,If you get caught it's the end of the line.Rather be honest than something I'm not.if you're trying to make friends why lie.If I upset someone or piss them off I WILL apologise...even if that's the final word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just Innocent and Bashful

Aherm

Buboo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight talking is great as long as what you say doesn't hurt someone unnecessarily. I think honesty, along with a bit of tact and diplomacy work best.

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank

ok here goes then future hubby when the feck is the date set for our wedding pmsl but yea me im one of them straight talkers with a slight diplomatic side to me lol xxxxx

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By *f123Man
over a year ago

central

a diplomat, sometimes you can say what you want to get across without offending is that straight to the point ? lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Honesty, along with a bit of tact and diplomacy work best but only if the person your speaking to realise your saying what your saying in their intrest and for a lot of people they dont know when it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straightt talkin, what here? In forums? Or actual talking to people?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

just straight talking tony here or in the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a straight talker saves people talking bull shit.

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