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By *orthern Delights OP   Couple
over a year ago

aberdeenshire/fife

Finding it so tough to find that elusive single female to join me and my partner. Any ideas.

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By *randMrsTeaseCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Finding it so tough to find that elusive single female to join me and my partner. Any ideas. "

Think most couples are finding it hard to find a woman.

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By *MCFUN5Couple
over a year ago

GLASGOW

There are some wonderful ladies that are part of couples that you may be overlooking

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Seems to be a common theme....

Probably more luck finding a unicorn

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By *orthern Delights OP   Couple
over a year ago

aberdeenshire/fife

The unicorn certainly is a hard thing to locate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Quite single lady here, But when u approach couples they run a mile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly a lot of couples who approach me see me as some sort of performing seal or free hooker. Not about my pleasure. All about theirs x

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By *els01Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

It can be hard being the single female. You find a lot of time it's females having fun then male join in. also get lots where it's what the guy wants - the ultimate 2 women fantasy and not necessarily what woman wants but something she's going along with

Then of course single guys is a completely different battlefield! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get a lot of " would the female like to meet us alone"

Eh,no how about your mrs meets us alone.

Silence ......

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Depends on how you define female

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By *MCFUN5Couple
over a year ago

GLASGOW


"Sadly a lot of couples who approach me see me as some sort of performing seal or free hooker. Not about my pleasure. All about theirs x"

That’s a shame you’ve been made to feel like that. Pleasure is mostly definitely for all were we are concerned. I hope 2019 is great for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hard also lol and I am a single fem!! alot of fake profiles n time wasters xx if your ever in Glasgow say hello ;-p

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By *ollyAmorousCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *MCFUN5Couple
over a year ago

GLASGOW


"I find it hard also lol and I am a single fem!! alot of fake profiles n time wasters xx if your ever in Glasgow say hello ;-p"

I don’t envy you, time wasters are multiple and we are a couple so god knows how many you encounter. We are outside your age otherwise I would have messaged you but good morning and hello anyway. All the best for this New Year x Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it hard also lol and I am a single fem!! alot of fake profiles n time wasters xx if your ever in Glasgow say hello ;-p

I don’t envy you, time wasters are multiple and we are a couple so god knows how many you encounter. We are outside your age otherwise I would have messaged you but good morning and hello anyway. All the best for this New Year x Mrs "

Same to you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly a lot of couples who approach me see me as some sort of performing seal or free hooker. Not about my pleasure. All about theirs x"

Exactly what she said ^

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"It can be hard being the single female. You find a lot of time it's females having fun then male join in. also get lots where it's what the guy wants - the ultimate 2 women fantasy and not necessarily what woman wants but something she's going along with

Then of course single guys is a completely different battlefield! xxx"

Single guys a battlefield?

I didn't realise we put up much of a fight?

I surrender!!

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife


"Finding it so tough to find that elusive single female to join me and my partner. Any ideas. "

Lol head down south there brought up somehow without fear lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly a lot of couples who approach me see me as some sort of performing seal or free hooker. Not about my pleasure. All about theirs x"

I think that's quite a common theme in here sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly a lot of couples who approach me see me as some sort of performing seal or free hooker. Not about my pleasure. All about theirs x"

Should be mutual pleasure always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I have been a dick to someone in this thread. Because I was blocked by them.

I would just like to publicly apologise. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I have been a dick to someone in this thread. Because I was blocked by them.

I would just like to publicly apologise. Sorry."

Never apologise.....Never show weakness

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By *pinCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We tend to just meet people on a night out or well the ones we already know. Spoke to a few on here but they’ve backed out. I don’t think we’ve came across as selfish and definitely not seen them as a free hooker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you quoting Christopher Walken?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I have been a dick to someone in this thread. Because I was blocked by them.

I would just like to publicly apologise. Sorry.

Never apologise.....Never show weakness "

And never speak of being blocked... The naughty step is cold and unforgiving... Although sometimes you do meet some classy people there... Isn't that right doggy.

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We seem to get on ok, find that meeting at socials and clubs works out better than chatting through fab. We’re definately not here just for his pleasure he’s more likely to get left out

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I have been a dick to someone in this thread. Because I was blocked by them.

I would just like to publicly apologise. Sorry.

Never apologise.....Never show weakness

Well you better make room on that naughty step!

And never speak of being blocked... The naughty step is cold and unforgiving... Although sometimes you do meet some classy people there... Isn't that right doggy. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Solution why not the 2 females meet first and have there playtime together and then proceed to the next level with the male included that way you don't feel your performing and your definitely not left out or just doing it for the msles satisfaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The free hooker vibe tends to be strong at the moment with couples and single guys.

I don't mind the guy joining in but I don't want to play exclusively with women or couples. I like men. And I'm a greedy so and so.

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By *pinCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"We seem to get on ok, find that meeting at socials and clubs works out better than chatting through fab. We’re definately not here just for his pleasure he’s more likely to get left out

K x"

Yup this

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

With two exceptions, the times we've met with a single female they've been part of a couple who've met us for some 4some fun together first. I can understand why it's far easier for them to meet as a single person in those circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly a lot of couples who approach me see me as some sort of performing seal or free hooker. Not about my pleasure. All about theirs x"
must change mine to short witty big arms well two are true lol

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife


"Sadly a lot of couples who approach me see me as some sort of performing seal or free hooker. Not about my pleasure. All about theirs xmust change mine to short witty big arms well two are true lol "

Any guest can be looked on as a added sex object or there to perform in some way for a couple but if it’s made clear and they still meet then ok

But last year I was invited to a couples house for fun but explained my concerns as was just starting out a single and blether for ages and finally asked me to strip and performed as well as I could have but beginning to get a bit concerned with a large alcohol intake and thanked them for inviting me and got abuse as I left but humble as I am just thanked again and leavjng heard fukcin wasted out night ya Cunt x

Hmmm single guys get a real roasting and most remain like gentlemen

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By *llyandjimCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"We seem to get on ok, find that meeting at socials and clubs works out better than chatting through fab.

We’re definately not here just for his pleasure he’s more likely to get left out

K x"

Same here

Definitely not here for the men mostly girly play for us.

Tho have been told no thx from single fems as Jim is not fully involved.

I was told from one tho she loves girly fun if she isn’t getting full sex it’s simply not worth it hmm never mind

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By *awtywifeCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Finding it so tough to find that elusive single female to join me and my partner. Any ideas. "
I feel most single females are only looking for girl fun ,and few want to play with a cpl. The ones that do send a message seem to be guys pretending.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know lots of single females who are bi and play with couples but if it’s hard trying to find one single guy I fancy enough to ply with I can’t imagine how a bi female copes trying to find a cpl that already come as a package where you find both of them attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being a single white male : /

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By *cotscouple85Couple
over a year ago

Dumfries

We struggle to find guys to join us, everyone is either using pictures that are years out of date or don't have the paitence to wait more than 10 mins for a reply before spamming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single bi fem here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly a lot of couples who approach me see me as some sort of performing seal or free hooker. Not about my pleasure. All about theirs x"

Unfortunately I think there is a grain of truth in this

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By *cotscouple85Couple
over a year ago

Dumfries


"Single bi fem here "

Your profile is brilliant, just to be clear you like Cops and no Cock pics!?! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single bi fem here

Your profile is brilliant, just to be clear you like Cops and no Cock pics!?! lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single bi fem here

Your profile is brilliant, just to be clear you like Cops and no Cock pics!?! lol "
well you know how some folk kinda manage to forget the cockpics part lol

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By *cotscouple85Couple
over a year ago

Dumfries


"Single bi fem here

Your profile is brilliant, just to be clear you like Cops and no Cock pics!?! lol well you know how some folk kinda manage to forget the cockpics part lol"

Yeah we experience that daily. A boaby pic followed by "Hi" we didn't know genitals could speak x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly a lot of couples who approach me see me as some sort of performing seal or free hooker. Not about my pleasure. All about theirs x

Unfortunately I think there is a grain of truth in this"

Surely you discuss what you are and aren’t comfortable with before you meet? As long as all are getting what they desire, there’s no one being “used”. If they’re unwilling to share the pleasure, simply decline to meet them?

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By *issxxx73Woman
over a year ago

my own world

Being bisexual can have its disadvantages....

Guys ask to meet me I tell them I’m looking for bi fems only for them to come back with I can meet you with my FB/FWB....

Eh no I meet Bi-Fems on my own. Been stung like this before on here, met a couple the girl was in no way shape or form Bi & was only meeting to please her partner she look so uncomfortable.

Play stopped immediately as there was no way I was forcing anyone to do something to satisfy their partner.

Did suggest if he wanted to see a slippery wet females performance, he should take himself down to the sea life centre plenty performing there daily it’s a cracking show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly a lot of couples who approach me see me as some sort of performing seal or free hooker. Not about my pleasure. All about theirs x"

They are obviously going to tell you what they want. It's your job to give your perspective and put forward your wants and needs. Not really their fault you. Not their fault your a bit sensitive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Know lots of single females who are bi and play with couples but if it’s hard trying to find one single guy I fancy enough to ply with I can’t imagine how a bi female copes trying to find a cpl that already come as a package where you find both of them attractive "

And this is the point... well said. The couples looking for a third is a very difficult dynamic to get right... never mind perfect... then there are age limits to consider... I feel the single Bi Womans pain...as well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Know lots of single females who are bi and play with couples but if it’s hard trying to find one single guy I fancy enough to ply with I can’t imagine how a bi female copes trying to find a cpl that already come as a package where you find both of them attractive

And this is the point... well said. The couples looking for a third is a very difficult dynamic to get right... never mind perfect... then there are age limits to consider... I feel the single Bi Womans pain...as well... "

What a lot of shite. A single bi female has the most choice on here. If they can't find what they are looking for it's maybe not everyone else that's the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Know lots of single females who are bi and play with couples but if it’s hard trying to find one single guy I fancy enough to ply with I can’t imagine how a bi female copes trying to find a cpl that already come as a package where you find both of them attractive

And this is the point... well said. The couples looking for a third is a very difficult dynamic to get right... never mind perfect... then there are age limits to consider... I feel the single Bi Womans pain...as well...

What a lot of shite. A single bi female has the most choice on here. If they can't find what they are looking for it's maybe not everyone else that's the problem "

Some maybe lucky and find playmates that suit their needs... but not all... its freedom of choice... but you are also correct, ingle bi females do have the most to choose from... but that's no bad thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single bi fem here

Your profile is brilliant, just to be clear you like Cops and no Cock pics!?! lol well you know how some folk kinda manage to forget the cockpics part lol

Yeah we experience that daily. A boaby pic followed by "Hi" we didn't know genitals could speak x"

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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

@kissed by fire:


"Sadly a lot of couples who approach me see me as some sort of performing seal or free hooker. Not about my pleasure. All about theirs x

Exactly what she said ^"

That’s sad to hear. We’re all about the experience for everyone involved. Xx

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By *981paul1981Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

As a guy I Shit myself going to meet couples sometimes between the pressure of making a good impression and hoping am not meeting a couple of nutters and getting in a bad situation is a lot God knows how a single woman would feel. Hope u guys find your unicorn there are a lot of really nice people on here

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