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"YAAAAY! “Mon the dad” bod indeed! I get the feeling fab males love and embrace female curves which makes curvaceous woman more confident. Wouldn’t it be great if we could do the same for us middle aged guys who are too busy with life responsibilities to spend 2 hours at the gym every day. Great post OP!
B x"Thanks buddy. I thought it was appropriate particularly after New Years (broken Resolutions & all), but moreover because I do think that modern media does put unfair pressure on guys as well as gals. We should celebrate the Dad Bod as much if not more so than the Gym Bunny. | |||
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"YAAAAY! “Mon the dad” bod indeed! I get the feeling fab males love and embrace female curves which makes curvaceous woman more confident. Wouldn’t it be great if we could do the same for us middle aged guys who are too busy with life responsibilities to spend 2 hours at the gym every day. Great post OP!
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Thanks buddy. I thought it was appropriate particularly after New Years (broken Resolutions & all), but moreover because I do think that modern media does put unfair pressure on guys as well as gals. We should celebrate the Dad Bod as much if not more so than the Gym Bunny. " | |||
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"I’ve been fortunate enough to meet up with many fit bods from Fab. However, I’m also realistic & realise that most of us don’t spend the majority of our time down the gym. So this thread is to show the Scottish Forum’s appreciation of The Dad Bod - folk who are not necessarily fit or overweight but somewhere nice in the middle. Perhaps a few curves that aren’t as toned because life demands they don’t spend every spare minute doing weights; still attractive that they catch your eye because they have “that certain something”; & folk you would be proud to be seen with. So ladies (& gents) let’s hear your appreciation of the Scottish Dad Bod either from your posts or by displaying your Dad Bod pics/avatar. ‘Mon the Dad Bods. "love a hairy chested dad bod on a guy | |||
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" love a hairy chested dad bod on a guy "What about a hairy back lol x | |||
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"Hairy dad bod here.. Also dad jokes and dad dancing.. (not a typo for bad jokes and bad dancing although they are both true also ) "As a dad, we hold the right to all of the above | |||
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"Iv a scottish mum bod "Shout out to the Scottish mum bods too.. Although this is a dad bod thread..  | |||
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"How about aspiring for a healthy body? I'm not sure what a dad body is even but no one needs a 6 pack to be healthy. Lifting weights and body fat percentage in single figures does not mean someone is fit or even that they are healthy. Doesn't mean they could run the length of themselves or last 15 mins in a game of 5 or 7 aside. The use of supplements including those that are notoriously dangerous for health such as steroids is wrecklesslessy common place in the persuit of vanity. Even creatine and whey protein used inappropriately can knacker your kidney function for life. We're all programmed genetically differently regardling body composition but I don't buy into this having life responsibilities and no time to spend 2 hours a day in the gym. That to me tells me that you aspire to change your body and that's an excuse. No one needs 2 hours a day to get functionally fit and through time everyones body will change. 20 - 30 minutes proper exercise every day/every other day anywhere (own home/garage/outside don't need gym memwbership) if you're properly motived and over time, will change your body, make you functionally fitter and stronger, less likely to be reliant on medication to control blood pressure and blood sugar and likely to live longer. If some of the responsibilities referred to are kids then that's a good thing, you can be around to see them when they're older and less likely to be dependent on them. This in addition to having a sensible diet and moderating booze. Lots of people would like to change their body shape but won't budge on their booze intake. Well they're deluding themselves. So rather than anyone celebrating something they'd like to change I suggest make the time, invest in yourself, because if you don't respect yourself enough to invest the time and energy in your own health and fitness why should anyone else be interested? "Agreed but we're celebrating the dad bod here mate. | |||
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"How about aspiring for a healthy body? I'm not sure what a dad body is even but no one needs a 6 pack to be healthy. Lifting weights and body fat percentage in single figures does not mean someone is fit or even that they are healthy. Doesn't mean they could run the length of themselves or last 15 mins in a game of 5 or 7 aside. The use of supplements including those that are notoriously dangerous for health such as steroids is wrecklesslessy common place in the persuit of vanity. Even creatine and whey protein used inappropriately can knacker your kidney function for life. We're all programmed genetically differently regardling body composition but I don't buy into this having life responsibilities and no time to spend 2 hours a day in the gym. That to me tells me that you aspire to change your body and that's an excuse. No one needs 2 hours a day to get functionally fit and through time everyones body will change. 20 - 30 minutes proper exercise every day/every other day anywhere (own home/garage/outside don't need gym memwbership) if you're properly motived and over time, will change your body, make you functionally fitter and stronger, less likely to be reliant on medication to control blood pressure and blood sugar and likely to live longer. If some of the responsibilities referred to are kids then that's a good thing, you can be around to see them when they're older and less likely to be dependent on them. This in addition to having a sensible diet and moderating booze. Lots of people would like to change their body shape but won't budge on their booze intake. Well they're deluding themselves. So rather than anyone celebrating something they'd like to change I suggest make the time, invest in yourself, because if you don't respect yourself enough to invest the time and energy in your own health and fitness why should anyone else be interested?
Agreed but we're celebrating the dad bod here mate."Are you sure? I think some people seem to be trying to justify it? There should be no need to have to justify any body type, it just seems to stem from insecurity to begin with. | |||
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"Its a term much the same as bbw its a justification for the way a person looks .....sorry "Justification or a description? | |||
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then that ranges to those who are most likely moribly obese and 5 years from a major heart attack also proclaiming 'dad bod'.
Apologies if I offend, I'm too tired and fed up to sugar coat.
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"For those ranting off topic to be self righteous or just questioning what a dad bod is... It's a bit like a woman saying she's curvy. Dad bod would be a formerly muscular, low body fat kind of guy who's given up some of the obsession in favour of family life so has lost a some of the muscle tone and put on a few lbs but still healthy. Still able to throw you down on the bed and toss you about a bit but better to cuddle after then that ranges to those who are most likely moribly obese and 5 years from a major heart attack also proclaiming 'dad bod'.
Apologies if I offend, I'm too tired and fed up to sugar coat.
V x"I assume you mean me by ranting or being self righteous? If so, you're wrong on both fronts. It wasn't either. And I'm not bothered if you're tired or fed up, aren't we all at times. It wasn't off topic, if you read some of the posts you will see that they are trying to justify a "dad bod". You will also see that I posted that no one should have to feel they need to justify any body type. But I also don't buy into excuses as to why anyone can't have a healthy body, and as you've seen I said for everyone that's different. | |||
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"Its a term much the same as bbw its a justification for the way a person looks .....sorry
Justification or a description?"justification its not an actual body type any person can and do claim it even if they have no children | |||
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"Ya dad bod guys are the best we are the funniest people " Your banter hasn't improved much | |||
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"Ya dad bod guys are the best we are the funniest people Your banter hasn't improved much "Ummmm excuse me how dare u my banter is total quality haha | |||
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Personally I just see Dad/Mum bods as accepting a stage in life when personal vanity isn't the most important thing anymore. Health is always still a priority of course, but enjoying your body as it is, and life's pleasures in general, takes precedence over chasing abs. That's certainly attractive to me, and to most other women on the thread it seems. | |||
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"...Dad/Mum bods as accepting a stage in life when personal vanity isn't the most important thing anymore..." Fab really need an applause icon for this comment. I also agree on the health bit. However I was more struck by the “vanity” bit. Whilst we can all have a little bit of vanity about ourselves I would never want vanity to consume what actually is truly beautiful on the inside, or make me ugly. Thanks for that post. | |||
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"For those ranting off topic to be self righteous or just questioning what a dad bod is... It's a bit like a woman saying she's curvy. Dad bod would be a formerly muscular, low body fat kind of guy who's given up some of the obsession in favour of family life so has lost a some of the muscle tone and put on a few lbs but still healthy. Still able to throw you down on the bed and toss you about a bit but better to cuddle after then that ranges to those who are most likely moribly obese and 5 years from a major heart attack also proclaiming 'dad bod'.
Apologies if I offend, I'm too tired and fed up to sugar coat.
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I assume you mean me by ranting or being self righteous?
If so, you're wrong on both fronts. It wasn't either. And I'm not bothered if you're tired or fed up, aren't we all at times.
It wasn't off topic, if you read some of the posts you will see that they are trying to justify a "dad bod".
You will also see that I posted that no one should have to feel they need to justify any body type. But I also don't buy into excuses as to why anyone can't have a healthy body, and as you've seen I said for everyone that's different. "Definitely self righteous and really not the point of the thread. Everyone loves a cock on a fab forum though 
Totally agree with the 'vanity isn't the most important thing' comment.
Neither are these forums.
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"Used to live in the gym 6 days a week sometimes doing double sessions pre fights Then at 35 I retired took up coaching Then at 40 packed it in altogether Now 57 with a Granda bod. Waist size is still hovering between 32-34 when it used to be 28 Got moobs now instead of pecs I know 30 mins a day for 3 days a week will tone it all for the summer but sounds too much like hard work now " I know, I need to set the alarm clock and get up in the morning, done first thing it sets you up for the day. And for me it's less to do with how it makes me look and more about how it makes me feel. Mr's heavier now than he used to be but still has the "phwoar" factor. | |||
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"Used to live in the gym 6 days a week sometimes doing double sessions pre fights Then at 35 I retired took up coaching Then at 40 packed it in altogether Now 57 with a Granda bod. Waist size is still hovering between 32-34 when it used to be 28 Got moobs now instead of pecs I know 30 mins a day for 3 days a week will tone it all for the summer but sounds too much like hard work now " You need to eat sensible to ,I walk atleast 30 mins a day with dog even more when I'm on shift ,but eat like a horse ,with my job in summer lose around 3lb a day with heat and strenuous nature of job ,my weight fluctuates between 75 and 93 kilos through the year but always havemoobs ,,,be proud of the moobs mate | |||
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Like many others, I need to improve my diet and get back to regular exercise.
Sexercise might be a better option, form an orderly queue ladies | |||
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"For those ranting off topic to be self righteous or just questioning what a dad bod is... It's a bit like a woman saying she's curvy. Dad bod would be a formerly muscular, low body fat kind of guy who's given up some of the obsession in favour of family life so has lost a some of the muscle tone and put on a few lbs but still healthy. Still able to throw you down on the bed and toss you about a bit but better to cuddle after then that ranges to those who are most likely moribly obese and 5 years from a major heart attack also proclaiming 'dad bod'.
Apologies if I offend, I'm too tired and fed up to sugar coat.
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"For those ranting off topic to be self righteous or just questioning what a dad bod is... It's a bit like a woman saying she's curvy. Dad bod would be a formerly muscular, low body fat kind of guy who's given up some of the obsession in favour of family life so has lost a some of the muscle tone and put on a few lbs but still healthy. Still able to throw you down on the bed and toss you about a bit but better to cuddle after then that ranges to those who are most likely moribly obese and 5 years from a major heart attack also proclaiming 'dad bod'.
Apologies if I offend, I'm too tired and fed up to sugar coat.
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"For those ranting off topic to be self righteous or just questioning what a dad bod is... It's a bit like a woman saying she's curvy. Dad bod would be a formerly muscular, low body fat kind of guy who's given up some of the obsession in favour of family life so has lost a some of the muscle tone and put on a few lbs but still healthy. Still able to throw you down on the bed and toss you about a bit but better to cuddle after then that ranges to those who are most likely moribly obese and 5 years from a major heart attack also proclaiming 'dad bod'.
Apologies if I offend, I'm too tired and fed up to sugar coat.
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"For those ranting off topic to be self righteous or just questioning what a dad bod is... It's a bit like a woman saying she's curvy. Dad bod would be a formerly muscular, low body fat kind of guy who's given up some of the obsession in favour of family life so has lost a some of the muscle tone and put on a few lbs but still healthy. Still able to throw you down on the bed and toss you about a bit but better to cuddle after then that ranges to those who are most likely moribly obese and 5 years from a major heart attack also proclaiming 'dad bod'.
Apologies if I offend, I'm too tired and fed up to sugar coat.
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I assume you mean me by ranting or being self righteous?
If so, you're wrong on both fronts. It wasn't either. And I'm not bothered if you're tired or fed up, aren't we all at times.
It wasn't off topic, if you read some of the posts you will see that they are trying to justify a "dad bod".
You will also see that I posted that no one should have to feel they need to justify any body type. But I also don't buy into excuses as to why anyone can't have a healthy body, and as you've seen I said for everyone that's different.
Definitely self righteous and really not the point of the thread. Everyone loves a cock on a fab forum though
Totally agree with the 'vanity isn't the most important thing' comment.
Neither are these forums.
Bye bye
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"Today's inspirational quote, 'I've met some pricks in my time, but you, sir, are a cactus'. "Thanks for your offering. With all due respect, if I need inspiration I'll look elsewhere!
I'm sure the fact that she knows she's got a real little trooper fighting her corner on here will make her feel less fed up and hopefully a little less tired too.
When you read the thread and each post on the thread including mine and what it actually says maybe you will appreciate that I haven't been self righteous nor taken the thread off track at all. I have made reference to the OP and previous posters and I clearly stated no one should feel like they have to justify any body type. I also stated that we are all individually genetically programmed so that our natural body composition is different.
Now if you have something insightful to say on the matter I'm all ears.
Or perhaps you think that 30 minutes exercise every other day in order to stay healthy is unrealistic and unachievable? I'm not really sure what your point is at all?? | |||
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. Besides having and keeping a 6 pack looks like waaay to much effort to get and maintain and I have a sweet tooth which would double the effort
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"Today's inspirational quote, 'I've met some pricks in my time, but you, sir, are a cactus'.
Thanks for your offering. With all due respect, if I need inspiration I'll look elsewhere!
I'm sure the fact that she knows she's got a real little trooper fighting her corner on here will make her feel less fed up and hopefully a little less tired too.
When you read the thread and each post on the thread including mine and what it actually says maybe you will appreciate that I haven't been self righteous nor taken the thread off track at all. I have made reference to the OP and previous posters and I clearly stated no one should feel like they have to justify any body type. I also stated that we are all individually genetically programmed so that our natural body composition is different.
Now if you have something insightful to say on the matter I'm all ears.
Or perhaps you think that 30 minutes exercise every other day in order to stay healthy is unrealistic and unachievable? I'm not really sure what your point is at all?? "How sweet of you to assume this was aimed at you... | |||
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"What is a dad bod? I am cunfuzled I thought it was fat. But someone said they like a dad bod but not a beer belly " No idea mate, no point asking me, I'm a cactus! | |||
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"What is a dad bod? I am cunfuzled I thought it was fat. But someone said they like a dad bod but not a beer belly " Someone that doesn't have a six pack but has a boabie. Check in the mirror and report back to us on 5 | |||
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"Today's inspirational quote, 'I've met some pricks in my time, but you, sir, are a cactus'.
Thanks for your offering. With all due respect, if I need inspiration I'll look elsewhere!
I'm sure the fact that she knows she's got a real little trooper fighting her corner on here will make her feel less fed up and hopefully a little less tired too.
When you read the thread and each post on the thread including mine and what it actually says maybe you will appreciate that I haven't been self righteous nor taken the thread off track at all. I have made reference to the OP and previous posters and I clearly stated no one should feel like they have to justify any body type. I also stated that we are all individually genetically programmed so that our natural body composition is different.
Now if you have something insightful to say on the matter I'm all ears.
Or perhaps you think that 30 minutes exercise every other day in order to stay healthy is unrealistic and unachievable? I'm not really sure what your point is at all??
How sweet of you to assume this was aimed at you..."Wasn't it? I need to get better at reading people messages. | |||
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"What is a dad bod? I am cunfuzled I thought it was fat. But someone said they like a dad bod but not a beer belly " Think the definition is not thin \ muscely or fat (like beer belly) and chunky it’s kind of somewhere in between them two. | |||
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"Today's inspirational quote, 'I've met some pricks in my time, but you, sir, are a cactus'.
Thanks for your offering. With all due respect, if I need inspiration I'll look elsewhere!
I'm sure the fact that she knows she's got a real little trooper fighting her corner on here will make her feel less fed up and hopefully a little less tired too.
When you read the thread and each post on the thread including mine and what it actually says maybe you will appreciate that I haven't been self righteous nor taken the thread off track at all. I have made reference to the OP and previous posters and I clearly stated no one should feel like they have to justify any body type. I also stated that we are all individually genetically programmed so that our natural body composition is different.
Now if you have something insightful to say on the matter I'm all ears.
Or perhaps you think that 30 minutes exercise every other day in order to stay healthy is unrealistic and unachievable? I'm not really sure what your point is at all??
How sweet of you to assume this was aimed at you...
Wasn't it? I need to get better at reading people messages."If it was I would have replied and quoted | |||
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"I think you will find that you did reply, or you assumed he thought it was about him...I'm confused again...who's assuming?" My message was a post, not a reply. I only replied after he assumed the post was about him. | |||
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"Today's inspirational quote, 'I've met some pricks in my time, but you, sir, are a cactus'.
Thanks for your offering. With all due respect, if I need inspiration I'll look elsewhere!
I'm sure the fact that she knows she's got a real little trooper fighting her corner on here will make her feel less fed up and hopefully a little less tired too.
When you read the thread and each post on the thread including mine and what it actually says maybe you will appreciate that I haven't been self righteous nor taken the thread off track at all. I have made reference to the OP and previous posters and I clearly stated no one should feel like they have to justify any body type. I also stated that we are all individually genetically programmed so that our natural body composition is different.
Now if you have something insightful to say on the matter I'm all ears.
Or perhaps you think that 30 minutes exercise every other day in order to stay healthy is unrealistic and unachievable? I'm not really sure what your point is at all??
How sweet of you to assume this was aimed at you...
Wasn't it? I need to get better at reading people messages.
If it was I would have replied and quoted "Very uninspiring way to wriggle out of ones actions when we starting dishing out inspirational quotes. Or perhaps you posted that in the wrong place or in the wrong thread and in contradiction to giving the thumbs up to a previous post you have actually taken the thread off track yourself?? Ironic either way. | |||
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"What is a dad bod? I am cunfuzled I thought it was fat. But someone said they like a dad bod but not a beer belly Think the definition is not thin \ muscely or fat (like beer belly) and chunky it’s kind of somewhere in between them two. " like an old style rugby player? | |||
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"Today's inspirational quote, 'I've met some pricks in my time, but you, sir, are a cactus'.
Thanks for your offering. With all due respect, if I need inspiration I'll look elsewhere!
I'm sure the fact that she knows she's got a real little trooper fighting her corner on here will make her feel less fed up and hopefully a little less tired too.
When you read the thread and each post on the thread including mine and what it actually says maybe you will appreciate that I haven't been self righteous nor taken the thread off track at all. I have made reference to the OP and previous posters and I clearly stated no one should feel like they have to justify any body type. I also stated that we are all individually genetically programmed so that our natural body composition is different.
Now if you have something insightful to say on the matter I'm all ears.
Or perhaps you think that 30 minutes exercise every other day in order to stay healthy is unrealistic and unachievable? I'm not really sure what your point is at all??
How sweet of you to assume this was aimed at you...
Wasn't it? I need to get better at reading people messages.
If it was I would have replied and quoted
Very uninspiring way to wriggle out of ones actions when we starting dishing out inspirational quotes. Or perhaps you posted that in the wrong place or in the wrong thread and in contradiction to giving the thumbs up to a previous post you have actually taken the thread off track yourself??
Ironic either way. "I don't control the chronological order of the threads! | |||
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"I think you will find that you did reply, or you assumed he thought it was about him...I'm confused again...who's assuming? My message was a post, not a reply. I only replied after he assumed the post was about him. " A reply/post same thing really. | |||
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"I think you will find that you did reply, or you assumed he thought it was about him...I'm confused again...who's assuming? My message was a post, not a reply. I only replied after he assumed the post was about him. " I also think we can all assume it was him you where talking about. I'm sure I've read that right...right? | |||
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"Today's inspirational quote, 'I've met some pricks in my time, but you, sir, are a cactus'.
Thanks for your offering. With all due respect, if I need inspiration I'll look elsewhere!
I'm sure the fact that she knows she's got a real little trooper fighting her corner on here will make her feel less fed up and hopefully a little less tired too.
When you read the thread and each post on the thread including mine and what it actually says maybe you will appreciate that I haven't been self righteous nor taken the thread off track at all. I have made reference to the OP and previous posters and I clearly stated no one should feel like they have to justify any body type. I also stated that we are all individually genetically programmed so that our natural body composition is different.
Now if you have something insightful to say on the matter I'm all ears.
Or perhaps you think that 30 minutes exercise every other day in order to stay healthy is unrealistic and unachievable? I'm not really sure what your point is at all??
How sweet of you to assume this was aimed at you...
Wasn't it? I need to get better at reading people messages.
If it was I would have replied and quoted
Very uninspiring way to wriggle out of ones actions when we starting dishing out inspirational quotes. Or perhaps you posted that in the wrong place or in the wrong thread and in contradiction to giving the thumbs up to a previous post you have actually taken the thread off track yourself??
Ironic either way.
I don't control the chronological order of the threads!
"No but since only you and I posted in that hour and you had posted directly before me I'd have thought that was logical. Or maybe you're a really slow typer and started typing that post this morning and somehow your other post was posted before it??? It's ok, you can stop now. Starting to dig yourself a big hole and you're only a wee short thing, you'll never get out! Leave it! | |||
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"I’ve been fortunate enough to meet up with many fit bods from Fab. However, I’m also realistic & realise that most of us don’t spend the majority of our time down the gym. So this thread is to show the Scottish Forum’s appreciation of The Dad Bod - folk who are not necessarily fit or overweight but somewhere nice in the middle. Perhaps a few curves that aren’t as toned because life demands they don’t spend every spare minute doing weights; still attractive that they catch your eye because they have “that certain something”; & folk you would be proud to be seen with. So ladies (& gents) let’s hear your appreciation of the Scottish Dad Bod either from your posts or by displaying your Dad Bod pics/avatar. ‘Mon the Dad Bods. love a hairy chested dad bod on a guy " | |||
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"I think you will find that you did reply, or you assumed he thought it was about him...I'm confused again...who's assuming? My message was a post, not a reply. I only replied after he assumed the post was about him. I also think we can all assume it was him you where talking about. I'm sure I've read that right...right?" c11bear, your believe in free speech is almost as admirable as your bum!!
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"Today's inspirational quote, 'I've met some pricks in my time, but you, sir, are a cactus'.
Thanks for your offering. With all due respect, if I need inspiration I'll look elsewhere!
I'm sure the fact that she knows she's got a real little trooper fighting her corner on here will make her feel less fed up and hopefully a little less tired too.
When you read the thread and each post on the thread including mine and what it actually says maybe you will appreciate that I haven't been self righteous nor taken the thread off track at all. I have made reference to the OP and previous posters and I clearly stated no one should feel like they have to justify any body type. I also stated that we are all individually genetically programmed so that our natural body composition is different.
Now if you have something insightful to say on the matter I'm all ears.
Or perhaps you think that 30 minutes exercise every other day in order to stay healthy is unrealistic and unachievable? I'm not really sure what your point is at all??
How sweet of you to assume this was aimed at you...
Wasn't it? I need to get better at reading people messages.
If it was I would have replied and quoted
Very uninspiring way to wriggle out of ones actions when we starting dishing out inspirational quotes. Or perhaps you posted that in the wrong place or in the wrong thread and in contradiction to giving the thumbs up to a previous post you have actually taken the thread off track yourself??
Ironic either way.
I don't control the chronological order of the threads!
No but since only you and I posted in that hour and you had posted directly before me I'd have thought that was logical. Or maybe you're a really slow typer and started typing that post this morning and somehow your other post was posted before it???
It's ok, you can stop now. Starting to dig yourself a big hole and you're only a wee short thing, you'll never get out! Leave it! "Hilarious | |||
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"I’m really starting to worry won’t be good for myself having a dad bod . "Don’t worry Steph, we’ll let the brides dress out if we have to. Bound to be someone in here a Fab hand with a Singers. | |||
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"I think you will find that you did reply, or you assumed he thought it was about him...I'm confused again...who's assuming? My message was a post, not a reply. I only replied after he assumed the post was about him. I also think we can all assume it was him you where talking about. I'm sure I've read that right...right?" Please feel free to assume all you want, and, have a fabulous weekend | |||
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"I’m really starting to worry won’t be good for myself having a dad bod .
Don’t worry Steph, we’ll let the brides dress out if we have to. Bound to be someone in here a Fab hand with a Singers. "Maybe they’ll do dressmaking after their walking group was a success I’ll keep my fingers crossed ,  | |||
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"I think you will find that you did reply, or you assumed he thought it was about him...I'm confused again...who's assuming? My message was a post, not a reply. I only replied after he assumed the post was about him. I also think we can all assume it was him you where talking about. I'm sure I've read that right...right? Please feel free to assume all you want, and, have a fabulous weekend "Oh I intend too. Thanks shorty | |||
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"I’m really starting to worry won’t be good for myself having a dad bod .
Don’t worry Steph, we’ll let the brides dress out if we have to. Bound to be someone in here a Fab hand with a Singers.
Maybe they’ll do dressmaking after their walking group was a success I’ll keep my fingers crossed , "I think archery would be a good shout for the Scottish Forum | |||
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"I’m really starting to worry won’t be good for myself having a dad bod .
Don’t worry Steph, we’ll let the brides dress out if we have to. Bound to be someone in here a Fab hand with a Singers.
Maybe they’ll do dressmaking after their walking group was a success I’ll keep my fingers crossed ,
I think archery would be a good shout for the Scottish Forum " | |||
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"I’m really starting to worry won’t be good for myself having a dad bod .
Don’t worry Steph, we’ll let the brides dress out if we have to. Bound to be someone in here a Fab hand with a Singers.
Maybe they’ll do dressmaking after their walking group was a success I’ll keep my fingers crossed ,
I think archery would be a good shout for the Scottish Forum "Blindfolded darts tournament . | |||
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"I think you will find that you did reply, or you assumed he thought it was about him...I'm confused again...who's assuming? My message was a post, not a reply. I only replied after he assumed the post was about him. I also think we can all assume it was him you where talking about. I'm sure I've read that right...right? Please feel free to assume all you want, and, have a fabulous weekend
Oh I intend too. Thanks shorty "Have you have assumed that the assume all you want comment was aimed at you . Sorry....I will get my coat, I am out of here | |||
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"I think you will find that you did reply, or you assumed he thought it was about him...I'm confused again...who's assuming? My message was a post, not a reply. I only replied after he assumed the post was about him. I also think we can all assume it was him you where talking about. I'm sure I've read that right...right? Please feel free to assume all you want, and, have a fabulous weekend
Oh I intend too. Thanks shorty
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"The dad bod is upon me but for my age I still feel in reasonable shape and certainly still fit. Unfortunately the chiselled 6 pack has long since got up and left as have the arms since I’m no longer working a manual job." Still looking good going by your pics | |||
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"Think the definition is not thin \ muscely or fat (like beer belly) and chunky it’s kind of somewhere in between them two. " Pretty much | |||
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"Suppose I better join in "At ease Bunkie. You still pass for 30’s Dad Bod. Grrrr! | |||
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"Marilyn Monroe would have been a size 8 apparently by today's measurements so all this pish about her being plus size is just that... But, I agree with what you're saying. Love the skin you're in and all that.... "Hahaha didn't say plus Mrs doggy said she had a belly and stretch Mark's and big boobs size 8 size 20 a belly is a belly ,but thank you for no ripping me a new arsehole as I expected , | |||
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"Don't forget there is a difference between US/UK dress sizes. " I know. Size UK 8 according to what I read. | |||
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"Marilyn Monroe would have been a size 8 apparently by today's measurements so all this pish about her being plus size is just that... But, I agree with what you're saying. Love the skin you're in and all that....
Hahaha didn't say plus Mrs doggy said she had a belly and stretch Mark's and big boobs size 8 size 20 a belly is a belly ,but thank you for no ripping me a new arsehole as I expected , "....I'm misunderstood on here! | |||
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"Marilyn Monroe would have been a size 8 apparently by today's measurements so all this pish about her being plus size is just that... But, I agree with what you're saying. Love the skin you're in and all that....
Hahaha didn't say plus Mrs doggy said she had a belly and stretch Mark's and big boobs size 8 size 20 a belly is a belly ,but thank you for no ripping me a new arsehole as I expected ,
....I'm misunderstood on here!"Hahaha I would love a night out with Mr doggy just to see how misunderstood you are | |||
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At ease Bunkie. You still pass for 30’s Dad Bod. Grrrr! "You're awfy complimentary these days what are you after  | |||
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"You're awfy complimentary these days what are you after "The clue is in the title. Dad bods. Needed a change from the curious 20-30somethings | |||
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"I will join no so much over the dad bods but some of the fishing comments on here over bodies in particular Marylin monroe once considered one of the most beautiful women on the planet she had a tummy ,she had stretch Mark's she had big boobs ,not the stereotypical physique that some on this post find acceptable Think point I'm trying to make is for every ripped big gun guy folks think is no attractive someone will find the rotund small gun guy attractive also ,dont let anyone judge you for having a 6 pack but dont let anyone judge you for having a podge ,if you let them judge you and take it on board then you can't love yourself and be happy and confident in you "Is this the same Marylin Monroe who had frequent colonic irrigation to make her tummy flatter rather than do some exercise? . Nice role model you picked. | |||
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"I will join no so much over the dad bods but some of the fishing comments on here over bodies in particular Marylin monroe once considered one of the most beautiful women on the planet she had a tummy ,she had stretch Mark's she had big boobs ,not the stereotypical physique that some on this post find acceptable Think point I'm trying to make is for every ripped big gun guy folks think is no attractive someone will find the rotund small gun guy attractive also ,dont let anyone judge you for having a 6 pack but dont let anyone judge you for having a podge ,if you let them judge you and take it on board then you can't love yourself and be happy and confident in you
Is this the same Marylin Monroe who had frequent colonic irrigation to make her tummy flatter rather than do some exercise? . Nice role model you picked. "So she was full of shite? She'd be in good company round here then | |||
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"I will join no so much over the dad bods but some of the fishing comments on here over bodies in particular Marylin monroe once considered one of the most beautiful women on the planet she had a tummy ,she had stretch Mark's she had big boobs ,not the stereotypical physique that some on this post find acceptable Think point I'm trying to make is for every ripped big gun guy folks think is no attractive someone will find the rotund small gun guy attractive also ,dont let anyone judge you for having a 6 pack but dont let anyone judge you for having a podge ,if you let them judge you and take it on board then you can't love yourself and be happy and confident in you
Is this the same Marylin Monroe who had frequent colonic irrigation to make her tummy flatter rather than do some exercise? . Nice role model you picked. "Probably and same as yourself who took botox to look younger ,your still missing my point ,only judge someone else when your judgment doesnt involve imperfections we all have in life | |||
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At ease Bunkie. You still pass for 30’s Dad Bod. Grrrr!
You're awfy complimentary these days what are you after "Was it not a 1930’s bod he meant ? | |||
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"I will join no so much over the dad bods but some of the fishing comments on here over bodies in particular Marylin monroe once considered one of the most beautiful women on the planet she had a tummy ,she had stretch Mark's she had big boobs ,not the stereotypical physique that some on this post find acceptable Think point I'm trying to make is for every ripped big gun guy folks think is no attractive someone will find the rotund small gun guy attractive also ,dont let anyone judge you for having a 6 pack but dont let anyone judge you for having a podge ,if you let them judge you and take it on board then you can't love yourself and be happy and confident in you
Is this the same Marylin Monroe who had frequent colonic irrigation to make her tummy flatter rather than do some exercise? . Nice role model you picked.
Probably and same as yourself who took botox to look younger ,your still missing my point ,only judge someone else when your judgment doesnt involve imperfections we all have in life "I took Botox???
What are you talking about man? I have never had Botox? Seriously? that statement just means I will skip past every post you ever make again without reading if that's the tripe you claim.
And for your information you don't "take" Botox, it's not a tablet that's ingested orally.
I was merely pointing out that you contradicted yourself as Marylin clearly wasn't happy with her appearance and she went to extremes to try to change that. So it's you that is missing your very own point! | |||
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"I will join no so much over the dad bods but some of the fishing comments on here over bodies in particular Marylin monroe once considered one of the most beautiful women on the planet she had a tummy ,she had stretch Mark's she had big boobs ,not the stereotypical physique that some on this post find acceptable Think point I'm trying to make is for every ripped big gun guy folks think is no attractive someone will find the rotund small gun guy attractive also ,dont let anyone judge you for having a 6 pack but dont let anyone judge you for having a podge ,if you let them judge you and take it on board then you can't love yourself and be happy and confident in you
Is this the same Marylin Monroe who had frequent colonic irrigation to make her tummy flatter rather than do some exercise? . Nice role model you picked.
Probably and same as yourself who took botox to look younger ,your still missing my point ,only judge someone else when your judgment doesnt involve imperfections we all have in life
I took Botox???
What are you talking about man? I have never had Botox? Seriously? that statement just means I will skip past every post you ever make again without reading if that's the tripe you claim.
And for your information you don't "take" Botox, it's not a tablet that's ingested orally.
I was merely pointing out that you contradicted yourself as Marylin clearly wasn't happy with her appearance and she went to extremes to try to change that. So it's you that is missing your very own point! "Skipping your posts is always a good idea. More people should try it. | |||
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"I will join no so much over the dad bods but some of the fishing comments on here over bodies in particular Marylin monroe once considered one of the most beautiful women on the planet she had a tummy ,she had stretch Mark's she had big boobs ,not the stereotypical physique that some on this post find acceptable Think point I'm trying to make is for every ripped big gun guy folks think is no attractive someone will find the rotund small gun guy attractive also ,dont let anyone judge you for having a 6 pack but dont let anyone judge you for having a podge ,if you let them judge you and take it on board then you can't love yourself and be happy and confident in you
Is this the same Marylin Monroe who had frequent colonic irrigation to make her tummy flatter rather than do some exercise? . Nice role model you picked.
Probably and same as yourself who took botox to look younger ,your still missing my point ,only judge someone else when your judgment doesnt involve imperfections we all have in life
I took Botox???
What are you talking about man? I have never had Botox? Seriously? that statement just means I will skip past every post you ever make again without reading if that's the tripe you claim.
And for your information you don't "take" Botox, it's not a tablet that's ingested orally.
I was merely pointing out that you contradicted yourself as Marylin clearly wasn't happy with her appearance and she went to extremes to try to change that. So it's you that is missing your very own point! "I've got an image of you going full on tonto, Mr Angry mode now but not a single muscle moving in your face | |||
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"I will join no so much over the dad bods but some of the fishing comments on here over bodies in particular Marylin monroe once considered one of the most beautiful women on the planet she had a tummy ,she had stretch Mark's she had big boobs ,not the stereotypical physique that some on this post find acceptable Think point I'm trying to make is for every ripped big gun guy folks think is no attractive someone will find the rotund small gun guy attractive also ,dont let anyone judge you for having a 6 pack but dont let anyone judge you for having a podge ,if you let them judge you and take it on board then you can't love yourself and be happy and confident in you
Is this the same Marylin Monroe who had frequent colonic irrigation to make her tummy flatter rather than do some exercise? . Nice role model you picked.
Probably and same as yourself who took botox to look younger ,your still missing my point ,only judge someone else when your judgment doesnt involve imperfections we all have in life
I took Botox???
What are you talking about man? I have never had Botox? Seriously? that statement just means I will skip past every post you ever make again without reading if that's the tripe you claim.
And for your information you don't "take" Botox, it's not a tablet that's ingested orally.
I was merely pointing out that you contradicted yourself as Marylin clearly wasn't happy with her appearance and she went to extremes to try to change that. So it's you that is missing your very own point!
Skipping your posts is always a good idea.
More people should try it.". Daft enough to quote me proving you've read my wisdom and then make a claim like that!
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"I will join no so much over the dad bods but some of the fishing comments on here over bodies in particular Marylin monroe once considered one of the most beautiful women on the planet she had a tummy ,she had stretch Mark's she had big boobs ,not the stereotypical physique that some on this post find acceptable Think point I'm trying to make is for every ripped big gun guy folks think is no attractive someone will find the rotund small gun guy attractive also ,dont let anyone judge you for having a 6 pack but dont let anyone judge you for having a podge ,if you let them judge you and take it on board then you can't love yourself and be happy and confident in you
Is this the same Marylin Monroe who had frequent colonic irrigation to make her tummy flatter rather than do some exercise? . Nice role model you picked.
Probably and same as yourself who took botox to look younger ,your still missing my point ,only judge someone else when your judgment doesnt involve imperfections we all have in life
I took Botox???
What are you talking about man? I have never had Botox? Seriously? that statement just means I will skip past every post you ever make again without reading if that's the tripe you claim.
And for your information you don't "take" Botox, it's not a tablet that's ingested orally.
I was merely pointing out that you contradicted yourself as Marylin clearly wasn't happy with her appearance and she went to extremes to try to change that. So it's you that is missing your very own point!
I've got an image of you going full on tonto, Mr Angry mode now but not a single muscle moving in your face ". Think I may have overdosed on them there Botox tablets! | |||
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"I guess dad bod and average would be similar.. thou maybe average is more doesn’t really worry about what they eat as much? And not been to a gym or ever had a ripped body? " Although I used to go to the gym, swim, cycle and other do several other sports I wouldn't say I was ever 'ripped'. These days I don't have time or opportunity for much exercise so definitely into the dad bod category as I'd define it these days rather than yours although I think both of our definitions share common ground... | |||
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"I will join no so much over the dad bods but some of the fishing comments on here over bodies in particular Marylin monroe once considered one of the most beautiful women on the planet she had a tummy ,she had stretch Mark's she had big boobs ,not the stereotypical physique that some on this post find acceptable Think point I'm trying to make is for every ripped big gun guy folks think is no attractive someone will find the rotund small gun guy attractive also ,dont let anyone judge you for having a 6 pack but dont let anyone judge you for having a podge ,if you let them judge you and take it on board then you can't love yourself and be happy and confident in you
Is this the same Marylin Monroe who had frequent colonic irrigation to make her tummy flatter rather than do some exercise? . Nice role model you picked.
Probably and same as yourself who took botox to look younger ,your still missing my point ,only judge someone else when your judgment doesnt involve imperfections we all have in life
I took Botox???
What are you talking about man? I have never had Botox? Seriously? that statement just means I will skip past every post you ever make again without reading if that's the tripe you claim.
And for your information you don't "take" Botox, it's not a tablet that's ingested orally.
I was merely pointing out that you contradicted yourself as Marylin clearly wasn't happy with her appearance and she went to extremes to try to change that. So it's you that is missing your very own point! "Oh my one does protest to much | |||
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"How about aspiring for a healthy body? I'm not sure what a dad body is even but no one needs a 6 pack to be healthy. Lifting weights and body fat percentage in single figures does not mean someone is fit or even that they are healthy. Doesn't mean they could run the length of themselves or last 15 mins in a game of 5 or 7 aside. The use of supplements including those that are notoriously dangerous for health such as steroids is wrecklesslessy common place in the persuit of vanity. Even creatine and whey protein used inappropriately can knacker your kidney function for life. We're all programmed genetically differently regardling body composition but I don't buy into this having life responsibilities and no time to spend 2 hours a day in the gym. That to me tells me that you aspire to change your body and that's an excuse. No one needs 2 hours a day to get functionally fit and through time everyones body will change. 20 - 30 minutes proper exercise every day/every other day anywhere (own home/garage/outside don't need gym memwbership) if you're properly motived and over time, will change your body, make you functionally fitter and stronger, less likely to be reliant on medication to control blood pressure and blood sugar and likely to live longer. If some of the responsibilities referred to are kids then that's a good thing, you can be around to see them when they're older and less likely to be dependent on them. This in addition to having a sensible diet and moderating booze. Lots of people would like to change their body shape but won't budge on their booze intake. Well they're deluding themselves. So rather than anyone celebrating something they'd like to change I suggest make the time, invest in yourself, because if you don't respect yourself enough to invest the time and energy in your own health and fitness why should anyone else be interested?
Agreed but we're celebrating the dad bod here mate.
Are you sure?
I think some people seem to be trying to justify it?
There should be no need to have to justify any body type, it just seems to stem from insecurity to begin with. "Bit long winded .but a dad bod is one that's got meat on it nice and squishy .but not massive .and not solid tonned | |||
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