FabSwingers.com forum: First Swinging Experience

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When was you first swinging experience and how did it go, was it just watching, soft play, full on and how did you feel after.

I was 21 invited over by the wife she was 45, he was 60. I have to admit at the time I was so niece and she just used me and hubby watched . I remember leaving with confusion that did I enjoy myself as then seemed to thinking about their enjoyment and not mine.

Overall great experience that's all I can say as I don't have any points cards to hold up.

So folks when n how was yours and at what age ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did folk find each other back then?

Newspaper ads? Wanted board in the local newsagents?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So anyone else ?

Them my next post will be about stalkers on here and then what do you like to bake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So anyone else ?

Them my next post will be about stalkers on here and then what do you like to bake.

You could have just answered the question instead. Oh well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So anyone else ?

Them my next post will be about stalkers on here and then what do you like to bake.

You could have just answered the question instead. Oh well"

I’m guessing back in horsey days it was a lone contact mag on the top shelf. PO Box numbers and the like ?

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Met a couple at their holiday caravan. It was fun until they started arguing in the middle of it. I was on the floor with her riding my cock when he came in for the DP which it seems they'd agreed wouldn't happen. First and only time I've seen a woman irate while she had 2 cocks in her

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Met a couple at their holiday caravan. It was fun until they started arguing in the middle of it. I was on the floor with her riding my cock when he came in for the DP which it seems they'd agreed wouldn't happen. First and only time I've seen a woman irate while she had 2 cocks in her"

Yeah I've met couples where I've realised at the start during chat that something is wrong, especially if one isn't 100% into swinging

It's then I keep it social then make my excuses n leave. Can't be bothered with the drama or hassle

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

1st swinging experience was amazing.

Still kept in contact with the couple even while I was off the site.

Became great friends.

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

Had been on another site for months with no luck, there was a couple up in Aberdeen, often admired her pics.

From out of the blue, invited to meet them, hell of a prospect,2hour drive and told to park up in a random supermarket carpark once i got there,longer i waited the more i was convincing myself i was goin to be a classic timewaster-victim,lol.

They rolled into the car park, told me to follow them back to their place and 8hours of endless fun was enjoyed.

Was everything i hoped it would be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"1st swinging experience was amazing.

Still kept in contact with the couple even while I was off the site.

Became great friends.

Sounds perfect

Are you more social friends now and don't meet up to swing now and then.

Found some have become so close friends that they don't swing anymore which I think is great finding that especially from here

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

Will let you know when it happens ,had the sex dates with single female but no yet had a swing date with a couple, Maybe I'm just to picky

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had been on another site for months with no luck, there was a couple up in Aberdeen, often admired her pics.

They rolled into the car park, told me to follow them back to their place and 8hours of endless fun was enjoyed.

Was everything i hoped it would be."

Did exact same as you on my first year on fab except they asked me to stand at a certain place, stood for ages, (think half an hour but felt like 2 hours), they ever showed

I was gonna put an upset face but prob should be a happy face as they didn't show

The thing is no point self doubting as they could have peeked from a hidden area but at that time, general timewasting was quite high. Think now most people are too closed to be taken in as about 12 years ago, I think

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

"1st swinging experience was amazing.

Still kept in contact with the couple even while I was off the site.

Became great friends.

Sounds perfect

Are you more social friends now and don't meet up to swing now and then.

Found some have become so close friends that they don't swing anymore which I think is great finding that especially from here

we still have our fun moment's & meet socially

Never any expectations when we meet if it happens it happens

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By *dinburgerMan
over a year ago

Perthshire

"How did folk find each other back then?

Newspaper ads? Wanted board in the local newsagents?"

I guess Swinging is as much about fantasy as anything else, hence the large amount of credibility stretching posts on here.

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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago

Anstruther

I met a guy of here on an older profile I had took loads of vids and pics for hubby was a good experience until he turned in to a bit of a stalker so left fab for a while and came back 1st as a Cpl also went really well wee eneded up seeing the guy a few times b4 he found someone he wanted to be in a full time none swinging relasiship with

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By *anon6dMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

First was done a shoot for a couple. Just say was a bit weird at first but got into the swing of it. Was my first blue shoot. Would I do it again mmm not sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First and only experience so far over ten years ago. Me and an ex partner invited a lovely man from the North West to our Glasgow hotel room. He was an absolute gentleman.

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

I suppose first, although didn't think on it like that at the time, was 11 years ago, nearly 12 years

wade and I had a good female friend we worked with and were at uni with. We both thought she was hot and knew she fancied both of us

all happened fairly naturally on a night out. We were chatting about how kissing a girl felt different to kissing a guy. I never really had so we kissed... Ended up with her at ours. Was more the two of us while Wade watched but he wasn't complaining

First swinging experience from here... Lovely couple at first. Actually, given how that went and our first party experience and I'm slightly wondering why we're still here...

hoping for better experiences to come I suppose

V x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Walked into a swingers club just before my 52nd birthday. I was both nervous and excited as had dreamt about swinging for many years. It was everything i hoped for and more and i finally realised that i had discovered the missing piece in my life to make it complete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone on Faceparty (pre Facebook type page) back in 2005ish. She was around 40 and lived locally.

Never arranged to meet but I bumped into her in a club one night and she introduced me to her husband. I was gutted as I thought she was single.

Chatted for 5mins and asked if I'd like to go for a drink at theirs with them, I had half an idea what he meant so I left my friends and joined them.

He sat back and watched as we spent the night having fun together.

I was hooked after that.

Joined a swingers site the following week.

Haven't looked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How did folk find each other back then?

Newspaper ads? Wanted board in the local newsagents?"

In those days used the contact magazines such as Experience and Vibrations. A lot more reliable as it cost money to contact people. You would forward your reply to an ad to the magazine and they would forward your letter onward.

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