FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling? Tips for a better profile?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on here for nearly a year and must have sent at least a hundred messages by now (to women and CD/TV’s) but, more often than not, I’m ignored and my message is deleted with no response.

Message usually contains more face pics, sometimes some body shots and myself explaining what I’m interested in and some general chat (maybe I think the person’s attractive etc etc). Not too long or too short but almost always no response though.

Anyone have any tips on how I could improve my profile for a better chance at getting responses? I didn’t think my profile or my messages or looks were that bad lol

Don’t really want to leave the site because it’s the best site of this nature by far but 8 months in I feel like I’m just wasting my time lol

By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

More info on your profile.

Have a rethink where you say you are straight . Another Fab straight guy.

And read the other 5,876,682 threads that have asked the same thing.

All the info you seek is in those threads. Good luck.

By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Are you messaging profiles within your own age range?

Do you meet the criteria of those you are messaging?

I would probably remove the "curious to try" part, nobody like to be part of an 'experiment'.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I do. Very rarely do I message someone who’s criteria I don’t meet (and when I get ignored in that case I expect it haha). It’s just a little frustrating and confusing when I fit someone’s criteria almost perfectly and still get ignored. Only thing I can put it on is my looks, which is disheartening after so many messages lol

And note taken about the experiment part lol

Thanks!