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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Well my first good deed of the year was carried out at 8am yesterday morning. Came in from work, clicked on Fab whilst drinking my coffee as usual and saw on local updates a guy looking for a lift home after a Hogmany party. Checked he was verified before i messaged him asking where he was and where he was going to. Told him i would be there in 15mins to take him home but made him well aware this was just a kind gesture and not anything sex related. Also warned him not to be sick in my car. Drove 3 miles to get him and another 3 to take him home safely. He was very grateful as i had saved him a long walk when he was feeling rough. This is a sex/swinging site i know but its nice to be nice and we should all remember kindness costs nothing

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By *mooth tongue 4uMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Nice touch , agree with what you’ve said ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wondering why he didn't just call a cab

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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I'm wondering why he didn't just call a cab"

Lol, that did cross my mind afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering why he didn't just call a cab

Lol, that did cross my mind afterwards. "

That would have been my first question

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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I'm wondering why he didn't just call a cab

Lol, that did cross my mind afterwards.

That would have been my first question "

Maybe no money left, maybe too long to wait or maybe none available. It wasnt really any hassle for me to help and im glad i did.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Did he come out the car smelling of Magic Tree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verified or not, you took one helluva risk in doing that, just because hes been verified doesn't mean he ain't a mad pyscho, where the other 3 you picked up all skint and had no money to chip in for a bus or taxi home ?

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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Verified or not, you took one helluva risk in doing that, just because hes been verified doesn't mean he ain't a mad pyscho, where the other 3 you picked up all skint and had no money to chip in for a bus or taxi home ? "

What other 3?. I took my dogs with me also. Dont we all take risks on Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verified or not, you took one helluva risk in doing that, just because hes been verified doesn't mean he ain't a mad pyscho, where the other 3 you picked up all skint and had no money to chip in for a bus or taxi home ?

What other 3?. I took my dogs with me also. Dont we all take risks on Fab?"

You state that you drove 3 miles to get him and another 3!!

Yes we do take risks but you picked up a complete stranger in your car and drove him home, he could have attacked you or done even worse...your either brave or crazy to do that but you are only lucky lady imo

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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Maybe just soft. Calculated the risks before i left. Knew where i was going and it was daylight. Would i do it again. Yes i would.

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By *ophiedawlWoman
over a year ago

secret


"Maybe just soft. Calculated the risks before i left. Knew where i was going and it was daylight. Would i do it again. Yes i would. "

You are a true sweetheart x

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

I think tarzan was just looking out for the op, he's a bit of a gent on here, and misread the post that drove another miles.

Every meet on here is a calculated risk, even a social.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, every meet is a calculated risk but you cant always see the bad in every situation or you would never leave the house.

The OP saw a chance to do a good deed and took it. There is an assumption that as a single woman you are somehow more at risk when doing something like that but whether thats the case in reality, who knows. Good on you i say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think you did a good thing op this may be a swinging site but there's a social side to all this plus taking the swinging side out the equation there's not enough good will in this world so I applaud you for helping out a fellow human in time of need.

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

Can see both sides to this developing spat ,was she right to offer lift yes ,was it a risk yes ,but the old saying springs to mind ,to take no risk at all in life is the biggest risk one can take, also it no different from picking a hitchhiker up when your on a journey, I know I have picked a few up both Male and female and you right the could be serial killers for all I know but I just guess it a risk you take

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep, every meet is a calculated risk but you cant always see the bad in every situation or you would never leave the house.

The OP saw a chance to do a good deed and took it. There is an assumption that as a single woman you are somehow more at risk when doing something like that but whether thats the case in reality, who knows. Good on you i say "

I agree, every meet, either on here or elsewhere is a risk or sorts.

Nice one OP.

I need some plastering doing, anyone want to help?

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

It’s nice to be nice I don’t know the odds of picking up a serial killer but they must be pretty high . People calculate risks everyday mostly without consequences . The ones that turn bad are now plastered all over the news and the web so it seems the world is a more dangerous place than it really is .

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Yep, every meet is a calculated risk but you cant always see the bad in every situation or you would never leave the house.

The OP saw a chance to do a good deed and took it. There is an assumption that as a single woman you are somehow more at risk when doing something like that but whether thats the case in reality, who knows. Good on you i say

I agree, every meet, either on here or elsewhere is a risk or sorts.

Nice one OP.

I need some plastering doing, anyone want to help? "

How big is the cut and is it still bleeding I mm not keen on the sight of blood .

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By *ye rolls matter!!Man
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Well played OP. Like you say, nice to be nice and all that.

As for some of the other comments... maybe fair play, but also is the OP taking any more risks than a taxi driver would take with picking up a random stranger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice thing to do but wouldn't have been me. No matter the reassurances I wouldn't believe that the guy wasn't hoping for some "fun" as this is after all a sex site. Different if someone I'd met before hand but not a complete stranger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's definitely a lovely thing that you did OP but why has no one asked why he couldn't just walk home? You say you drove 3 miles to pick him up and another 3 miles to take him home. Ok it worked out and you got him home and you're ok, which is the most important thing but 3 miles from home isn't that far for him. I'm pretty sure anyone can walk 3 miles to get home, myself included.

Oh and as for someone calling one of my friends a twat, that's a pretty horrible thing to say as I can definitely vouch that he is anything but a twat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's definitely a lovely thing that you did OP but why has no one asked why he couldn't just walk home? You say you drove 3 miles to pick him up and another 3 miles to take him home. Ok it worked out and you got him home and you're ok, which is the most important thing but 3 miles from home isn't that far for him. I'm pretty sure anyone can walk 3 miles to get home, myself included.

Oh and as for someone calling one of my friends a twat, that's a pretty horrible thing to say as I can definitely vouch that he is anything but a twat x"

Ha ha - clearly getting fitter wasnt his new years resolution or that would have been a good walk or jog to start the year!

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Well my first good deed of the year was carried out at 8am yesterday morning. Came in from work, clicked on Fab whilst drinking my coffee as usual and saw on local updates a guy looking for a lift home after a Hogmany party. Checked he was verified before i messaged him asking where he was and where he was going to. Told him i would be there in 15mins to take him home but made him well aware this was just a kind gesture and not anything sex related. Also warned him not to be sick in my car. Drove 3 miles to get him and another 3 to take him home safely. He was very grateful as i had saved him a long walk when he was feeling rough. This is a sex/swinging site i know but its nice to be nice and we should all remember kindness costs nothing"

Well done blue, great post. It is nice to be nice and also well done for keeping your chin up against all the negativity around this post , why didnt he get a taxi, what if this happened what if that happened, im proud of you. People think good deeds like this are not thought through but they are. If you thought through everything we do in life we would never leave the house.

Cant go to shops as a an armed robber might raid it while im there, cant cross a road , car might hit me. Cant pick up a person asking for a lift , he might attack me, do you know how many people hitchhike in britain safely every year. If i have space i will happily pick up a hitcher. And i have done it myself a few years ago, got from Hamilton to Southampton for free simply to share the driving with my army daughter to drive back home.

Random acts of kindness does not equal danger. Well done again Blue xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now after reading the whole post from top to bottom I have come to the conclusion that even a good deed can be twisted to be a bad deed ,

As for Tarzan comment he was correct in saying he thought you had 3 others too as you never made it clear enough in your sentence you meant 3 miles back you just assumed people would understand it like that cross wires .

As for the ladies reply calling him a TWAT that was bang out off order as the guy was just looking out for your well being and believe me there has been many a woman who has done either what you did or similar around the world who aren't here to tell the story off there good deed .

Tried my best to sit on the Fence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done op in your good deed was very kind thing to do.

Is it not proven that most of the attackers is somone the person knows in some kind of way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's definitely a lovely thing that you did OP but why has no one asked why he couldn't just walk home? You say you drove 3 miles to pick him up and another 3 miles to take him home. Ok it worked out and you got him home and you're ok, which is the most important thing but 3 miles from home isn't that far for him. I'm pretty sure anyone can walk 3 miles to get home, myself included.

Oh and as for someone calling one of my friends a twat, that's a pretty horrible thing to say as I can definitely vouch that he is anything but a twat x

Ha ha - clearly getting fitter wasnt his new years resolution or that would have been a good walk or jog to start the year!"

They both live in the same place too. Hhmmm that's not a coincidence to me x

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By *imbo57Man
over a year ago

kilmarnock ish

I think ti OP nailed it in the title nice to be nice ..

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Nice thing to do but wouldn't have been me. No matter the reassurances I wouldn't believe that the guy wasn't hoping for some "fun" as this is after all a sex site. Different if someone I'd met before hand but not a complete stranger.

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We have offered and given lifts on many occasions on fab, to people we have never met and had no ulterior motive. Its just a lift, at the end of the day.

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

So well done op, definitely nice to be nice

Don't understand why people having a go about it

Every meet has a risk. Doesn't matter if you have met socially before or chatted along time.

The risk is still there for meets turn very nasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice thing to do but wouldn't have been me. No matter the reassurances I wouldn't believe that the guy wasn't hoping for some "fun" as this is after all a sex site. Different if someone I'd met before hand but not a complete stranger.

We have offered and given lifts on many occasions on fab, to people we have never met and had no ulterior motive. Its just a lift, at the end of the day. "

Good shout...maybe you're a kinder soul than me then. And you say "we" so does that mean both you and Mrs in the car? Would you be perfectly happy for her to jump into the car alone and give a complete stranger a lift home and not bat an eyelid, baring in mind it was a 3 mile journey which he could most likely have walked.

Bluebell is far from zipped up the back, so she made her decision and it was a kind gesture. But it would not be me.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Nice thing to do but wouldn't have been me. No matter the reassurances I wouldn't believe that the guy wasn't hoping for some "fun" as this is after all a sex site. Different if someone I'd met before hand but not a complete stranger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice thing to do but wouldn't have been me. No matter the reassurances I wouldn't believe that the guy wasn't hoping for some "fun" as this is after all a sex site. Different if someone I'd met before hand but not a complete stranger.

We have offered and given lifts on many occasions on fab, to people we have never met and had no ulterior motive. Its just a lift, at the end of the day.

Good shout...maybe you're a kinder soul than me then. And you say "we" so does that mean both you and Mrs in the car? Would you be perfectly happy for her to jump into the car alone and give a complete stranger a lift home and not bat an eyelid, baring in mind it was a 3 mile journey which he could most likely have walked.

Bluebell is far from zipped up the back, so she made her decision and it was a kind gesture. But it would not be me."

This is spot on. saying it's only a lift is like a serial killer saying it was because they made me mad that I killed them, the guy she gave a lift too and am not assuming for one sec that he had any intentions of doing something to blue has only been on his profile for 2 weeks...2 measely weeks??? If that was my daughter that done that I would have hit the roof.

This is not an attack on blues'kindness or her gesture but if something did happen would we be saying well done for giving him a lift?? Highly doubt it...

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Nice thing to do but wouldn't have been me. No matter the reassurances I wouldn't believe that the guy wasn't hoping for some "fun" as this is after all a sex site. Different if someone I'd met before hand but not a complete stranger.

We have offered and given lifts on many occasions on fab, to people we have never met and had no ulterior motive. Its just a lift, at the end of the day.

Good shout...maybe you're a kinder soul than me then. And you say "we" so does that mean both you and Mrs in the car? Would you be perfectly happy for her to jump into the car alone and give a complete stranger a lift home and not bat an eyelid, baring in mind it was a 3 mile journey which he could most likely have walked.

Bluebell is far from zipped up the back, so she made her decision and it was a kind gesture. But it would not be me.

This is spot on. saying it's only a lift is like a serial killer saying it was because they made me mad that I killed them, the guy she gave a lift too and am not assuming for one sec that he had any intentions of doing something to blue has only been on his profile for 2 weeks...2 measely weeks??? If that was my daughter that done that I would have hit the roof.

This is not an attack on blues'kindness or her gesture but if something did happen would we be saying well done for giving him a lift?? Highly doubt it..."

Still be saying she is decent, though.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I do that for a living ... glad it went ok for you blue and yes was a great gesture but not something I would have recommended

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Heart warming. Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

amazing gesture just shows still some kind people around hope the fav is returned to you one day HNY2019

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that was me, they would have turned out to be a serial killer! Lol

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Nice thing to do but wouldn't have been me. No matter the reassurances I wouldn't believe that the guy wasn't hoping for some "fun" as this is after all a sex site. Different if someone I'd met before hand but not a complete stranger.

We have offered and given lifts on many occasions on fab, to people we have never met and had no ulterior motive. Its just a lift, at the end of the day.

Good shout...maybe you're a kinder soul than me then. And you say "we" so does that mean both you and Mrs in the car? Would you be perfectly happy for her to jump into the car alone and give a complete stranger a lift home and not bat an eyelid, baring in mind it was a 3 mile journey which he could most likely have walked.

Bluebell is far from zipped up the back, so she made her decision and it was a kind gesture. But it would not be me."

Doggy i do get your point but all the bad things you read in the papers or see on the news are on there for a reason, they are rare occurrences out of tens of thousands of times that never turned bad. The world is not a big bad place to be feared, the thing about fear is the fear itself. I got slaughtered because i said on a forum i would talk to a strange female on a bus or train just for a normal conversation, why did i get slaughtered, because i might alarm that female. Yet in ALL the occasions i have done it , it ended in normal conversations and even having some friends and family in common. Too many people are afraid of there own shadows these days and suspect ulterior motives in everything other people do. Why cant people see some things for what they are. This guy blue picked up probably had no money for a taxi and possibly underdressed to embark on a 3 mile hike in the cold. Lets throw a doom and gloom scenario on this scene. He walks half way home and with no jacket and no money having had a few drinks falls asleep outside in a garden somewhere . Thats not a nice wake up call for his parents at new year being told their son died of hypothermia. Sorry guys but in my opinion its nice to be nice. People know me and know my nature so im sure they will know im not bullshitting here.

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By *ictiiWitchCouple
over a year ago

Helensburgh

I was sexually assaulted by a bus driver, in broad daylight and in the middle of a crowded bus station. He also drove taxi's at night. The two others that reported him, one was two ladies in the taxi, the other was a 15 yr old girl who's parents had put her in the taxi to go straight to a relative. So here it is: PEOPLE can be assaulted in any situation, at any time of day and even with people watching. So, should we all walk around paranoid and terrified of the next thing round the corner? No. I now carry a personal alarm with me, not because i'm scared because just let one person try something like this on me again and I swear i will deafen the cunt. Attackers are known to choose victims based on how apprehensive or scared they look, so making people more anxious about things like this just makes them a target. Get an alarm, keep a ballpoint pen in your pocket and carry on happily knowing precautions have been taken, but don't stop doing your good deeds. Xx

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Verified or not, you took one helluva risk in doing that, just because hes been verified doesn't mean he ain't a mad pyscho, where the other 3 you picked up all skint and had no money to chip in for a bus or taxi home ? "

Don't think it's ever safe to leave your home if you think like that....

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Verified or not, you took one helluva risk in doing that, just because hes been verified doesn't mean he ain't a mad pyscho, where the other 3 you picked up all skint and had no money to chip in for a bus or taxi home ?

Don't think it's ever safe to leave your home if you think like that...."

Actually, what if the psychos come to my home!! So now home isn't safe either

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Verified or not, you took one helluva risk in doing that, just because hes been verified doesn't mean he ain't a mad pyscho, where the other 3 you picked up all skint and had no money to chip in for a bus or taxi home ?

Don't think it's ever safe to leave your home if you think like that....

Actually, what if the psychos come to my home!! So now home isn't safe either "

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Verified or not, you took one helluva risk in doing that, just because hes been verified doesn't mean he ain't a mad pyscho, where the other 3 you picked up all skint and had no money to chip in for a bus or taxi home ?

Don't think it's ever safe to leave your home if you think like that....

Actually, what if the psychos come to my home!! So now home isn't safe either "

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Verified or not, you took one helluva risk in doing that, just because hes been verified doesn't mean he ain't a mad pyscho, where the other 3 you picked up all skint and had no money to chip in for a bus or taxi home ?

Don't think it's ever safe to leave your home if you think like that....

Actually, what if the psychos come to my home!! So now home isn't safe either "

What’s the chance of two psychos being in the same place at the same time ?

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Verified or not, you took one helluva risk in doing that, just because hes been verified doesn't mean he ain't a mad pyscho, where the other 3 you picked up all skint and had no money to chip in for a bus or taxi home ?

Don't think it's ever safe to leave your home if you think like that....

Actually, what if the psychos come to my home!! So now home isn't safe either

What’s the chance of two psychos being in the same place at the same time ? "

It could happen!!

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Verified or not, you took one helluva risk in doing that, just because hes been verified doesn't mean he ain't a mad pyscho, where the other 3 you picked up all skint and had no money to chip in for a bus or taxi home ?

Don't think it's ever safe to leave your home if you think like that....

Actually, what if the psychos come to my home!! So now home isn't safe either

What’s the chance of two psychos being in the same place at the same time ?

It could happen!! "

Nah I’m outwith your age range .

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Verified or not, you took one helluva risk in doing that, just because hes been verified doesn't mean he ain't a mad pyscho, where the other 3 you picked up all skint and had no money to chip in for a bus or taxi home ?

Don't think it's ever safe to leave your home if you think like that....

Actually, what if the psychos come to my home!! So now home isn't safe either

What’s the chance of two psychos being in the same place at the same time ?

It could happen!!

Nah I’m outwith your age range . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice thing to do but wouldn't have been me. No matter the reassurances I wouldn't believe that the guy wasn't hoping for some "fun" as this is after all a sex site. Different if someone I'd met before hand but not a complete stranger.

We have offered and given lifts on many occasions on fab, to people we have never met and had no ulterior motive. Its just a lift, at the end of the day.

Good shout...maybe you're a kinder soul than me then. And you say "we" so does that mean both you and Mrs in the car? Would you be perfectly happy for her to jump into the car alone and give a complete stranger a lift home and not bat an eyelid, baring in mind it was a 3 mile journey which he could most likely have walked.

Bluebell is far from zipped up the back, so she made her decision and it was a kind gesture. But it would not be me.

Doggy i do get your point but all the bad things you read in the papers or see on the news are on there for a reason, they are rare occurrences out of tens of thousands of times that never turned bad. The world is not a big bad place to be feared, the thing about fear is the fear itself. I got slaughtered because i said on a forum i would talk to a strange female on a bus or train just for a normal conversation, why did i get slaughtered, because i might alarm that female. Yet in ALL the occasions i have done it , it ended in normal conversations and even having some friends and family in common. Too many people are afraid of there own shadows these days and suspect ulterior motives in everything other people do. Why cant people see some things for what they are. This guy blue picked up probably had no money for a taxi and possibly underdressed to embark on a 3 mile hike in the cold. Lets throw a doom and gloom scenario on this scene. He walks half way home and with no jacket and no money having had a few drinks falls asleep outside in a garden somewhere . Thats not a nice wake up call for his parents at new year being told their son died of hypothermia. Sorry guys but in my opinion its nice to be nice. People know me and know my nature so im sure they will know im not bullshitting here. "

Look, I'm not suggesting you're bullshitting and accept you're being genuine here. I'd strike up a conversation with a male stranger on a bus too. On a night out I actually enjoy male company, strangers, and the laugh and the banter that can come along with that. I'm about as far removed from a doom and gloom miserable bastard as you can get but I value my personal safety and would not do this. Under any circumstances.

Geez a shout if you're ever stuck and I'll email you the bus timetable .

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Nice thing to do but wouldn't have been me. No matter the reassurances I wouldn't believe that the guy wasn't hoping for some "fun" as this is after all a sex site. Different if someone I'd met before hand but not a complete stranger.

We have offered and given lifts on many occasions on fab, to people we have never met and had no ulterior motive. Its just a lift, at the end of the day.

Good shout...maybe you're a kinder soul than me then. And you say "we" so does that mean both you and Mrs in the car? Would you be perfectly happy for her to jump into the car alone and give a complete stranger a lift home and not bat an eyelid, baring in mind it was a 3 mile journey which he could most likely have walked.

Bluebell is far from zipped up the back, so she made her decision and it was a kind gesture. But it would not be me.

Doggy i do get your point but all the bad things you read in the papers or see on the news are on there for a reason, they are rare occurrences out of tens of thousands of times that never turned bad. The world is not a big bad place to be feared, the thing about fear is the fear itself. I got slaughtered because i said on a forum i would talk to a strange female on a bus or train just for a normal conversation, why did i get slaughtered, because i might alarm that female. Yet in ALL the occasions i have done it , it ended in normal conversations and even having some friends and family in common. Too many people are afraid of there own shadows these days and suspect ulterior motives in everything other people do. Why cant people see some things for what they are. This guy blue picked up probably had no money for a taxi and possibly underdressed to embark on a 3 mile hike in the cold. Lets throw a doom and gloom scenario on this scene. He walks half way home and with no jacket and no money having had a few drinks falls asleep outside in a garden somewhere . Thats not a nice wake up call for his parents at new year being told their son died of hypothermia. Sorry guys but in my opinion its nice to be nice. People know me and know my nature so im sure they will know im not bullshitting here.

Look, I'm not suggesting you're bullshitting and accept you're being genuine here. I'd strike up a conversation with a male stranger on a bus too. On a night out I actually enjoy male company, strangers, and the laugh and the banter that can come along with that. I'm about as far removed from a doom and gloom miserable bastard as you can get but I value my personal safety and would not do this. Under any circumstances.

Geez a shout if you're ever stuck and I'll email you the bus timetable ."

Lmfao. You dont think a bus stalker like me has a timetable ??. Get with the times Doggy you get Apps nowadays.   

Sry i never meant to sound derogative or preachy in my other post but maybe i managed both. Oops

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over a year ago


"Nice thing to do but wouldn't have been me. No matter the reassurances I wouldn't believe that the guy wasn't hoping for some "fun" as this is after all a sex site. Different if someone I'd met before hand but not a complete stranger.

We have offered and given lifts on many occasions on fab, to people we have never met and had no ulterior motive. Its just a lift, at the end of the day.

Good shout...maybe you're a kinder soul than me then. And you say "we" so does that mean both you and Mrs in the car? Would you be perfectly happy for her to jump into the car alone and give a complete stranger a lift home and not bat an eyelid, baring in mind it was a 3 mile journey which he could most likely have walked.

Bluebell is far from zipped up the back, so she made her decision and it was a kind gesture. But it would not be me.

Doggy i do get your point but all the bad things you read in the papers or see on the news are on there for a reason, they are rare occurrences out of tens of thousands of times that never turned bad. The world is not a big bad place to be feared, the thing about fear is the fear itself. I got slaughtered because i said on a forum i would talk to a strange female on a bus or train just for a normal conversation, why did i get slaughtered, because i might alarm that female. Yet in ALL the occasions i have done it , it ended in normal conversations and even having some friends and family in common. Too many people are afraid of there own shadows these days and suspect ulterior motives in everything other people do. Why cant people see some things for what they are. This guy blue picked up probably had no money for a taxi and possibly underdressed to embark on a 3 mile hike in the cold. Lets throw a doom and gloom scenario on this scene. He walks half way home and with no jacket and no money having had a few drinks falls asleep outside in a garden somewhere . Thats not a nice wake up call for his parents at new year being told their son died of hypothermia. Sorry guys but in my opinion its nice to be nice. People know me and know my nature so im sure they will know im not bullshitting here.

Look, I'm not suggesting you're bullshitting and accept you're being genuine here. I'd strike up a conversation with a male stranger on a bus too. On a night out I actually enjoy male company, strangers, and the laugh and the banter that can come along with that. I'm about as far removed from a doom and gloom miserable bastard as you can get but I value my personal safety and would not do this. Under any circumstances.

Geez a shout if you're ever stuck and I'll email you the bus timetable .

Lmfao. You dont think a bus stalker like me has a timetable ??. Get with the times Doggy you get Apps nowadays.   

Sry i never meant to sound derogative or preachy in my other post but maybe i managed both. Oops "

Ram yer bus timetable then....only thing you'd be getting is my middle finger through the windae as I drive past you via a big fuck off puddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im with doggy on this.

Yes it's nice to be nice but safety should always come 1st!

Ask yourselves if you have or had a daughter would you be ok with her doing the same?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Verified or not, you took one helluva risk in doing that, just because hes been verified doesn't mean he ain't a mad pyscho, where the other 3 you picked up all skint and had no money to chip in for a bus or taxi home ?

What other 3?. I took my dogs with me also. Dont we all take risks on Fab?

You state that you drove 3 miles to get him and another 3!!

Yes we do take risks but you picked up a complete stranger in your car and drove him home, he could have attacked you or done even worse...your either brave or crazy to do that but you are only lucky lady imo "
I believe the op ment drive 3 there and 3 back

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over a year ago


"Verified or not, you took one helluva risk in doing that, just because hes been verified doesn't mean he ain't a mad pyscho, where the other 3 you picked up all skint and had no money to chip in for a bus or taxi home ?

What other 3?. I took my dogs with me also. Dont we all take risks on Fab?

You state that you drove 3 miles to get him and another 3!!

Yes we do take risks but you picked up a complete stranger in your car and drove him home, he could have attacked you or done even worse...your either brave or crazy to do that but you are only lucky lady imo I believe the op ment drive 3 there and 3 back"

Awww c'mon tae fuck Kola....get wi the programme son! We resolved that query about 8hrs ago!

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By *add boyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Well my first good deed of the year was carried out at 8am yesterday morning. Came in from work, clicked on Fab whilst drinking my coffee as usual and saw on local updates a guy looking for a lift home after a Hogmany party. Checked he was verified before i messaged him asking where he was and where he was going to. Told him i would be there in 15mins to take him home but made him well aware this was just a kind gesture and not anything sex related. Also warned him not to be sick in my car. Drove 3 miles to get him and another 3 to take him home safely. He was very grateful as i had saved him a long walk when he was feeling rough. This is a sex/swinging site i know but its nice to be nice and we should all remember kindness costs nothing"

I think that’s very kind hearted that you’d do that for someone you didn’t know , karma will reward you big time , good things coming your way for sure x

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Verified or not, you took one helluva risk in doing that, just because hes been verified doesn't mean he ain't a mad pyscho, where the other 3 you picked up all skint and had no money to chip in for a bus or taxi home ?

What other 3?. I took my dogs with me also. Dont we all take risks on Fab?

You state that you drove 3 miles to get him and another 3!!

Yes we do take risks but you picked up a complete stranger in your car and drove him home, he could have attacked you or done even worse...your either brave or crazy to do that but you are only lucky lady imo I believe the op ment drive 3 there and 3 back

Awww c'mon tae fuck Kola....get wi the programme son! We resolved that query about 8hrs ago!

"

Lol lol ... he’s just catching up now

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over a year ago


"Well my first good deed of the year was carried out at 8am yesterday morning. Came in from work, clicked on Fab whilst drinking my coffee as usual and saw on local updates a guy looking for a lift home after a Hogmany party. Checked he was verified before i messaged him asking where he was and where he was going to. Told him i would be there in 15mins to take him home but made him well aware this was just a kind gesture and not anything sex related. Also warned him not to be sick in my car. Drove 3 miles to get him and another 3 to take him home safely. He was very grateful as i had saved him a long walk when he was feeling rough. This is a sex/swinging site i know but its nice to be nice and we should all remember kindness costs nothing

I think that’s very kind hearted that you’d do that for someone you didn’t know , karma will reward you big time , good things coming your way for sure x"

Karma is probably sending me a boot in the hole then

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over a year ago


"Well my first good deed of the year was carried out at 8am yesterday morning. Came in from work, clicked on Fab whilst drinking my coffee as usual and saw on local updates a guy looking for a lift home after a Hogmany party. Checked he was verified before i messaged him asking where he was and where he was going to. Told him i would be there in 15mins to take him home but made him well aware this was just a kind gesture and not anything sex related. Also warned him not to be sick in my car. Drove 3 miles to get him and another 3 to take him home safely. He was very grateful as i had saved him a long walk when he was feeling rough. This is a sex/swinging site i know but its nice to be nice and we should all remember kindness costs nothing

I think that’s very kind hearted that you’d do that for someone you didn’t know , karma will reward you big time , good things coming your way for sure x

Karma is probably sending me a boot in the hole then "
or a serial killer waiting in your back seat!! Don't look in the mirror ffs!!

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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I actually did not think about my safety for long. I was sober due to work and doing nothing and someone asked for help. I was able to assist and after a few messages i went and picked him up. I was more concerned for his safety as i have a son who i wouldnt want walking around in a vulnrable state on New Years morning. I took my dogs in car with me. If he had looked dodgy i would not have let him in my car. He was a decent guy and very grateful and i would not hesitate to do it again and hope my daughter and son have learnt from me to offer help to others when they can.

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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Verified or not, you took one helluva risk in doing that, just because hes been verified doesn't mean he ain't a mad pyscho, where the other 3 you picked up all skint and had no money to chip in for a bus or taxi home ?

What other 3?. I took my dogs with me also. Dont we all take risks on Fab?

You state that you drove 3 miles to get him and another 3!!

Yes we do take risks but you picked up a complete stranger in your car and drove him home, he could have attacked you or done even worse...your either brave or crazy to do that but you are only lucky lady imo I believe the op ment drive 3 there and 3 back"

3 miles to get him and another 3 miles to his house. 30mins out of my life is nothing.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Verified or not, you took one helluva risk in doing that, just because hes been verified doesn't mean he ain't a mad pyscho, where the other 3 you picked up all skint and had no money to chip in for a bus or taxi home ?

What other 3?. I took my dogs with me also. Dont we all take risks on Fab?

You state that you drove 3 miles to get him and another 3!!

Yes we do take risks but you picked up a complete stranger in your car and drove him home, he could have attacked you or done even worse...your either brave or crazy to do that but you are only lucky lady imo I believe the op ment drive 3 there and 3 back

Awww c'mon tae fuck Kola....get wi the programme son! We resolved that query about 8hrs ago!

Lol lol ... he’s just catching up now "
too chilled to keep up

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Well my first good deed of the year was carried out at 8am yesterday morning. Came in from work, clicked on Fab whilst drinking my coffee as usual and saw on local updates a guy looking for a lift home after a Hogmany party. Checked he was verified before i messaged him asking where he was and where he was going to. Told him i would be there in 15mins to take him home but made him well aware this was just a kind gesture and not anything sex related. Also warned him not to be sick in my car. Drove 3 miles to get him and another 3 to take him home safely. He was very grateful as i had saved him a long walk when he was feeling rough. This is a sex/swinging site i know but its nice to be nice and we should all remember kindness costs nothing"
I think most of us know how to be kind in our own ways, Im pretty sure we've all done something kind for others at some point too so well done for helping someone out .

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over a year ago


"Verified or not, you took one helluva risk in doing that, just because hes been verified doesn't mean he ain't a mad pyscho, where the other 3 you picked up all skint and had no money to chip in for a bus or taxi home ?

What other 3?. I took my dogs with me also. Dont we all take risks on Fab?

You state that you drove 3 miles to get him and another 3!!

Yes we do take risks but you picked up a complete stranger in your car and drove him home, he could have attacked you or done even worse...your either brave or crazy to do that but you are only lucky lady imo I believe the op ment drive 3 there and 3 back

Awww c'mon tae fuck Kola....get wi the programme son! We resolved that query about 8hrs ago!

Lol lol ... he’s just catching up now too chilled to keep up "

Christ sake...you'll still have your tree up in June at this rate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my first good deed of the year was carried out at 8am yesterday morning. Came in from work, clicked on Fab whilst drinking my coffee as usual and saw on local updates a guy looking for a lift home after a Hogmany party. Checked he was verified before i messaged him asking where he was and where he was going to. Told him i would be there in 15mins to take him home but made him well aware this was just a kind gesture and not anything sex related. Also warned him not to be sick in my car. Drove 3 miles to get him and another 3 to take him home safely. He was very grateful as i had saved him a long walk when he was feeling rough. This is a sex/swinging site i know but its nice to be nice and we should all remember kindness costs nothing"

It's hard to do things like this in today society, such an untrusting nature.

I was coming back from a meet last year and at Nether Pollok at the motorway on ramp and there was a female, about mid 20s, walking, no staggering, along on the road and I passed by her and as I looked in my rear view mirror I watched two cars just miss her due to the big bend so I turned back and then drove along side her and said do you need a lift, where you going.

She fell against my car and told me it was a homeless shelter, or summit like that which from where she was, was 5 miles away, so I told her to get in, which she did and eventually I found it and dropped her off. She had taken drink, 420 and was so out of her face.

I did this many times when I was younger, as I don't drink and usually drive, so if it was close or on my way but helping that girl recently, nowadays I don't normally do it but seriously was worried for her in her state so that's why I helped and dropped her off.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Well my first good deed of the year was carried out at 8am yesterday morning. Came in from work, clicked on Fab whilst drinking my coffee as usual and saw on local updates a guy looking for a lift home after a Hogmany party. Checked he was verified before i messaged him asking where he was and where he was going to. Told him i would be there in 15mins to take him home but made him well aware this was just a kind gesture and not anything sex related. Also warned him not to be sick in my car. Drove 3 miles to get him and another 3 to take him home safely. He was very grateful as i had saved him a long walk when he was feeling rough. This is a sex/swinging site i know but its nice to be nice and we should all remember kindness costs nothingI think most of us know how to be kind in our own ways, Im pretty sure we've all done something kind for others at some point too so well done for helping someone out .

"

I agree, most of us . Not that Doggy one though, shes to busy flipping you off while driving through puddles. Shes the only person i know who thought head and shoulders was a target , not a shampoo.

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over a year ago

Tracey....book

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over a year ago


"Tracey....book "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my first good deed of the year was carried out at 8am yesterday morning. Came in from work, clicked on Fab whilst drinking my coffee as usual and saw on local updates a guy looking for a lift home after a Hogmany party. Checked he was verified before i messaged him asking where he was and where he was going to. Told him i would be there in 15mins to take him home but made him well aware this was just a kind gesture and not anything sex related. Also warned him not to be sick in my car. Drove 3 miles to get him and another 3 to take him home safely. He was very grateful as i had saved him a long walk when he was feeling rough. This is a sex/swinging site i know but its nice to be nice and we should all remember kindness costs nothingI think most of us know how to be kind in our own ways, Im pretty sure we've all done something kind for others at some point too so well done for helping someone out .

I agree, most of us . Not that Doggy one though, shes to busy flipping you off while driving through puddles. Shes the only person i know who thought head and shoulders was a target , not a shampoo. "

Anyone who knows me in real life knows I have a heart of gold really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to see theres nice ppl who go out there way to help others well done for a good newyears deed x

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"Good to see theres nice ppl who go out there way to help others well done for a good newyears deed x"

... and wasnt traumatised by picking up a random stranger

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I do that for a living ... glad it went ok for you blue and yes was a great gesture but not something I would have recommended "

I agree. Even in our profession we can pick can someone dodgy bit out offices know where we are. I was stabbed 15 years ago by a passenger but hit the alarm on my office radio. If i had just been giving a random stranger a lift it CD have been so different.

Unfortunately my job has made me pessimistic over the years x

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"I do that for a living ... glad it went ok for you blue and yes was a great gesture but not something I would have recommended

I agree. Even in our profession we can pick can someone dodgy bit out offices know where we are. I was stabbed 15 years ago by a passenger but hit the alarm on my office radio. If i had just been giving a random stranger a lift it CD have been so different.

Unfortunately my job has made me pessimistic over the years x"

15 years ago , im assuming your a taxi driver. You pick people up daily most are strangers and your quoting from 15 years ago. I think that stat in itself is testament that what blue done was less than a minimal risk. You must have picked up thousands or tens of thousands of people in 15 years not to mention how long in total you have been taxi ing .

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I do that for a living ... glad it went ok for you blue and yes was a great gesture but not something I would have recommended

I agree. Even in our profession we can pick can someone dodgy bit out offices know where we are. I was stabbed 15 years ago by a passenger but hit the alarm on my office radio. If i had just been giving a random stranger a lift it CD have been so different.

Unfortunately my job has made me pessimistic over the years x

15 years ago , im assuming your a taxi driver. You pick people up daily most are strangers and your quoting from 15 years ago. I think that stat in itself is testament that what blue done was less than a minimal risk. You must have picked up thousands or tens of thousands of people in 15 years not to mention how long in total you have been taxi ing . "

True iv been cabbing 35 years amd only had big trouble twice and once was cos i went to help a young girl that was set upon by 2 other women. About 200 people in a taxi rank and I was the only one to help. Wasn't downing what she did, she's obviously a genuinely nice person but sadly the world we live in and the people in it have changed over the years , why I don't know but I see a big difference to attitudes today than when I started 35 years ago. X

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