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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever considered meeting someone, only to be completely put off by their postings on a Forum?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Have you ever considered meeting someone, only to be completely put off by their postings on a Forum? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes many times and sure a quite a few are put off me but going by forum input alone you definitely don't get the complete picture of someone but most of us ain't here for drama and or hassle so we just ignore, its only human nature and move on or look elsewhere

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By *hatsmynameagainCouple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Lots of times

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

Yes! The go on the special B list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

Before that I'd make sure I'm aware of how they like to represent themselves in public if they use the forum

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Have you ever considered meeting someone, only to be completely put off by their postings on a Forum? "

Yep. On the other hand of bow got quite a few friends I talk to and a couple i hope to eventually meet by starting to talk on the forum x

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Have you ever considered meeting someone, only to be completely put off by their postings on a Forum? "

Depends, are you talking about put off meeting as a play mate or put off meeting them at a social or thinking i NEVER want to speak to that person or meet them under any circumstances.

For me , yes i would not want to play with some people due to a forum post.

As for meeting at socials or whatever i would not ignore someone or avoid them purely because of a forum post. Thats just daft.

Mature adults can still talk to each other even if they have had disagreements on a chat site surely.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"No

Before that I'd make sure I'm aware of how they like to represent themselves in public if they use the forum"

We agree on something.

Next we will be swapping numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever considered meeting someone, only to be completely put off by their postings on a Forum? "

When you think of it, you can be put off someone by their forum postings or their chat room postings or their profile or pictures they display, verifications etc...

Each of those things alone can put anyone off, it's up to you individually to change your mind.

There are a lot of people who do not use the forums and many go into the chat rooms or use fab for other means than the forum and I've been put of them and those people who do not use the forums maybe oblivious to how the person acts on the forums, good or bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever considered meeting someone, only to be completely put off by their postings on a Forum?

When you think of it, you can be put off someone by their forum postings or their chat room postings or their profile or pictures they display, verifications etc...

Each of those things alone can put anyone off, it's up to you individually to change your mind.

There are a lot of people who do not use the forums and many go into the chat rooms or use fab for other means than the forum and I've been put of them and those people who do not use the forums maybe oblivious to how the person acts on the forums, good or bad. "

If someone doesn't use the forum it's not very likely a forum post will put them off then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone consistently posted shite and came across as an utter dick then yes, it would put me off. Unlikely that one or two posts would do that though, let's face it, we're all guilty of posting nonsense from time to time.

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland


"If someone consistently posted shite and came across as an utter dick then yes, it would put me off. Unlikely that one or two posts would do that though, let's face it, we're all guilty of posting nonsense from time to time."

I'm with doggy.

People are different behind a keyboard. Benefit of the doubt unless they're constantly an attention seeking arsehole out to cause trouble.

Pretty sure I've put a few people off us but then our page views double who knows?!

V x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Sometimes folks input on the forums leaves me intrigued and want to meet them more. I like someone who speaks their mind and not just a sheep who says all the right things at the right times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes folks input on the forums leaves me intrigued and want to meet them more. I like someone who speaks their mind and not just a sheep who says all the right things at the right times. "

baaaahhhh awww DAMG

Just realised I was a sheep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes folks input on the forums leaves me intrigued and want to meet them more. I like someone who speaks their mind and not just a sheep who says all the right things at the right times. "

That in itself can be a bit "Look at me! Look at me!" though...the need to stand out and be controversial for the sake of it.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Someone's input on forum shouldn't be taken as a full representation of their personality. Lots of people here don't use forums.

We're all guilty of misreading, poor choice of words, or writing something we later think "ooops" .

Best way to get to know someone is in person.

On the whole, I'm probably more attracted by people who do write on forum

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Sometimes folks input on the forums leaves me intrigued and want to meet them more. I like someone who speaks their mind and not just a sheep who says all the right things at the right times.

That in itself can be a bit "Look at me! Look at me!" though...the need to stand out and be controversial for the sake of it. "

Dont agree doggy, i think speaking your mind and being honest is the best policy. Some will be upset but most appreciate straight talking. You do it in your own unique way i have to say lol, but its the way you are not a look at me type post. Or is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone's input on forum shouldn't be taken as a full representation of their personality. Lots of people here don't use forums.

We're all guilty of misreading, poor choice of words, or writing something we later think "ooops" .

Best way to get to know someone is in person.

On the whole, I'm probably more attracted by people who do write on forum "

What happens when you really like someone based on their forum posts though and then they go and spoil it all by doing something stupid like sending a face pic? . "Sake!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes folks input on the forums leaves me intrigued and want to meet them more. I like someone who speaks their mind and not just a sheep who says all the right things at the right times.

That in itself can be a bit "Look at me! Look at me!" though...the need to stand out and be controversial for the sake of it.

Dont agree doggy, i think speaking your mind and being honest is the best policy. Some will be upset but most appreciate straight talking. You do it in your own unique way i have to say lol, but its the way you are not a look at me type post. Or is it "

Some folk will probably think it's attention seeking ....but you probably know I couldn't give a big, curly, brown one

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Someone's input on forum shouldn't be taken as a full representation of their personality. Lots of people here don't use forums.

We're all guilty of misreading, poor choice of words, or writing something we later think "ooops" .

Best way to get to know someone is in person.

On the whole, I'm probably more attracted by people who do write on forum "

Yes i like meeting in person so as to read body language and facial expressions as it gives a better reflection of someone than words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I come into the forums when I’m bored mostly and want to stir the pot as it were

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"Someone's input on forum shouldn't be taken as a full representation of their personality. Lots of people here don't use forums.

We're all guilty of misreading, poor choice of words, or writing something we later think "ooops" .

Best way to get to know someone is in person.

On the whole, I'm probably more attracted by people who do write on forum

What happens when you really like someone based on their forum posts though and then they go and spoil it all by doing something stupid like sending a face pic? . "Sake!""

ha! That's what celebrity masks are for. Mrs Doggy on the streets, keira knightly(or other celebrity of your choosing) in the sheets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't judge a person by what they post on a forum after all it is a discussion page where people's opinions will vary and to hold that against someone,to me is a very shallow thing to do .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

But it can also have the opposite effect.

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

Not put off, but becoming dialed in to others either humour, manor,outlook on stuff, has me either miffed or laughing usually.

It’s sometimes almost like politicians, kind of predictable, “tell them what they want to hear”,that too is kind of funny.

But to use this fragment of the site to gauge, “how somebody is”?

Some people can be quiet, very little to say in person, yet enjoy being able to think and type on fab forums amongst fellow fab people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forum posts do make you see some folk in a different light... Not always for the better

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Tone is totly lost in this kind of setting though. Same with messages. I'm sure I offended someone in a message a few days ago because I can be quite a dry, sarcastic cow but all in humour. It just doesn't translate though. It's like the 'can accommodate can travel' thread earlier. Humour missed by some.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

1st impressions last.

And goes both ways as if someone takes offense to anything iv said then it's obvious we wouldn't have been compatible anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes as there are some people who take things too far. I'm all for opinions and I respect that there are some who are just out to cause trouble on every thread. Why would you want to meet someone like that or even chat with them? x

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Conversely I’ve met a few forumites and they are nicer in person than they are portrayed in the forums.

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Some of my ourum posts make me look like a dick, some do the opposite.

We are all a complex mess of our own life experience, and never ever as simple as we first appear.

We all go through bad times and everyone deserves a second chance at making a good impression.

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Some of my ourum posts make me look like a dick, some do the opposite.

We are all a complex mess of our own life experience, and never ever as simple as we first appear.

We all go through bad times and everyone deserves a second chance at making a good impression."

*forum (oops, fat fingers, but im sure you all understood)

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character


"Tone is totly lost in this kind of setting though. Same with messages. I'm sure I offended someone in a message a few days ago because I can be quite a dry, sarcastic cow but all in humour. It just doesn't translate though. It's like the 'can accommodate can travel' thread earlier. Humour missed by some.

V x"

Fame at last!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone take Forum posts that seriously? Seen posts on here from some who may have had a little too much to drink or smoke. lol and is it so wrong for someone to have a opinion that doesn't quite agree with yours? do you split from your partner just because they don't agree with you in the real world?

Some just get the wording wrong, I know been slated on here enough times and had to re-explain myself lol

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

Well I've added the words "tin foil hat" to some profiles' private notes after reading the conspiracy theory thread

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

Been blocked by a few after some of my more near the knuckle posts ,and I have blocked a few ,it the way of the forums and way folks sometimes Express opinions in type instead of oral communication

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By *overocketoneMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

Somewhere over the 'Rainbow'

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Well I've added the words "tin foil hat" to some profiles' private notes after reading the conspiracy theory thread "

Yep those folk that thought the moon landings happened.

Only joking keep it to the other thread haha. Like the tin hat idea though .

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character


"Well I've added the words "tin foil hat" to some profiles' private notes after reading the conspiracy theory thread

Yep those folk that thought the moon landings happened.

Only joking keep it to the other thread haha. Like the tin hat idea though . "

The tinfoil hat was for you!

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Well I've added the words "tin foil hat" to some profiles' private notes after reading the conspiracy theory thread

Yep those folk that thought the moon landings happened.

Only joking keep it to the other thread haha. Like the tin hat idea though .

The tinfoil hat was for you! "

Never !!!

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

Went to a social met fem of couple who decided via forums i was,"up my own arse" did not like me etc.

Told other half later,"actually a real nice guy".

What does that endorse using forum wise?

Think it says more of the people choosing to be judge n jury via forums really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to a social met fem of couple who decided via forums i was,"up my own arse" did not like me etc.

Told other half later,"actually a real nice guy".

What does that endorse using forum wise?

Think it says more of the people choosing to be judge n jury via forums really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to a social met fem of couple who decided via forums i was,"up my own arse" did not like me etc.

Told other half later,"actually a real nice guy".

What does that endorse using forum wise?

Think it says more of the people choosing to be judge n jury via forums really.

"

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person.

I'll continue to use the forum as an indicator of how some people really think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone's input on forum shouldn't be taken as a full representation of their personality. Lots of people here don't use forums.

We're all guilty of misreading, poor choice of words, or writing something we later think "ooops" .

Best way to get to know someone is in person.

On the whole, I'm probably more attracted by people who do write on forum

Yes i like meeting in person so as to read body language and facial expressions as it gives a better reflection of someone than words."

100% agree. Its not what you say its how you say it; its the glint in the eye, the cheeky smile, being able to guage sincerity....

For dyslexics this modern era is a nightmare, dismissed before given a chance to demonstrate their silver tongue

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Went to a social met fem of couple who decided via forums i was,"up my own arse" did not like me etc.

Told other half later,"actually a real nice guy".

What does that endorse using forum wise?

Think it says more of the people choosing to be judge n jury via forums really.

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person.

I'll continue to use the forum as an indicator of how some people really think "

Lol, i dont see that type of indicator putting psychologists out of business any time soon.

Can just see someone going to their GP with psychological issues and the GP saying, heres a forum you can type into, we have experts in there will know exactly what your thinking .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to a social met fem of couple who decided via forums i was,"up my own arse" did not like me etc.

Told other half later,"actually a real nice guy".

What does that endorse using forum wise?

Think it says more of the people choosing to be judge n jury via forums really.

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person.

I'll continue to use the forum as an indicator of how some people really think

Lol, i dont see that type of indicator putting psychologists out of business any time soon.

Can just see someone going to their GP with psychological issues and the GP saying, heres a forum you can type into, we have experts in there will know exactly what your thinking . "

I'm not that sure what a GP or a psychologist has to do with finding folk you might be compatible with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to a social met fem of couple who decided via forums i was,"up my own arse" did not like me etc.

Told other half later,"actually a real nice guy".

What does that endorse using forum wise?

Think it says more of the people choosing to be judge n jury via forums really.

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person.

I'll continue to use the forum as an indicator of how some people really think

Lol, i dont see that type of indicator putting psychologists out of business any time soon.

Can just see someone going to their GP with psychological issues and the GP saying, heres a forum you can type into, we have experts in there will know exactly what your thinking . "

Well if I remember rightly you couldn’t wait to meet me after a few forum posts lol obviously my dodgy humour wasn’t lost or taken seriously or you wouldn’t have got to meet superMe

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Went to a social met fem of couple who decided via forums i was,"up my own arse" did not like me etc.

Told other half later,"actually a real nice guy".

What does that endorse using forum wise?

Think it says more of the people choosing to be judge n jury via forums really.

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person.

I'll continue to use the forum as an indicator of how some people really think

Lol, i dont see that type of indicator putting psychologists out of business any time soon.

Can just see someone going to their GP with psychological issues and the GP saying, heres a forum you can type into, we have experts in there will know exactly what your thinking .

I'm not that sure what a GP or a psychologist has to do with finding folk you might be compatible with"

You never said anything about compatibility, i commented on you being able to know whats in a persons mind from a forum. Its harder to bullshit face to face.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Went to a social met fem of couple who decided via forums i was,"up my own arse" did not like me etc.

Told other half later,"actually a real nice guy".

What does that endorse using forum wise?

Think it says more of the people choosing to be judge n jury via forums really.

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person.

I'll continue to use the forum as an indicator of how some people really think

Lol, i dont see that type of indicator putting psychologists out of business any time soon.

Can just see someone going to their GP with psychological issues and the GP saying, heres a forum you can type into, we have experts in there will know exactly what your thinking .

Well if I remember rightly you couldn’t wait to meet me after a few forum posts lol obviously my dodgy humour wasn’t lost or taken seriously or you wouldn’t have got to meet superMe"

For your information, its not only your humour thats dodgy violet.

And ive regretted that meeting ever since. Happy New Year by the way. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to a social met fem of couple who decided via forums i was,"up my own arse" did not like me etc.

Told other half later,"actually a real nice guy".

What does that endorse using forum wise?

Think it says more of the people choosing to be judge n jury via forums really.

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person.

I'll continue to use the forum as an indicator of how some people really think

Lol, i dont see that type of indicator putting psychologists out of business any time soon.

Can just see someone going to their GP with psychological issues and the GP saying, heres a forum you can type into, we have experts in there will know exactly what your thinking .

I'm not that sure what a GP or a psychologist has to do with finding folk you might be compatible with

You never said anything about compatibility, i commented on you being able to know whats in a persons mind from a forum. Its harder to bullshit face to face. "

I don't like some views people express and I don't like how these views are often expressed.

Which tells me there would be no compatibility.

I don't know what's difficult to understand about that

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Went to a social met fem of couple who decided via forums i was,"up my own arse" did not like me etc.

Told other half later,"actually a real nice guy".

What does that endorse using forum wise?

Think it says more of the people choosing to be judge n jury via forums really.

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person.

I'll continue to use the forum as an indicator of how some people really think

Lol, i dont see that type of indicator putting psychologists out of business any time soon.

Can just see someone going to their GP with psychological issues and the GP saying, heres a forum you can type into, we have experts in there will know exactly what your thinking .

I'm not that sure what a GP or a psychologist has to do with finding folk you might be compatible with

You never said anything about compatibility, i commented on you being able to know whats in a persons mind from a forum. Its harder to bullshit face to face.

I don't like some views people express and I don't like how these views are often expressed.

Which tells me there would be no compatibility.

I don't know what's difficult to understand about that"

So by that analogy, if there views and comments in a forum are nice and to your liking you would be happy to play with them , going by your earlier comment too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to a social met fem of couple who decided via forums i was,"up my own arse" did not like me etc.

Told other half later,"actually a real nice guy".

What does that endorse using forum wise?

Think it says more of the people choosing to be judge n jury via forums really.

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person.

I'll continue to use the forum as an indicator of how some people really think

Lol, i dont see that type of indicator putting psychologists out of business any time soon.

Can just see someone going to their GP with psychological issues and the GP saying, heres a forum you can type into, we have experts in there will know exactly what your thinking .

I'm not that sure what a GP or a psychologist has to do with finding folk you might be compatible with

You never said anything about compatibility, i commented on you being able to know whats in a persons mind from a forum. Its harder to bullshit face to face.

I don't like some views people express and I don't like how these views are often expressed.

Which tells me there would be no compatibility.

I don't know what's difficult to understand about that

So by that analogy, if there views and comments in a forum are nice and to your liking you would be happy to play with them , going by your earlier comment too. "

Not quite sure how ypu leapt to that conclusion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to a social met fem of couple who decided via forums i was,"up my own arse" did not like me etc.

Told other half later,"actually a real nice guy".

What does that endorse using forum wise?

Think it says more of the people choosing to be judge n jury via forums really.

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person.

I'll continue to use the forum as an indicator of how some people really think

Lol, i dont see that type of indicator putting psychologists out of business any time soon.

Can just see someone going to their GP with psychological issues and the GP saying, heres a forum you can type into, we have experts in there will know exactly what your thinking .

Well if I remember rightly you couldn’t wait to meet me after a few forum posts lol obviously my dodgy humour wasn’t lost or taken seriously or you wouldn’t have got to meet superMe

For your information, its not only your humour thats dodgy violet.

And ive regretted that meeting ever since. Happy New Year by the way. Xx"

Me dodgy !! I seen your dance moves remember, talking dodgy guess what I treated myself to ??!!??? Can’t wait to get them out to play with a few sick minded individuals !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to a social met fem of couple who decided via forums i was,"up my own arse" did not like me etc.

Told other half later,"actually a real nice guy".

What does that endorse using forum wise?

Think it says more of the people choosing to be judge n jury via forums really.

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person.

I'll continue to use the forum as an indicator of how some people really think

Lol, i dont see that type of indicator putting psychologists out of business any time soon.

Can just see someone going to their GP with psychological issues and the GP saying, heres a forum you can type into, we have experts in there will know exactly what your thinking .

Well if I remember rightly you couldn’t wait to meet me after a few forum posts lol obviously my dodgy humour wasn’t lost or taken seriously or you wouldn’t have got to meet superMe

For your information, its not only your humour thats dodgy violet.

And ive regretted that meeting ever since. Happy New Year by the way. Xx"

Happy new year to you and your better half as well xxx

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person.

I'll continue to use the forum as an indicator of how some people really think "

I jumped to that conclusion because of your comment here. You think its easy for people to be nice in person in other words fake there true nature, so your criteria must be by your second comment ie using the forum as an indicator of what they REALLY think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person.

I'll continue to use the forum as an indicator of how some people really think

I jumped to that conclusion because of your comment here. You think its easy for people to be nice in person in other words fake there true nature, so your criteria must be by your second comment ie using the forum as an indicator of what they REALLY think. "

I've been commenting on what would put me off meeting someone, nothing else

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Went to a social met fem of couple who decided via forums i was,"up my own arse" did not like me etc.

Told other half later,"actually a real nice guy".

What does that endorse using forum wise?

Think it says more of the people choosing to be judge n jury via forums really.

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person.

I'll continue to use the forum as an indicator of how some people really think

Lol, i dont see that type of indicator putting psychologists out of business any time soon.

Can just see someone going to their GP with psychological issues and the GP saying, heres a forum you can type into, we have experts in there will know exactly what your thinking .

Well if I remember rightly you couldn’t wait to meet me after a few forum posts lol obviously my dodgy humour wasn’t lost or taken seriously or you wouldn’t have got to meet superMe

For your information, its not only your humour thats dodgy violet.

And ive regretted that meeting ever since. Happy New Year by the way. Xx

Me dodgy !! I seen your dance moves remember, talking dodgy guess what I treated myself to ??!!??? Can’t wait to get them out to play with a few sick minded individuals !! "

Ohh i know what you bought lmao. We would love an invite next time you whip it out . Did you enjoy it that much the last time we played it

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person.

I'll continue to use the forum as an indicator of how some people really think

I jumped to that conclusion because of your comment here. You think its easy for people to be nice in person in other words fake there true nature, so your criteria must be by your second comment ie using the forum as an indicator of what they REALLY think.

I've been commenting on what would put me off meeting someone, nothing else"

But you brought into the thread the part '

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person' ? Which had nothing to do with posts. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to a social met fem of couple who decided via forums i was,"up my own arse" did not like me etc.

Told other half later,"actually a real nice guy".

What does that endorse using forum wise?

Think it says more of the people choosing to be judge n jury via forums really.

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person.

I'll continue to use the forum as an indicator of how some people really think

Lol, i dont see that type of indicator putting psychologists out of business any time soon.

Can just see someone going to their GP with psychological issues and the GP saying, heres a forum you can type into, we have experts in there will know exactly what your thinking .

Well if I remember rightly you couldn’t wait to meet me after a few forum posts lol obviously my dodgy humour wasn’t lost or taken seriously or you wouldn’t have got to meet superMe

For your information, its not only your humour thats dodgy violet.

And ive regretted that meeting ever since. Happy New Year by the way. Xx

Me dodgy !! I seen your dance moves remember, talking dodgy guess what I treated myself to ??!!??? Can’t wait to get them out to play with a few sick minded individuals !!

Ohh i know what you bought lmao. We would love an invite next time you whip it out . Did you enjoy it that much the last time we played it "

Oh I did so much lol throwing the cat out here !!! I enjoyed it so much and got so excited over my new purchase my kids ears perked up omg all round family of nut jobs hahaha sick and twisted like their mammy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever considered meeting someone, only to be completely put off by their postings on a Forum? "

Most definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person.

I'll continue to use the forum as an indicator of how some people really think

I jumped to that conclusion because of your comment here. You think its easy for people to be nice in person in other words fake there true nature, so your criteria must be by your second comment ie using the forum as an indicator of what they REALLY think.

I've been commenting on what would put me off meeting someone, nothing else

But you brought into the thread the part '

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person' ? Which had nothing to do with posts. ?

"

If you go back and read that comment and the post it was in response too, then maybe you'll understand it

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Went to a social met fem of couple who decided via forums i was,"up my own arse" did not like me etc.

Told other half later,"actually a real nice guy".

What does that endorse using forum wise?

Think it says more of the people choosing to be judge n jury via forums really.

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person.

I'll continue to use the forum as an indicator of how some people really think

Lol, i dont see that type of indicator putting psychologists out of business any time soon.

Can just see someone going to their GP with psychological issues and the GP saying, heres a forum you can type into, we have experts in there will know exactly what your thinking .

Well if I remember rightly you couldn’t wait to meet me after a few forum posts lol obviously my dodgy humour wasn’t lost or taken seriously or you wouldn’t have got to meet superMe

For your information, its not only your humour thats dodgy violet.

And ive regretted that meeting ever since. Happy New Year by the way. Xx

Me dodgy !! I seen your dance moves remember, talking dodgy guess what I treated myself to ??!!??? Can’t wait to get them out to play with a few sick minded individuals !!

Ohh i know what you bought lmao. We would love an invite next time you whip it out . Did you enjoy it that much the last time we played it

Oh I did so much lol throwing the cat out here !!! I enjoyed it so much and got so excited over my new purchase my kids ears perked up omg all round family of nut jobs hahaha sick and twisted like their mammy"

Playing it with family, that is sick haha. We tried it after xmas dinner once the mother in law was gone. My lot are feckin boring think we should have involved Allis mother the look on her face would have been better than any answers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to a social met fem of couple who decided via forums i was,"up my own arse" did not like me etc.

Told other half later,"actually a real nice guy".

What does that endorse using forum wise?

Think it says more of the people choosing to be judge n jury via forums really.

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person.

I'll continue to use the forum as an indicator of how some people really think

Lol, i dont see that type of indicator putting psychologists out of business any time soon.

Can just see someone going to their GP with psychological issues and the GP saying, heres a forum you can type into, we have experts in there will know exactly what your thinking .

Well if I remember rightly you couldn’t wait to meet me after a few forum posts lol obviously my dodgy humour wasn’t lost or taken seriously or you wouldn’t have got to meet superMe

For your information, its not only your humour thats dodgy violet.

And ive regretted that meeting ever since. Happy New Year by the way. Xx

Me dodgy !! I seen your dance moves remember, talking dodgy guess what I treated myself to ??!!??? Can’t wait to get them out to play with a few sick minded individuals !!

Ohh i know what you bought lmao. We would love an invite next time you whip it out . Did you enjoy it that much the last time we played it

Oh I did so much lol throwing the cat out here !!! I enjoyed it so much and got so excited over my new purchase my kids ears perked up omg all round family of nut jobs hahaha sick and twisted like their mammy

Playing it with family, that is sick haha. We tried it after xmas dinner once the mother in law was gone. My lot are feckin boring think we should have involved Allis mother the look on her face would have been better than any answers. "

I can’t wait to play with a few friends defo need to get the acessory packs, when you guys next at cjs ? Fancy a wee game ?

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Went to a social met fem of couple who decided via forums i was,"up my own arse" did not like me etc.

Told other half later,"actually a real nice guy".

What does that endorse using forum wise?

Think it says more of the people choosing to be judge n jury via forums really.

I think folk forget it's easy to be nice in person.

I'll continue to use the forum as an indicator of how some people really think

Lol, i dont see that type of indicator putting psychologists out of business any time soon.

Can just see someone going to their GP with psychological issues and the GP saying, heres a forum you can type into, we have experts in there will know exactly what your thinking .

Well if I remember rightly you couldn’t wait to meet me after a few forum posts lol obviously my dodgy humour wasn’t lost or taken seriously or you wouldn’t have got to meet superMe

For your information, its not only your humour thats dodgy violet.

And ive regretted that meeting ever since. Happy New Year by the way. Xx

Me dodgy !! I seen your dance moves remember, talking dodgy guess what I treated myself to ??!!??? Can’t wait to get them out to play with a few sick minded individuals !!

Ohh i know what you bought lmao. We would love an invite next time you whip it out . Did you enjoy it that much the last time we played it

Oh I did so much lol throwing the cat out here !!! I enjoyed it so much and got so excited over my new purchase my kids ears perked up omg all round family of nut jobs hahaha sick and twisted like their mammy

Playing it with family, that is sick haha. We tried it after xmas dinner once the mother in law was gone. My lot are feckin boring think we should have involved Allis mother the look on her face would have been better than any answers.

I can’t wait to play with a few friends defo need to get the acessory packs, when you guys next at cjs ? Fancy a wee game ? "

Surely you dont mean on the kitchen table. Do you think Caroline would mind

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By *ntirelyBonkersWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Have you ever considered meeting someone, only to be completely put off by their postings on a Forum? "

Yup!!

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I think everybody could have been put off at least one person on here due to some of those posting.

There are rants between individuals, n windups on posts, some just having a general laugh, some with an agenda behind it. Some taking their laugh the wrong way. Some of those people may have forum history in the past, jealousy or other stuff that has happened that forum viewers are not privy to.

Arguments have happened due to miss reading a post and all hell has broken loose loll. There are people who are quite opinionated and there are people who are out to cause hassle and put posts off topic. We all see this stuff and read it, forming views and opinions of those people.

In saying all that the same can be said for people in the chat rooms, people who put up certain type of pics on their profile, certain verifications shown etc....we can all be put off someone due to any of the listed stuff and more

It's us as an individuals if we act on those view and block the person etc... but one persons block might be another's 'want to meet'

I personally think everyone has at some point thought due to someone's forum postings 'fuck meeting him or her '.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"

There are rants between individuals, n windups on posts, some just having a general laugh, some with an agenda behind it. Some taking their laugh the wrong way.

Arguments have happened due to miss reading a post and all hell has broken loose loll. There are people who are quite opinionated and there are people who are out to cause hassle and put posts off topic.

"

All good points, the things that make all your points real food for thought though is the people that make the these judgements on a persons intention and quite often getting the intention wrong.

They see every post as a personal attack or every different opinion as a personal attack when it is purely a complete different viewpoint, or when someone speaks truthfully, thats another red rag to a bull to some people. Apart from a wee spat yesterday , started from a minor difference of opinion that escalated rapidly the forums have been slightly better so far in 2019. There is a few that need MUZZLED , and i could be BARKING up the wrong tree, but if you see past the comments as personal , give back as good as you get then hopefully it will continue to be a better forum in 2019.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from a wee spat yesterday , started from a minor difference of opinion that escalated rapidly the forums have been slightly better so far in 2019. There is a few that need MUZZLED , and i could be BARKING up the wrong tree, but if you see past the comments as personal , give back as good as you get then hopefully it will continue to be a better forum in 2019. "

I always seem to miss the fun

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"

There are rants between individuals, n windups on posts, some just having a general laugh, some with an agenda behind it. Some taking their laugh the wrong way.

Arguments have happened due to miss reading a post and all hell has broken loose loll. There are people who are quite opinionated and there are people who are out to cause hassle and put posts off topic.

All good points, the things that make all your points real food for thought though is the people that make the these judgements on a persons intention and quite often getting the intention wrong.

They see every post as a personal attack or every different opinion as a personal attack when it is purely a complete different viewpoint, or when someone speaks truthfully, thats another red rag to a bull to some people. Apart from a wee spat yesterday , started from a minor difference of opinion that escalated rapidly the forums have been slightly better so far in 2019. There is a few that need MUZZLED , and i could be BARKING up the wrong tree, but if you see past the comments as personal , give back as good as you get then hopefully it will continue to be a better forum in 2019. "

Sorry should have added a few after muzzled and barking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever considered meeting someone, only to be completely put off by their postings on a Forum? "

There's actually a lot of people on fab who don't even know fab has a forum section.

I was in the chat room last night and someone mentioned the Scots forum and a couple of people asked in the room, where can you find the forums

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Yeah

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Like it's been said, everyone who posts on the forums has posted a stupid/idiotic/pleb like/ post at some time or another (of course me included, probably all 3 lol), that wouldn't sway things for me....but if someone did this on a regular/continuous basis then yep, defo would put me of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awful things said on forum posts that there is no excuse for, messy/tacky pictures, terrible profile names, if they've been with someone I don't particularly like....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yepppppp

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

To merge a couple of recent forum threads, if your screen names ok, or classy or has a sexy mystique to it and your consistantly nice "in forums",chances of meeting are increased,,oh and dont have a cock pic as your avatar either?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

There are rants between individuals, n windups on posts, some just having a general laugh, some with an agenda behind it. Some taking their laugh the wrong way.

Arguments have happened due to miss reading a post and all hell has broken loose loll. There are people who are quite opinionated and there are people who are out to cause hassle and put posts off topic.

All good points, the things that make all your points real food for thought though is the people that make the these judgements on a persons intention and quite often getting the intention wrong.

They see every post as a personal attack or every different opinion as a personal attack when it is purely a complete different viewpoint, or when someone speaks truthfully, thats another red rag to a bull to some people. Apart from a wee spat yesterday , started from a minor difference of opinion that escalated rapidly the forums have been slightly better so far in 2019. There is a few that need MUZZLED , and i could be BARKING up the wrong tree, but if you see past the comments as personal , give back as good as you get then hopefully it will continue to be a better forum in 2019. "

I just shat on your front step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

There are rants between individuals, n windups on posts, some just having a general laugh, some with an agenda behind it. Some taking their laugh the wrong way.

Arguments have happened due to miss reading a post and all hell has broken loose loll. There are people who are quite opinionated and there are people who are out to cause hassle and put posts off topic.

All good points, the things that make all your points real food for thought though is the people that make the these judgements on a persons intention and quite often getting the intention wrong.

They see every post as a personal attack or every different opinion as a personal attack when it is purely a complete different viewpoint, or when someone speaks truthfully, thats another red rag to a bull to some people. Apart from a wee spat yesterday , started from a minor difference of opinion that escalated rapidly the forums have been slightly better so far in 2019. There is a few that need MUZZLED , and i could be BARKING up the wrong tree, but if you see past the comments as personal , give back as good as you get then hopefully it will continue to be a better forum in 2019.

I just shat on your front step "

You shoukd have shat in a paper bag, set it alight then rang the doorbell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

There are rants between individuals, n windups on posts, some just having a general laugh, some with an agenda behind it. Some taking their laugh the wrong way.

Arguments have happened due to miss reading a post and all hell has broken loose loll. There are people who are quite opinionated and there are people who are out to cause hassle and put posts off topic.

All good points, the things that make all your points real food for thought though is the people that make the these judgements on a persons intention and quite often getting the intention wrong.

They see every post as a personal attack or every different opinion as a personal attack when it is purely a complete different viewpoint, or when someone speaks truthfully, thats another red rag to a bull to some people. Apart from a wee spat yesterday , started from a minor difference of opinion that escalated rapidly the forums have been slightly better so far in 2019. There is a few that need MUZZLED , and i could be BARKING up the wrong tree, but if you see past the comments as personal , give back as good as you get then hopefully it will continue to be a better forum in 2019.

I just shat on your front step

You shoukd have shat in a paper bag, set it alight then rang the doorbell. "

That's plan b depending on his response

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Someone’s status just made me go “no” x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

There are rants between individuals, n windups on posts, some just having a general laugh, some with an agenda behind it. Some taking their laugh the wrong way.

Arguments have happened due to miss reading a post and all hell has broken loose loll. There are people who are quite opinionated and there are people who are out to cause hassle and put posts off topic.

All good points, the things that make all your points real food for thought though is the people that make the these judgements on a persons intention and quite often getting the intention wrong.

They see every post as a personal attack or every different opinion as a personal attack when it is purely a complete different viewpoint, or when someone speaks truthfully, thats another red rag to a bull to some people. Apart from a wee spat yesterday , started from a minor difference of opinion that escalated rapidly the forums have been slightly better so far in 2019. There is a few that need MUZZLED , and i could be BARKING up the wrong tree, but if you see past the comments as personal , give back as good as you get then hopefully it will continue to be a better forum in 2019.

I just shat on your front step

You shoukd have shat in a paper bag, set it alight then rang the doorbell.

That's plan b depending on his response "

Hope you will stream it in hmthe fab cam room.

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