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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now i have come across some off these on the Site and i used to have the view that they where just a bit raw for me but as time has went on i am now starting to side more with them ( even done it to my own ) and see why the Direct approach might have it's uses.

So what do others thing about these type off profiles , now lets not mix them up with Demanding profiles

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Yup im aure plenty will fall for it and read your profile.........not me though you will be glad to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah they actually work, going by some of their meets.

Direct and even ones with pics of cock, pussy penetration pics as well.

Not for me though, and I'm now finding myself looking at profiles that have interested me in the past, am now being put off of them after seeing pics, verifications etc..

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Yup im aure plenty will fall for it and read your profile.........not me though you will be glad to know "

Thats a bit harsh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean by direct?

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"What do you mean by direct? "

Jaha i was just about to type the same thing Jen .

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I think she means straight to the point. No small talk

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

A profile should contain, a bit of what you want a bit of what you can offer a bit about expectations a bit about maybe what your not looking for. Thats not direct or demanding but just something that people can then make an informed decision whether to message you or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I look at a Direct profile as straight to the point and not pussy footing around,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think she means straight to the point. No small talk"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Direct approach is best I think. Both parties should know where they stand then from the get go.

The ultra demanding profiles just lead to a quiet "fud(s)" being uttered.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Suppose straight to point what they are looking for profiles beat the long winded profiles full of what they don't want

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

[Removed by poster at 20/12/18 17:29:51]

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

Dang hit delete by mistake, cant be arsed re typing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now i have come across some off these on the Site and i used to have the view that they where just a bit raw for me but as time has went on i am now starting to side more with them ( even done it to my own ) and see why the Direct approach might have it's uses.

So what do others thing about these type off profiles , now lets not mix them up with Demanding profiles "

When I think back to what it was like over 10 years ago, it was more direct, more parties, more people meeting to have sex, more people meeting to have a chat and sex, lots of fun quite quickly.

As the years have went on there's been tons of timewasters, idiots, hassle and a lot, who have been on the site are more careful now before they decide what way they want to go with the person. Not saying this all the time as sometimes they might decide to go for it straight away as they feel comfortable.

My own profile, I'd say does more to put people off, no quickies, doesn't got to clubs, likes to chat a while, no gangbangs, no dogging.

So anyone who is interested in me and into those things will prob be put off.

So I'm direct in a certain way but fuck my profile is a bit long winded, I absolute admit that.

Do the direct profiles interest me, I wouldn't say they do or they dot, just certain things on a profile puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I honestly wouldn't have went for the direct approach profile if it wasn't for a straight talking Female,who when asked why she was here she Stated for Sex primarily but if there was extra's added ie Socials then she wouldn't be adversed to that too but that would take 2nd place as the site is a Sex site which Swinging is more associated with than big social events or Clubs , people who have done it as a livestyle will remember the days when Cj's or After8 wasn't atound and it was friends who had drink parties that got out off hand usually and things just happened and there the Swinging scene was Born

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Suppose straight to point what they are looking for profiles beat the long winded profiles full of what they don't want "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly wouldn't have went for the direct approach profile if it wasn't for a straight talking Female,who when asked why she was here she Stated for Sex primarily but if there was extra's added ie Socials then she wouldn't be adversed to that too but that would take 2nd place as the site is a Sex site which Swinging is more associated with than big social events or Clubs , people who have done it as a livestyle will remember the days when Cj's or After8 wasn't atound and it was friends who had drink parties that got out off hand usually and things just happened and there the Swinging scene was Born "

I'm actually the opposite to the female.

more interested in the social side, chatting, meeting others, parties, good laugh and banter and if sexual fun happens then even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess my profile is quite direct then. I don't like to see lists of demands but then I can see why some end up that way as well. I just think it's off putting though.

What I really dislike are profiles so 'direct' they say nothing more than "ask me" or such like. Not sure if those are down to arrogance or lazyness or a mixture of both. Got a message from a guy last night said just "hi". Looked at his profile it just said "ltr"... He couldn't even be arsed to type the two extra words in later

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Our profile is quite lengthy but makes all the points. We're polite and clear about what we want, and delete messages from people who clearly haven't read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say our profile is pretty direct and it works just fine for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better upfront and straight to the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is just that..YOUR profile so you get to write it the way you want.

Could say mine's is a bit direct but so what?I'm not here to beat about the Bush I'm here to meet guys for sex so narrowing it down to my likes and dislikes makes it easier for me to get what I'm looking for.

Not that most read it anyway tho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is just that..YOUR profile so you get to write it the way you want.

Could say mine's is a bit direct but so what?I'm not here to beat about the Bush I'm here to meet guys for sex so narrowing it down to my likes and dislikes makes it easier for me to get what I'm looking for.

Not that most read it anyway tho lol"

....shame you don't beat the bush....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone have a bush anymore to be beaten about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do...but I don't like getting it beaten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone have a bush anymore to be beaten about? "

I'm going retro and growing mine back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with an earlier post re: Old Fab when more people just randomly met etc.

I used to make my profile read like a Mills and Boon book, then it got 50 Shades.

Nowadays if I want chat and long winded socialising I come on the forums or engage in conversation onsite

I am here for a particular reason and don’t see any point in beating around the bush unless that’s your kink.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Agree with an earlier post re: Old Fab when more people just randomly met etc.

I used to make my profile read like a Mills and Boon book, then it got 50 Shades.

Nowadays if I want chat and long winded socialising I come on the forums or engage in conversation onsite

I am here for a particular reason and don’t see any point in beating around the bush unless that’s your kink.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yup im aure plenty will fall for it and read your profile.........not me though you will be glad to know

Thats a bit harsh."
thanks for your kind words but it is what i come to expect from Kola as i notice that he is more negative towards my profiles but my shoulders are broad

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