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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So both myself and Male friend have single profiles on fab and now looking to push our boundaries by creating a new couples profile and looking to meet like minded couples.

Both nervous yet excited.

Advice from other couples re do’s and don’t would be appreciated x

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Ninja mode - too many views from one profile looks a but creepy in my opinion but its easy to do with a couples profile and you're not together all the time. One looks, texts the other to look, other has a question about it, one needs to look again...

Also, don't expect the same volume of views, winks and messages you probably get on your single profile!

V x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good advice.

Thanks V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know solo females that juggle this that i messaged perfectly well then "Dom" partner or just new partner has full access to her solo info too,very soon you realise its not her your messaging,at best its both at worst its him bored and fuckin with you.

Dont read too much into this, a friendly,hi hows things message suddenly gettin a weird reply is a sure sign, its him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ninja mode - too many views from one profile looks a but creepy in my opinion but its easy to do with a couples profile and you're not together all the time. One looks, texts the other to look, other has a question about it, one needs to look again...

Also, don't expect the same volume of views, winks and messages you probably get on your single profile!

V x"

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I know solo females that juggle this that i messaged perfectly well then "Dom" partner or just new partner has full access to her solo info too,very soon you realise its not her your messaging,at best its both at worst its him bored and fuckin with you.

Dont read too much into this, a friendly,hi hows things message suddenly gettin a weird reply is a sure sign, its him!"

Oi! You aren't allowed to comment as not a couple . Lol

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know solo females that juggle this that i messaged perfectly well then "Dom" partner or just new partner has full access to her solo info too,very soon you realise its not her your messaging,at best its both at worst its him bored and fuckin with you.

Dont read too much into this, a friendly,hi hows things message suddenly gettin a weird reply is a sure sign, its him!

Oi! You aren't allowed to comment as not a couple . Lol

R "

im laughin cause u guys get my confusion,"hello,you,him, both of you",come on, this larks tricky enough as it is,(dunno how to finish this comment) u get my drift?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know solo females that juggle this that i messaged perfectly well then "Dom" partner or just new partner has full access to her solo info too,very soon you realise its not her your messaging,at best its both at worst its him bored and fuckin with you.

Dont read too much into this, a friendly,hi hows things message suddenly gettin a weird reply is a sure sign, its him!"

It would be a couples profile where both of us has access to the account

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland


"I know solo females that juggle this that i messaged perfectly well then "Dom" partner or just new partner has full access to her solo info too,very soon you realise its not her your messaging,at best its both at worst its him bored and fuckin with you.

Dont read too much into this, a friendly,hi hows things message suddenly gettin a weird reply is a sure sign, its him!

Oi! You aren't allowed to comment as not a couple . Lol

R

im laughin cause u guys get my confusion,"hello,you,him, both of you",come on, this larks tricky enough as it is,(dunno how to finish this comment) u get my drift? "

I can appreciate that. It would be a separate couples profile by the looks of it though so you'd need to assume you're talking to both unless they specify. I find it funny when someone messages thinking they're talking to me or they will be and it's Wade

I tend to end my messages the same as in the forum (unless we've met in person before and you've had my real name ) and Wade puts a W.

So maybe that's another piece of advice - both make an effort to specify who's messaging if it's not a joint, you're sat together and discussing it, thing

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know solo females that juggle this that i messaged perfectly well then "Dom" partner or just new partner has full access to her solo info too,very soon you realise its not her your messaging,at best its both at worst its him bored and fuckin with you.

Dont read too much into this, a friendly,hi hows things message suddenly gettin a weird reply is a sure sign, its him!

Oi! You aren't allowed to comment as not a couple . Lol

R

im laughin cause u guys get my confusion,"hello,you,him, both of you",come on, this larks tricky enough as it is,(dunno how to finish this comment) u get my drift? "

I just assume I'm talking to the guy until it is obvious I'm not or I'm told otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know solo females that juggle this that i messaged perfectly well then "Dom" partner or just new partner has full access to her solo info too,very soon you realise its not her your messaging,at best its both at worst its him bored and fuckin with you.

Dont read too much into this, a friendly,hi hows things message suddenly gettin a weird reply is a sure sign, its him!

It would be a couples profile where both of us has access to the account "

You say that, you say,,,that,

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"I know solo females that juggle this that i messaged perfectly well then "Dom" partner or just new partner has full access to her solo info too,very soon you realise its not her your messaging,at best its both at worst its him bored and fuckin with you.

Dont read too much into this, a friendly,hi hows things message suddenly gettin a weird reply is a sure sign, its him!

Oi! You aren't allowed to comment as not a couple . Lol

R

im laughin cause u guys get my confusion,"hello,you,him, both of you",come on, this larks tricky enough as it is,(dunno how to finish this comment) u get my drift?

I just assume I'm talking to the guy until it is obvious I'm not or I'm told otherwise. "

Why do you assume your talking to only 1 person , its a couples profile, use a message that can be read and replied by either membee of the couple. Does my tits in lol.

Had a message the other day to our couple profile. Fancy a MMF scenario, i replied yes definitely, do you have a picture of the female. He never replied lol.

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By *MCFUN5Couple
over a year ago

GLASGOW

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By *MCFUN5Couple
over a year ago

GLASGOW

Usually at night we chat about the various messages/chats we each may have had during the course of the day as we don’t have the same access as each other at work.

We would also normally put Mr or Mrs at the end of our message just to let the person know which one of us they’re chatting to.

It doesn’t seem to matter how specific your profile is, there will be those who don’t read it and chance their arm lol but I guess that happens whether you’re a couple or not.

Good luck, I hope you enjoy it

M x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also have a cpls profile with my husband.

ALOT harder to arrange meets with 2 cpls

Everyone needs to be free everyone needs to like each other ect..

Prob whatbi started a single profile as it's alot easier for me to meet alone and him to meet alone lol

But good luck guys

As long as you both are always honest with each other I'm sure you will be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know solo females that juggle this that i messaged perfectly well then "Dom" partner or just new partner has full access to her solo info too,very soon you realise its not her your messaging,at best its both at worst its him bored and fuckin with you.

Dont read too much into this, a friendly,hi hows things message suddenly gettin a weird reply is a sure sign, its him!

Oi! You aren't allowed to comment as not a couple . Lol

R

im laughin cause u guys get my confusion,"hello,you,him, both of you",come on, this larks tricky enough as it is,(dunno how to finish this comment) u get my drift?

I just assume I'm talking to the guy until it is obvious I'm not or I'm told otherwise. "

Why do you assume it's the guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know solo females that juggle this that i messaged perfectly well then "Dom" partner or just new partner has full access to her solo info too,very soon you realise its not her your messaging,at best its both at worst its him bored and fuckin with you.

Dont read too much into this, a friendly,hi hows things message suddenly gettin a weird reply is a sure sign, its him!

Oi! You aren't allowed to comment as not a couple . Lol

R

im laughin cause u guys get my confusion,"hello,you,him, both of you",come on, this larks tricky enough as it is,(dunno how to finish this comment) u get my drift?

I just assume I'm talking to the guy until it is obvious I'm not or I'm told otherwise.

Why do you assume it's the guy?"

Because, I'm a sexist pig and believe woman should not have access to the Internet, they should either be in the kitchen feeding me or the bedroom pleasuring me while I chat on fab..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know solo females that juggle this that i messaged perfectly well then "Dom" partner or just new partner has full access to her solo info too,very soon you realise its not her your messaging,at best its both at worst its him bored and fuckin with you.

Dont read too much into this, a friendly,hi hows things message suddenly gettin a weird reply is a sure sign, its him!

Oi! You aren't allowed to comment as not a couple . Lol

R

im laughin cause u guys get my confusion,"hello,you,him, both of you",come on, this larks tricky enough as it is,(dunno how to finish this comment) u get my drift?

I just assume I'm talking to the guy until it is obvious I'm not or I'm told otherwise.

Why do you assume it's the guy?

Because, I'm a sexist pig and believe woman should not have access to the Internet, they should either be in the kitchen feeding me or the bedroom pleasuring me while I chat on fab.. "

I'd have preferred a more honest answer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I also have a cpls profile with my husband.

ALOT harder to arrange meets with 2 cpls

Everyone needs to be free everyone needs to like each other ect..

Prob whatbi started a single profile as it's alot easier for me to meet alone and him to meet alone lol

But good luck guys

As long as you both are always honest with each other I'm sure you will be fine."

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By *hatsmynameagainCouple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Best advice I can give is both have a good chat and decide between you what your both looking for and what you both want to avoid.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best advice I can give is both have a good chat and decide between you what your both looking for and what you both want to avoid.

Mr"

Cheers

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