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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are looking to go to a club for the first time, in the next few weeks or so. It will be a first for many things also as we haven’t had any meets yet.

What’s best for beginners who don’t want to jump in feet first?

CJs or After 8 or another in Scotland

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Have you looked on the club reviews section? I'm sure both clubs will have regulars that prefer 1 over the other though. Although for some it will purely be down to location I'm sure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had a look at reviews and it’s sort of 50/50 distance for both doesn’t make much difference as travel is approx the same. CJs you have to book in where After 8 I think you can just turn up. With the After 8 style if you decide to not go or leave shortly after you haven’t really wasted anyone time. We are just interested to know what people thought the 1st they went.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have only been to CJs so our view would not be a fair one.

We do recommend CJs. We have had lots of great times and love how it's run.

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By *rMrsWTFCouple
over a year ago

Arbroath

We've never been to cj's but have been to after8. We were amazed how relaxed and welcomed we were and have been told the same about cjs.

So enjoy

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Had a look at reviews and it’s sort of 50/50 distance for both doesn’t make much difference as travel is approx the same. CJs you have to book in where After 8 I think you can just turn up. With the After 8 style if you decide to not go or leave shortly after you haven’t really wasted anyone time. We are just interested to know what people thought the 1st they went. "

Cj's is bigger apparently. Why would you see that as wasting time? Both clubs charge an entry fee whether you stay for 1 hour or 4. I would personally see booking in as a bonus rather than d*unk people walking in off of the street expecting guaranteed fun. Only my opinion though.

R

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"Had a look at reviews and it’s sort of 50/50 distance for both doesn’t make much difference as travel is approx the same. CJs you have to book in where After 8 I think you can just turn up. With the After 8 style if you decide to not go or leave shortly after you haven’t really wasted anyone time. We are just interested to know what people thought the 1st they went.

Cj's is bigger apparently. Why would you see that as wasting time? Both clubs charge an entry fee whether you stay for 1 hour or 4. I would personally see booking in as a bonus rather than d*unk people walking in off of the street expecting guaranteed fun. Only my opinion though.

R "

This is spot on it what stops me having a bit of Dutch courage and overdoing it and thinking it a be a great idea to just walk in, Booking is best idea ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's 50/50 I'd go with which is cheaper to get in as if you don't like it youv not wasted your money.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Can't comment on after8 as not been there

but having fairly recently taken the same steps as you guys are now lol,

we can only say that everyone at Cj's has been fantastic with us,

"everyone starts somewhere" and "take things at your own pace"

is the most often given advice we have had from the folks we've met, nor

have we felt pressured to go further than we're ready for from anybody in there.

All in all we wouldn't hesitate to recommend the place to beginners

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By *e gentle 100Woman
over a year ago

Bathgate

Cjs as a couple u pay £40 to get in as u need to contact CJ to book in as she will email u details of the address, it's a good night as u have buffet, tea, coffee and soft drinks for free and take Ur own alcohol and different lounges to sit and chat and no pressure to do anything as play rooms are upstairs.

After eight u just turn up as no need to book in and u pay £35 or £40 as a couple to get in and also pay a membership fee of £30 I think so Ur first visit is going to be at least £60 minimum and has the one area for chatting and got 3 rooms downstairs and 2 rooms upstairs, free tea coffee and soft drinks and take Ur own alcohol Hope this info helps with Ur decision xx

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

Actually its 25 for couples and 20 membership for after 8. OP pm me if you want more detailed reviews on both clubs , been to both as a couple have no alliegance to either but big differences i would say , too much to type lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to find my membership cards

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

We’re going to CJs for the first time (and, indeed, to ANY club for the first time) on 1st Feb next year. Ages away but excited! Watching here with interest

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"We’re going to CJs for the first time (and, indeed, to ANY club for the first time) on 1st Feb next year. Ages away but excited! Watching here with interest "

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Have fun, you guys will love it lol

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

We have been to both.

Been to CJ's many times.

Been to After 8 only once. Would never go back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nervously excited is how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good night at cjs and I have went in by myself and with fab freinds ...make a point of meeting some folk I spoke to on here who I know are going. Love how chilled it is..Byob, like minded folks and lots of adult fun if the moods right in brill rooms. Don't be nervous walk in like yous are it haha (which I'm sure you are)...it's great fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely cjs a great place and lots of fun in a relaxed atmosphere

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy


"Cjs as a couple u pay £40 to get in as u need to contact CJ to book in as she will email u details of the address, it's a good night as u have buffet, tea, coffee and soft drinks for free and take Ur own alcohol and different lounges to sit and chat and no pressure to do anything as play rooms are upstairs.

After eight u just turn up as no need to book in and u pay £35 or £40 as a couple to get in and also pay a membership fee of £30 I think so Ur first visit is going to be at least £60 minimum and has the one area for chatting and got 3 rooms downstairs and 2 rooms upstairs, free tea coffee and soft drinks and take Ur own alcohol Hope this info helps with Ur decision xx"

A couple attending After 8 would be £25 entry(Friday or Saturday - £10 entry for a returning couple on a Wednesday) plus either £5 for one nights membership or £25 for annual membership. So it would be £30 or £45.No need to book.Details are on their website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can only say anything about cjs. As never been to after8

But the twice I’ve been cj,her staff. And all the folk that were there were very welcoming and friendly and absolutely no pressure to do anything your not comfortable with. I think the hardest part is walking through the door as once your in you’ll realise there’s nothing to be afraid of. Hope you enjoy your visit what ever club you attend.

I must say though I’ve also been to a club down in derby and it again was very welcoming and friendly so I’d like to think that after8 would be too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been to After8, found the people easy going , but you do need to make an effort too , what i did like was there was a Hotel a 3min walk away and if i mind 2 pubs one like a Wetherspoons where alot off people meet up b4 heading to Club again 1 / 2 mins away .Never been to CJ's but has had great reviews

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

Only time we went to after8, it was a sausage fest. Easily twice as many guys as females. You would have thought it was a Gang bang. A number of guys were d*unk and it seemed nobody was monitoring who just turned up.

That is why never went back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We attended CJs for the our first ever club night on 15th December. We both had a great night, and the staff were very helpful.

We had been to a social event before that also, which was great as well. We are down for a couple more nights out .

Hope you have a great night like we had .

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By *r humanMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Well going to after eight club near ten years every night can be different quite or busy never can tell but all ways enjoy go great staff make place clean and safe to fun in get way meet very sexy people for all walk of life all race and ages size never been to cjs yet seen good reviews and bad review of it

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By *ngelkDevilCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"We are looking to go to a club for the first time, in the next few weeks or so. It will be a first for many things also as we haven’t had any meets yet.

What’s best for beginners who don’t want to jump in feet first?

CJs or After 8 or another in Scotland

X"

Having been to both we would recommend that you go to cj's it's a much more friendly and relaxed atmosphere. After 8 well let's just say we only stayed about half an hour. Angel felt really uncomfortable pretty much from the moment she walked through the door.

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By *eeling hot hot hotCouple
over a year ago

Ardrossan

Been to cjs many times and after 8's once wouldn't go back to after 8's also love Infusions Blackpool cupids Manchester LeBoudior London and the crem del la crem Gran Canaira can't wait to March when we go back

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