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"You are having a laugh " No. I dont hold grudges and for the sake of the children we remain civil. I dont buy a big gift just a little parcel. | |||
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"You are having a laugh No. I dont hold grudges and for the sake of the children we remain civil. I dont buy a big gift just a little parcel." Massive difference between being civil and exchanging little parcels. Guess each to their own lol | |||
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"Having kids with someone is different tho? Just a bf/he thing I wouldn't ." I’ve got kids and am civil I’d never exchange little parcels. You move on. | |||
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"Having kids with someone is different tho? Just a bf/he thing I wouldn't ." Yes i totally agree. A couple of years together is not the same as a few decades with someone. | |||
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"Having kids with someone is different tho? Just a bf/he thing I wouldn't . I’ve got kids and am civil I’d never exchange little parcels. You move on. " Lol, believe you me i have moved on. | |||
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"Having kids with someone is different tho? Just a bf/he thing I wouldn't . I’ve got kids and am civil I’d never exchange little parcels. You move on. Lol, believe you me i have moved on." Hehe I’m in the same boat as you I think we are civil just would freak me out idea of exchanging parcels lol | |||
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"Iv heard of a cpl that after being split over 15yrs and being with other people they still share custody of the dog every week lol Think if I met a guy and he did that I'd question whether there were still feelings for the other person? Yeah you love the dog but come on...15yrs every week? " That made me laugh please Couldn’t agree more re questioning still having feelings. I’d be exactly the same. | |||
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"I don’t send Xmas cards to anyone but I would text " It’s Christmas | |||
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"Nothing. " 100% this | |||
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"I don’t send Xmas cards to anyone but I would text " il txt you | |||
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"I don’t send Xmas cards to anyone but I would text il txt you " If you want to send any pics feel free it will brighten up my full day | |||
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"I always do and always will. I even buy him an xmas present and birthday gift and he does same to me. We were together a long time and he is the father of my children. We get on ok now and although i left there will always be a bond." I get my ex husband presents but the kids give those. I don't give him anything. We are also civil. Would you Do the same if you didn't have children together | |||
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"I don’t send Xmas cards to anyone but I would text il txt you If you want to send any pics feel free it will brighten up my full day " yeah by laughing hysterical at the state of me!! Flu time so I resemble Rudolf lol | |||
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"Iv heard of a cpl that after being split over 15yrs and being with other people they still share custody of the dog every week lol Think if I met a guy and he did that I'd question whether there were still feelings for the other person? Yeah you love the dog but come on...15yrs every week? " How old is the dog? Must me some age | |||
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"Iv heard of a cpl that after being split over 15yrs and being with other people they still share custody of the dog every week lol Think if I met a guy and he did that I'd question whether there were still feelings for the other person? Yeah you love the dog but come on...15yrs every week? How old is the dog? Must me some age " Won't be doing it much longer I'd imagine | |||
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"Iv heard of a cpl that after being split over 15yrs and being with other people they still share custody of the dog every week lol Think if I met a guy and he did that I'd question whether there were still feelings for the other person? Yeah you love the dog but come on...15yrs every week? " That's a hell of a lot of doggy years!! | |||
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"Spilt up with my ex 4 months ago. Left on good terms. Talking to my friend yesterday and she said send him a Xmas card. You were both good together. I think it sends the wrong message and verging on innapropriate. In work yesterday and 3 colleagues said it would be a nice gesture. For me a text at the most saying merry Xmas. Have a good one is more than enough. So Xmas card Text or Nothing " if you parted on good terms then yes I would | |||
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"I agree mother of my children the most important things to come from out relationship. Nice card and present for ex wife and the same for ex mother-in-law. It's called Integrity doing the right thing no matter the circumstances" Agreed. And rising above your own differences for the sake of your kids. | |||
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"I agree mother of my children the most important things to come from out relationship. Nice card and present for ex wife and the same for ex mother-in-law. It's called Integrity doing the right thing no matter the circumstances" That’s lovely how sweet | |||
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"My mum and dad split years ago and after a long period of bitterness and fighting we can now all do xmas day together. They buy each other gifts and they keep in touch regularly through text. They were together a long time and had two kids together so I feel it’s lovely they can still have a friendship. However, unless it was a substantially lengthy relationship and there are kids involved I would say leave it. If he texts then return a polite Xmas message. If you have a new man I would definitely say don’t do it. I’m with my man now for a few years and I have exes I was with for longer than this and I wouldn’t dream of contacting them Mrs" | |||
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"I was married & with my ex wife for 25 years total. There were great times along with bad. Would i give her a card or present? No. She can buy her own with all the money she made from my pensions & forced sale of the house. Im over her. An ex is an ex for a reason." Exactly this. Can’t believe all the sending cards and presents rubbish. | |||
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"just dont" I'm not. I have no intention to. Just wanted to see what everyone else thought | |||
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"I was married & with my ex wife for 25 years total. There were great times along with bad. Would i give her a card or present? No. She can buy her own with all the money she made from my pensions & forced sale of the house. Im over her. An ex is an ex for a reason." But you're not bitter | |||
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"just dont I'm not. I have no intention to. Just wanted to see what everyone else thought " See whose not over it Still burns a candle | |||
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"I was married & with my ex wife for 25 years total. There were great times along with bad. Would i give her a card or present? No. She can buy her own with all the money she made from my pensions & forced sale of the house. Im over her. An ex is an ex for a reason. But you're not bitter " Absolutly not. I suppose its different if theres young kids involved but even then why would you. Being civil is what the kids need. How many people give an ex partner a card/ present when there in a new relationship? Its weird | |||
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"just dont I'm not. I have no intention to. Just wanted to see what everyone else thought See whose not over it Still burns a candle " I'm well over it | |||
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