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"It seems the best way to get any meets is to meet in real life. Fab just ain’t cutting it these days "Guess depends where you are looking  | |||
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"I'd think your repeated 'we do everything on our terms' isn't helping. A single female or couple are going to want to be included and it has to be an agreed set of rules to include all involved. Your profile sounds like you're extremely pushy and expect whoever you're with to do exactly as you please, nothing to do with them. V x" Found the same recently then they had the audacity to call me a time waster. Love irony. | |||
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"I'd think your repeated 'we do everything on our terms' isn't helping. A single female or couple are going to want to be included and it has to be an agreed set of rules to include all involved. Your profile sounds like you're extremely pushy and expect whoever you're with to do exactly as you please, nothing to do with them. V x" I agree with V. You also mention that your couple has a dynamic Dominant/submissive, maybe clarity if you also want the single female or the couple joining you to enter the same dynamic. If so, It takes longer as you need to trust the Dominant. And there is more to a Dominant than the taking. Good luck OP | |||
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"I'd think your repeated 'we do everything on our terms' isn't helping. A single female or couple are going to want to be included and it has to be an agreed set of rules to include all involved. Your profile sounds like you're extremely pushy and expect whoever you're with to do exactly as you please, nothing to do with them. V x" Agree with this ,to be introduced or introduce a 3rd or 4th to a couples dynamic has to include respect to all parties not just demanding rules from one half | |||
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"Dunno if maybe we’re too picky but we’re really struggling to get a meet with a young f or couple, I mean we can’t accom and we’d want her to be bi or curious but is that too much to ask. We’re patient so it’s not a problem really it’s just seems few and far between. X" It is difficult to meet on Fab. As some people are saying it’s probably easier going to a club as you can meet lots of people face to face rather than the whole wink/message/chat/pics game on Fab. You won’t get as many timewasters in a club and it’s more difficult for single guys to pretend to be couples
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"The “only on our terms” was because of a huge amount of creeps almost trying to force meets it maybe does seem harsh to the more genuine and chilled out fabber but we felt the need because they were relentless even with filters on. people creating female profiles just to speak to us etc but I do understand it could be off putting because I think if we seen that on a profile we’d maybe give it a miss x" I get that but your always gonna get these idiots who message you regardless even if what they offer is stated not for you. These people will ignore our comments anyways. Take it as a good thing, you've been given a heads up to bin if any of these people, single guys etc.. who continue to message you when they are not what you want, just ignore or block and you will eventually find what you want. I do think any profile that says things like 'these are our terms, we wont change' is most definitely off putting. Some might even think its, that you, (general everybody), are not interested in your company's enjoyment but only focused on yourself. Not saying you are but some may think this. Good luck Op and truly hope you find what you are looking for, they are out there, most definitely | |||
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"The “only on our terms” was because of a huge amount of creeps almost trying to force meets it maybe does seem harsh to the more genuine and chilled out fabber but we felt the need because they were relentless even with filters on. people creating female profiles just to speak to us etc but I do understand it could be off putting because I think if we seen that on a profile we’d maybe give it a miss x I get that but your always gonna get these idiots who message you regardless even if what they offer is stated not for you. These people will ignore our comments anyways. Take it as a good thing, you've been given a heads up to bin if any of these people, single guys etc.. who continue to message you when they are not what you want, just ignore or block and you will eventually find what you want. I do think any profile that says things like 'these are our terms, we wont change' is most definitely off putting. Some might even think its, that you, (general everybody), are not interested in your company's enjoyment but only focused on yourself. Not saying you are but some may think this. Good luck Op and truly hope you find what you are looking for, they are out there, most definitely "I’ve changed it now just gonna keep it vague and if anyone wants to chat They can message us cause it kinda seems there’s no way to please everybody most likely people gonna get pissy cause our profile doesn’t have our life story on it we’re just gonna try get the best experience we can from fab however it comes lol x | |||
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"Club or a Fab social event would be your best bet I'd think guys
Make some acquaintances amongst others going so that when you get there you will have folks to say hello to "We’ve made a lot of pals with similar interest on fab and we’ve been to a club but distance and poor timing seems to be a burden for us x | |||
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"Club or a Fab social event would be your best bet I'd think guys
Make some acquaintances amongst others going so that when you get there you will have folks to say hello to
We’ve made a lot of pals with similar interest on fab and we’ve been to a club but distance and poor timing seems to be a burden for us x". Tell us about it  | |||
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"If you're looking for a woman to meet you both then there needs to be pictures of you both. And I'd be put off by a request to send a face pic off the bat (especially as you ask for discretion yourselves). " We always send pics in return it just s out a lot of time wasters and pic hunters we do say it definitely helps we don’t demand one x | |||
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"Don't suppose being in Orkney is going to help either" We were just home for a month and it wasn’t much different even in the city x | |||
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"Think about what your asking for a the small cross section it fits with" Like we’ve said we’re patient and we’ll wait for the right meet we’re not that bothered x | |||
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