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By *ewels74 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

So never sure or i havent looked to see, but so anyways we all know there is never a perfect meet first time around, but my question would be

You are getting to know people and you are hitting it off very well in emails, even in chat rooms and then some, so the time has arrived to meet them...how do you feel on the lead up to the first meet? how do you think or have felt on the meet that your doing, yeah you could have turned into being friends also, but it doesnt stop the nerves,

Do you go by judging folk at face value on the 1st time when behind the smile, they can just be as scared as hell, unsure how to act, so that makes the meet a possible disaster, then you leave either impressed or not, do you give the person a chance the next time or what.

Your thoughts would be welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have to sy as meets has gone none of mine have been disasters and most have gone really well, probably the only one that you could say was a disaster was also a really good meet, my handbrake failed on my car and it ran down the parking lot and smashed into the back of my meets car, we had a laugh about it and remained friends and had some fun

i ty nit to put too much weight on a meet and just go fot it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id say 99% of folk get nervous before during and after meets lol if you dont,,,,time to stop i think .

personally i think the nerves before a meet is the good bit lol the anticipation before leading up to the sex...cant beat it

auds xx

trick id not to take things too seriously? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get the same with meets

even if its a person or vpl i have met before a meet is never the same

only ever had 1 bad meet as she was d*unk as a skunt and i did a runner , lol , i thought best too

a wee bit of butterflys does the world of good x

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By *nTCouple
over a year ago

funland

totally agree - we always get nervous and yes if first meet wasnt great and we think its down to nerves we will meet the guy again; if he was just a twat or the click wasnt there in the flesh then no

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Dont do nerves...

Way I see it...

You meet and all hit it off...Great!

If you dont...No harm done! Nice meeting you...TC x

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I had one where it was all going well and then I had a panic and made my excuses and left. They never talked to me again, funny that...

But yeah, usually I'm pretty nervous. There's the panic of not getting it up etc. Which never turns out to be a problem, but the worry is always there. Especially when you meet a couple. I just walk in, start to ramble and eventually get comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves can be a killer... But a nice chat beforehand is always good, sometimes you're both not quite sure whether the other one's interested.

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