FabSwingers.com forum: typical single guy question

By *uitar_antihero OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Right, if you are a single guy who does not have an internet connection other than via your mobile or work (where fab is blocked) and therefore can't get into the chatrooms and don't have cam.....how would you go about getting attention? Other than patience. If people think my pics or profile need changed, I'll do that. Oh, and whatever happened to the old fashioned meet for a coffee, instead of the "no cam no contact" style? I know we're all busy people but still...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself into the forums dude!

That's what I'm doing as even though I have internet connection and a new laptop with a webcam,the chat rooms are just too fast for me and my two finger typing at the moment lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yip agree with the other guy.start a post in the forum that what some guys do for attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say post a bit in the forums, people then check your profile more and perhaps get your name down for a social

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By *uitar_antihero OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thanks people. I wasn't sure how to get invited to socials, but this post in the forum got me a gangbang invite. Comments taken on board though, thanks.

Maybe I should try organise a drinks social myself. Thoughts?

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By *nTCouple
over a year ago

funland

have to say we dont want to meet for a coffee, we would find it awkward; but to each their own

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

"Thanks people. I wasn't sure how to get invited to socials, but this post in the forum got me a gangbang invite. Comments taken on board though, thanks.

Maybe I should try organise a drinks social myself. Thoughts?"

keep an eye on forum....

Always a social meet being set up by someone!

Get to know a few people that way then maybe think about setting one up yourself...x

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By *uitar_antihero OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah I realise a coffee meet isn't for everyone. Some want to just arrange here and do it, some want socials first, some want cam. Each to their own. I don't really mind myself how I get to the point of meeting, as long as everyone is comfortable.

I will keep an eye on the forums for any socials that are coming up, might give me an idea what to arrange. Also, I guess in real terms, who's gonna agree to come to a social arranged by an un-userverified single guy?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

if it was me i would probably make a thread ohhhhhh i dont know maybe call it typical single guy question !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right, if you are a single guy who does not have an internet connection other than via your mobile or work (where fab is blocked) and therefore can't get into the chatrooms and don't have cam.....how would you go about getting attention? Other than patience. If people think my pics or profile need changed, I'll do that. Oh, and whatever happened to the old fashioned meet for a coffee, instead of the "no cam no contact" style? I know we're all busy people but still..."

It's not really that important what other people think about your pics or profile. It's up to you how you present yourself and if anyone likes or dilikes, that's their choice and loss if they chose not to meet you.

You are not missing anything in the chat rooms. There isn't a Glasgow chat room, but a Scotland wide chat room. From my own experience, it's mostly full of people having text-speak conversations with people they know already.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can browse forums.... Put ur name down abd get urself along to a social event... Either an evening event or a day time event.... Their r lunches... Drinks then nights out.... Plenty variety of places from Aberdeen to Ayrshire... Fife to Glasgow...

Just a thought...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks people. I wasn't sure how to get invited to socials, but this post in the forum got me a gangbang invite. Comments taken on board though, thanks.

Maybe I should try organise a drinks social myself. Thoughts?"

Stick to attending a social before organising one... They r hard work to organise...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Can browse forums.... Put ur name down abd get urself along to a social event... Either an evening event or a day time event.... Their r lunches... Drinks then nights out.... Plenty variety of places from Aberdeen to Ayrshire... Fife to Glasgow...

Just a thought... "

Oh and a social is a great way to get verification from those u meet and get to know... Great way to get into the scene... Hope this helps

Socials at the mo are-

Hornyhoops valentines social

Play_and_cum2 bunny ball

Davy and jaz Ayrshire social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG....I feel so old...

when I was young (back in the days when Star trek was really hi tech and Micheal Jackson was Black)

we use to meet girls at clubs, at work, in a coffee shop, by doing voluntary services for different needy groups, the library, flirting at shopping mall, athletic meetings.

I think that's some of the reason the Western culture is a bit lonely....every one is connecting online, every one is chatting... and nobody really talking to the people right on there own street. Wee shame. No one being polite to the old lady and then finding out she has a really sexy daughter. Flirting with the sales person and finding oot she is single and likes the same things as you.

the good old art of flirting, were you can read the body signals, face colors and watch the color of there eyes.

LOL LOL....man I am old....lol

Hugs,

Lee

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By *uitar_antihero OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Haha, well in my experience I've had 2 dates from online chatting (on POF) and a few meets from fab (and gumtree adult personals before that) but that's not to say I've lost the ability to chat up girls at parties and stuff. Don't worry, you're not old just cos you remember meeting people the natural way.

Hugs back

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Hope you get out and have some fun soon

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By *uitar_antihero OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Why thank you. Just so you know, since I started this thread I had my first meet of my latest fab venture. Good times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the good old days of the Gumtree Casual Sex section....memories of sweet heaven!! Gone, vanished and torn out from our lives!!

lol x

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By *uitar_antihero OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I know. Got my first 3some through gumtree. Loved that you could get that and a cabinet and a house all on the same site, hehe.

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By *10NY7USMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I know. Got my first 3some through gumtree. Loved that you could get that and a cabinet and a house all on the same site, hehe."

On Gumtree??

Really!

Awesome, everyone's doing it!!

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By *uitar_antihero OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah man but the stopped doing the dating / adult meets for some reason. Shame. Mind you, it was full of timewasters as well

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