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What Stops Or Makes It Awkward for You To Meet ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What Stops You From Meeting ?

For me even arranging a meet it s hard. I have busy life and in the evenings I'm coaching, sometimes 5 nights a week.

Weekends i'm free but my problem is I dearly hope my kids are free to come and visit but they rearly do or cancel on me regularly lololol little Timewaster's so I don't arrange any meets for the weekend ahead so it's a catch 22.

I booked the Ayrshire n Xmas socials and made sure I wasn't missing them so it did work in great for me.

So folks, wits your reason for not arranging or having meets ?

Sure many have reasons that make it awkward

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

My shitty health!!!

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

Females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing stops me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Next

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Three small children and a lack of babysitters along with actually wanting to spend time as a family on the rare weekends W isn't working.

We have one night child free each month at most. Those nights need to be shared among time for just the two of us, friends and meets.

While this is all fun and I like a read of the forums, chatting to people and taking pictures to possibly post, the whole swinging thing is low on the list of priorities for us at this point I'm sure that will change as the kids get older and it's easier to go out for an evening

January and February are booked for fab time though

V x

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

For me only fitting in around nightshift and sleeping during the day nothing else.

For Mrs She Devil its the same with the added extra, single guys bottling it last minute with mostly lame reasons.

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Just the usual restraining orders and shit like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking after my very disabled dad. I have to plan things well in advance now and even then plans can change quickly. I have already lost a deposit for aChristmas meal this year I couldn't go to. I have planned a to go away next month but only because my sister has taken time off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't see enough of each other just now with me working away a lot and Mrs doing nights so would rather spend our time just the 2 of us. Our meets are spontaneous though so that could easily change one night

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"So folks, wits your reason for not arranging or having meets "

Ink and paint stained hands and nails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work in the evenings and look after my 3 grandkids most days. I live with my son at the moment so I’m a built in babysitter.

Weekends are for the family.

Leaves me free only on a Monday or Friday during the day. However, currently studying those days for my Diploma so any meet has to be on those two particular days and worked around any exams/assessments

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By *bigone81Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Not having anyone to meet with hahahahhaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing would stop me meeting if I wanted to, to others I am just awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing stops me"
oh...you got a NEXT...gold star for you

Only thing that stops me meeting is that i dont fancy anyone enough to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I really want to meet and someone really wants to meet me then only unavoidable emergencies would stop me. At the moment it's finding those to requirements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Busy life, in education so weekday nights can be busy with marking etc and then my daughter weeknights and weekends. Unfortunately that life as we grow up.......hate growing up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So folks, wits your reason for not arranging or having meets

Ink and paint stained hands and nails "

Paint?......do you do houses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing stops meoh...you got a NEXT...gold star for you

Only thing that stops me meeting is that i dont fancy anyone enough to meet them."

I always get one...I'm special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im jealous lol

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"Im jealous lol

"

NEXT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah...it's just not the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else

What Stops Or Makes It Awkward for You To Meet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on ..do it...

You know you wanna

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go on ..do it...

You know you wanna "

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland


"Anyone else

What Stops Or Makes It Awkward for You To Meet ? "

spoilsport

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Usually the people I message stops me having a meet.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Work and sometimes distance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too fussy apparently.

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

My kids come 1st over any meet,might piss a few off but I couldn't give a flying fcuk

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

And when the fem is too fussy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"So folks, wits your reason for not arranging or having meets

Ink and paint stained hands and nails

Paint?......do you do houses "

No... acrylic and much much small... canvases

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ffs, hold on, ill redo that, spelling

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By *ictiiWitchCouple
over a year ago

Helensburgh

Disability and a 2 yr old.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No its just the usual ones who actually want to try an ruin a post.

The one that has officially states on posts that she likes to fuck up posts, direct them elsewhere or see arguments. Now there's a few of you who think its funny to fuck up posts as well, even posts that I don't participate in, some of you have even said you don't like seeing this done but you do it yourself.

It is genuinely such a shame that some of you actually like to do so, it just spoils the forums. There is people I do not like on here, genuinely, but the only arguments I've had with them is that they have started it every time but I do not try to fuck up post they start or comment on.

It would be good if others could just get back to the post and make comments why its awkward or stops them as it is to some, an interesting post, an to some its pish because of their views of the Op

but hey hoe, it is what it is and if people revert back to the post and comment why its awkward or hard to meet then brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh come on...everyones waiting??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No its just the usual ones who actually want to try an ruin a post.

The one that has officially states on posts that she likes to fuck up posts, direct them elsewhere or see arguments. Now there's a few of you who think its funny to fuck up posts as well, even posts that I don't participate in, some of you have even said you don't like seeing this done but you do it yourself.

It is genuinely such a shame that some of you actually like to do so, it just spoils the forums. There is people I do not like on here, genuinely, but the only arguments I've had with them is that they have started it every time but I do not try to fuck up post they start or comment on.

It would be good if others could just get back to the post and make comments why its awkward or stops them as it is to some, an interesting post, an to some its pish because of their views of the Op

but hey hoe, it is what it is and if people revert back to the post and comment why its awkward or hard to meet then brilliant "

If you took a second to actually read before your repetitive rant you'll see I answered your original post

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Disability and a 2 yr old. "

Yeah can be awkward.

I'm officially the guardian, along with my sister of my younger brother who is disabled and has mental issue problems. He's not had much of a life since he's been 15 so I try and see him when I can, swapping with my sister for visits. so that on top of my busy schedule and seeing my kids, makes it harder to meet on here.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"No its just the usual ones who actually want to try an ruin a post.

The one that has officially states on posts that she likes to fuck up posts, direct them elsewhere or see arguments. Now there's a few of you who think its funny to fuck up posts as well, even posts that I don't participate in, some of you have even said you don't like seeing this done but you do it yourself.

It is genuinely such a shame that some of you actually like to do so, it just spoils the forums. There is people I do not like on here, genuinely, but the only arguments I've had with them is that they have started it every time but I do not try to fuck up post they start or comment on.

It would be good if others could just get back to the post and make comments why its awkward or stops them as it is to some, an interesting post, an to some its pish because of their views of the Op

but hey hoe, it is what it is and if people revert back to the post and comment why its awkward or hard to meet then brilliant "

Unfortunately your HATRED of some people on the Scottish forums blinds you of the fact you now cannot see the funny side of some threads. You blame everyone else yet sometimes you should step back and look closer to home sometimes. You bang on about not liking me for something i said , god knows how long ago. Man up and PM me and tell me and maybe i will laugh and maybe i will appologise but either way just stop blaming others for having a laugh in the Scottish forums jyst because YOU dont like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So folks, wits your reason for not arranging or having meets

Ink and paint stained hands and nails

Paint?......do you do houses

No... acrylic and much much

small... canvases "

Ahh bollocks....it was worth a try. Are you an artist?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No its just the usual ones who actually want to try an ruin a post.

The one that has officially states on posts that she likes to fuck up posts, direct them elsewhere or see arguments. Now there's a few of you who think its funny to fuck up posts as well, even posts that I don't participate in, some of you have even said you don't like seeing this done but you do it yourself.

It is genuinely such a shame that some of you actually like to do so, it just spoils the forums. There is people I do not like on here, genuinely, but the only arguments I've had with them is that they have started it every time but I do not try to fuck up post they start or comment on.

It would be good if others could just get back to the post and make comments why its awkward or stops them as it is to some, an interesting post, an to some its pish because of their views of the Op

but hey hoe, it is what it is and if people revert back to the post and comment why its awkward or hard to meet then brilliant

Unfortunately your HATRED of some people on the Scottish forums blinds you of the fact you now cannot see the funny side of some threads. You blame everyone else yet sometimes you should step back and look closer to home sometimes. You bang on about not liking me for something i said , god knows how long ago. Man up and PM me and tell me and maybe i will laugh and maybe i will appologise but either way just stop blaming others for having a laugh in the Scottish forums jyst because YOU dont like it. "

Never said I don't like it and you have said my hatred. That's two things you are surmising, again and again

To be honest this is another scots forum post fucked up by the usual crowd.

m even taking about posts I haven't bane involved in

Just another who wants to fuck up a post, that's all, always wanting to make a comment even when that comment is trying to put someone down and continue with it, just fukcing the post up

Its genuinely such a shame.

I don't think I have said hatred to anyone on here. If I have then I apologise as hatred is a really bad word and means you could be prepared to take it further. Dislike, yes, that's one thing. If it was hatred you'd be constantly on my mind as others but your not. The funny thing is its always the same people who continue to do the same things, pick on people.

As I said its such a shame, theres no need for you to post to this as you always say the same thing, even about taking things seriously.

I mean you thought I wanted people to print out my best forum post and come find me and chat with me at the social and you don't take things serious

As I said whether I participate in a post or not there are the usual ones who fuck it up and again, this post shows them up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I want for Christmas.....is a

NEXT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing stops meoh...you got a NEXT...gold star for you

Only thing that stops me meeting is that i dont fancy anyone enough to meet them.

I always get one...I'm special "

I want NEXT Jedi status also!!!

What am I doing wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theresa May

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Theresa May "

The prime mister or the page 3 model from the 80s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theresa May

The prime mister or the page 3 model from the 80s "

Tooooo funny!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing stops meoh...you got a NEXT...gold star for you

Only thing that stops me meeting is that i dont fancy anyone enough to meet them.

I always get one...I'm special

I want NEXT Jedi status also!!!

What am I doing wrong?"
maybe I'm just too good?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Theresa May

The prime mister or the page 3 model from the 80s

Tooooo funny!!!!"

hey she was my favourite

not the pm but the model turned porn actress

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"So folks, wits your reason for not arranging or having meets

Ink and paint stained hands and nails

Paint?......do you do houses

No... acrylic and much much

small... canvases

Ahh bollocks....it was worth a try. Are you an artist?"

Wouldn't go as far... it just keeps me sane

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Theresa May

The prime mister or the page 3 model from the 80s

Tooooo funny!!!!

hey she was my favourite

not the pm but the model turned porn actress "

Off topic ??? Ok for some eh ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So folks, wits your reason for not arranging or having meets

Ink and paint stained hands and nails

Paint?......do you do houses

No... acrylic and much much

small... canvases

Ahh bollocks....it was worth a try. Are you an artist?

Wouldn't go as far... it just keeps me sane "

Cool, I do some stuff at college with art students. Some of their stuff is incredable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing stops meoh...you got a NEXT...gold star for you

Only thing that stops me meeting is that i dont fancy anyone enough to meet them.

I always get one...I'm special

I want NEXT Jedi status also!!!

What am I doing wrong?maybe I'm just too good? "

Must try harder!

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

Folk demanding I pay a site supporters pass first!

Probably some dude.

This place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No interest or no replies

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By *utdooryoneMan
over a year ago

Over there

Knowing too many people, in a particular public service industry, care needs to be taken to avoid meeting someone who I'm working with next week.

A few family around who would disapprove.

Lack of replies mainly, the previous two are just excuses and fears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being too tired after work, especially a Friday night, most Fridays are just for me now to chill. That and I'm fussy who I meet anyway. Would rather make time to meet people who I've already met on here. You know who are! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being married (wife doesn't play!!) and unable to accommodate. Can only meet daytime's!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being married (wife doesn't play!!) and unable to accommodate. Can only meet daytime's!"

Same buddy.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"No its just the usual ones who actually want to try an ruin a post.

The one that has officially states on posts that she likes to fuck up posts, direct them elsewhere or see arguments. Now there's a few of you who think its funny to fuck up posts as well, even posts that I don't participate in, some of you have even said you don't like seeing this done but you do it yourself.

It is genuinely such a shame that some of you actually like to do so, it just spoils the forums. There is people I do not like on here, genuinely, but the only arguments I've had with them is that they have started it every time but I do not try to fuck up post they start or comment on.

It would be good if others could just get back to the post and make comments why its awkward or stops them as it is to some, an interesting post, an to some its pish because of their views of the Op

but hey hoe, it is what it is and if people revert back to the post and comment why its awkward or hard to meet then brilliant "

Think you’ll find everyone has kept on the topic so I don’t see why your having a go at people.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

When guys start asking what I’m going to wear for a social meet or start getting explicit in their messages then it puts me off meeting.

Pics of guys ‘in action’ or just cock pics are a turn off too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us meets are limited by the lack of people we click with. Both being straight certainly limits our couple meets and L is a bit fed up with single guys.

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Anyone else

What Stops Or Makes It Awkward for You To Meet ? "

Haveing to get a bath and shave my legs.

when it's freezing outside and need to get ready at night just can't be arsed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No its just the usual ones who actually want to try an ruin a post.

The one that has officially states on posts that she likes to fuck up posts, direct them elsewhere or see arguments. Now there's a few of you who think its funny to fuck up posts as well, even posts that I don't participate in, some of you have even said you don't like seeing this done but you do it yourself.

It is genuinely such a shame that some of you actually like to do so, it just spoils the forums. There is people I do not like on here, genuinely, but the only arguments I've had with them is that they have started it every time but I do not try to fuck up post they start or comment on.

It would be good if others could just get back to the post and make comments why its awkward or stops them as it is to some, an interesting post, an to some its pish because of their views of the Op

but hey hoe, it is what it is and if people revert back to the post and comment why its awkward or hard to meet then brilliant

Think you’ll find everyone has kept on the topic so I don’t see why your having a go at people.

"

Yeah I was wondering what had actually happened as I couldn't see that anyone hand went off topic or been insulting. Just seemed strange there was handbags at dawn being brought out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No its just the usual ones who actually want to try an ruin a post.

The one that has officially states on posts that she likes to fuck up posts, direct them elsewhere or see arguments. Now there's a few of you who think its funny to fuck up posts as well, even posts that I don't participate in, some of you have even said you don't like seeing this done but you do it yourself.

It is genuinely such a shame that some of you actually like to do so, it just spoils the forums. There is people I do not like on here, genuinely, but the only arguments I've had with them is that they have started it every time but I do not try to fuck up post they start or comment on.

It would be good if others could just get back to the post and make comments why its awkward or stops them as it is to some, an interesting post, an to some its pish because of their views of the Op

but hey hoe, it is what it is and if people revert back to the post and comment why its awkward or hard to meet then brilliant

Think you’ll find everyone has kept on the topic so I don’t see why your having a go at people.

Yeah I was wondering what had actually happened as I couldn't see that anyone hand went off topic or been insulting. Just seemed strange there was handbags at dawn being brought out."

Quite simple

If you read above your post the usual 3 carried on trying to derail post so when I posted you already posted inbetween

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There's quite a few people who won't meet anyone who isn't photo verified. It used to be quite a common reason for not meeting but I think less and less are doing it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's quite a few people who won't meet anyone who isn't photo verified. It used to be quite a common reason for not meeting but I think less and less are doing it now "

I won't meet anyone who has no visible verifications and don't compromise on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No its just the usual ones who actually want to try an ruin a post.

The one that has officially states on posts that she likes to fuck up posts, direct them elsewhere or see arguments. Now there's a few of you who think its funny to fuck up posts as well, even posts that I don't participate in, some of you have even said you don't like seeing this done but you do it yourself.

It is genuinely such a shame that some of you actually like to do so, it just spoils the forums. There is people I do not like on here, genuinely, but the only arguments I've had with them is that they have started it every time but I do not try to fuck up post they start or comment on.

It would be good if others could just get back to the post and make comments why its awkward or stops them as it is to some, an interesting post, an to some its pish because of their views of the Op

but hey hoe, it is what it is and if people revert back to the post and comment why its awkward or hard to meet then brilliant

Think you’ll find everyone has kept on the topic so I don’t see why your having a go at people.

Yeah I was wondering what had actually happened as I couldn't see that anyone hand went off topic or been insulting. Just seemed strange there was handbags at dawn being brought out.

Quite simple

If you read above your post the usual 3 carried on trying to derail post so when I posted you already posted inbetween

"

Ahh ok, had a look back and think it was a wee over reaction but having said that I don't know the history. Don't stress about it, things go off track and others bring it back on. At the end of the day how much does it effect the course or your life.....I'm betting none. It was a good post with lots of interesting people having an input and showing that we are all in the same boat with reality getting in the way. Best advice I can give you, watch Frozen....and "let it go"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's quite a few people who won't meet anyone who isn't photo verified. It used to be quite a common reason for not meeting but I think less and less are doing it now

I won't meet anyone who has no visible verifications and don't compromise on this"

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's quite a few people who won't meet anyone who isn't photo verified. It used to be quite a common reason for not meeting but I think less and less are doing it now

I won't meet anyone who has no visible verifications and don't compromise on this"

As I'm sure you know photo vefified is different from normal verification but even though they are to prove you are genuine they are all been faked in the past so none of them are a guarantee that even the person is real.

I was once asked by someone if I had verifications as at the time I was not showing them, so many are strict on this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Quite simple

If you read above your post the usual 3 carried on trying to derail post so when I posted you already posted inbetween

Ahh ok, had a look back and think it was a wee over reaction but having said that I don't know the history. Don't stress about it, things go off track and others bring it back on. At the end of the day how much does it effect the course or your life.....I'm betting none. It was a good post with lots of interesting people having an input and showing that we are all in the same boat with reality getting in the way. Best advice I can give you, watch Frozen....and "let it go"

"

Pmsl I think you find I do let it go, does not bother me one iota. If I reply it's usually just to show them up which they continue to do. there was a big laugh in the chat room last night about this.

I will say Frozen is brill and from now on if someone hasn't watched Frozen then I ain't gonna meet them so that's me got a real reason that will stop me from meeting

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Quite simple

If you read above your post the usual 3 carried on trying to derail post so when I posted you already posted inbetween

Ahh ok, had a look back and think it was a wee over reaction but having said that I don't know the history. Don't stress about it, things go off track and others bring it back on. At the end of the day how much does it effect the course or your life.....I'm betting none. It was a good post with lots of interesting people having an input and showing that we are all in the same boat with reality getting in the way. Best advice I can give you, watch Frozen....and "let it go"

Pmsl I think you find I do let it go, does not bother me one iota. If I reply it's usually just to show them up which they continue to do. there was a big laugh in the chat room last night about this.

I will say Frozen is brill and from now on if someone hasn't watched Frozen then I ain't gonna meet them so that's me got a real reason that will stop me from meeting "

The other thing you need to do with frozen....have it on your phone and when someone is going off on something play let it go.......sssssooooo funny watching reaction. Nobody realises at first then it's chaos. Try it next time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When guys start asking what I’m going to wear for a social meet or start getting explicit in their messages then it puts me off meeting.

Pics of guys ‘in action’ or just cock pics are a turn off too."

Don't think I've ever had a female ask me what I'm gonna be wearing for a meet. Ffs that now worrying. They might stop from meeting me if I said a green boob tube, tartan short skirt n pigtails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lacking self-esteem

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian


"My lacking self-esteem"

Been there my friend. It can be overcome though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My lacking self-esteem

Been there my friend. It can be overcome though "

Yeah it can. Lots of help and support out there, and on here believe it or not. You will have built up good friends that will be there for you. If you need advice on stuff feel free to message me and I can get info to help.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"When guys start asking what I’m going to wear for a social meet or start getting explicit in their messages then it puts me off meeting.

"

This for me too. Quite a few meets cancelled, because of expectations all of the sudden changing when we set a date and they want to hear kinky details of what I'll wear and what we'll get up to. Despite me always being clear i won't know for sure until i actually meet someone. One step at a time, let's meet for drinks or coffee first and see how we get on from there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When guys start asking what I’m going to wear for a social meet or start getting explicit in their messages then it puts me off meeting.

This for me too. Quite a few meets cancelled, because of expectations all of the sudden changing when we set a date and they want to hear kinky details of what I'll wear and what we'll get up to. Despite me always being clear i won't know for sure until i actually meet someone. One step at a time, let's meet for drinks or coffee first and see how we get on from there x"

Why don't you in your best seductive text speak......slowly and intimately.......one item at a time......described....Nora Batty. Then see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My lacking self-esteem

Been there my friend. It can be overcome though

Yeah it can. Lots of help and support out there, and on here believe it or not. You will have built up good friends that will be there for you. If you need advice on stuff feel free to message me and I can get info to help. "

I really don't believe here is a good place for anyone with self esteem issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My lacking self-esteem

Been there my friend. It can be overcome though

Yeah it can. Lots of help and support out there, and on here believe it or not. You will have built up good friends that will be there for you. If you need advice on stuff feel free to message me and I can get info to help.

I really don't believe here is a good place for anyone with self esteem issues"

I have to agree.

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By *rMrsWTFCouple
over a year ago

Arbroath

Work, kids, parents, and trying to fit in time with friends mainly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When guys start asking what I’m going to wear for a social meet or start getting explicit in their messages then it puts me off meeting.

This for me too. Quite a few meets cancelled, because of expectations all of the sudden changing when we set a date and they want to hear kinky details of what I'll wear and what we'll get up to. Despite me always being clear i won't know for sure until i actually meet someone. One step at a time, let's meet for drinks or coffee first and see how we get on from there x"

That's the sad wee tossers who are looking for wank material

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get put off by people who are really pushy, those that don’t understand I can’t just meet at the drop of a hat, understand some have the luxury of being able to but not me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My lacking self-esteem

Been there my friend. It can be overcome though

Yeah it can. Lots of help and support out there, and on here believe it or not. You will have built up good friends that will be there for you. If you need advice on stuff feel free to message me and I can get info to help.

I really don't believe here is a good place for anyone with self esteem issues

I have to agree. "

You're both quite right, however, I'm hoping it's just a temporary issue x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My lacking self-esteem

Been there my friend. It can be overcome though

Yeah it can. Lots of help and support out there, and on here believe it or not. You will have built up good friends that will be there for you. If you need advice on stuff feel free to message me and I can get info to help.

I really don't believe here is a good place for anyone with self esteem issues

I have to agree.

You're both quite right, however, I'm hoping it's just a temporary issue x"

Sure it is x. I just think there are enough arseholes out there/on here to give us a hard time so you shouldn't beat yourself about anything too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My lacking self-esteem

Been there my friend. It can be overcome though

Yeah it can. Lots of help and support out there, and on here believe it or not. You will have built up good friends that will be there for you. If you need advice on stuff feel free to message me and I can get info to help.

I really don't believe here is a good place for anyone with self esteem issues

I have to agree.

You're both quite right, however, I'm hoping it's just a temporary issue x

Sure it is x. I just think there are enough arseholes out there/on here to give us a hard time so you shouldn't beat yourself about anything too much "

Exactly!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My lacking self-esteem

Been there my friend. It can be overcome though

Yeah it can. Lots of help and support out there, and on here believe it or not. You will have built up good friends that will be there for you. If you need advice on stuff feel free to message me and I can get info to help.

I really don't believe here is a good place for anyone with self esteem issues

I have to agree.

You're both quite right, however, I'm hoping it's just a temporary issue x

Sure it is x. I just think there are enough arseholes out there/on here to give us a hard time so you shouldn't beat yourself about anything too much

Exactly!!!"

Fuck the lot of them!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My lacking self-esteem

Been there my friend. It can be overcome though

Yeah it can. Lots of help and support out there, and on here believe it or not. You will have built up good friends that will be there for you. If you need advice on stuff feel free to message me and I can get info to help.

I really don't believe here is a good place for anyone with self esteem issues

I have to agree.

You're both quite right, however, I'm hoping it's just a temporary issue x

Sure it is x. I just think there are enough arseholes out there/on here to give us a hard time so you shouldn't beat yourself about anything too much

Exactly!!!

Fuck the lot of them!!!"

Don't fuck the lot of them.. Just me.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Work or life in general but its not often these days I call off but there most definitley will be more in the future no doubt .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My lacking self-esteem

Been there my friend. It can be overcome though

Yeah it can. Lots of help and support out there, and on here believe it or not. You will have built up good friends that will be there for you. If you need advice on stuff feel free to message me and I can get info to help.

I really don't believe here is a good place for anyone with self esteem issues

I have to agree.

You're both quite right, however, I'm hoping it's just a temporary issue x

Sure it is x. I just think there are enough arseholes out there/on here to give us a hard time so you shouldn't beat yourself about anything too much

Exactly!!!

Fuck the lot of them!!!"

Good for you, don't let the bastard grind you down

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland


"My lacking self-esteem

Been there my friend. It can be overcome though

Yeah it can. Lots of help and support out there, and on here believe it or not. You will have built up good friends that will be there for you. If you need advice on stuff feel free to message me and I can get info to help.

I really don't believe here is a good place for anyone with self esteem issues

I have to agree.

You're both quite right, however, I'm hoping it's just a temporary issue x

Sure it is x. I just think there are enough arseholes out there/on here to give us a hard time so you shouldn't beat yourself about anything too much

Exactly!!!

Fuck the lot of them!!!

Don't fuck the lot of them.. Just me. "

*Mrs Doggy gets the strap on ready*

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My lacking self-esteem

Been there my friend. It can be overcome though

Yeah it can. Lots of help and support out there, and on here believe it or not. You will have built up good friends that will be there for you. If you need advice on stuff feel free to message me and I can get info to help.

I really don't believe here is a good place for anyone with self esteem issues

I have to agree.

You're both quite right, however, I'm hoping it's just a temporary issue x

Sure it is x. I just think there are enough arseholes out there/on here to give us a hard time so you shouldn't beat yourself about anything too much

Exactly!!!

Fuck the lot of them!!!

Don't fuck the lot of them.. Just me.

*Mrs Doggy gets the strap on ready*

V x"

Awww. No Vanessa.. That's my fantasies well and truly shafted.. Pardon the pun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What Stops Or Makes It Awkward for You To Meet ?

Chatting to someone then we both want to meet and they send you a message on here with only a postcode.

Ffs, some postcodes have tons of flats so if you turn up you don't know where to go and they never left you their contact number

Fucked that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they send you to the house across the road and peek through their curtains as you knock on the door, watching as you get your head kicked in bubthe neighbours and then send you pictures of it before blocking you..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When they send you to the house across the road and peek through their curtains as you knock on the door, watching as you get your head kicked in bubthe neighbours and then send you pictures of it before blocking you.. "

That was a big thing years and years ago, now most have caught onto the scam, when I say most, I mean me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they send you to the house across the road and peek through their curtains as you knock on the door, watching as you get your head kicked in bubthe neighbours and then send you pictures of it before blocking you..

That was a big thing years and years ago, now most have caught onto the scam, when I say most, I mean me "

When I was young we did that with fast food delivery, when the driver walked back to his car we'd offer to but it off him at a discount.. Always got it because they would be throwing it out and get nothing for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My lacking self-esteem

Been there my friend. It can be overcome though

Yeah it can. Lots of help and support out there, and on here believe it or not. You will have built up good friends that will be there for you. If you need advice on stuff feel free to message me and I can get info to help.

I really don't believe here is a good place for anyone with self esteem issues

I have to agree.

You're both quite right, however, I'm hoping it's just a temporary issue x

Sure it is x. I just think there are enough arseholes out there/on here to give us a hard time so you shouldn't beat yourself about anything too much

Exactly!!!

Fuck the lot of them!!!

Don't fuck the lot of them.. Just me.

*Mrs Doggy gets the strap on ready*

V x"

....where's ma muzzle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My lacking self-esteem

Been there my friend. It can be overcome though

Yeah it can. Lots of help and support out there, and on here believe it or not. You will have built up good friends that will be there for you. If you need advice on stuff feel free to message me and I can get info to help.

I really don't believe here is a good place for anyone with self esteem issues

I have to agree.

You're both quite right, however, I'm hoping it's just a temporary issue x

Sure it is x. I just think there are enough arseholes out there/on here to give us a hard time so you shouldn't beat yourself about anything too much

Exactly!!!

Fuck the lot of them!!!

Don't fuck the lot of them.. Just me.

*Mrs Doggy gets the strap on ready*

V x

....where's ma muzzle? "

I'm putting my lead undies on..

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"What Stops Or Makes It Awkward for You To Meet ?

Chatting to someone then we both want to meet and they send you a message on here with only a postcode.

Ffs, some postcodes have tons of flats so if you turn up you don't know where to go and they never left you their contact number

Fucked that "

Thats a safety thing, all couples and guys that are coming back to our house are given asda as the meet point . We can SEE them and talk them in from that point from over a quarter mile away.

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian


"What Stops Or Makes It Awkward for You To Meet ?

Chatting to someone then we both want to meet and they send you a message on here with only a postcode.

Ffs, some postcodes have tons of flats so if you turn up you don't know where to go and they never left you their contact number

Fucked that

Thats a safety thing, all couples and guys that are coming back to our house are given asda as the meet point . We can SEE them and talk them in from that point from over a quarter mile away. "

Binoculars?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What Stops Or Makes It Awkward for You To Meet ?

Chatting to someone then we both want to meet and they send you a message on here with only a postcode.

Ffs, some postcodes have tons of flats so if you turn up you don't know where to go and they never left you their contact number

Fucked that

Thats a safety thing, all couples and guys that are coming back to our house are given asda as the meet point . We can SEE them and talk them in from that point from over a quarter mile away. "

I'm not using this to slag you but you just don't get it, Read it again.

I agree what you say by them arriving so you can see them first but....

If you got a postcode only sent via fab by message and no contact number and then you arrive, you stand there not knowing where to go and cant contact them. That was common place years ago, especially used by timewasters.

I've had that, given a postcode which is a good idea but I would require a contact number so when I arrive I can call.

I have said to many a person only send a post code or to a street round the corner and then tell them to phone you once they arrive so you know they ain't timewasting

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky


"What Stops Or Makes It Awkward for You To Meet ?

Chatting to someone then we both want to meet and they send you a message on here with only a postcode.

Ffs, some postcodes have tons of flats so if you turn up you don't know where to go and they never left you their contact number

Fucked that "
we had that once when we got the postcode and when we asked for the house number we were told we'd get it when we got to the street. Eh no thanks

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