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By *ohn890 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

The site has been great so far,but does anyone else find that sometimes its hard to get to know people if your new or havent been in the scene a while. I understand about socials and meeting people that way but because of circumstance many cant,so how is the best way to get to know people?x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

chatroom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Patience "

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By *ohn890 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

i am very patient x ive met one woman,just thought it would be easier to meet people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatroom. Get your cam on so ppl know what you look like. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All good things come to those who wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the best tool you can have.Still difficult to get chatting.But patience can run out.....I've been very patient for a long time it would seem....but I'll keep on being patient.

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By *utieguyMan
over a year ago

motherwell

Not to chase quick success and build up a bit of chat with person - as mind YOU'LL be new to them also, even if you are the newbie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

takes time , but worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No offence but u have no public pics.... ur profile is a 1 liner....

not a great start to make people interested....

socials yes a good idea....theres day time and evening ones...

chat yes get urself known and come n have some banter...

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By *nTCouple
over a year ago

funland

have to agree with the no pic and the one liner on the profile. loads of single guys on the site so unfortunately they have to work harder to get noticed

deffo go into the chatroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My location kind of rules out being able to go to socials, along with a busy life, kids, job. Not easy to get away and its all so far away!! I'm stuck with the sheep and coo shite! Also have never the time for the chat rooms....

So would agree as a single female I get like the rest a lot of mails, but its not hard to build up some banter and flirting there...providing there is something on the profile of interest to read more than one line and even better a cheeky comment in a msg! Bound to get some interest. The effort you get back comes from the effort you put in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No offence but u have no public pics.... ur profile is a 1 liner....

not a great start to make people interested....

socials yes a good idea....theres day time and evening ones...

chat yes get urself known and come n have some banter..."

Agree totally - you have spoken more on here than you have on your profile. Everyone loves sex, hence we are all here. What do you want, who are you looking for, are you up for gbs, 1-2-1's parties, sell yourself! Fill out your profile, get in the chatrooms, get yer cam on, and get to some of the socials.

If you fail after that there is no hope! lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And your age limit 18-99?? would you really meet someone aged 99? Specifics man, specifics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And your age limit 18-99?? would you really meet someone aged 99? Specifics man, specifics!"

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

john,look at your profile,through a females eyes.

would you,shag you.

as a single guy,johnny depp,with a 12 inch knob.would have problems getting a meet.

so your profile,is hardly likely to cause a general dampness,in the fab female population.

make an effort.

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By *ohn890 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Thanks for the advice guys,i have updated a bit more.Can you advice if theres something else im missing. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice guys,i have updated a bit more.Can you advice if theres something else im missing. Thanks"

Still think that you need to put some pics up fella.

They dont need to be face pics.... but Id also stay away from cock pics too.

Its a fine balance between a pic (or no pic) that keeps your identity secret but says enough for someone to be interested to ask more. You just gotta get the right pics to make people want to reply to your messages or initiate contact themselves.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to add...

Would you know who we were from our public gallery?

Faces are obscured (cos were ugly fuckers more than anything, well I am, jo is a hotty) and tattoos are obscured too.

Face pics and tattoos are in the pics in friends gallery.

Steve

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

so far lots of nice lovely people on here, thanks too everyone, xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

patience is deffo top of the list of qualities for any potential meet, someone who chats regularly and has a little bit to say about themselves in their profile, a limited age range and specifics likes rather than just ticking everything, for me it depends also who they want to meet, im put of by guys who say they are straight yet willing to meet tv/ts

and a pic is deffo a must, and deffo not a cock pic eeeewwwwww lol

but for me well im just on here chatting the now cause im seeing someone now

but good luck to you xx

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