FabSwingers.com forum: Out of your league!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone been with someone who is so far out of your league you wonder how it ever happened lol?

Punching to the next level lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouldn't be leagues but there's folk iv met and thought oofft why is he letting me take his kit off

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

When someone is out of my league then they are in my league

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone been with someone who is so far out of your league you wonder how it ever happened lol?

Punching to the next level lol!!!

But if it happened then you obviously had "something" that floated their boat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone been with someone who is so far out of your league you wonder how it ever happened lol?

Punching to the next level lol!!!

But if it happened then you obviously had "something" that floated their boat!"

Or some people will shag anything to get their hole as long as their mates don't find out and they're not seen in public with said person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouldn't be leagues but there's folk iv met and thought oofft why is he letting me take his kit off

I constantly think this (her kit not his.) then I remember I have a shit hot personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone been with someone who is so far out of your league you wonder how it ever happened lol?

Punching to the next level lol!!!

But if it happened then you obviously had "something" that floated their boat!

Or some people will shag anything to get their hole as long as their mates don't find out and they're not seen in public with said person. "

Fuck sake....I'm trying to make folk feel better....Wee bit of Xmas cheer....and you come steam rolling into the thread like fucking Wreck It Ralph!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouldn't be leagues but there's folk iv met and thought oofft why is he letting me take his kit off

I constantly think this (her kit not his.) then I remember I have a shit hot personality.

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ye think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had the pleasure of being with a couple of ladies from this site and I definitely believed that they are away out of my league !!!!!! Stunning ladies that think they are just something ordinary !!!!!!!!!!!!!! No way just ordinary, absolutely stunning !!!!!!

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By *airy PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Anyone been with someone who is so far out of your league you wonder how it ever happened lol?

Punching to the next level lol!!!

But if it happened then you obviously had "something" that floated their boat!

Or some people will shag anything to get their hole as long as their mates don't find out and they're not seen in public with said person.

Fuck sake....I'm trying to make folk feel better....Wee bit of Xmas cheer....and you come steam rolling into the thread like fucking Wreck It Ralph!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always punching!

. Only live once.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouldn't be leagues but there's folk iv met and thought oofft why is he letting me take his kit off

I constantly think this (her kit not his.) then I remember I have a shit hot personality.

ye think?

No I don't think.. I know..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone been with someone who is so far out of your league you wonder how it ever happened lol?

Punching to the next level lol!!!

But if it happened then you obviously had "something" that floated their boat!

Or some people will shag anything to get their hole as long as their mates don't find out and they're not seen in public with said person.

Fuck sake....I'm trying to make folk feel better....Wee bit of Xmas cheer....and you come steam rolling into the thread like fucking Wreck It Ralph!!!

Oh sorry, I should have taken the cue and avoided the fab elephant in the room!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

If there’s an attraction then no one is out of anyone’s league.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no way on earth I am out of anyone's league nor is anyone out of my league. Some I'm just not suited for and the same for them with me either sexually or connection wise etc...

If anyone is the sort of person that if they think they are better than someone they are with then I'd say they are such a sad person for allegedly, lowering their standards in their mind.

Had many a social and I'm either attracted to or not attracted to with people but still see them as a normal person who interests me in certain ways. So respect is always there and will not be an arse before, during or after with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If there’s an attraction then no one is out of anyone’s league. "

I agree. Chemistry and connection regardless of looks is what it’s all about

J x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I dont think Im out of anyones league nor is anyone out of mine .

If the chemistry is right and the attraction is there for both then just go for it & have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone been with someone who is so far out of your league you wonder how it ever happened lol?

Punching to the next level lol!!!

But if it happened then you obviously had "something" that floated their boat!

Or some people will shag anything to get their hole as long as their mates don't find out and they're not seen in public with said person.

Fuck sake....I'm trying to make folk feel better....Wee bit of Xmas cheer....and you come steam rolling into the thread like fucking Wreck It Ralph!!!

Oh sorry, I should have taken the cue and avoided the fab elephant in the room!

You pumped it....so I was told...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Shouldn't be leagues but there's folk iv met and thought oofft why is he letting me take his kit off

Me too lol! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyone been with someone who is so far out of your league you wonder how it ever happened lol?

Punching to the next level lol!!!

But if it happened then you obviously had "something" that floated their boat!"

Yeah, can’t think what that could be lol?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Big lol to everyone who thinks nobody is out of there league! Congratulations!

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

Went through this myself a good few years back when I went through a phase of dating very gym fit/body builder types. Constantly thinking what the hell do they see in me.

Think it all comes down to how you value yourself and your self confidence

Mrs

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By *MCFUN5Couple
over a year ago

GLASGOW

"When someone is out of my league then they are in my league

John

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Went through this myself a good few years back when I went through a phase of dating very gym fit/body builder types. Constantly thinking what the hell do they see in me.

Think it all comes down to how you value yourself and your self confidence

Mrs"
This ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone is out my league or vice versa ...it all comes down to people's attitudes !!!

Looks go for nothing sometimes

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By *ittle_missknowitallWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *ittle_missknowitallWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Leagues are bull

No one has any god given right to judge another based on looks, figure, personality etc

It’s simply down to what pushes your own buttons and everything is fluid I reckon

I have for a laugh replied to messages before saying

No sorry mate with a ripped body like yours you are so out of my league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!

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By *urglasCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Anyone been with someone who is so far out of your league you wonder how it ever happened lol?

Punching to the next level lol!!!

League?? nobodies out of anybodies league. yes iv thought to myself they r tasty but never out of our league. They should think themselves lucky lol. We are good. Must be a man thing,

. If you are with them then they probably feeling the same about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!"
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!"

Ano....Abbey is well punching, eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!

Ano....Abbey is well punching, eh?

Nothing to do with his millions!

Crouch is actually a very funny guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!

Ano....Abbey is well punching, eh?

Yeah, my thoughts exactly!! He's like a 7ft Adonis!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!

Ano....Abbey is well punching, eh?

Nothing to do with his millions!

Crouch is actually a very funny guy.

Crouchy is a top bloke!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!

Ano....Abbey is well punching, eh?

Nothing to do with his millions!

Crouch is actually a very funny guy.

Crouchy is a top bloke! "

Would you fuck him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!

Ano....Abbey is well punching, eh?

Nothing to do with his millions!

Crouch is actually a very funny guy.

Crouchy is a top bloke!

Would you fuck him?"

Bet you would for a packet if Monster Munch ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!

Ano....Abbey is well punching, eh?

Nothing to do with his millions!

Crouch is actually a very funny guy.

Crouchy is a top bloke!

Would you fuck him?"

Would you for the lifestyle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!

Ano....Abbey is well punching, eh?

Nothing to do with his millions!

Crouch is actually a very funny guy.

Crouchy is a top bloke!

Would you fuck him?"

If I could go through Abbey first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!

Ano....Abbey is well punching, eh?

Nothing to do with his millions!

Crouch is actually a very funny guy.

Crouchy is a top bloke!

Would you fuck him?

Bet you would for a packet if Monster Munch ...

Yellow ones. Obvs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!

Ano....Abbey is well punching, eh?

Nothing to do with his millions!

Crouch is actually a very funny guy.

Crouchy is a top bloke!

Would you fuck him?

Would you for the lifestyle?"

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!

Ano....Abbey is well punching, eh?

Nothing to do with his millions!

Crouch is actually a very funny guy.

Crouchy is a top bloke!

Would you fuck him?

If I could go through Abbey first

You'd need to get past my Mr first!

I think she's a pain in the arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A double tap to the throat and he'd be down

Think most footballers wife's are a pain in the arse

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

I'm sure the other person thinks the same most of the time

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!

Ano....Abbey is well punching, eh?

Nothing to do with his millions!

Crouch is actually a very funny guy.

Crouchy is a top bloke!

Would you fuck him?

If I could go through Abbey first

You'd need to get past my Mr first!

I think she's a pain in the arse."

Agree, for once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or some people will shag anything to get their hole as long as their mates don't find out and they're not seen in public with said person. "

Sadly the reality x

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

I’m punching with pretty much most of my meets tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I thought someone was absolutely fucking stunning I most likely wouldn't be able to have sex with them. I'd be intimidated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m punching with pretty much most of my meets tbh. "

I could easily change that for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to be punching at my own level never mind above it

I only get winks on here cause the sender has a twitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend not to meet now, guys are normally way out of my league, especially now the majority on here are gym rats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend not to meet now, guys are normally way out of my league, especially now the majority on here are gym rats

Gym rats? Must be looking at different profiles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend not to meet now, guys are normally way out of my league, especially now the majority on here are gym rats

Gym rats? Must be looking at different profiles!"

Send her to mine doggy.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!

Ano....Abbey is well punching, eh?

Nothing to do with his millions!

Crouch is actually a very funny guy.

Crouchy is a top bloke!

Would you fuck him?

Bet you would for a packet if Monster Munch ...

Yellow ones. Obvs."

You two need to get a room .... with me

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By *atti JoWoman
over a year ago

Kemnay

We should be honest and think could we pull that person in a pub, if no they are out of my league (figuratively speaking). I have been honoured to spend time with some exceptional sexy looking guys and vice versa. The difference on fab, i think people can be arrogant with it. If i dont connect with them on a social it doesnt matter how hot they are! But very much appreciate the effort and demands a hot body takes! But never think what do they see in me... because i can see that! (Not arrogance by the way, just self believe)

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

"If I thought someone was absolutely fucking stunning I most likely wouldn't be able to have sex with them. I'd be intimidated."

Definitely this

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!

Ano....Abbey is well punching, eh?

Nothing to do with his millions!

Crouch is actually a very funny guy.

Crouchy is a top bloke!

Would you fuck him?

Bet you would for a packet if Monster Munch ...

Yellow ones. Obvs.

You two need to get a room .... with me

Done. Booked. Completed it.

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

One particular time, in Ibiza.

Ooft!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I thought someone was absolutely fucking stunning I most likely wouldn't be able to have sex with them. I'd be intimidated.

Definitely this

V x"

Both of you can come join me in the fab corner then... You definitely won't be intimidated.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

I’ve thought this once or twice both on and off Fab, sometimes you get the chance to show your personality and the looks become secondary, if they had been a complete stranger then I would probably not even have attempted to chat never mind ‘get their kit off’.......

Nekked Santa should be fighting them off with his personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve thought this once or twice both on and off Fab, sometimes you get the chance to show your personality and the looks become secondary, if they had been a complete stranger then I would probably not even have attempted to chat never mind ‘get their kit off’.......

Nekked Santa should be fighting them off with his personality

Grammar nazi alert. With his personality, Nekked Santa should be fighting them off.. Nekked Santa should be fighting them off, with his personality maybe I am..maybe I'm not.... But in agree with everything else you said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet but I’m every hopeful this will happen to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no way on earth I am out of anyone's league nor is anyone out of my league. Some I'm just not suited for and the same for them with me either sexually or connection wise etc...

If anyone is the sort of person that if they think they are better than someone they are with then I'd say they are such a sad person for allegedly, lowering their standards in their mind.

"
that's the answer.

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By *entish79Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Posted this in the other recent thread...

For the sake of the argument maybe there are a small % of people who are exceptionally, objectively, unquestionably attractive or unattractive.

And then there’s the rest of us in the middle. And within that majority it very much becomes more subjective, and about all sorts of things that any given person just happens to find attractive in someone else.

At the end of the day most of us are reasonably attractive, by design, otherwise we wouldn’t hook up and the whole thing wouldn’t work. It’s probably worth remembering though that most of us view ourselves in a lesser light than others do.

As the great French philosopher Héloïse Letissier* says, things are so much easier if and when we can unburden ourselves from the shackles of worrying about what other people think of us, the better life becomes.

* AKA Christine off of the Queens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I thought someone was absolutely fucking stunning I most likely wouldn't be able to have sex with them. I'd be intimidated."

Why would you be intimidated,

1) You are a beautiful woman

2) What makes you think said adonis i s not intimidated by you and you both miss out on what could possibly be earth loving sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Earth moving sex

fecking thumbs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once spent an evening with Kate Price before all the surgery and Peter Andre and thought wow she is out of my league

After about 10 mins I discovered a young lady out of her depth who had been fucked about and was in need of a shoulder. Then the bitch walked away with a pro football player

Also worked as security for Kerry Katona one weekend and thought your a supposed celeb but in reality your a fuckin loud mouthed arsehole

Nah intimidation s over-rated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Earth moving sex

fecking thumbs "

I kinda fancy some earth loving sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They tell me it’s better than the moving stuff

Less explosive

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

"If I thought someone was absolutely fucking stunning I most likely wouldn't be able to have sex with them. I'd be intimidated.

Definitely this

V x

Both of you can come join me in the fab corner then... You definitely won't be intimidated.

I most likely would be with such fab forum legends

Also, with the pics of Mrs Doggy I can safely say I would be

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I thought someone was absolutely fucking stunning I most likely wouldn't be able to have sex with them. I'd be intimidated.

Definitely this

V x

Both of you can come join me in the fab corner then... You definitely won't be intimidated.

I most likely would be with such fab forum legends

Also, with the pics of Mrs Doggy I can safely say I would be

V x"

Wheest woman. I'll teach you how to hold your breath for 10 mins at a time to get your pic taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I thought someone was absolutely fucking stunning I most likely wouldn't be able to have sex with them. I'd be intimidated.

Definitely this

V x

Both of you can come join me in the fab corner then... You definitely won't be intimidated.

I most likely would be with such fab forum legends

Also, with the pics of Mrs Doggy I can safely say I would be

V x"

I'm sure a few people would disagree with the "legend" moniker.. And ffs. Yeah doggy is gorgeous.. I am too... If you like a shrek look a like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all, new member here.

Thought it was best to come chat in the Scotland forum 1st of all.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Yep, my other half is very sexy, no idea what he sees in me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, new member here.

Thought it was best to come chat in the Scotland forum 1st of all.

Welcome.. I'd Duck and run for cover if I were you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I thought someone was absolutely fucking stunning I most likely wouldn't be able to have sex with them. I'd be intimidated.

Definitely this

V x

Both of you can come join me in the fab corner then... You definitely won't be intimidated.

I most likely would be with such fab forum legends

Also, with the pics of Mrs Doggy I can safely say I would be

V x

Wheest woman. I'll teach you how to hold your breath for 10 mins at a time to get your pic taken

She'll teach you how to breath through your ears too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is that haha?

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

"If I thought someone was absolutely fucking stunning I most likely wouldn't be able to have sex with them. I'd be intimidated.

Definitely this

V x

Both of you can come join me in the fab corner then... You definitely won't be intimidated.

I most likely would be with such fab forum legends

Also, with the pics of Mrs Doggy I can safely say I would be

V x

I'm sure a few people would disagree with the "legend" moniker.. And ffs. Yeah doggy is gorgeous.. I am too... If you like a shrek look a like.

I quite ginger at the moment so would make a decent Fiona...

Clearly have a bit of a confidence crisis going on so I'm away to hide with my self deprication until I feel better about myself

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No reason. (run.. Forest run

)

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

"No reason. (run.. Forest run

) "

He'd struggle with his cock out and flapping about like that

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha feedback noted lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No reason. (run.. Forest run

)

He'd struggle with his cock out and flapping about like that

V x"

Looks like he wouldn't need a partner for the three legged race though... Unlike me.. I need two partners for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes the lass I was friendly with about a year and a half ago was way out of me league I never thought she would look at me but at a social she started kissing me. Unfortunately it didn’t go anywhere. But it was like wow. And I’d say everyone I have met through fab have been great but she was like wow lol

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

"No reason. (run.. Forest run

)

He'd struggle with his cock out and flapping about like that

V x

Looks like he wouldn't need a partner for the three legged race though... Unlike me.. I need two partners for that.

If only it weren't an all family/no fun month - I'm sure you would have had a nice couple to play with

V x

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

We chat about this all the time!

We meet using the steak and garnish philosophy!

Mrs sofa being the steak and nobody really want the garnish but it’s on the plate so you need to have it too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No reason. (run.. Forest run

)

He'd struggle with his cock out and flapping about like that

V x

Looks like he wouldn't need a partner for the three legged race though... Unlike me.. I need two partners for that.

If only it weren't an all family/no fun month - I'm sure you would have had a nice couple to play with

V x"

Really.

. First I've heard.. But hey.. Next time you speak to them.. Tell them my inbox is second on the right past the toilets near the exit to the bins.. ... Fab wouldn't give me a better location..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Went through this myself a good few years back when I went through a phase of dating very gym fit/body builder types. Constantly thinking what the hell do they see in me.

Think it all comes down to how you value yourself and your self confidence

Mrs"

This was me a few years ago as well but now the menapause has kicked my ass and added to it lol I just don’t bother but I still find myself attracted to the same type of guys who I know for a fact wouldn’t look twice so need to get back in shape somehow

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

If I think they wouldn’t look twice at me on an ordinary day I generally stay away it’s not worth the absolute hole it tears in your confidence

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over a year ago

"If I think they wouldn’t look twice at me on an ordinary day I generally stay away it’s not worth the absolute hole it tears in your confidence "

There's no human being alive that's worth tearing a hole in your confidence!!!!!

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over a year ago

"If I think they wouldn’t look twice at me on an ordinary day I generally stay away it’s not worth the absolute hole it tears in your confidence "

Same xx

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"If I think they wouldn’t look twice at me on an ordinary day I generally stay away it’s not worth the absolute hole it tears in your confidence

There's no human being alive that's worth tearing a hole in your confidence!!!!!"

Which is why I’d stay away from someone out my league

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over a year ago

"If I think they wouldn’t look twice at me on an ordinary day I generally stay away it’s not worth the absolute hole it tears in your confidence

There's no human being alive that's worth tearing a hole in your confidence!!!!!

Which is why I’d stay away from someone out my league "

These are wise and insightful words. People forget that fab is a sex site and some users merely see them as guaranteed sex. It's probably an ego boost initially but when the reality dawns it's not nice and it's often the reason for people ranting on their status update or profile as they've been played.

Insight is often sadly lacking on fab.

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"If I think they wouldn’t look twice at me on an ordinary day I generally stay away it’s not worth the absolute hole it tears in your confidence

There's no human being alive that's worth tearing a hole in your confidence!!!!!

Which is why I’d stay away from someone out my league

Insight is often sadly lacking on fab."

True which is why meeting socially first is always a necessity and good screening tool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have met people where yes, its your first gut instinct, the oftt no way will we click or get on because they are this, she is that, too the other thing.

Always been pleasantly surprised by how down to earth,fun/funny they actually were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, We're all beautiful in our own way....

Live life and swing.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I’ve had too many experiences outside of here where I’ve been attracted to someone and they only felt I was a friend so it’s left me with an outside their league mentality where I don’t bother messaging because I know I’m going to be either ignored completely or read and deleted.

They should get rid of winks aswell,I’ve had a few where I’ve messaged them in reply to find they winked for no reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The should change the wink to a wank.. Then you'd know where you stand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh I’ve had too many experiences outside of here where I’ve been attracted to someone and they only felt I was a friend so it’s left me with an outside their league mentality where I don’t bother messaging because I know I’m going to be either ignored completely or read and deleted.

They should get rid of winks aswell,I’ve had a few where I’ve messaged them in reply to find they winked for no reason

Animals mate. This winking malarky is some sort of sick joke. When I get a wink I start ironing my shirt. This has to stop

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

"We chat about this all the time!

We meet using the steak and garnish philosophy!

Mrs sofa being the steak and nobody really want the garnish but it’s on the plate so you need to have it too!

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You are both steaks you two! You wee hottie

Mrs Sofa is maybe just a little juicier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually I remember reading a thread a while back in The Lounge where a woman was quite open about using Fab to her advantage. By her own admission she was "a 5 on a good day" and this is the only place where she could have the opportunity to fuck guys who were an 8 or a 9. Fair play to her but I couldn't do it.

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over a year ago

"Actually I remember reading a thread a while back in The Lounge where a woman was quite open about using Fab to her advantage. By her own admission she was "a 5 on a good day" and this is the only place where she could have the opportunity to fuck guys who were an 8 or a 9. Fair play to her but I couldn't do it."

That's because an 8 or 9 are beneath you... (or not as the case may be.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's because an 8 or 9 are beneath you... (or not as the case may be.)

Sook!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's because an 8 or 9 are beneath you... (or not as the case may be.)

Sook! "

I was gonna make a comment but I'll go with.

instead.

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over a year ago

That's called having insight.

But I bet she wasn't on posting status updates about hating liars and players etc. I suppose it works both way though, self esteem couldn't have been too high.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's because an 8 or 9 are beneath you... (or not as the case may be.)

Good thing she's got insight and leagues!

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

That's because an 8 or 9 are beneath you... (or not as the case may be.)

Sook! "

Aye, pretty sure he's after a good sook

V x

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over a year ago

Leagues only really work on two dimensional pictures, firm believer that you can chat/laugh your way into anyone's pants if you have the personality in real life.

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over a year ago

"Leagues only really work on two dimensional pictures, firm believer that you can chat/laugh your way into anyone's pants if you have the personality in real life."
is that so? How are ya doing

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"Leagues only really work on two dimensional pictures, firm believer that you can chat/laugh your way into anyone's pants if you have the personality in real life."

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly haven't met any on fab who I feel is out of my.league but in the real world I have met a few

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over a year ago

"Leagues only really work on two dimensional pictures, firm believer that you can chat/laugh your way into anyone's pants if you have the personality in real life.

Agree

Anyone's pants?

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over a year ago

"Leagues only really work on two dimensional pictures, firm believer that you can chat/laugh your way into anyone's pants if you have the personality in real life.

Agree

Anyone's pants?

Depends what league they're in

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over a year ago

"Leagues only really work on two dimensional pictures, firm believer that you can chat/laugh your way into anyone's pants if you have the personality in real life."

Fecking knew this joke book would come in handy someday

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Anyone been with someone who is so far out of your league you wonder how it ever happened lol?

Punching to the next level lol!!!

If they want to play with you,then they're in your league. I'm comfortable saying that most of the guys I meet would probably not chat me up on a night out or in a pub but that's real life not kink play and when your kinks match then leagues and numbers are somewhat irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People say for some reason that my man is punching way above his weight. I dont think he is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was with aa guy who said a can get any woman. A dunno bout use thats a turn off me for him. Too stuck up his own arse lol

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over a year ago

That's because an 8 or 9 are beneath you... (or not as the case may be.)

Sook!

Aye, pretty sure he's after a good sook

V x"

I'd take a bad sook too.

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over a year ago

"If I think they wouldn’t look twice at me on an ordinary day I generally stay away it’s not worth the absolute hole it tears in your confidence

There's no human being alive that's worth tearing a hole in your confidence!!!!!

Which is why I’d stay away from someone out my league "

Same

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over a year ago

"Leagues only really work on two dimensional pictures, firm believer that you can chat/laugh your way into anyone's pants if you have the personality in real life."

I agree that it's easy to portray yourself on here in one way and then be unrecognisable as that in real life and that is a total let down.. I'm not so sure about chatting /laughing your way into anyone's pants though.. IMHO physical attraction will always have the casting vote..

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By *entish79Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Leagues only really work on two dimensional pictures, firm believer that you can chat/laugh your way into anyone's pants if you have the personality in real life.

It will always be a factor, but not necessarily the deciding factor. I think most people are reasonably attractive, and things like personality and how well you get on, or have in conmon start to become more important. I hope so anyway.

Studies have shown that we are viewed as more attractive by others than we view ourselves, precisely because things like personality affect how attractive other people see us.

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over a year ago

"Leagues only really work on two dimensional pictures, firm believer that you can chat/laugh your way into anyone's pants if you have the personality in real life.

Studies have shown that we are viewed as more attractive by others than we view ourselves, precisely because things like personality affect how attractive other people see us."

It's a nice way to view the world, unfortunately it doesn't play out that way most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or some people will shag anything to get their hole as long as their mates don't find out and they're not seen in public with said person. "

That's a lot of men here with big gals like myself

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"Leagues only really work on two dimensional pictures, firm believer that you can chat/laugh your way into anyone's pants if you have the personality in real life.

Agree

Anyone's pants?

Sometimes it takes persistence

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

"Leagues only really work on two dimensional pictures, firm believer that you can chat/laugh your way into anyone's pants if you have the personality in real life.

Agree

Anyone's pants?

Sometimes it takes persistence

Need to watch with that persistence thing... Sometimes it's just waring someone down until it's easier to stop saying no

A good personality definitely makes someone more attractive for sure. In the same way an awful one can make an Adonis look like Mr Bean

V x

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over a year ago

stirling

"Leagues only really work on two dimensional pictures, firm believer that you can chat/laugh your way into anyone's pants if you have the personality in real life.

Agree

Anyone's pants?

Sometimes it takes persistence

Need to watch with that persistence thing... Sometimes it's just waring someone down until it's easier to stop saying no

A good personality definitely makes someone more attractive for sure. In the same way an awful one can make an Adonis look like Mr Bean

V x"

Stop saying no or tell you to sling yer hook more likely?

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over a year ago

Central Scotland

"Leagues only really work on two dimensional pictures, firm believer that you can chat/laugh your way into anyone's pants if you have the personality in real life.

Agree

Anyone's pants?

Sometimes it takes persistence

Need to watch with that persistence thing... Sometimes it's just waring someone down until it's easier to stop saying no

A good personality definitely makes someone more attractive for sure. In the same way an awful one can make an Adonis look like Mr Bean

V x

Stop saying no or tell you to sling yer hook more likely?

I'd hope the latter but it's not always what happens. No means no, not keep asking

Hopefully not something anyone here needs to be reminded of but I've already had experience of that in this scene and it makes a girl question her involvement

Back on track, apparently W's work mates tell him he's punching but I've always thought it was the other way around!

V x

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over a year ago

"Or some people will shag anything to get their hole as long as their mates don't find out and they're not seen in public with said person.

That's a lot of men here with big gals like myself

Different folks have different tastes. I didn't mention or make it a size thing, you did. Physical attractiveness doesn't have to be about size.

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By *entish79Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Or some people will shag anything to get their hole as long as their mates don't find out and they're not seen in public with said person.

That's a lot of men here with big gals like myself

Different folks have different tastes. I didn't mention or make it a size thing, you did. Physical attractiveness doesn't have to be about size.

It definitely isn’t. One of my best Fab pals is very self conscious about her weight, but she’s also the sexiest girl I’ve met on Fab.

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over a year ago

"Or some people will shag anything to get their hole as long as their mates don't find out and they're not seen in public with said person.

That's a lot of men here with big gals like myself

Different folks have different tastes. I didn't mention or make it a size thing, you did. Physical attractiveness doesn't have to be about size.

Exactly. My tinker is like half a rolo

. I still plod along and get on with it!

It's mutual. People know when it's a yes or a no. The atmosphere usually dictates!

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By *entish79Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Leagues only really work on two dimensional pictures, firm believer that you can chat/laugh your way into anyone's pants if you have the personality in real life.

Studies have shown that we are viewed as more attractive by others than we view ourselves, precisely because things like personality affect how attractive other people see us.

It's a nice way to view the world, unfortunately it doesn't play out that way most of the time."

It’s not just how I view the world, it’s backed up by research. In particular experiments where they got a bunch of people together, and let them mingle and get to know one another for an hour or so.

They took photos of everyone’s face, and made four additional digitally enhanced versions, two to look more attractive than the original, and two to look less attractive.

These were all put up on boards, in a random order, and everyone was invited back in and a asked to mark which version they thought was the original.

People almost always selected a less attractive version of themselves, but almost always selected a more attractive version of everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If there’s an attraction then no one is out of anyone’s league.

I agree. Chemistry and connection regardless of looks is what it’s all about

J x "

totally agree x

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over a year ago

"Leagues only really work on two dimensional pictures, firm believer that you can chat/laugh your way into anyone's pants if you have the personality in real life.

Studies have shown that we are viewed as more attractive by others than we view ourselves, precisely because things like personality affect how attractive other people see us.

It's a nice way to view the world, unfortunately it doesn't play out that way most of the time.

They took photos of everyone’s face, and made four additional digitally enhanced versions, two to look more attractive than the original, and two to look less attractive.

These were all put up on boards, in a random order, and everyone was invited back in and a asked to mark which version they thought was the original.

People almost always selected a less attractive version of themselves, but almost always selected a more attractive version of everyone else."

I was talking about this..

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over a year ago

"Leagues only really work on two dimensional pictures, firm believer that you can chat/laugh your way into anyone's pants if you have the personality in real life.

Studies have shown that we are viewed as more attractive by others than we view ourselves, precisely because things like personality affect how attractive other people see us.

It's a nice way to view the world, unfortunately it doesn't play out that way most of the time.

They took photos of everyone’s face, and made four additional digitally enhanced versions, two to look more attractive than the original, and two to look less attractive.

These were all put up on boards, in a random order, and everyone was invited back in and a asked to mark which version they thought was the original.

People almost always selected a less attractive version of themselves, but almost always selected a more attractive version of everyone else.

I was talking about this..

I disagree, no amount of personality or common interests would make me interested in someone I wasn't physically attracted to. But that's just me.

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over a year ago

I disagree, no amount of personality or common interests would make me interested in someone I wasn't physically attracted to. But that's just me.

It's not just you.. I would say it's the majority.. It's just how reality works.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!

Ano....Abbey is well punching, eh?

Nothing to do with his millions!

Crouch is actually a very funny guy.

Crouchy is a top bloke!

Would you fuck him?

Bet you would for a packet if Monster Munch ...

Yellow ones. Obvs.

You two need to get a room .... with me

Done. Booked. Completed it."

Woop woop I will bring the nibbles

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over a year ago

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!

Ano....Abbey is well punching, eh?

Nothing to do with his millions!

Crouch is actually a very funny guy.

Crouchy is a top bloke!

Would you fuck him?

Bet you would for a packet if Monster Munch ...

Yellow ones. Obvs.

You two need to get a room .... with me

Done. Booked. Completed it.

Woop woop I will bring the nibbles

Amazzzzing. I'll bring the beverages

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!

Ano....Abbey is well punching, eh?

Nothing to do with his millions!

Crouch is actually a very funny guy.

Crouchy is a top bloke!

Would you fuck him?

Bet you would for a packet if Monster Munch ...

Yellow ones. Obvs.

You two need to get a room .... with me

Done. Booked. Completed it.

Woop woop I will bring the nibbles

Amazzzzing. I'll bring the beverages

Mrs D can just bring herself and we can share

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By *entish79Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I disagree, no amount of personality or common interests would make me interested in someone I wasn't physically attracted to. But that's just me.

It's not just you.. I would say it's the majority.. It's just how reality works. "

You’re both missing the point though, as I’m not saying it’s the difference between finding someone attractive and not finding them attractive. I’m saying it’s a factor in how attractive we see people.

For example, and purely for the sake of the argument as reducing this to scores is really lame.

But supposing you consider anyone with a 8 or above as ‘attractive’....

You might prefer someone with a 8 on looks and great personality to someone with a 9 on looks and crap personality.

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over a year ago

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!

Ano....Abbey is well punching, eh?

Nothing to do with his millions!

Crouch is actually a very funny guy.

Crouchy is a top bloke!

Would you fuck him?

Bet you would for a packet if Monster Munch ...

Yellow ones. Obvs.

You two need to get a room .... with me

Done. Booked. Completed it.

Woop woop I will bring the nibbles

Amazzzzing. I'll bring the beverages

Mrs D can just bring herself and we can share

She'll go wherever the monster munch is

. Squared!

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over a year ago

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!

Ano....Abbey is well punching, eh?

Nothing to do with his millions!

Crouch is actually a very funny guy.

Crouchy is a top bloke!

Would you fuck him?

Bet you would for a packet if Monster Munch ...

Yellow ones. Obvs.

You two need to get a room .... with me

Done. Booked. Completed it.

Woop woop I will bring the nibbles

Amazzzzing. I'll bring the beverages

Mrs D can just bring herself and we can share

You can start at the top of me and work your way down....Drama Free can start at the bottom and work up. Meet in the middle

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over a year ago

"Peter Crouch

I rest my case!!

Ano....Abbey is well punching, eh?

Nothing to do with his millions!

Crouch is actually a very funny guy.

Crouchy is a top bloke!

Would you fuck him?

Bet you would for a packet if Monster Munch ...

Yellow ones. Obvs.

You two need to get a room .... with me

Done. Booked. Completed it.

Woop woop I will bring the nibbles

Amazzzzing. I'll bring the beverages

Mrs D can just bring herself and we can share

You can start at the top of me and work your way down....Drama Free can start at the bottom and work up. Meet in the middle

Sorted. Am swerving your feet though

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over a year ago

Anyone I've met who was absolutely stunning has been dull as fuck. Maybe I'm hanging out in the wrong places though.

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over a year ago

I’ve been know to punch above my weight on many occasions but love when I get a wee ego boost from hot guys saying I’m out of their league !! Aye I can scrub up not bad sometimes lol

But seriously this is a society thing, we’re brought up to put people into categories by our peers the media you name it, we don’t look a certain way dress a certain way sit in a certain weight bracket!!

Well for me personally I go with personality, things in common first and foremost. Some of my best experiences have been with guys I’ve not found sexually attractive in the first instance but have been won over by them and the sex has been way better than some guys who might look the part but can’t stimulate my mind

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over a year ago

"I’ve been know to punch above my weight on many occasions but love when I get a wee ego boost from hot guys saying I’m out of their league !! Aye I can scrub up not bad sometimes lol

Aww you’re a stunner

you looked amazing at the social.

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over a year ago

"Anyone I've met who was absolutely stunning has been dull as fuck. Maybe I'm hanging out in the wrong places though."

Why meet anyone dull as fuck? Theres no pressure to meet anyone doesn't tick all the boxes. Called standards.

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over a year ago

"Anyone I've met who was absolutely stunning has been dull as fuck. Maybe I'm hanging out in the wrong places though.

Why meet anyone dull as fuck? Theres no pressure to meet anyone doesn't tick all the boxes. Called standards. "

I mean people I've met in general day to day life, out socialising with friends, through work etc who were very physically attractive. I have standards

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"Anyone I've met who was absolutely stunning has been dull as fuck. Maybe I'm hanging out in the wrong places though.

Why meet anyone dull as fuck? Theres no pressure to meet anyone doesn't tick all the boxes. Called standards.

I mean people I've met in general day to day life, out socialising with friends, through work etc who were very physically attractive. I have standards

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"Anyone been with someone who is so far out of your league you wonder how it ever happened lol?

Punching to the next level lol!!!

Nope

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