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"Whats every ones thoughts on playing while pregnant ? "If i was active when i was pregnant i would have fucked my way through the list, as it was the hubby barely survived Do what feels good OP. | |||
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"Your baby, your body, your choice. As long as you play as safe as you can (condoms etc) I don't see the issue. I'm currently 8 months pregnant and although I've not been swinging throughout this pregnancy if I was part of a couple still I 100% would still be going to clubs etc. I really miss the scene particularly the social side of it, not to mention I'm horny as hell. If you and your partner are happy with it enjoy and have fun. " You said play "as safe as you can" and you're right. But there is never no risk. Could you live with yourself for taking the chance if there were complications? "Your baby, your body" doesn't seem very fair when it's the baby that might end up blind for instance for the rest of his/her like. I think is wrong, that's my opinion and for 9 months of a woman's life she should respect her unborn child enough to abstain from swinging. Otherwise it's just plain selfishness. | |||
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"Your baby, your body, your choice. As long as you play as safe as you can (condoms etc) I don't see the issue. I'm currently 8 months pregnant and although I've not been swinging throughout this pregnancy if I was part of a couple still I 100% would still be going to clubs etc. I really miss the scene particularly the social side of it, not to mention I'm horny as hell. If you and your partner are happy with it enjoy and have fun. You said play "as safe as you can" and you're right. But there is never no risk. Could you live with yourself for taking the chance if there were complications? "Your baby, your body" doesn't seem very fair when it's the baby that might end up blind for instance for the rest of his/her like. I think is wrong, that's my opinion and for 9 months of a woman's life she should respect her unborn child enough to abstain from swinging. Otherwise it's just plain selfishness. " I didn't say there was no risk. A baby can be born blind, deaf etc even if you don't swing. Swinging comes in many forms. It's amazing how black and white some see it. | |||
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"Your baby, your body, your choice. As long as you play as safe as you can (condoms etc) I don't see the issue. I'm currently 8 months pregnant and although I've not been swinging throughout this pregnancy if I was part of a couple still I 100% would still be going to clubs etc. I really miss the scene particularly the social side of it, not to mention I'm horny as hell. If you and your partner are happy with it enjoy and have fun. You said play "as safe as you can" and you're right. But there is never no risk. Could you live with yourself for taking the chance if there were complications? "Your baby, your body" doesn't seem very fair when it's the baby that might end up blind for instance for the rest of his/her like. I think is wrong, that's my opinion and for 9 months of a woman's life she should respect her unborn child enough to abstain from swinging. Otherwise it's just plain selfishness. I didn't say there was no risk. A baby can be born blind, deaf etc even if you don't swing. Swinging comes in many forms. It's amazing how black and white some see it. " . I didn't say you do, you were careful with the words you used for that reason. You acknowledged playing as safe as one could. My opinion is there, is still a risk directly associated with swinging while pregnant (lets face it we are talking sex with someone other than the father) and no matter how small or difficult to quantify that risk, for the duration of a pregnancy a mother should respect that if she is fully informed. You are right, there are so many risks involved in pregnancy that we take for granted, things we can't control, so why would any mother take a risk over something she can control? | |||
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"Your baby, your body, your choice. As long as you play as safe as you can (condoms etc) I don't see the issue. I'm currently 8 months pregnant and although I've not been swinging throughout this pregnancy if I was part of a couple still I 100% would still be going to clubs etc. I really miss the scene particularly the social side of it, not to mention I'm horny as hell. If you and your partner are happy with it enjoy and have fun. You said play "as safe as you can" and you're right. But there is never no risk. Could you live with yourself for taking the chance if there were complications? "Your baby, your body" doesn't seem very fair when it's the baby that might end up blind for instance for the rest of his/her like. I think is wrong, that's my opinion and for 9 months of a woman's life she should respect her unborn child enough to abstain from swinging. Otherwise it's just plain selfishness. I didn't say there was no risk. A baby can be born blind, deaf etc even if you don't swing. Swinging comes in many forms. It's amazing how black and white some see it. " The OP posted about "playing" while pregnant and asked for thoughts. No mention of socialising. So it is black and white, or maybe you're not answering her specific query? | |||
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"Your baby, your body, your choice. As long as you play as safe as you can (condoms etc) I don't see the issue. I'm currently 8 months pregnant and although I've not been swinging throughout this pregnancy if I was part of a couple still I 100% would still be going to clubs etc. I really miss the scene particularly the social side of it, not to mention I'm horny as hell. If you and your partner are happy with it enjoy and have fun. You said play "as safe as you can" and you're right. But there is never no risk. Could you live with yourself for taking the chance if there were complications? "Your baby, your body" doesn't seem very fair when it's the baby that might end up blind for instance for the rest of his/her like. I think is wrong, that's my opinion and for 9 months of a woman's life she should respect her unborn child enough to abstain from swinging. Otherwise it's just plain selfishness. I didn't say there was no risk. A baby can be born blind, deaf etc even if you don't swing. Swinging comes in many forms. It's amazing how black and white some see it. . I didn't say you do, you were careful with the words you used for that reason. You acknowledged playing as safe as one could. My opinion is there, is still a risk directly associated with swinging while pregnant (lets face it we are talking sex with someone other than the father) and no matter how small or difficult to quantify that risk, for the duration of a pregnancy a mother should respect that if she is fully informed. You are right, there are so many risks involved in pregnancy that we take for granted, things we can't control, so why would any mother take a risk over something she can control? " How how naive of you to assume the father poses no risk lol. | |||
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"Your baby, your body, your choice. As long as you play as safe as you can (condoms etc) I don't see the issue. I'm currently 8 months pregnant and although I've not been swinging throughout this pregnancy if I was part of a couple still I 100% would still be going to clubs etc. I really miss the scene particularly the social side of it, not to mention I'm horny as hell. If you and your partner are happy with it enjoy and have fun. You said play "as safe as you can" and you're right. But there is never no risk. Could you live with yourself for taking the chance if there were complications? "Your baby, your body" doesn't seem very fair when it's the baby that might end up blind for instance for the rest of his/her like. I think is wrong, that's my opinion and for 9 months of a woman's life she should respect her unborn child enough to abstain from swinging. Otherwise it's just plain selfishness. I didn't say there was no risk. A baby can be born blind, deaf etc even if you don't swing. Swinging comes in many forms. It's amazing how black and white some see it. The OP posted about "playing" while pregnant and asked for thoughts. No mention of socialising. So it is black and white, or maybe you're not answering her specific query?" Playing doesn't always automatically equal sex. Playing with a regular couple you know or a gf /bf you have wouldn't pose the same risks you are insinuating. Like I say not as black and white as you make it out. | |||
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"Your baby, your body, your choice. As long as you play as safe as you can (condoms etc) I don't see the issue. I'm currently 8 months pregnant and although I've not been swinging throughout this pregnancy if I was part of a couple still I 100% would still be going to clubs etc. I really miss the scene particularly the social side of it, not to mention I'm horny as hell. If you and your partner are happy with it enjoy and have fun. You said play "as safe as you can" and you're right. But there is never no risk. Could you live with yourself for taking the chance if there were complications? "Your baby, your body" doesn't seem very fair when it's the baby that might end up blind for instance for the rest of his/her like. I think is wrong, that's my opinion and for 9 months of a woman's life she should respect her unborn child enough to abstain from swinging. Otherwise it's just plain selfishness. I didn't say there was no risk. A baby can be born blind, deaf etc even if you don't swing. Swinging comes in many forms. It's amazing how black and white some see it. . I didn't say you do, you were careful with the words you used for that reason. You acknowledged playing as safe as one could. My opinion is there, is still a risk directly associated with swinging while pregnant (lets face it we are talking sex with someone other than the father) and no matter how small or difficult to quantify that risk, for the duration of a pregnancy a mother should respect that if she is fully informed. You are right, there are so many risks involved in pregnancy that we take for granted, things we can't control, so why would any mother take a risk over something she can control? " | |||
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"Your baby, your body, your choice. As long as you play as safe as you can (condoms etc) I don't see the issue. I'm currently 8 months pregnant and although I've not been swinging throughout this pregnancy if I was part of a couple still I 100% would still be going to clubs etc. I really miss the scene particularly the social side of it, not to mention I'm horny as hell. If you and your partner are happy with it enjoy and have fun. You said play "as safe as you can" and you're right. But there is never no risk. Could you live with yourself for taking the chance if there were complications? "Your baby, your body" doesn't seem very fair when it's the baby that might end up blind for instance for the rest of his/her like. I think is wrong, that's my opinion and for 9 months of a woman's life she should respect her unborn child enough to abstain from swinging. Otherwise it's just plain selfishness. I didn't say there was no risk. A baby can be born blind, deaf etc even if you don't swing. Swinging comes in many forms. It's amazing how black and white some see it. . I didn't say you do, you were careful with the words you used for that reason. You acknowledged playing as safe as one could. My opinion is there, is still a risk directly associated with swinging while pregnant (lets face it we are talking sex with someone other than the father) and no matter how small or difficult to quantify that risk, for the duration of a pregnancy a mother should respect that if she is fully informed. You are right, there are so many risks involved in pregnancy that we take for granted, things we can't control, so why would any mother take a risk over something she can control? How how naive of you to assume the father poses no risk lol. " Not naive at all, if you want to go through my post and pick up a different little part each time because your previous little query has been answered to effect do so. But if the father does pose a risk, then I'd assume that either is was a very ill judged decision in the first place to have unprotected sex with him, or the mother and father are together and that risk has been discussed beforehand. But maybe that's me being naive in your world!! | |||
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"Your baby, your body, your choice. As long as you play as safe as you can (condoms etc) I don't see the issue. I'm currently 8 months pregnant and although I've not been swinging throughout this pregnancy if I was part of a couple still I 100% would still be going to clubs etc. I really miss the scene particularly the social side of it, not to mention I'm horny as hell. If you and your partner are happy with it enjoy and have fun. You said play "as safe as you can" and you're right. But there is never no risk. Could you live with yourself for taking the chance if there were complications? "Your baby, your body" doesn't seem very fair when it's the baby that might end up blind for instance for the rest of his/her like. I think is wrong, that's my opinion and for 9 months of a woman's life she should respect her unborn child enough to abstain from swinging. Otherwise it's just plain selfishness. I didn't say there was no risk. A baby can be born blind, deaf etc even if you don't swing. Swinging comes in many forms. It's amazing how black and white some see it. . I didn't say you do, you were careful with the words you used for that reason. You acknowledged playing as safe as one could. My opinion is there, is still a risk directly associated with swinging while pregnant (lets face it we are talking sex with someone other than the father) and no matter how small or difficult to quantify that risk, for the duration of a pregnancy a mother should respect that if she is fully informed. You are right, there are so many risks involved in pregnancy that we take for granted, things we can't control, so why would any mother take a risk over something she can control? How how naive of you to assume the father poses no risk lol. Not naive at all, if you want to go through my post and pick up a different little part each time because your previous little query has been answered to effect do so. But if the father does pose a risk, then I'd assume that either is was a very ill judged decision in the first place to have unprotected sex with him, or the mother and father are together and that risk has been discussed beforehand. But maybe that's me being naive in your world!!" If you say so lol. | |||
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"Your baby, your body, your choice. As long as you play as safe as you can (condoms etc) I don't see the issue. I'm currently 8 months pregnant and although I've not been swinging throughout this pregnancy if I was part of a couple still I 100% would still be going to clubs etc. I really miss the scene particularly the social side of it, not to mention I'm horny as hell. If you and your partner are happy with it enjoy and have fun. You said play "as safe as you can" and you're right. But there is never no risk. Could you live with yourself for taking the chance if there were complications? "Your baby, your body" doesn't seem very fair when it's the baby that might end up blind for instance for the rest of his/her like. I think is wrong, that's my opinion and for 9 months of a woman's life she should respect her unborn child enough to abstain from swinging. Otherwise it's just plain selfishness. I didn't say there was no risk. A baby can be born blind, deaf etc even if you don't swing. Swinging comes in many forms. It's amazing how black and white some see it. . I didn't say you do, you were careful with the words you used for that reason. You acknowledged playing as safe as one could. My opinion is there, is still a risk directly associated with swinging while pregnant (lets face it we are talking sex with someone other than the father) and no matter how small or difficult to quantify that risk, for the duration of a pregnancy a mother should respect that if she is fully informed. You are right, there are so many risks involved in pregnancy that we take for granted, things we can't control, so why would any mother take a risk over something she can control? How how naive of you to assume the father poses no risk lol. Not naive at all, if you want to go through my post and pick up a different little part each time because your previous little query has been answered to effect do so. But if the father does pose a risk, then I'd assume that either is was a very ill judged decision in the first place to have unprotected sex with him, or the mother and father are together and that risk has been discussed beforehand. But maybe that's me being naive in your world!! If you say so lol. " Care to expand on my "naivety"? Every day is a school day, enlighten me and perhaps you will change my opinion? Or just continue to make vague little comments with no justification followed by an LOL acronym. You decide. | |||
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"Your baby, your body, your choice. As long as you play as safe as you can (condoms etc) I don't see the issue. I'm currently 8 months pregnant and although I've not been swinging throughout this pregnancy if I was part of a couple still I 100% would still be going to clubs etc. I really miss the scene particularly the social side of it, not to mention I'm horny as hell. If you and your partner are happy with it enjoy and have fun. You said play "as safe as you can" and you're right. But there is never no risk. Could you live with yourself for taking the chance if there were complications? "Your baby, your body" doesn't seem very fair when it's the baby that might end up blind for instance for the rest of his/her like. I think is wrong, that's my opinion and for 9 months of a woman's life she should respect her unborn child enough to abstain from swinging. Otherwise it's just plain selfishness. I didn't say there was no risk. A baby can be born blind, deaf etc even if you don't swing. Swinging comes in many forms. It's amazing how black and white some see it. . I didn't say you do, you were careful with the words you used for that reason. You acknowledged playing as safe as one could. My opinion is there, is still a risk directly associated with swinging while pregnant (lets face it we are talking sex with someone other than the father) and no matter how small or difficult to quantify that risk, for the duration of a pregnancy a mother should respect that if she is fully informed. You are right, there are so many risks involved in pregnancy that we take for granted, things we can't control, so why would any mother take a risk over something she can control? How how naive of you to assume the father poses no risk lol. Not naive at all, if you want to go through my post and pick up a different little part each time because your previous little query has been answered to effect do so. But if the father does pose a risk, then I'd assume that either is was a very ill judged decision in the first place to have unprotected sex with him, or the mother and father are together and that risk has been discussed beforehand. But maybe that's me being naive in your world!! If you say so lol. Care to expand on my "naivety"? Every day is a school day, enlighten me and perhaps you will change my opinion? Or just continue to make vague little comments with no justification followed by an LOL acronym. You decide. " You clearly think your opinion is right so I'll let you live in that little bubble. Always one. I've learnt not to argue with people like that because they just can't accept others point of view. Life is much too short. Have a lovely day. | |||
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"Your baby, your body, your choice. As long as you play as safe as you can (condoms etc) I don't see the issue. I'm currently 8 months pregnant and although I've not been swinging throughout this pregnancy if I was part of a couple still I 100% would still be going to clubs etc. I really miss the scene particularly the social side of it, not to mention I'm horny as hell. If you and your partner are happy with it enjoy and have fun. You said play "as safe as you can" and you're right. But there is never no risk. Could you live with yourself for taking the chance if there were complications? "Your baby, your body" doesn't seem very fair when it's the baby that might end up blind for instance for the rest of his/her like. I think is wrong, that's my opinion and for 9 months of a woman's life she should respect her unborn child enough to abstain from swinging. Otherwise it's just plain selfishness. I didn't say there was no risk. A baby can be born blind, deaf etc even if you don't swing. Swinging comes in many forms. It's amazing how black and white some see it. . I didn't say you do, you were careful with the words you used for that reason. You acknowledged playing as safe as one could. My opinion is there, is still a risk directly associated with swinging while pregnant (lets face it we are talking sex with someone other than the father) and no matter how small or difficult to quantify that risk, for the duration of a pregnancy a mother should respect that if she is fully informed. You are right, there are so many risks involved in pregnancy that we take for granted, things we can't control, so why would any mother take a risk over something she can control? How how naive of you to assume the father poses no risk lol. Not naive at all, if you want to go through my post and pick up a different little part each time because your previous little query has been answered to effect do so. But if the father does pose a risk, then I'd assume that either is was a very ill judged decision in the first place to have unprotected sex with him, or the mother and father are together and that risk has been discussed beforehand. But maybe that's me being naive in your world!! If you say so lol. Care to expand on my "naivety"? Every day is a school day, enlighten me and perhaps you will change my opinion? Or just continue to make vague little comments with no justification followed by an LOL acronym. You decide. You clearly think your opinion is right so I'll let you live in that little bubble. Always one. I've learnt not to argue with people like that because they just can't accept others point of view. Life is much too short. Have a lovely day. " Your passive aggressive little "always one" snipe negates the rest of your taking the higher moral ground stance. It's a forum, I offered my opinion and I justified why I believe what I believe, I never said I was right. You chose not to elaborate on anything you lol'd at, so I'll assume you're out of ideas. Have a good one. | |||
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"Your baby, your body, your choice. As long as you play as safe as you can (condoms etc) I don't see the issue. I'm currently 8 months pregnant and although I've not been swinging throughout this pregnancy if I was part of a couple still I 100% would still be going to clubs etc. I really miss the scene particularly the social side of it, not to mention I'm horny as hell. If you and your partner are happy with it enjoy and have fun. You said play "as safe as you can" and you're right. But there is never no risk. Could you live with yourself for taking the chance if there were complications? "Your baby, your body" doesn't seem very fair when it's the baby that might end up blind for instance for the rest of his/her like. I think is wrong, that's my opinion and for 9 months of a woman's life she should respect her unborn child enough to abstain from swinging. Otherwise it's just plain selfishness. I didn't say there was no risk. A baby can be born blind, deaf etc even if you don't swing. Swinging comes in many forms. It's amazing how black and white some see it. . I didn't say you do, you were careful with the words you used for that reason. You acknowledged playing as safe as one could. My opinion is there, is still a risk directly associated with swinging while pregnant (lets face it we are talking sex with someone other than the father) and no matter how small or difficult to quantify that risk, for the duration of a pregnancy a mother should respect that if she is fully informed. You are right, there are so many risks involved in pregnancy that we take for granted, things we can't control, so why would any mother take a risk over something she can control? How how naive of you to assume the father poses no risk lol. Not naive at all, if you want to go through my post and pick up a different little part each time because your previous little query has been answered to effect do so. But if the father does pose a risk, then I'd assume that either is was a very ill judged decision in the first place to have unprotected sex with him, or the mother and father are together and that risk has been discussed beforehand. But maybe that's me being naive in your world!! If you say so lol. Care to expand on my "naivety"? Every day is a school day, enlighten me and perhaps you will change my opinion? Or just continue to make vague little comments with no justification followed by an LOL acronym. You decide. You clearly think your opinion is right so I'll let you live in that little bubble. Always one. I've learnt not to argue with people like that because they just can't accept others point of view. Life is much too short. Have a lovely day. Your passive aggressive little "always one" snipe negates the rest of your taking the higher moral ground stance. It's a forum, I offered my opinion and I justified why I believe what I believe, I never said I was right. You chose not to elaborate on anything you lol'd at, so I'll assume you're out of ideas. Have a good one. "  | |||
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"Your baby, your body, your choice. As long as you play as safe as you can (condoms etc) I don't see the issue. I'm currently 8 months pregnant and although I've not been swinging throughout this pregnancy if I was part of a couple still I 100% would still be going to clubs etc. I really miss the scene particularly the social side of it, not to mention I'm horny as hell. If you and your partner are happy with it enjoy and have fun. You said play "as safe as you can" and you're right. But there is never no risk. Could you live with yourself for taking the chance if there were complications? "Your baby, your body" doesn't seem very fair when it's the baby that might end up blind for instance for the rest of his/her like. I think is wrong, that's my opinion and for 9 months of a woman's life she should respect her unborn child enough to abstain from swinging. Otherwise it's just plain selfishness. " You say you just expressed an opinion , you did but with lots of OPINIONS that cause arguments you gave the horror story included in your opinion, ie "could you live with yourself" blah blah blah , then you followed your opinion with an insult, ie "its just plain selfish" blah de blah. Every other poster gave their opinion with a , yes go for it or its not for me , only you turned it into an argument instead of a discussion. OP im sure you choose to have fun then you will know how to keep you both safe and healthy, if you want fun while pregnant go have it and make the most of your special time. | |||
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"My view is that it only lasts months it should be a special time you have years to swing but as with everything each to their own." Agree with this | |||
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"Personally not something I would do out of respect for my baby.... because when pregnant it’s not just your body is it? I’d give myself a break for the 9 months not that long really is it? each to their own though so long as playing safe Most guys saying the don’t mind.....well they won’t will they. Depends if your a sane swinger or sexual deviant I suppose "Sex during pregnancy is completely and utterly safe, what's the difference between sex with a partner and sex with a stranger? None as long as it's protected. I think it's a little below the belt to suggest she is taking any risks with her baby's safety. | |||
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"Your baby, your body, your choice. As long as you play as safe as you can (condoms etc) I don't see the issue. I'm currently 8 months pregnant and although I've not been swinging throughout this pregnancy if I was part of a couple still I 100% would still be going to clubs etc. I really miss the scene particularly the social side of it, not to mention I'm horny as hell. If you and your partner are happy with it enjoy and have fun. You said play "as safe as you can" and you're right. But there is never no risk. Could you live with yourself for taking the chance if there were complications? "Your baby, your body" doesn't seem very fair when it's the baby that might end up blind for instance for the rest of his/her like. I think is wrong, that's my opinion and for 9 months of a woman's life she should respect her unborn child enough to abstain from swinging. Otherwise it's just plain selfishness. You say you just expressed an opinion , you did but with lots of OPINIONS that cause arguments you gave the horror story included in your opinion, ie "could you live with yourself" blah blah blah , then you followed your opinion with an insult, ie "its just plain selfish" blah de blah. Every other poster gave their opinion with a , yes go for it or its not for me , only you turned it into an argument instead of a discussion. OP im sure you choose to have fun then you will know how to keep you both safe and healthy, if you want fun while pregnant go have it and make the most of your special time. " You interpreted it as an argument. I see it as thought provoking. I asked a valid question. I call that contributing to a discussion as you put it rather than merely saying I think it's right or it's wrong. I gave a reason to back up my reasoning, that's a discussion. Otherwise it's just a statement. Have a pop if you want but please don't make yourself look like another poster and actually think about what you are typing before you accuse me of something that you then contradict yourself regarding. The OP asked for thoughts, not statements with no reasoning. | |||
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"Personally not something I would do out of respect for my baby.... because when pregnant it’s not just your body is it? I’d give myself a break for the 9 months not that long really is it? each to their own though so long as playing safe Most guys saying the don’t mind.....well they won’t will they. Depends if your a sane swinger or sexual deviant I suppose
Sex during pregnancy is completely and utterly safe, what's the difference between sex with a partner and sex with a stranger? None as long as it's protected.
I think it's a little below the belt to suggest she is taking any risks with her baby's safety. "Protected sex with a stranger guarantees protection from all STDs??? Back to school my friend! Unless by protected sex you mean no sex? | |||
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"Your baby, your body, your choice. As long as you play as safe as you can (condoms etc) I don't see the issue. I'm currently 8 months pregnant and although I've not been swinging throughout this pregnancy if I was part of a couple still I 100% would still be going to clubs etc. I really miss the scene particularly the social side of it, not to mention I'm horny as hell. If you and your partner are happy with it enjoy and have fun. You said play "as safe as you can" and you're right. But there is never no risk. Could you live with yourself for taking the chance if there were complications? "Your baby, your body" doesn't seem very fair when it's the baby that might end up blind for instance for the rest of his/her like. I think is wrong, that's my opinion and for 9 months of a woman's life she should respect her unborn child enough to abstain from swinging. Otherwise it's just plain selfishness. You say you just expressed an opinion , you did but with lots of OPINIONS that cause arguments you gave the horror story included in your opinion, ie "could you live with yourself" blah blah blah , then you followed your opinion with an insult, ie "its just plain selfish" blah de blah. Every other poster gave their opinion with a , yes go for it or its not for me , only you turned it into an argument instead of a discussion. OP im sure you choose to have fun then you will know how to keep you both safe and healthy, if you want fun while pregnant go have it and make the most of your special time. You interpreted it as an argument. I see it as thought provoking. I asked a valid question. I call that contributing to a discussion as you put it rather than merely saying I think it's right or it's wrong. I gave a reason to back up my reasoning, that's a discussion. Otherwise it's just a statement. Have a pop if you want but please don't make yourself look like another poster and actually think about what you are typing before you accuse me of something that you then contradict yourself regarding. The OP asked for thoughts, not statements with no reasoning. " So give your opinion without the horror stories and judgments attached. Seemples | |||
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"Your baby, your body, your choice. As long as you play as safe as you can (condoms etc) I don't see the issue. I'm currently 8 months pregnant and although I've not been swinging throughout this pregnancy if I was part of a couple still I 100% would still be going to clubs etc. I really miss the scene particularly the social side of it, not to mention I'm horny as hell. If you and your partner are happy with it enjoy and have fun. You said play "as safe as you can" and you're right. But there is never no risk. Could you live with yourself for taking the chance if there were complications? "Your baby, your body" doesn't seem very fair when it's the baby that might end up blind for instance for the rest of his/her like. I think is wrong, that's my opinion and for 9 months of a woman's life she should respect her unborn child enough to abstain from swinging. Otherwise it's just plain selfishness. You say you just expressed an opinion , you did but with lots of OPINIONS that cause arguments you gave the horror story included in your opinion, ie "could you live with yourself" blah blah blah , then you followed your opinion with an insult, ie "its just plain selfish" blah de blah. Every other poster gave their opinion with a , yes go for it or its not for me , only you turned it into an argument instead of a discussion. OP im sure you choose to have fun then you will know how to keep you both safe and healthy, if you want fun while pregnant go have it and make the most of your special time. You interpreted it as an argument. I see it as thought provoking. I asked a valid question. I call that contributing to a discussion as you put it rather than merely saying I think it's right or it's wrong. I gave a reason to back up my reasoning, that's a discussion. Otherwise it's just a statement. Have a pop if you want but please don't make yourself look like another poster and actually think about what you are typing before you accuse me of something that you then contradict yourself regarding. The OP asked for thoughts, not statements with no reasoning. So give your opinion without the horror stories and judgments attached. Seemples" Horror stories? It's fact man! Bury your head in the sand if you want. You spend your life arguing with people on this forum in the white knight capacity but no one buys that shit for a second. I gave my opinion, I'm entitled to, I asked a question in return. You don't like my direct style do one, it wasn't your thread to start with. May I suggest before you come on here posting your personal opinion you educate yourself with some facts. I'm not having a go, seriously, you bore me with your need to do this crap. If you can't come up with an answer get your missus to post something again on your behalf as she had to do before on another thread. So unless you can reply with something above your normal baseline I will not acknowledge it with a reply. | |||
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"Your baby, your body, your choice. As long as you play as safe as you can (condoms etc) I don't see the issue. I'm currently 8 months pregnant and although I've not been swinging throughout this pregnancy if I was part of a couple still I 100% would still be going to clubs etc. I really miss the scene particularly the social side of it, not to mention I'm horny as hell. If you and your partner are happy with it enjoy and have fun. You said play "as safe as you can" and you're right. But there is never no risk. Could you live with yourself for taking the chance if there were complications? "Your baby, your body" doesn't seem very fair when it's the baby that might end up blind for instance for the rest of his/her like. I think is wrong, that's my opinion and for 9 months of a woman's life she should respect her unborn child enough to abstain from swinging. Otherwise it's just plain selfishness. You say you just expressed an opinion , you did but with lots of OPINIONS that cause arguments you gave the horror story included in your opinion, ie "could you live with yourself" blah blah blah , then you followed your opinion with an insult, ie "its just plain selfish" blah de blah. Every other poster gave their opinion with a , yes go for it or its not for me , only you turned it into an argument instead of a discussion. OP im sure you choose to have fun then you will know how to keep you both safe and healthy, if you want fun while pregnant go have it and make the most of your special time. You interpreted it as an argument. I see it as thought provoking. I asked a valid question. I call that contributing to a discussion as you put it rather than merely saying I think it's right or it's wrong. I gave a reason to back up my reasoning, that's a discussion. Otherwise it's just a statement. Have a pop if you want but please don't make yourself look like another poster and actually think about what you are typing before you accuse me of something that you then contradict yourself regarding. The OP asked for thoughts, not statements with no reasoning. So give your opinion without the horror stories and judgments attached. Seemples Horror stories? It's fact man! Bury your head in the sand if you want. You spend your life arguing with people on this forum in the white knight capacity but no one buys that shit for a second. I gave my opinion, I'm entitled to, I asked a question in return. You don't like my direct style do one, it wasn't your thread to start with. May I suggest before you come on here posting your personal opinion you educate yourself with some facts. I'm not having a go, seriously, you bore me with your need to do this crap. If you can't come up with an answer get your missus to post something again on your behalf as she had to do before on another thread. So unless you can reply with something above your normal baseline I will not acknowledge it with a reply. " Can you post anything that does not involve throwing petty insults ? lol, not that im insulted of course. Asking for a friend. | |||
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"Personally not something I would do out of respect for my baby.... because when pregnant it’s not just your body is it? I’d give myself a break for the 9 months not that long really is it? each to their own though so long as playing safe Most guys saying the don’t mind.....well they won’t will they. Depends if your a sane swinger or sexual deviant I suppose
Sex during pregnancy is completely and utterly safe, what's the difference between sex with a partner and sex with a stranger? None as long as it's protected.
I think it's a little below the belt to suggest she is taking any risks with her baby's safety.
Protected sex with a stranger guarantees protection from all STDs???
Back to school my friend! Unless by protected sex you mean no sex? "Don't patronize me | |||
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"Personally not something I would do out of respect for my baby.... because when pregnant it’s not just your body is it? I’d give myself a break for the 9 months not that long really is it? each to their own though so long as playing safe Most guys saying the don’t mind.....well they won’t will they. Depends if your a sane swinger or sexual deviant I suppose
Sex during pregnancy is completely and utterly safe, what's the difference between sex with a partner and sex with a stranger? None as long as it's protected.
I think it's a little below the belt to suggest she is taking any risks with her baby's safety.
Protected sex with a stranger guarantees protection from all STDs???
Back to school my friend! Unless by protected sex you mean no sex?
Don't patronize me"Google STDs despite condoms. Then google the effects of those on pregnancy and the unborn child. Then consider how foolish and ignorant your origional post was. My point is that the mother may be making a decision that may have life long implications for another human being. And it is her baby, but that argument holds not water for me when the child is born, he/she is an individual and "belongs" to no one. Now anyone who want to challenge and dispute these facts is merely pedalling their own agenda. Last I will say on the matter. Some big mouths should be better informed before speaking out in an effort to appear as a nice guy. | |||
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"Personally not something I would do out of respect for my baby.... because when pregnant it’s not just your body is it? I’d give myself a break for the 9 months not that long really is it? each to their own though so long as playing safe Most guys saying the don’t mind.....well they won’t will they. Depends if your a sane swinger or sexual deviant I suppose
Sex during pregnancy is completely and utterly safe, what's the difference between sex with a partner and sex with a stranger? None as long as it's protected.
I think it's a little below the belt to suggest she is taking any risks with her baby's safety.
Protected sex with a stranger guarantees protection from all STDs???
Back to school my friend! Unless by protected sex you mean no sex?
Don't patronize me
Google STDs despite condoms. Then google the effects of those on pregnancy and the unborn child.
Then consider how foolish and ignorant your origional post was.
My point is that the mother may be making a decision that may have life long implications for another human being. And it is her baby, but that argument holds not water for me when the child is born, he/she is an individual and "belongs" to no one. Now anyone who want to challenge and dispute these facts is merely pedalling their own agenda.
Last I will say on the matter. Some big mouths should be better informed before speaking out in an effort to appear as a nice guy. "You've a cheek to talk about big mouths, and there's no way this is the last you'll say on it, you have a big mouth and you're a know-it-all. You've made a lot of assumptions and run your month | |||
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