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"I can accomodate although now I wouldnt for folk that I dont know really well there are some serious maniacs. ive also had couples thinkibg they could use my place for them to have parties I might even be allowed to attend apparently" Different issue _ola cubes. We are talking about just simply meeting up with a single. Wouldn't be inviting anyone else. We e had some really good chat with guys on the assumption their profile is correct and they can accommodate only to be left disappointed because they can't. We had a 100 percent no show rate if we arranged at ours or hotels | |||
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"I'm single guy, and can always accommodate " Yes but point is profiles all say can accommodate until you ask then you get excuses. Just put can't accommodate then! Xx | |||
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"I'm single guy, and can always accommodate Yes but point is profiles all say can accommodate until you ask then you get excuses. Just put can't accommodate then! Xx" I know some single guys who accommodate and do this on meets. I'm the same and a few females n couple swill verify the same but I'm actually not one to push it all the time, I'm very fussy whom I allow to come to mine. BUT yes there are many guy who say they can accommodate to maybe keep you interested and then hope there's still a chance of you meeting them somewhere else once they tell the truth | |||
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"I'm single guy, and can always accommodate Yes but point is profiles all say can accommodate until you ask then you get excuses. Just put can't accommodate then! Xx I know some single guys who accommodate and do this on meets. I'm the same and a few females n couple swill verify the same but I'm actually not one to push it all the time, I'm very fussy whom I allow to come to mine. BUT yes there are many guy who say they can accommodate to maybe keep you interested and then hope there's still a chance of you meeting them somewhere else once they tell the truth " It's ok to be fussy who you invite to your home. But just put cant accommodate then. This place is awash with singles complaining about not getting meets. A bit of honesty would help. We want to meet you! | |||
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"I'm single guy, and can always accommodate Yes but point is profiles all say can accommodate until you ask then you get excuses. Just put can't accommodate then! Xx I know some single guys who accommodate and do this on meets. I'm the same and a few females n couple swill verify the same but I'm actually not one to push it all the time, I'm very fussy whom I allow to come to mine. BUT yes there are many guy who say they can accommodate to maybe keep you interested and then hope there's still a chance of you meeting them somewhere else once they tell the truth It's ok to be fussy who you invite to your home. But just put cant accommodate then. This place is awash with singles complaining about not getting meets. A bit of honesty would help. We want to meet you!" I get it, you go to all the trouble chatting, hoping to meet and then find out they cant accommodate, As soon as you find out just block em and move on, only best way. You wont get these people to tell the truth. its just the joys of fab good luck | |||
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"I'm single guy, and can always accommodate Yes but point is profiles all say can accommodate until you ask then you get excuses. Just put can't accommodate then! Xx I know some single guys who accommodate and do this on meets. I'm the same and a few females n couple swill verify the same but I'm actually not one to push it all the time, I'm very fussy whom I allow to come to mine. BUT yes there are many guy who say they can accommodate to maybe keep you interested and then hope there's still a chance of you meeting them somewhere else once they tell the truth " Reads all very "dead end road" this. Always state i can accomodate because i can.Use it as a swinging deal maker? Never considered it as that. Always considered it as part n part of the discretion thing, couple want to meet,couple cant due to the "at home circs" so you say,welcome to come to my place. Its all part n part of being a singular male hoping your offering a simple solution to meeting and having fun surely? Doubt i would ever state, you can come to mine but keep in mind "im selective about who comes to my house", surely you only invite who you Want to come to your house? | |||
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"I'm single guy, and can always accommodate Yes but point is profiles all say can accommodate until you ask then you get excuses. Just put can't accommodate then! Xx I know some single guys who accommodate and do this on meets. I'm the same and a few females n couple swill verify the same but I'm actually not one to push it all the time, I'm very fussy whom I allow to come to mine. BUT yes there are many guy who say they can accommodate to maybe keep you interested and then hope there's still a chance of you meeting them somewhere else once they tell the truth Reads all very "dead end road" this. Always state i can accomodate because i can.Use it as a swinging deal maker? Never considered it as that. Always considered it as part n part of the discretion thing, couple want to meet,couple cant due to the "at home circs" so you say,welcome to come to my place. Its all part n part of being a singular male hoping your offering a simple solution to meeting and having fun surely? Doubt i would ever state, you can come to mine but keep in mind "im selective about who comes to my house", surely you only invite who you Want to come to your house?" Get what you're saying but without exception every single we ever arranged to meet at ours or hotel never turned up. So to counter that we said any single would have to accommodate. And guess what. Every meet we arranged with singles who could accommodate actually happened. So from our experience if a single can't accommodate then it's highly unlikely the meet would ever happen. So we select profiles that say can accommodate only to find it's almost always not the case. | |||
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"I'm single guy, and can always accommodate Yes but point is profiles all say can accommodate until you ask then you get excuses. Just put can't accommodate then! Xx I know some single guys who accommodate and do this on meets. I'm the same and a few females n couple swill verify the same but I'm actually not one to push it all the time, I'm very fussy whom I allow to come to mine. BUT yes there are many guy who say they can accommodate to maybe keep you interested and then hope there's still a chance of you meeting them somewhere else once they tell the truth Reads all very "dead end road" this. Always state i can accomodate because i can.Use it as a swinging deal maker? Never considered it as that. Always considered it as part n part of the discretion thing, couple want to meet,couple cant due to the "at home circs" so you say,welcome to come to my place. Its all part n part of being a singular male hoping your offering a simple solution to meeting and having fun surely? Doubt i would ever state, you can come to mine but keep in mind "im selective about who comes to my house", surely you only invite who you Want to come to your house?" A bit lost by this The couple stated all single guy who say they can accommodate actually can't. I said this ain't true and stated I can. I also state that even though I'm a guy who can accommodate I'm fussy whom I allow to mine and I'm never in a rush either. So if your text is a generization then sorry for getting it wrong but if it's directed partly to me then I haven't offered anyone to come to mine. I usually chat to people first, see if we get on/connect and then might decide to bring them to mine Too many dishonest people in fab so takes a while to be trusting | |||
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"I'm single guy, and can always accommodate Yes but point is profiles all say can accommodate until you ask then you get excuses. Just put can't accommodate then! Xx I know some single guys who accommodate and do this on meets. I'm the same and a few females n couple swill verify the same but I'm actually not one to push it all the time, I'm very fussy whom I allow to come to mine. BUT yes there are many guy who say they can accommodate to maybe keep you interested and then hope there's still a chance of you meeting them somewhere else once they tell the truth Reads all very "dead end road" this. Always state i can accomodate because i can.Use it as a swinging deal maker? Never considered it as that. Always considered it as part n part of the discretion thing, couple want to meet,couple cant due to the "at home circs" so you say,welcome to come to my place. Its all part n part of being a singular male hoping your offering a simple solution to meeting and having fun surely? Doubt i would ever state, you can come to mine but keep in mind "im selective about who comes to my house", surely you only invite who you Want to come to your house? A bit lost by this The couple stated all single guy who say they can accommodate actually can't. I said this ain't true and stated I can. I also state that even though I'm a guy who can accommodate I'm fussy whom I allow to mine and I'm never in a rush either. So if your text is a generization then sorry for getting it wrong but if it's directed partly to me then I haven't offered anyone to come to mine. I usually chat to people first, see if we get on/connect and then might decide to bring them to mine Too many dishonest people in fab so takes a while to be trusting " I dont claim i can accomodate for effect, i say it because i can, your tack on it is that some do to gain interest,never been that desparate personally. And as i said its surely a dead end road claiming you can when really you cant. I agree with you mostly, just that selective thing, yer biggin up yerself eh,no but you are though eh | |||
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"Yes i have found this with single men. Bn given various excuses but alarm bells go off in my head as i believe they may be married." | |||
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"I'm single guy, and can always accommodate Yes but point is profiles all say can accommodate until you ask then you get excuses. Just put can't accommodate then! Xx I know some single guys who accommodate and do this on meets. I'm the same and a few females n couple swill verify the same but I'm actually not one to push it all the time, I'm very fussy whom I allow to come to mine. BUT yes there are many guy who say they can accommodate to maybe keep you interested and then hope there's still a chance of you meeting them somewhere else once they tell the truth Reads all very "dead end road" this. Always state i can accomodate because i can.Use it as a swinging deal maker? Never considered it as that. Always considered it as part n part of the discretion thing, couple want to meet,couple cant due to the "at home circs" so you say,welcome to come to my place. Its all part n part of being a singular male hoping your offering a simple solution to meeting and having fun surely? Doubt i would ever state, you can come to mine but keep in mind "im selective about who comes to my house", surely you only invite who you Want to come to your house? Get what you're saying but without exception every single we ever arranged to meet at ours or hotel never turned up. So to counter that we said any single would have to accommodate. And guess what. Every meet we arranged with singles who could accommodate actually happened. So from our experience if a single can't accommodate then it's highly unlikely the meet would ever happen. So we select profiles that say can accommodate only to find it's almost always not the case. " Can I ask what difference it makes if your meeting at yours or at a hotel x | |||
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"Yeah i think the focus is on the wrong area. I don't think the issue is guys lying about being able accommodate but more lying about being single " | |||
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"I'm single guy, and can always accommodate Yes but point is profiles all say can accommodate until you ask then you get excuses. Just put can't accommodate then! Xx I know some single guys who accommodate and do this on meets. I'm the same and a few females n couple swill verify the same but I'm actually not one to push it all the time, I'm very fussy whom I allow to come to mine. BUT yes there are many guy who say they can accommodate to maybe keep you interested and then hope there's still a chance of you meeting them somewhere else once they tell the truth Reads all very "dead end road" this. Always state i can accomodate because i can.Use it as a swinging deal maker? Never considered it as that. Always considered it as part n part of the discretion thing, couple want to meet,couple cant due to the "at home circs" so you say,welcome to come to my place. Its all part n part of being a singular male hoping your offering a simple solution to meeting and having fun surely? Doubt i would ever state, you can come to mine but keep in mind "im selective about who comes to my house", surely you only invite who you Want to come to your house? Get what you're saying but without exception every single we ever arranged to meet at ours or hotel never turned up. So to counter that we said any single would have to accommodate. And guess what. Every meet we arranged with singles who could accommodate actually happened. So from our experience if a single can't accommodate then it's highly unlikely the meet would ever happen. So we select profiles that say can accommodate only to find it's almost always not the case. Can I ask what difference it makes if your meeting at yours or at a hotel x" Approx £50. But money is not the issue here. I dont like being lied to and i like to know they dont have a wife at home. | |||
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"Yeah i think the focus is on the wrong area. I don't think the issue is guys lying about being able accommodate but more lying about being single " Guys lie about being single?! | |||
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"I can accomodate although now I wouldnt for folk that I dont know really well there are some serious maniacs. ive also had couples thinkibg they could use my place for them to have parties I might even be allowed to attend apparently Different issue _ola cubes. We are talking about just simply meeting up with a single. Wouldn't be inviting anyone else. We e had some really good chat with guys on the assumption their profile is correct and they can accommodate only to be left disappointed because they can't. We had a 100 percent no show rate if we arranged at ours or hotels " I was highlighting possible reasons for your issues. Many could confirm im single and can accomodate I simply in general now wouldnt as theres many want to abuse that. not sure how you meet but changing your selection process could help change your "hit rate" on decent single guys. id say building up a rapport with someone puts them at ease and makes alot of things more viable . quick meet now attracts the wannabe and sneak out to walk the dog types imo | |||
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"So to sum up then... single and can accommodate = actually married single and cannot accommodate = actually married Trial by anecdote - marvellous! " Unfortunately it's a case of fly with the crows, get shot with the crows. Even though you don't want to fly with them. Age old story in that of 10 guys who say they are single, 2 of them won't be, but those 2 are the ones that stick out (folk are vocal about bad experiences rather than good ones). So the 2 lying muppets ruin it for us genuinely single guys! One day, evolution will sort this out so when a guy lies his willie gets smaller and when a girl lies, a soap opera gets cancelled | |||
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"I'm single guy, and can always accommodate Yes but point is profiles all say can accommodate until you ask then you get excuses. Just put can't accommodate then! Xx I know some single guys who accommodate and do this on meets. I'm the same and a few females n couple swill verify the same but I'm actually not one to push it all the time, I'm very fussy whom I allow to come to mine. BUT yes there are many guy who say they can accommodate to maybe keep you interested and then hope there's still a chance of you meeting them somewhere else once they tell the truth Reads all very "dead end road" this. Always state i can accomodate because i can.Use it as a swinging deal maker? Never considered it as that. Always considered it as part n part of the discretion thing, couple want to meet,couple cant due to the "at home circs" so you say,welcome to come to my place. Its all part n part of being a singular male hoping your offering a simple solution to meeting and having fun surely? Doubt i would ever state, you can come to mine but keep in mind "im selective about who comes to my house", surely you only invite who you Want to come to your house? A bit lost by this The couple stated all single guy who say they can accommodate actually can't. I said this ain't true and stated I can. I also state that even though I'm a guy who can accommodate I'm fussy whom I allow to mine and I'm never in a rush either. So if your text is a generization then sorry for getting it wrong but if it's directed partly to me then I haven't offered anyone to come to mine. I usually chat to people first, see if we get on/connect and then might decide to bring them to mine Too many dishonest people in fab so takes a while to be trusting I dont claim i can accomodate for effect, i say it because i can, your tack on it is that some do to gain interest,never been that desparate personally. And as i said its surely a dead end road claiming you can when really you cant. I agree with you mostly, just that selective thing, yer biggin up yerself eh,no but you are though eh" Yeah totally a dead end road but some know that some females who say they don't accommodate actually will do some guys hope to get the right female to con. I don't understand what the bigging myself up comment is about though. I accommodate and some posters on here know I do. There guys on fab and a lot of who say they accommodate when they don't the same as a lot of guys say they are single when they are nit. Just cause I accommodate doesn't mean I'll just accommodate anyone. Someone also said on here what is difference between hotel n home, if I seen a guy wanting to meet in a hotel as the females doesn't accommodate. I'd think there's a good chance they have a partner and trying to keep it discreet. Just my take on it of course . | |||
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"So to sum up then... single and can accommodate = actually married single and cannot accommodate = actually married Trial by anecdote - marvellous! " I'm married!!!!! Shit! | |||
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"So to sum up then... single and can accommodate = actually married single and cannot accommodate = actually married Trial by anecdote - marvellous! I'm married!!!!! Shit! " Me too.... double shit ! | |||
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"So to sum up then... single and can accommodate = actually married single and cannot accommodate = actually married Trial by anecdote - marvellous! I'm married!!!!! Shit! " Exactly. Can’t accom means I’m not single?? Can accom but like females sometimes guys can be fussy picky too but according to females we’re not singles cos we’re messing people about. I have my daughter living with me so I’m not wanting her to hear her dads headboard banging every night of the week! So can accom but not at a drop of a hat Either way I’m automatically assumed I’m. Not single. Damned if u accom and damned if u don’t | |||
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"I am single and can accommodate no problem at all " Shame unicorn Hill is so hard to find... May cause issues V x | |||
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"I am single and can accommodate no problem at all Shame unicorn Hill is so hard to find... May cause issues V x" pmsllllllllll | |||
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"I am single and can accommodate no problem at all Shame unicorn Hill is so hard to find... May cause issues V x pmsllllllllll" Cock pics as profile pictures turn off my normal censors it seems. Glad someone fopund it funny at least V x | |||
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"If you say you can't accommodate or travel it confuses people " That's one of those scientific conundrums, like what happens if you sellotape buttered toast to the back of a cat, and drop it out of a window. | |||
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"We find that almost every single guy that says they can accommodate on their profile actually can't. Anyone else find this? The reason we look for this is that any single we have arranged to meet at ours or a hotel has never turned up.so we've long since stopped arranging such meets. Why put this on your profile? Wastes everyone s time" I can quite honestly say that I can accommodate and travel but to my surprise have never actually been quizzed to see if its true or not, I think that well into a conversation with a guy 'claiming' to accommodate you would be able to tell if he was making it up to keep you interested although I dont know why, why waste not only your time but his as well. I suppose you live and learn that what anyone (male or female) says to you on here is the truth until you realise its made up, god knows we have all experienced this on Fab. Hope this helps OP | |||
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"It's a shame op When looking at profiles that is certainly something that I take an interest in Although somewhat confusing if someone can't travel or accommodate. Surely one of the two is needed in order to meet" In my experience on fab, People put down 'cant travel, cant accommodate' usually because, 1. they cant accommodate and 2 they cant travel far as they don't have a car etc.., so someone local may fit the bill or by during chat you will find out they don't mind being picked up and coming back to yours. That's the main reason for it. What the Op is asking is just about guys who say they can accommodate but when they delve in they find out they really cant accommodate which is annoying and off putting | |||
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"It's a shame op When looking at profiles that is certainly something that I take an interest in Although somewhat confusing if someone can't travel or accommodate. Surely one of the two is needed in order to meet" I gave my explanation for this further back | |||
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"Many single men can't accommodate all the time due to having others to consider. Just because a single male or female suddenly can't accommodate doesn't mean they are "at it" There will always be those whose bottle crashes also but just don't read too much into it and move on...." Agree with this. I know single males and single females who care for a disabled family member who lives at theirs, so obviously cant accommodate or the single person might have custody of their kids so cant accommodate and hard to arrange a baby sitter etc... there are many reason. Right now I cant accommodate for a week, why, its cause I would need to tidy my flat ffs, and I want a lazy week | |||
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"Many single men can't accommodate all the time due to having others to consider. Just because a single male or female suddenly can't accommodate doesn't mean they are "at it" There will always be those whose bottle crashes also but just don't read too much into it and move on.... Agree with this. I know single males and single females who care for a disabled family member who lives at theirs, so obviously cant accommodate or the single person might have custody of their kids so cant accommodate and hard to arrange a baby sitter etc... there are many reason. Right now I cant accommodate for a week, why, its cause I would need to tidy my flat ffs, and I want a lazy week " Get one of those naked cleaners in. Two birds, one stone. | |||
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"Many single men can't accommodate all the time due to having others to consider. Just because a single male or female suddenly can't accommodate doesn't mean they are "at it" There will always be those whose bottle crashes also but just don't read too much into it and move on.... Agree with this. I know single males and single females who care for a disabled family member who lives at theirs, so obviously cant accommodate or the single person might have custody of their kids so cant accommodate and hard to arrange a baby sitter etc... there are many reason. Right now I cant accommodate for a week, why, its cause I would need to tidy my flat ffs, and I want a lazy week Get one of those naked cleaners in. Two birds, one stone. " Fuck that I hardly meet cause I enjoy my privacy, so there's no way I'd let a cleaner in to dust my bananas n cucumbers, they're sacred | |||
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"I can accomadate 24/7 when I'm off shift ,it the cellar and trap door in living room that scares folks " Lol! | |||
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