FabSwingers.com forum: Too many?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Was speaking to a lovely and beautiful lady on here but she doesn’t want to meet as I’ve got too many verifications in her opinion.

Can too many be off putting?

I honestly don’t think I have that many compared to others on this site.

what’s everyone’s opinion?

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By *ictiiWitchCouple
over a year ago

Helensburgh

"Was speaking to a lovely and beautiful lady on here but she doesn’t want to meet as I’ve got too many verifications in her opinion.

Can too many be off putting?

I honestly don’t think I have that many compared to others on this site.

what’s everyone’s opinion? "

I was told that too many make you look like you are shagging the whole site, pick the best and most relevant ones and put up no more than 5. Also MIP Veris are better than cam veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was speaking to a lovely and beautiful lady on here but she doesn’t want to meet as I’ve got too many verifications in her opinion.

Can too many be off putting?

I honestly don’t think I have that many compared to others on this site.

what’s everyone’s opinion? "

Yes, I think they can be.

You're a mad shagger....cannae be helped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was speaking to a lovely and beautiful lady on here but she doesn’t want to meet as I’ve got too many verifications in her opinion.

Can too many be off putting?

I honestly don’t think I have that many compared to others on this site.

what’s everyone’s opinion? "

Actually, scrap that...you've only got 12 and 2 from the same woman. That's fuck all.

You're an amateur

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

"Was speaking to a lovely and beautiful lady on here but she doesn’t want to meet as I’ve got too many verifications in her opinion.

Can too many be off putting?

I honestly don’t think I have that many compared to others on this site.

what’s everyone’s opinion?

I was told that too many make you look like you are shagging the whole site, pick the best and most relevant ones and put up no more than 5. Also MIP Veris are better than cam veris."

Doesn't matter how many you have up in my opinion - it still says 'met by x couples' etc underneath if you're looking so it's still there if someone wants to judge on that.

Personally, doesn't bother me. I'd rather know you're well turned out, turn up when arranged and a gent.

Looking at the ones you're showing, they're all good and reasonably spaced out too so not like you're going for a perfect week or anything

even if you were, as long as you're at your best for that person then numbers don't matter.

As discussed today though, some people are just judgemental jobbies and others just have their own preferences. I wouldn't worry about it if I were you.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im more inclined to be put off by who someone meets rather than how many.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Was speaking to a lovely and beautiful lady on here but she doesn’t want to meet as I’ve got too many verifications in her opinion.

Can too many be off putting?

I honestly don’t think I have that many compared to others on this site.

what’s everyone’s opinion?

What can I say... I’m selective.

Actually, scrap that...you've only got 12 and 2 from the same woman. That's fuck all.

You're an amateur

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Agreed!

I am very fussy.

I don’t just meet anyone because I’m horny.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Was speaking to a lovely and beautiful lady on here but she doesn’t want to meet as I’ve got too many verifications in her opinion.

Can too many be off putting?

I honestly don’t think I have that many compared to others on this site.

what’s everyone’s opinion?

I was told that too many make you look like you are shagging the whole site, pick the best and most relevant ones and put up no more than 5. Also MIP Veris are better than cam veris.

Doesn't matter how many you have up in my opinion - it still says 'met by x couples' etc underneath if you're looking so it's still there if someone wants to judge on that.

Personally, doesn't bother me. I'd rather know you're well turned out, turn up when arranged and a gent.

Looking at the ones you're showing, they're all good and reasonably spaced out too so not like you're going for a perfect week or anything

even if you were, as long as you're at your best for that person then numbers don't matter.

As discussed today though, some people are just judgemental jobbies and others just have their own preferences. I wouldn't worry about it if I were you.

V x"

Defo not worried at all.

Just a shame that she ticks all the boxes!

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

"Was speaking to a lovely and beautiful lady on here but she doesn’t want to meet as I’ve got too many verifications in her opinion.

Can too many be off putting?

I honestly don’t think I have that many compared to others on this site.

what’s everyone’s opinion?

I was told that too many make you look like you are shagging the whole site, pick the best and most relevant ones and put up no more than 5. Also MIP Veris are better than cam veris.

Doesn't matter how many you have up in my opinion - it still says 'met by x couples' etc underneath if you're looking so it's still there if someone wants to judge on that.

Personally, doesn't bother me. I'd rather know you're well turned out, turn up when arranged and a gent.

Looking at the ones you're showing, they're all good and reasonably spaced out too so not like you're going for a perfect week or anything

even if you were, as long as you're at your best for that person then numbers don't matter.

As discussed today though, some people are just judgemental jobbies and others just have their own preferences. I wouldn't worry about it if I were you.

V x

Defo not worried at all.

Just a shame that she ticks all the boxes! "

Maybe she'll see your forum post and change her mind. Or block you completely... Who knows!

V x

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

My best guess is that it’s more about who you have met than how many you may have met.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My best guess is that it’s more about who you have met than how many you may have met. "

Is that why you blocked me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about if they are social and cam veris too though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was speaking to a lovely and beautiful lady on here but she doesn’t want to meet as I’ve got too many verifications in her opinion.

Can too many be off putting?

I honestly don’t think I have that many compared to others on this site.

what’s everyone’s opinion?

I was told that too many make you look like you are shagging the whole site, pick the best and most relevant ones and put up no more than 5. Also MIP Veris are better than cam veris.

Doesn't matter how many you have up in my opinion - it still says 'met by x couples' etc underneath if you're looking so it's still there if someone wants to judge on that.

Personally, doesn't bother me. I'd rather know you're well turned out, turn up when arranged and a gent.

Looking at the ones you're showing, they're all good and reasonably spaced out too so not like you're going for a perfect week or anything

even if you were, as long as you're at your best for that person then numbers don't matter.

As discussed today though, some people are just judgemental jobbies and others just have their own preferences. I wouldn't worry about it if I were you.

V x

Defo not worried at all.

Just a shame that she ticks all the boxes! "

Are you still chatting to her? You never know, you may whoo her knickers right aff!

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"My best guess is that it’s more about who you have met than how many you may have met.

Is that why you blocked me?

I didn’t my husband did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My best guess is that it’s more about who you have met than how many you may have met.

Is that why you blocked me?

I didn’t my husband did! "

Ooooh! Boom, there's yer dinner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup I'm with u here ...my veris have been used against me a couple of times. But think it was more a case of who rather than how many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My best guess is that it’s more about who you have met than how many you may have met.

Is that why you blocked me?

I didn’t my husband did!

Ooooh! Boom, there's yer dinner

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate

"Was speaking to a lovely and beautiful lady on here but she doesn’t want to meet as I’ve got too many verifications in her opinion.

Can too many be off putting?

I honestly don’t think I have that many compared to others on this site.

what’s everyone’s opinion? "
seems to be the done thing them days. We got it the other day their for having to many also considering we have been on the site for nearly 10 years lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My best guess is that it’s more about who you have met than how many you may have met.

Is that why you blocked me?

I didn’t my husband did! "

Must’ve recognised me!

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By *hatsmynameagainCouple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

We dont care how many verifications someone has or who they have met.

What matters is do we want to meet them and are they genuine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Was speaking to a lovely and beautiful lady on here but she doesn’t want to meet as I’ve got too many verifications in her opinion.

Can too many be off putting?

I honestly don’t think I have that many compared to others on this site.

what’s everyone’s opinion? seems to be the done thing them days. We got it the other day their for having to many also considering we have been on the site for nearly 10 years lol."

Shocking isn’t it?

The thing is, I’m going to a party next week and if I get verified from them, even if we have just chatted and I hide my veris, people will see that I’ve met and assume I’ve had sex with them

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By *ittle_missknowitallWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

"Yup I'm with u here ...my veris have been used against me a couple of times. But think it was more a case of who rather than how many

No my dear your veris actually worked for you but you didn’t realise this at the time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup I'm with u here ...my veris have been used against me a couple of times. But think it was more a case of who rather than how many

No my dear your veris actually worked for you but you didn’t realise this at the time x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was speaking to a lovely and beautiful lady on here but she doesn’t want to meet as I’ve got too many verifications in her opinion.

Can too many be off putting?

I honestly don’t think I have that many compared to others on this site.

what’s everyone’s opinion? "

It's probably who you've met and where they've been also.

Like everyone else on here she's entitled to her opinion. Posting a status about it and a thread looks a bit desperate, take your medicine and move on.

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate

"Was speaking to a lovely and beautiful lady on here but she doesn’t want to meet as I’ve got too many verifications in her opinion.

Can too many be off putting?

I honestly don’t think I have that many compared to others on this site.

what’s everyone’s opinion? seems to be the done thing them days. We got it the other day their for having to many also considering we have been on the site for nearly 10 years lol.

Shocking isn’t it?

The thing is, I’m going to a party next week and if I get verified from them, even if we have just chatted and I hide my veris, people will see that I’ve met and assume I’ve had sex with them "
Thats what we got when we said how many vers we had he automatically thought she had sex with all the vers when a Lot was socials etc then be got the name calling..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris. Why sweat the small stuff?

You realise there is no "Goldilocks Zone" with them? You either don't have enough (or any), or you have too many. I've yet to hear of someone having just the right amount.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have a lot of verifications, but if someone takes the time to read them, the majority are non playing. I can go to a party or social event, not play & receive 6 verifications from the 1 night. I've also been on the site a few years now. Some are also from repeat meets. I display them so that people can see that & make their own mind up.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Im more inclined to be put off by who someone meets rather than how many."

This for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many and date wise close together and who you met i guess have people thinking,ffs a shaggin rabbit is more selective,lol.

I appreciate folks honesty displaying them all,the "all hidden" option,hmm what they hiding? "Its my profile i can use it any way i want",yes ok.

A woman with no verifications will still get a hundred messages a day,a guy with no verifications will get zero messages a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To many does make us worried when looking at partners.

We personally don't post all our meets or fun from other Fet. Sites either.

We think sometimes it puts people off trying to live up to some standard. Each meeting, each person is unique and that is so nice for us.

We also don't post all the no shows, short cancellations and people not looking like their photos..... but its a fact of life on this site.

Xxx

Nessa

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By *pples123456Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I have a lot of verifications, but if someone takes the time to read them, the majority are non playing. I can go to a party or social event, not play & receive 6 verifications from the 1 night. I've also been on the site a few years now. Some are also from repeat meets. I display them so that people can see that & make their own mind up.

I agree I show my veris, and yes if people took the time to read will see they are mostly social / parties ones.. And the fact I've been on this site 10+years. It can work against you having to many, i've even been told I'm fake as no one can have that many lol, some people you just can't please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some ppl on here are sooo judgemental. It’s the nature of the beast.

Some like veris some don’t.

Some show them some don’t.

You can’t please everyone.

Move on and find someone not so judgemental.

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By *elaxedcplCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Some ppl on here are sooo judgemental. It’s the nature of the beast.

Some like veris some don’t.

Some show them some don’t.

You can’t please everyone.

Move on and find someone not so judgemental.

This x100!

We have met some wonderful people from here and some have verified us, some haven't, doesn't mean we've had penetrative sex with anyone else. We've had lots of fun kissing and touching and a glass of wine, but some will judge (wrongly).

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By *nox.Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Wouldn't say its too off putting a lot can be from the same people. What would put me off is people currently meeting more than a few people often just in regards to actually having time to meet bit annoying when it's every few months when they are local.

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