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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone ever meet for socials anymore, outside of 'organised' ones?

Majority of.folks just seem to want 'nsa' and no interest in getting to know others better, before some serious sex sessions!

Discuss...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your experience would seem to be different from the usual gripes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we wouldn't meet anyone for a coffee even if the coffee was free and an endless supply

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By *r_hamishMan
over a year ago

Rutherglen (ish)

I prefer a social meet to start with, lets you both. Walk away if it's not working out.

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By *pinCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We would unintentionally meet for coffee as we’re constantly drinking it. Normally some social aspect is involved first though.

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By *otskipCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

seems to be alot of folk not meeting much for a coffee / drink social ..we have put up a few in the past ..with no interest from other couples ..

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By *pinCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"seems to be alot of folk not meeting much for a coffee / drink social ..we have put up a few in the past ..with no interest from other couples .."

If it was just a social and nothing else then probably not.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Does anyone ever meet for socials anymore, outside of 'organised' ones?

Majority of.folks just seem to want 'nsa' and no interest in getting to know others better, before some serious sex sessions!

Discuss..."
Always a social meet before anything else xx

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By *otskipCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Does anyone ever meet for socials anymore, outside of 'organised' ones?

Majority of.folks just seem to want 'nsa' and no interest in getting to know others better, before some serious sex sessions!

Discuss...Always a social meet before anything else xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking to meet socially to then have some serious fun....the following week, but zero interest from all and sundry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking to meet socially to then have some serious fun....the following week, but zero interest from all and sundry.

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Chin up and don't look down

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh we are not disheartened at all by it....just gotta laugh.

We all have our preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do like socials a lot.

I (Nessa) need to a connection and feel for someone before I can even think about becoming intimate.

I dont let anyone in my front door, why should I do it between my legs?

So yes.... read the profile and maybe understand us.

Xxx

Nessa

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By *hatsmynameagainCouple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

This time around on fab thats exactly what were looking for.

We've done the nsa side, done the fuck and go but now only looking for firstly socials if it goes well become friends and only then if it all goes well have some fun.

Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pretty much always have a social first. Also had them with people I have no intention of having sex with but I thought we might get on for a nice chat. I have a social tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps:

Forgot to say, we have also on many occasions offered single men and couples a social to have a cuppa and could verify them.

We were either stood up, cancelled at the last minute or turned down because we said "non sexual" social.

Some of them we were quite interested in / attracted too.

Wee shame.

(Other sites....other successes)

Xxx

Nessa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv stated On another thread

If I'm meeing alone il meet for a social drink in the view to next meet is for a sex meet.

Myself and hubby and I are here for sex.

We have real mates to socialise with.

This is for our swinging lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've posted socials every Monday for the last four.weeks with a view to.sex the following week

Same today,.for next.week as we're.off and we've.plenty.of 'friends' off Fab who don't swing at all.

We'll see if we can get others.to join us.for New Year...gives them plenty of.time to.ring our bells.

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I like to get to know someone first before playing with them, on the occasion that I've just played with someone before getting to know them it's always backfired into being a loony plus I find it more fun to know someone I'm having fun with

John

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Coffee without cream...is a euphemism to the.last post.

We're looking.for a social.followed by sex on the.second meet.

Tea...one dollop.or.two?

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

The idea of a social one week for a meet the next will suit some but not others. Personally I don't object to the idea of it, we just don't have the opportunity. It would be a social then a meet about a month later and that's not fun. Definitely chat and a social of some kind needed first but if that's at a party or club then fine. If we were meeting someone off their profile alone then it would be a social with a view to sex right after if we were all agreed we wanted to go ahead. Otherwise the kidlets who limit our play may be struck suddenly ill and we need to leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have a social first before anything else. I like to get to know someone first, chat and a coffee to see if there's an attraction. If there's no attraction then there won't be a fun meet arranged x

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Ive known some folk for yrs before anything sexual happens

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Ive known some folk for yrs before anything sexual happens"

Same!

I also agree with the poster above, busy work and family life means meeting someone for a social or otherwise two consecutive weeks is a definite no! It may be a month or more before we are free again so that would be a no go!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We meet when we can....it's not set in stone, with one week to the next, we have however posted a month out to get others to meet us next week, but to no avail.

Makes absolutely no difference what we.do....gotta laugh.

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By *rmagiteMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I like chatting a bit before meeting for a social and if I go to a organised one I'm just there to say hello.Though I've not been out much anyway :p

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By *ohnnyal80Man
over a year ago

Dunbar


"Looking to meet socially to then have some serious fun....the following week, but zero interest from all and sundry.

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I would be happy to meet for a social but your not looking for guys.

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

Got one tomorrow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always like to meet for a social first before going all in mybe that's why were not getting any

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I've done the social thing. Share a mutual interest and just enjoy an evening out

Also done the NSA.

Either is good, but the sex is better if there's chemistry imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer a social meet to start with, lets you both. Walk away if it's not working out. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never meet to play without a social first.

Perhaps that’s why it’s hard to get a suitable meet....

I just couldn’t think of anything worse than showing up to play with someome and there’s zero chemistry and you just don’t fancy each other!

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Always thought the unwritten rule was a social meet first ....now that social meet might expand into a meet meet of everyone agrees and the circumstances let it happen. However I always have a social meet first and go on the pretext its just a social meet.

Any ladies who don't believe me..try before you buy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always meet socially first.

All the chat in the world isn’t the same as having that chemistry and spark when you meet someone you connect with sexually.

Not to say that the social doesn’t turn into fun.

Doesn’t happen often but when it does..... Oooooft

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By *lanMDMan
over a year ago

Ellon


"Looking to meet socially to then have some serious fun....the following week, but zero interest from all and sundry.

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Absolutely social first, break the ice so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking to meet socially to then have some serious fun....the following week, but zero interest from all and sundry.

Absolutely social first, break the ice so to speak "

Should you not be watching Catfish on bbc1?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always arrange a social first unless im pissed n its 2am

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By *lanMDMan
over a year ago

Ellon


"Looking to meet socially to then have some serious fun....the following week, but zero interest from all and sundry.

Absolutely social first, break the ice so to speak

Should you not be watching Catfish on bbc1? "

Am watching it !

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