FabSwingers.com forum: Consecutive meets

By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Have you ever arranged consecutive meets on the same day? & if so did you tell them?

And would you allow it to happen to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something I'd do.

And I'd think less of someone who did it to me.

If they told me beforehand they were doing it, I wouldn't meet them

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I've not, but I know a few other people on here who have openly admitted to 2 or more meets on the same day.

Not naming them though.

Mandy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever arranged consecutive meets on the same day? & if so did you tell them?

And would you allow it to happen to you?

I've never done it, and wouldn't do it. I want to give my focus to one person/couple at a time.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

If I was to do it I'd be honest about it. And I definitely wouldn't be anyone's sloppy seconds! People always get found out.

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

I have, previously when on here before.

As I say on my profile I'm here for my pleasure.

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

never been so lucky but tbh I wouldn't Too much hassle

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

We have met for coffee with 2 different couples one after the other 1 hour gap , our free time is limited so to get 2 pottential future meet coffees socials out the way on the same day is handy. We would never have a consecutive play meet thats just mingin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't do that or ever do it. That's just not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if the first one was everything it should be then you wouldn't need round 2 with someone else a few hours later?

Wouldn't do it and I'd be fucking raging if it was done to me.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

The thing is, ignorance is bliss, but now that I know it's another matter. He can't see what's wrong with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not quite consecutive but two nights on the trot when I was on here before, that was quite a weekend

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Surely if the first one was everything it should be then you wouldn't need round 2 with someone else a few hours later?

Wouldn't do it and I'd be fucking raging if it was done to me."

I'm sure once ypure finished with them they would be looking for oxygen

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Social as in coffee no worries , playtime meets no way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not quite consecutive but two nights on the trot when I was on here before, that was quite a weekend

Ah but see that's ok....'cause you're female

(ducks for cover).

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Hopefully showered in between meets , only joking

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By *nvernessieMan
over a year ago

moray

I went on a meet with someone arranged here and after an hour of chat they opened their phone and checked their fab messages and replyed in full view of myself.

It put me off a bit and instead of having fun I made an exit. You feel silly in that situation but this is one of the joys of this site. I think if you focus on one person rather than slotting people into a schedule you’ll get more from it long run. I don’t do many meets at all so maybe I’m not best to partake in this discussion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think consecutive socials aren’t really a big deal......

I’d definitely be pretty offended to find out that I was someone’s second play meet of the day tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a meet on Friday and then another on Saturday. I have had a fun weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a meet on Friday and then another on Saturday. I have had a fun weekend

(Applauds) on yersel hen

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"The thing is, ignorance is bliss, but now that I know it's another matter. He can't see what's wrong with it

Not sure if the he you are meaning is me as you never quoted but heres a way of looking at to consecutive meets on one day, in cjs we have met people and chatted for over an hour, then we wander round cjs chatting with each other or having a drink , an hour later we get chatting to someone else we have NEVER met before . Is that 2 random consecutive meets on the SAME day , of course it is . So lets swap cjs for costas wheres the difference . ??? Will say again PLAY meets are different. Never go fro. One play meet straight to another, thats NOT acceptable. Hope that helps understand where we are coming from

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"I had a meet on Friday and then another on Saturday. I have had a fun weekend

Show off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a meet on Friday and then another on Saturday. I have had a fun weekend

Show off lol

Its first time is happened!! One was quite a spur of moment thing and the other was a guy I been chatting to for five months!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not something I'd do.

And I'd think less of someone who did it to me.

If they told me beforehand they were doing it, I wouldn't meet them"

This sums it up for me...kinda ignorant / off for me

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

For clarity, I am referring to play meets, hours apart, not social. There is a huge difference as far as I'm concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For clarity, I am referring to play meets, hours apart, not social. There is a huge difference as far as I'm concerned.

I wouldn't even do two social meets. There's only so much cake I can handle.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"For clarity, I am referring to play meets, hours apart, not social. There is a huge difference as far as I'm concerned.

I wouldn't even do two social meets. There's only so much cake I can handle.

Every married man likes their cake and eating it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not quite consecutive but two nights on the trot when I was on here before, that was quite a weekend

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it. A few times actually.

Obviously I showered between meets.

I think....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've done it. A few times actually.

Obviously I showered between meets.

I think...."

It should have been a wire brush and dettol!

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

"For clarity, I am referring to play meets, hours apart, not social. There is a huge difference as far as I'm concerned.

Agreed on the huge difference.

Definite hard no. Scheduling two play meets in one day seems a bit disrespectful to me. Who knows if the first is going to go so well neither party wants it to end yet? I'd be pretty offended actually.

The only situation I could see this being vaguely OK is a daytime play meet then deciding to head to a club or a last minute party invite later on.

Two socials in the one day... As long as no one feels rushed or like formality to get through then fine. Given our lack of availability it seems like a good idea actually

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

"I've done it. A few times actually.

Obviously I showered between meets.

I think....

It should have been a wire brush and dettol!

true though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've done it. A few times actually.

Obviously I showered between meets.

I think....

It should have been a wire brush and dettol!

That's an incredibly presumptuous statement to make about a complete stranger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I’ll be the one to admit I have done it. I was single at the time and had just got out of a long term marriage and I was out to enjoy myself and prove something to myself. I had 3 meets within 13 hours. I was in a hotel and showered between every meet and enjoyed every single minute of them all.

Should also add all fun was safe.

Leo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've done it. A few times actually.

Obviously I showered between meets.

I think....

It should have been a wire brush and dettol!

That's an incredibly presumptuous statement to make about a complete stranger."

Oh, FFS... Grow a sense of humour.

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By *ananas007Man
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

Arranged a meet on a Saturday night. Reply was will need to be 9:30 as already got a 7:30 meet. Thanks but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've done it. A few times actually.

Obviously I showered between meets.

I think....

It should have been a wire brush and dettol!

That's an incredibly presumptuous statement to make about a complete stranger.

Oh, FFS... Grow a sense of humour."

Ah, I get it, you were making a joke.

That just sailed right over my head...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've done it. A few times actually.

Obviously I showered between meets.

I think....

It should have been a wire brush and dettol!

That's an incredibly presumptuous statement to make about a complete stranger.

Oh, FFS... Grow a sense of humour."

Aww bless...it's awful when folk don't get your humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've done it. A few times actually.

Obviously I showered between meets.

I think....

It should have been a wire brush and dettol!

That's an incredibly presumptuous statement to make about a complete stranger.

Oh, FFS... Grow a sense of humour.

Aww bless...it's awful when folk don't get your humour"

You can go get a less twisted one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've done it. A few times actually.

Obviously I showered between meets.

I think....

It should have been a wire brush and dettol!

That's an incredibly presumptuous statement to make about a complete stranger.

Oh, FFS... Grow a sense of humour.

Aww bless...it's awful when folk don't get your humour

You can go get a less twisted one."

Behave yourself

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

We've never done it but can see both sides of the argument and tbh it would depends on the timings. We get messages asking if we fancied a late morning/early afternoon meet as that's when they are free. Is it wrong then to have a meet at 8pm as that's when another couple are free?

Restricting time with one meet as you have another right after it is a bit off though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never done it and wouldn’t as that’s just wrong.

Had it done to me though.

Guy bragged about it over our coffee.

Needless to say the meet didn’t last long and I didn’t see him again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it, more than once. And played with more than one person consecutively in a club, it's the same thing no? A bit disturbed by all the comments about it being minging, wire brush and Dettol blah blah... If you are playing safe then what's the issue? I do have respect for others and would not have a second meet without telling them. Some are even turned on by the thought. Takes all sorts eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've done it. A few times actually.

Obviously I showered between meets.

I think....

It should have been a wire brush and dettol!

That's an incredibly presumptuous statement to make about a complete stranger.

Oh, FFS... Grow a sense of humour.

Ah, I get it, you were making a joke.

That just sailed right over my head..."

Because it wasn't funny

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

"I've done it, more than once. And played with more than one person consecutively in a club, it's the same thing no? A bit disturbed by all the comments about it being minging, wire brush and Dettol blah blah... If you are playing safe then what's the issue? I do have respect for others and would not have a second meet without telling them. Some are even turned on by the thought. Takes all sorts eh "

Jen i was the person who said mingin lol. Was picturing a sweaty guy or cum soaked female then moving on to another meet . Safe sex or not, surely your not saying thats ok . ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jen i was the person who said mingin lol. Was picturing a sweaty guy or cum soaked female then moving on to another meet . Safe sex or not, surely your not saying thats ok . ?"

If they all know and agree then yes I think it is okay. I guess the key is as I said, respect for others. Making sure that all are aware of the situation. Like I said, some find the whole meeting someone that's just been fucked thing massive turn on. If you go into a second meet without telling them then that is disrespectful imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've done it. A few times actually.

Obviously I showered between meets.

I think....

It should have been a wire brush and dettol!

That's an incredibly presumptuous statement to make about a complete stranger.

Oh, FFS... Grow a sense of humour.

Aww bless...it's awful when folk don't get your humour

You can go get a less twisted one.

Behave yourself "

Rich. Very rich.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

Jen i was the person who said mingin lol. Was picturing a sweaty guy or cum soaked female then moving on to another meet . Safe sex or not, surely your not saying thats ok . ?

I agree with you then, as long as its what people want. As you said earlier, takes all sorts. And i say , whatever makes people happy.

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

"I've not, but I know a few other people on here who have openly admitted to 2 or more meets on the same day.

Not naming them though.

Mandy"

It was Mandy?

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

Same here at clubs.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think there is a difference between this & clubs/parties.

And it's a guy I've met a few times before & he had no intention of telling me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a difference between this & clubs/parties.

And it's a guy I've met a few times before & he had no intention of telling me.

if its someone you've been seeing regularly then its just a bit of common decency and respectful to be upfront with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've done it. A few times actually.

Obviously I showered between meets.

I think....

It should have been a wire brush and dettol!

That's an incredibly presumptuous statement to make about a complete stranger.

Oh, FFS... Grow a sense of humour.

Aww bless...it's awful when folk don't get your humour

You can go get a less twisted one.

Behave yourself

Rich. Very rich."

...beyond my wildest dreams baby! (well...not really)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For clarification, it was play partners from out in the real world, not Fab meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done it, had a day when people i knew happened to text just after one had finished. They knew I’d already had a meet. All good clean fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a difference between this & clubs/parties.

And it's a guy I've met a few times before & he had no intention of telling me.

I guess technically if someone meets another before or after you it's none of your business and ai guess that's just how some guys see it. But I agree it's respectful to share the info, especially if it would impact your decision whether to meet them or not

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Not for me. I'd be pretty pissed off if a guy turned up for a play meet with me and couldn't get hard as he'd just been shagging someone else. Very rude.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think there is a difference between this & clubs/parties.

And it's a guy I've met a few times before & he had no intention of telling me.

Very true. Ignorance is bliss, but in this case I found out, even asking if he had any other meets planned. Needless to say I cancelled.

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