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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is becoming a common thing on fab. girl was Kent yo come to mine this morning but has blocked and deleted me for no reason at all. Any onsite or help would be appreciated. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From Kent to fife for a ride? Nae wonder she's a no show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was she verified? Did she show her verifications?

Chat on the phone?

Did you swap face pics?

Many many reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was most likely a guy

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Was it something you said ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She was ment to come and no we were both from fife we exchanged everything. Pics phone calls place of work and everything. Very disappointing say the least.

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By *errific_Teddy_BearMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"She was ment to come and no we were both from fife we exchanged everything. Pics phone calls place of work and everything. Very disappointing say the least."

Sounds like she wanted it but wasn't convinced. Shy? Insecure? Who knows bar her. She may get in touch again but once bitten, twice shy. I'd suggest writing it off as a bad egg and move on buddy

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"She was ment to come and no we were both from fife we exchanged everything. Pics phone calls place of work and everything. Very disappointing say the least."

I never tell folk my place of work. That would be very foolish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been chatting to her for weeks we were becoming very friendly but hey ho we move on hopefully someone on here will like my charm and I can take them for a drink or meal or fun whatever they prefer x

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

Clearly caught in the morning traffic.

Sorry but if you believe someone is travelling from Kent to Fife for a meet then you are incredibly naive.

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

Anyway, look closer to home and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been chatting to her for weeks we were becoming very friendly but hey ho we move on hopefully someone on here will like my charm and I can take them for a drink or meal or fun whatever they prefer x"

Could be a 1000 reasons I guess ! From simple second thoughts , to something important happened suddenly and FAB and meeting someone was the last thing on her mind ! It is really frustrating though that there is just nothing in terms of communication !! Left scratching your head as such !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's baffeling is she is still on fan she has blocked me on here and blocked my contact number too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget about her and move on OP. Plenty more on here to choose from x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forget about her and move on OP. Plenty more on here to choose from x"

Good advice but maybe not that easy. X

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By *iscodavieno1Man
over a year ago

dunbar


"Forget about her and move on OP. Plenty more on here to choose from x

Good advice but maybe not that easy. X "
. Yeah very true not that easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forget about her and move on OP. Plenty more on here to choose from x

Good advice but maybe not that easy. X . Yeah very true not that easy "

For a variety of reasons, 2 being maybe the person felt there was a particular connection. Maybe it was the first person who showed an interest in them and they know how difficult that could be to get again. Who knows.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

It sucks. It can really knock your confidence. Unfortunately this comes with fab. Over time you'll manage to stop giving a shit about these time wasters.

Even being on here for about 3 years now I still don't understand why most people don't have the decency to just let you know they've had a change of heart, but you know what? They weren't worth it anyway, so you really didn't lose out on anything.

On occasion you will come across a proper gem on here and they still make it worthwhile. It's hard to find these gems, but they are definitely on here x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for your advice I will try take it on board and move on. But truly thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There a lot of lassies on here just Cock teases and arrange the meet and then drop out last minute and then block so u can’t ruin there fun. And there is also all the fake profiles. It then ruins it for the genuine that actually want and do meet and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As in the journey of life, and it's the same on Fab, we never truly know much about the person we're meeting, until it actually happens .. The most important thing if you can, is to simply in your our mind, wish her well, hope that she's ok and that she's in a good place, and work on the basis that she has simply changed her mind, all be it for reasons that you'll never know .. Good luck in the future Op ..

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Be careful ...there are a lot of guys out there posing as ladies to gather private info.

Work places and phone numbers are a no no ...we live and learn

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Be careful ...there are a lot of guys out there posing as ladies to gather private info.

Work places and phone numbers are a no no ...we live and learn "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could have been something you said, maybe she wasn’t a she, maybe she changed her mind (totally entitled too) and instead of the hassle and potential abuse that would come from telling you, took the easy route and blocked you instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be careful ...there are a lot of guys out there posing as ladies to gather private info.

Work places and phone numbers are a no no ...we live and learn "

To gather info on other guys? Why? Just to fuck with people?

This place gets nuttier by the day.

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By *rallvalCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline


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To gather info on other guys? Why? Just to fuck with people?

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To 'out them' maybe? Some people are just nasty and ruining their life gets them off.

I know of a primary school teacher that was outed and lost her job.

Some jobs have a 'conduct unbecoming' or a 'bringing into disrepute' clause.

Some people are just nasty bastards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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To gather info on other guys? Why? Just to fuck with people?

To 'out them' maybe? Some people are just nasty and ruining their life gets them off.

I know of a primary school teacher that was outed and lost her job.

Some jobs have a 'conduct unbecoming' or a 'bringing into disrepute' clause.

Some people are just nasty bastards."

Scumbags!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I'm getting bumped for a social meet tomorrow

Same situation

Good chat

Chatting by text and other social media

Half arranged a meeting for tomorrow,just the time to sort out and now nothing

Shame if it is the case and I hope things are ok with her

But frustrating none the less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Win some you lose some. Don’t let it get you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know a wee 'sirry cahnged my mind's would be so much nicer and most of us adults can accept that

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"You know a wee 'sirry cahnged my mind's would be so much nicer and most of us adults can accept that"

Absolutely but sadly a lot of people can’t/don’t accept it and before you know it you are hurled abuse! The best thing really is to chalk it off and move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know a wee 'sirry cahnged my mind's would be so much nicer and most of us adults can accept that

Absolutely but sadly a lot of people can’t/don’t accept it and before you know it you are hurled abuse! The best thing really is to chalk it off and move on x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know a wee 'sirry cahnged my mind's would be so much nicer and most of us adults can accept that

Absolutely but sadly a lot of people can’t/don’t accept it and before you know it you are hurled abuse! The best thing really is to chalk it off and move on x"

Pretty much have done but joining in the thread

Maybe things will change

Will put a meet on now that I'm free all day in the hope of salvaging a rare day off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She maybe got cold feet or spooked due to her own circumstances,wouldn't read to much into it and soldier on.

Just like a nice pint of Guinness,good things come to those who wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She was ment to come and no we were both from fife we exchanged everything. Pics phone calls place of work and everything. Very disappointing say the least.

I never tell folk my place of work. That would be very foolish."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is truly becoming a very common issue on fab with girls going basically 90% of the way then they turn into ghost mode. Truly immature and not need. A simple sorry can't do it or something has come up is all it takes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's touching that you still think they are women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moving on and posting a social/fun meet for tomorrow

Hoping to make my day off worthwhile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moving on and posting a social/fun meet for tomorrow

Hoping to make my day off worthwhile"

Serious question...do women actually respond to meet requests posted by men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moving on and posting a social/fun meet for tomorrow

Hoping to make my day off worthwhile

Serious question...do women actually respond to meet requests posted by men?"

You're a woman, have you ever responded to one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moving on and posting a social/fun meet for tomorrow

Hoping to make my day off worthwhile

Serious question...do women actually respond to meet requests posted by men?

You're a woman, have you ever responded to one? "

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moving on and posting a social/fun meet for tomorrow

Hoping to make my day off worthwhile

Serious question...do women actually respond to meet requests posted by men?

You're a woman, have you ever responded to one?

No"

I'm. Pretty sure that would be the general feeling. But there is always the chance that the one who does will see and respond.

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