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"People that’s not verified on the site we have blocked loads pisses us off pestering us " Take a chance. Some times it's worth it.  | |||
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"People that’s not verified on the site we have blocked loads pisses us off pestering us " That's your choice and if you feel comfortable doing that then good for you.
I'm sure there are plenty of unverified who you would enjoy but on the other hand there are plenty of unverified whom you wouldn't enjoy their company.
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"[Removed by poster at 02/11/18 16:28:09]" The more experienced on here you find out all the hassles that can happen so many become very unforgiving and would rather block if there is a hint of hassle. Me personally, I don't usually block unless they are a compete utter ass or dodgy person. I usually just ignore and add to private notes about that person and eventually they will go to someone else  | |||
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"People that’s not verified on the site we have blocked loads pisses us off pestering us Take a chance. Some times it's worth it. "This | |||
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"We have had couples friends request us then block us next day before we confirm them??they had same picture but changed ages and tried again next day wtf " that be a pain right enough . | |||
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"Isn't sending the picture with your username to the site a way to get verified?" Yep. It's not completely foolproof but there should be no reason anyone couldn't do it, unless they don't want to | |||
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"Isn't sending the picture with your username to the site a way to get verified?" Think they mean verified by a meet or social or by cam. I'v seen new people on here who got verified within 2 seconds of joining. | |||
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"We have had couples friends request us then block us next day before we confirm them??they had same picture but changed ages and tried again next day wtf " I don't allow anyone as friends unless I have met them or will be going to meet them in the future. I don't see the point in inviting people as friends I've hardly chatted to. I'd rather chat for a while first and get a feel of the person to see if there's an initial interest on both sides and take it from there. I chat to unverified people and have met unverified in past but only after getting on during chats and conversation etc.... | |||
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"Isn't sending the picture with your username to the site a way to get verified? Think they mean verified by a meet or social or by cam. I'v seen new people on here who got verified within 2 seconds of joining. " A lot of people are re-joining and get verified by people they have met previously. I'm sure there are some who are fakes this way but many people leave and re-join regularly  | |||
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"That's all you hear on this site. You will be blocked for this for that for breathing. For no pic verified being a human. Ffs demands are high. Must be so many special people on here. " The only big no no for me is no pics. Everyone has a phone nowadays with a camera. Doesn't even need to be a face pic! | |||
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"That's all you hear on this site. You will be blocked for this for that for breathing. For no pic verified being a human. Ffs demands are high. Must be so many special people on here. The only big no no for me is no pics. Everyone has a phone nowadays with a camera. Doesn't even need to be a face pic!" This is true. Doggy chatted to me and all she saw was my little toe. (or at least that's what I told her it was  ) | |||
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"That's all you hear on this site. You will be blocked for this for that for breathing. For no pic verified being a human. Ffs demands are high. Must be so many special people on here. The only big no no for me is no pics. Everyone has a phone nowadays with a camera. Doesn't even need to be a face pic! This is true. Doggy chatted to me and all she saw was my little toe. (or at least that's what I told her it was ) "So that was puss seeping out the end of it then? | |||
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"That's all you hear on this site. You will be blocked for this for that for breathing. For no pic verified being a human. Ffs demands are high. Must be so many special people on here. The only big no no for me is no pics. Everyone has a phone nowadays with a camera. Doesn't even need to be a face pic! This is true. Doggy chatted to me and all she saw was my little toe. (or at least that's what I told her it was )
So that was puss seeping out the end of it then? "Ffs. You said you weren't gonna mention that. You said it wasn't a big deal and happens to everyone.  | |||
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"That's all you hear on this site. You will be blocked for this for that for breathing. For no pic verified being a human. Ffs demands are high. Must be so many special people on here. The only big no no for me is no pics. Everyone has a phone nowadays with a camera. Doesn't even need to be a face pic! This is true. Doggy chatted to me and all she saw was my little toe. (or at least that's what I told her it was ) " | |||
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"I've met a few people fir a social to verify them. Not always had fun with them though x"I'd love a meet with you but I'm a year too young  | |||
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"Lol I did that! A verification is just a real life person saying they've seen you in the flesh at some point and you are also a real life person though. It's not like a promotion someone more committed deserves because they didn't leave "That was re getting re-verified btw, thought I'd clicked quote | |||
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"I have met a few guys on here just for a social so they can get verified. No intention of ever playing with them. Yea just call me Mother Theresa "I wish I could get a veri meet lol | |||
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"I've met a few people fir a social to verify them. Not always had fun with them though x"I think you could be very busy soon. Lol lots of "free" COFFEE and cake too of course.  | |||
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"I've met a few people fir a social to verify them. Not always had fun with them though x
I think you could be very busy soon. Lol lots of "free" COFFEE and cake too of course. "Better buy plenty of mints for the coffee breath lol x | |||
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"Verified or no it makes no difference to us. Mrs goes with how the chat progresses rather than anything that's on the profile. " | |||
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"Verified or no it makes no difference to us. Mrs goes with how the chat progresses rather than anything that's on the profile. " | |||
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"I've met a few people fir a social to verify them. Not always had fun with them though x
I think you could be very busy soon. Lol lots of "free" COFFEE and cake too of course.
Better buy plenty of mints for the coffee breath lol x"Somehow I don't think anyone would care that much if they were siting opposite you. x | |||
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"Lol I did that! A verification is just a real life person saying they've seen you in the flesh at some point and you are also a real life person though. It's not like a promotion someone more committed deserves because they didn't leave "Yip agreed.
I've left once, about 2 and half years ago and when I re-joined I was verified a few times during the first week but people who had meet me previous profile | |||
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"I've met a few people fir a social to verify them. Not always had fun with them though x
I think you could be very busy soon. Lol lots of "free" COFFEE and cake too of course.
Better buy plenty of mints for the coffee breath lol x
Somehow I don't think anyone would care that much if they were siting opposite you. x"Ha flattery will get you everywhere x | |||
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"I've met a few people fir a social to verify them. Not always had fun with them though x
I think you could be very busy soon. Lol lots of "free" COFFEE and cake too of course.
Better buy plenty of mints for the coffee breath lol x
Somehow I don't think anyone would care that much if they were siting opposite you. x
Ha flattery will get you everywhere x"Even unblocked?  | |||
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"I've met a few people fir a social to verify them. Not always had fun with them though x
I think you could be very busy soon. Lol lots of "free" COFFEE and cake too of course.
Better buy plenty of mints for the coffee breath lol x
Somehow I don't think anyone would care that much if they were siting opposite you. x
Ha flattery will get you everywhere x
Even unblocked? "This is the weird thing. I've checked three times and you're not on my block list. I've messaged site admin about it but nothing. I don't understand it x | |||
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"I've met a few people fir a social to verify them. Not always had fun with them though x
I think you could be very busy soon. Lol lots of "free" COFFEE and cake too of course.
Better buy plenty of mints for the coffee breath lol x
Somehow I don't think anyone would care that much if they were siting opposite you. x
Ha flattery will get you everywhere x
Even unblocked?
This is the weird thing. I've checked three times and you're not on my block list. I've messaged site admin about it but nothing. I don't understand it x"I just figured I'd probably sent you an arsey first message at some point in the past, that I'd have blocked myself for.  | |||
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"I've met a few people fir a social to verify them. Not always had fun with them though x
I think you could be very busy soon. Lol lots of "free" COFFEE and cake too of course.
Better buy plenty of mints for the coffee breath lol x
Somehow I don't think anyone would care that much if they were siting opposite you. x
Ha flattery will get you everywhere x
Even unblocked?
This is the weird thing. I've checked three times and you're not on my block list. I've messaged site admin about it but nothing. I don't understand it x
I just figured I'd probably sent you an arsey first message at some point in the past, that I'd have blocked myself for. "No not at all you haven't. Maybe you could message them too and ask the same as me. Why aren't we visible to each other? x | |||
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" I've met a few people fir a social to verify them. Not always had fun with them though x
I think you could be very busy soon. Lol lots of "free" COFFEE and cake too of course.
Better buy plenty of mints for the coffee breath lol x
Somehow I don't think anyone would care that much if they were siting opposite you. x
Ha flattery will get you everywhere x
Even unblocked?
This is the weird thing. I've checked three times and you're not on my block list. I've messaged site admin about it but nothing. I don't understand it x
I just figured I'd probably sent you an arsey first message at some point in the past, that I'd have blocked myself for.
No not at all you haven't. Maybe you could message them too and ask the same as me. Why aren't we visible to each other? x"Is the best way to do this through the contacts page and report a bug? Or discuss another member. | |||
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" I've met a few people fir a social to verify them. Not always had fun with them though x
I think you could be very busy soon. Lol lots of "free" COFFEE and cake too of course.
Better buy plenty of mints for the coffee breath lol x
Somehow I don't think anyone would care that much if they were siting opposite you. x
Ha flattery will get you everywhere x
Even unblocked?
This is the weird thing. I've checked three times and you're not on my block list. I've messaged site admin about it but nothing. I don't understand it x
I just figured I'd probably sent you an arsey first message at some point in the past, that I'd have blocked myself for.
No not at all you haven't. Maybe you could message them too and ask the same as me. Why aren't we visible to each other? x
Is the best way to do this through the contacts page and report a bug? Or discuss another member. "I have contacted site admin about it. So we'll say no more about it on here lol x | |||
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" I've met a few people fir a social to verify them. Not always had fun with them though x
I think you could be very busy soon. Lol lots of "free" COFFEE and cake too of course.
Better buy plenty of mints for the coffee breath lol x
Somehow I don't think anyone would care that much if they were siting opposite you. x
Ha flattery will get you everywhere x
Even unblocked?
This is the weird thing. I've checked three times and you're not on my block list. I've messaged site admin about it but nothing. I don't understand it x
I just figured I'd probably sent you an arsey first message at some point in the past, that I'd have blocked myself for.
No not at all you haven't. Maybe you could message them too and ask the same as me. Why aren't we visible to each other? x
Is the best way to do this through the contacts page and report a bug? Or discuss another member.
I have contacted site admin about it. So we'll say no more about it on here lol x"Of course. Now that we have cleared up the misunderstanding. I will be wondering where flattery will get me now. | |||
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" I've met a few people fir a social to verify them. Not always had fun with them though x
I think you could be very busy soon. Lol lots of "free" COFFEE and cake too of course.
Better buy plenty of mints for the coffee breath lol x
Somehow I don't think anyone would care that much if they were siting opposite you. x
Ha flattery will get you everywhere x
Even unblocked?
This is the weird thing. I've checked three times and you're not on my block list. I've messaged site admin about it but nothing. I don't understand it x
I just figured I'd probably sent you an arsey first message at some point in the past, that I'd have blocked myself for.
No not at all you haven't. Maybe you could message them too and ask the same as me. Why aren't we visible to each other? x
Is the best way to do this through the contacts page and report a bug? Or discuss another member.
I have contacted site admin about it. So we'll say no more about it on here lol x
Of course. Now that we have cleared up the misunderstanding. I will be wondering where flattery will get me now. "Well I'm still talking to you, that's a good thing is it not? x | |||
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" I've met a few people fir a social to verify them. Not always had fun with them though x
I think you could be very busy soon. Lol lots of "free" COFFEE and cake too of course.
Better buy plenty of mints for the coffee breath lol x
Somehow I don't think anyone would care that much if they were siting opposite you. x
Ha flattery will get you everywhere x
Even unblocked?
This is the weird thing. I've checked three times and you're not on my block list. I've messaged site admin about it but nothing. I don't understand it x
I just figured I'd probably sent you an arsey first message at some point in the past, that I'd have blocked myself for.
No not at all you haven't. Maybe you could message them too and ask the same as me. Why aren't we visible to each other? x
Is the best way to do this through the contacts page and report a bug? Or discuss another member.
I have contacted site admin about it. So we'll say no more about it on here lol x
Of course. Now that we have cleared up the misunderstanding. I will be wondering where flattery will get me now.
Well I'm still talking to you, that's a good thing is it not? x"I would say so. x | |||
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" I've met a few people fir a social to verify them. Not always had fun with them though x
I think you could be very busy soon. Lol lots of "free" COFFEE and cake too of course.
Better buy plenty of mints for the coffee breath lol x
Somehow I don't think anyone would care that much if they were siting opposite you. x
Ha flattery will get you everywhere x
Even unblocked?
This is the weird thing. I've checked three times and you're not on my block list. I've messaged site admin about it but nothing. I don't understand it x
I just figured I'd probably sent you an arsey first message at some point in the past, that I'd have blocked myself for.
No not at all you haven't. Maybe you could message them too and ask the same as me. Why aren't we visible to each other? x
Is the best way to do this through the contacts page and report a bug? Or discuss another member.
I have contacted site admin about it. So we'll say no more about it on here lol x
Of course. Now that we have cleared up the misunderstanding. I will be wondering where flattery will get me now.
Well I'm still talking to you, that's a good thing is it not? x
I would say so. x"All good. Definitely a bug by the way, not calling you a bug but that other thing. I brought it up with them x | |||
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" I've met a few people fir a social to verify them. Not always had fun with them though x
I think you could be very busy soon. Lol lots of "free" COFFEE and cake too of course.
Better buy plenty of mints for the coffee breath lol x
Somehow I don't think anyone would care that much if they were siting opposite you. x
Ha flattery will get you everywhere x
Even unblocked?
This is the weird thing. I've checked three times and you're not on my block list. I've messaged site admin about it but nothing. I don't understand it x
I just figured I'd probably sent you an arsey first message at some point in the past, that I'd have blocked myself for.
No not at all you haven't. Maybe you could message them too and ask the same as me. Why aren't we visible to each other? x
Is the best way to do this through the contacts page and report a bug? Or discuss another member.
I have contacted site admin about it. So we'll say no more about it on here lol x
Of course. Now that we have cleared up the misunderstanding. I will be wondering where flattery will get me now.
Well I'm still talking to you, that's a good thing is it not? x
I would say so. x
All good. Definitely a bug by the way, not calling you a bug but that other thing. I brought it up with them x"I'm enjoying having a laugh today so no worries. The banter on the forum has been pretty good, if I say so myself. | |||
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" I've met a few people fir a social to verify them. Not always had fun with them though x
I think you could be very busy soon. Lol lots of "free" COFFEE and cake too of course.
Better buy plenty of mints for the coffee breath lol x
Somehow I don't think anyone would care that much if they were siting opposite you. x
Ha flattery will get you everywhere x
Even unblocked?
This is the weird thing. I've checked three times and you're not on my block list. I've messaged site admin about it but nothing. I don't understand it x
I just figured I'd probably sent you an arsey first message at some point in the past, that I'd have blocked myself for.
No not at all you haven't. Maybe you could message them too and ask the same as me. Why aren't we visible to each other? x
Is the best way to do this through the contacts page and report a bug? Or discuss another member.
I have contacted site admin about it. So we'll say no more about it on here lol x
Of course. Now that we have cleared up the misunderstanding. I will be wondering where flattery will get me now.
Well I'm still talking to you, that's a good thing is it not? x
I would say so. x
All good. Definitely a bug by the way, not calling you a bug but that other thing. I brought it up with them x
I'm enjoying having a laugh today so no worries. The banter on the forum has been pretty good, if I say so myself. "Me too. It's been one of the better days on here x | |||
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"I'm enjoying having a laugh today so no worries. The banter on the forum has been pretty good, if I say so myself. " Me too. It's been one of the better days on here I've had a blast. Haven't laughed so much for ages. "It makes all the difference when it's fun x | |||
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"How did the first 2 people on fab get verified? "They probably verified each other! x | |||
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"I'm enjoying having a laugh today so no worries. The banter on the forum has been pretty good, if I say so myself. " Me too. It's been one of the better days on here I've had a blast. Haven't laughed so much for ages.
It makes all the difference when it's fun x"Certainly does. I'll be raising a glass to more days like this on here later on. | |||
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"I'm enjoying having a laugh today so no worries. The banter on the forum has been pretty good, if I say so myself. " Me too. It's been one of the better days on here I've had a blast. Haven't laughed so much for ages.
It makes all the difference when it's fun x
Certainly does. I'll be raising a glass to more days like this on here later on. "Chin chin!! x | |||
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"I'm enjoying having a laugh today so no worries. The banter on the forum has been pretty good, if I say so myself. " Me too. It's been one of the better days on here I've had a blast. Haven't laughed so much for ages.
It makes all the difference when it's fun x
Certainly does. I'll be raising a glass to more days like this on here later on.
Chin chin!! x"Bottoms up... (I meant the wine glass bottoms. ) | |||
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"I'm enjoying having a laugh today so no worries. The banter on the forum has been pretty good, if I say so myself. " Me too. It's been one of the better days on here I've had a blast. Haven't laughed so much for ages.
It makes all the difference when it's fun x
Certainly does. I'll be raising a glass to more days like this on here later on.
Chin chin!! x
Bottoms up... (I meant the wine glass bottoms. ) "Pmsl!! Love it x | |||
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"I'm enjoying having a laugh today so no worries. The banter on the forum has been pretty good, if I say so myself. " Me too. It's been one of the better days on here I've had a blast. Haven't laughed so much for ages.
It makes all the difference when it's fun x
Certainly does. I'll be raising a glass to more days like this on here later on.
Chin chin!! x
Bottoms up... (I meant the wine glass bottoms. )
Pmsl!! Love it x"Another hour and I'll be drinking for real. Just need to get this damn presentation finished. Probably would have finished hours ago if I'd logged off from here.  | |||
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"I'm enjoying having a laugh today so no worries. The banter on the forum has been pretty good, if I say so myself. " Me too. It's been one of the better days on here I've had a blast. Haven't laughed so much for ages.
It makes all the difference when it's fun x
Certainly does. I'll be raising a glass to more days like this on here later on.
Chin chin!! x
Bottoms up... (I meant the wine glass bottoms. )
Pmsl!! Love it x
Another hour and I'll be drinking for real. Just need to get this damn presentation finished. Probably would have finished hours ago if I'd logged off from here. "Have I been keeping you from your work? Lol I'm on the wine again tonight. I could have opened the homemade vodka but chose not to x | |||
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"Isn't sending the picture with your username to the site a way to get verified? Think they mean verified by a meet or social or by cam. I'v seen new people on here who got verified within 2 seconds of joining. " Aren’t they most likely re joiners though and it’s someone they know from before ? | |||
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"Have I been keeping you from your work? Lol I'm on the wine again tonight. I could have opened the homemade vodka but chose not to x I will neither confirm nor deny. "As you're enjoying the conversation? x | |||
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"Have I been keeping you from your work? Lol I'm on the wine again tonight. I could have opened the homemade vodka but chose not to x I will neither confirm nor deny.
As you're enjoying the conversation? x"Immensely. I am guessing you are too. | |||
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"Have I been keeping you from your work? Lol I'm on the wine again tonight. I could have opened the homemade vodka but chose not to x I will neither confirm nor deny.
As you're enjoying the conversation? x
Immensely. I am guessing you are too. "I absolutely am x | |||
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"Have I been keeping you from your work? Lol I'm on the wine again tonight. I could have opened the homemade vodka but chose not to x I will neither confirm nor deny.
As you're enjoying the conversation? x
Immensely. I am guessing you are too.
I absolutely am x"I'll see you in the FABbar then  | |||
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"Have I been keeping you from your work? Lol I'm on the wine again tonight. I could have opened the homemade vodka but chose not to x I will neither confirm nor deny.
As you're enjoying the conversation? x
Immensely. I am guessing you are too.
I absolutely am x
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