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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well first for me on here.

chatting with a lady for a few days & she asks if I want to go to the cinema for a social?

I declined what would you have done?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well first for me on here.

chatting with a lady for a few days & she asks if I want to go to the cinema for a social?

I declined what would you have done?"

Definitely not.

Socials on here you wanna chat with the person to see if you connect. Don't see the point in a cinema social.

there was a bigger cinema social last month, think about 10 turned up but they had drinks beforehand so they could all chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that's ok for a group of Fabbers who already know each other but as a first meet would it not be nicer to go for a drink and chat with each other? Then if you get on well, you could take her to the cinema after x

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

Maybe she just wanted a grope in the dark with no small talk lol

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe she just wanted a grope in the dark with no small talk lol

Mrs"

Did that a few weeks ago lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’ve chatted,you liked her , your gonna chat before movie , if it’s s movie you both wanna see , you could have worse socials

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Well first for me on here.

chatting with a lady for a few days & she asks if I want to go to the cinema for a social?

I declined what would you have done?"

Definitely go !!

Couple of drinks before cinema.

Try for a peck in the dark once in cinema, if reciprocated or escalated to full on snog, more drinks after cinema.

If not , assume theres no attraction and move on. Just accept not everyone fancies some people. At least theres no awkwardness at a standard coffee meet. I would happily escort a female to a cinema . Even better if both want to see the film anyway.

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By *ittle_missknowitallWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Maybe she wanted to see something and had no one to go with

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I was desperate to see a film and had no one to go with, I asked a Fab guy I’d never met to go with me. We went for food first to chat. Ended up at mine after. It all went well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as its not Shades of grey...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well first for me on here.

chatting with a lady for a few days & she asks if I want to go to the cinema for a social?

I declined what would you have done?"

What film did she want to see

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I dont think its a bad idea. I go alone to the cinema but hate it. Be nice to meet someone for a few drinks and laughs before going to see a film together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet there won't be many Fab meets at the remake of Fatal Attraction".

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Well first for me on here.

chatting with a lady for a few days & she asks if I want to go to the cinema for a social?

I declined what would you have done?

Definitely not.

Socials on here you wanna chat with the person to see if you connect. Don't see the point in a cinema social.

there was a bigger cinema social last month, think about 10 turned up but they had drinks beforehand so they could all chat "

Ehhh ? , you had yer name down for 1 dependant on times lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well first for me on here.

chatting with a lady for a few days & she asks if I want to go to the cinema for a social?

I declined what would you have done?

Definitely not.

Socials on here you wanna chat with the person to see if you connect. Don't see the point in a cinema social.

there was a bigger cinema social last month, think about 10 turned up but they had drinks beforehand so they could all chat

Ehhh ? , you had yer name down for 1 dependant on times lol. "

Maybe he could only get in at certain times with his OAP pass?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounded like she wanted a date rather than a social.

I go to the cinema myself alot lol and iv got a hubby and kids lol

Love the price n quiet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounded like she wanted a date rather than a social.

I go to the cinema myself alot lol and iv got a hubby and kids lol

Love the price n quiet."

You can't beat the price of going on your own. Esp. If you use nectar points at the Vue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounded like she wanted a date rather than a social.

I go to the cinema myself alot lol and iv got a hubby and kids lol

Love the price n quiet.

You can't beat the price of going on your own. Esp. If you use nectar points at the Vue. "
lol oopps..peace n quiet that should be although with the price alone I get to eat more sweets lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounded like she wanted a date rather than a social.

I go to the cinema myself alot lol and iv got a hubby and kids lol

Love the price n quiet.

You can't beat the price of going on your own. Esp. If you use nectar points at the Vue. lol oopps..peace n quiet that should be although with the price alone I get to eat more sweets lol "

If we went on two for Tuesday we could go halfers, wouldn't even mind sitting in different parts of the cinema. Even more sweets. Lol.

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

That's a shame, the lady maybe be thought she would have liked your company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounded like she wanted a date rather than a social.

I go to the cinema myself alot lol and iv got a hubby and kids lol

Love the price n quiet."

Me too. Nothing compares to eating a family size bag of Minstrels on your own without having to share them with a little focker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounded like she wanted a date rather than a social.

I go to the cinema myself alot lol and iv got a hubby and kids lol

Love the price n quiet.

Me too. Nothing compares to eating a family size bag of Minstrels on your own without having to share them with a little focker."

I like the "surprise" from a bag of revels. A bit like this place. You never know what you're gonna get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounded like she wanted a date rather than a social.

I go to the cinema myself alot lol and iv got a hubby and kids lol

Love the price n quiet.

Me too. Nothing compares to eating a family size bag of Minstrels on your own without having to share them with a little focker."

Buy something they don't like!.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Perhaps suggest a drink or coffee then the cinema if you feel there is some attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well first for me on here.

chatting with a lady for a few days & she asks if I want to go to the cinema for a social?

I declined what would you have done?

Definitely not.

Socials on here you wanna chat with the person to see if you connect. Don't see the point in a cinema social.

there was a bigger cinema social last month, think about 10 turned up but they had drinks beforehand so they could all chat

Ehhh ? , you had yer name down for 1 dependant on times lol. "

Omg That was for a bigger cinema social and there was drinks beforehand.

The OP is stating that he was asked to the cinema for a social, nothing about drinks first etc... that's why I said NO.

Shakes had and thinks I'll go back to reading readers wifes from men's club magazine

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By *hargMan
over a year ago

Erskine

Cinemas do work for socials but you need a drink or a meal too usually to be able to chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting thoughts & advice on this, thanks.

I made it clear in a nice, sensitive way I viewed her cinema meet offer as a little more than a social. No meal or drinks involved so for me I thought best to be honest from the outset of my intentions etc. However she understood & appreciated my honesty so Costa it is lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well first for me on here.

chatting with a lady for a few days & she asks if I want to go to the cinema for a social?

I declined what would you have done?

What film did she want to see "

Bohemian Rhapsody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting thoughts & advice on this, thanks.

I made it clear in a nice, sensitive way I viewed her cinema meet offer as a little more than a social. No meal or drinks involved so for me I thought best to be honest from the outset of my intentions etc. However she understood & appreciated my honesty so Costa it is lol.

"

That's good. And it's not tax-dodging st*rb*cks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting thoughts & advice on this, thanks.

I made it clear in a nice, sensitive way I viewed her cinema meet offer as a little more than a social. No meal or drinks involved so for me I thought best to be honest from the outset of my intentions etc. However she understood & appreciated my honesty so Costa it is lol.

"

I go to the cinema quite a lot with my regular friend on here but we had already been chatting a while and got to know each other before we first went to the cinema together. That was back in August and we're still seeing each other for the cinema and of course fun but it builds up a nice friendship when you see each other socially so don't completely rule it out OP. Meet her for coffee and if you both get on well, take it from there x

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Sounded like she wanted a date rather than a social.

I go to the cinema myself alot lol and iv got a hubby and kids lol

Love the price n quiet.

Me too. Nothing compares to eating a family size bag of Minstrels on your own without having to share them with a little focker.

I like the "surprise" from a bag of revels. A bit like this place. You never know what you're gonna get. "

The only surprise you get these days from a bag of revels is the lack of contents. Family size bag and a family of 4 get two and a half revels each. If there lucky.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Well first for me on here.

chatting with a lady for a few days & she asks if I want to go to the cinema for a social?

I declined what would you have done?

What film did she want to see

Bohemian Rhapsody"

Oh I want to see that! Anyone want to go with me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well first for me on here.

chatting with a lady for a few days & she asks if I want to go to the cinema for a social?

I declined what would you have done?

What film did she want to see

Bohemian Rhapsody"

Could be worse, she could have said Jonny English

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Interesting thoughts & advice on this, thanks.

I made it clear in a nice, sensitive way I viewed her cinema meet offer as a little more than a social. No meal or drinks involved so for me I thought best to be honest from the outset of my intentions etc. However she understood & appreciated my honesty so Costa it is lol.

"
If no meal or drinks beforehand then id decline too ...how are you ment to get to know each other if you cant chat to one and other !?

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