FabSwingers.com forum: Do you become more freaky the older you become?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As the years advance, and you become more set in your ways, do you become less open to idiosyncrasies in other people, and consequently, more closed minded to the vibrant life that Fab offers? Discuss...

I'm fighting turning into a grumpy old man whenever someone does something to piss me off on Fab. Are you...?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Freaky or kinky? think you start to realise how much might have been missing out on or was that just becoming single?

Go with the flow actually have become more accepting of things that annoy the c**p out of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know the answer to that as every person is different I will say that I have tried a lot more as I have got older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

I was freaky in my 20s. Now a much quieter wee besom. Much calmer and less insane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I become more confident in myself, less willing to tolerate fools and more sure about what I want from life.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I thought you were always a grumpy old man so no real change

..... joking xx

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I’ve got kinkier as I’ve got older if that’s what you mean

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By *orny_in_LeithMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh Leith

With age definitely comes experience, openness to variety and a development of kinky horniness. Youth irrationally choose to miss out on much life has to offer,they eventually learn the folly of chasing the world of appearances, pity really Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I've always been a freak. Might be getting tamer as I get older tbh.

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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago

Isle of Arran

Allways have done my own thing but as I get older I think I have become more tolerant of others.for sure I am now looking for all the bits I have missed out on over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinkier I’d say, the years that your physically able to experiment are diminishing rapidly, then again 200mg Viagra , red silk binding rope and a Doxy would brighten up any retirement home !!!!!

There’s the erection diminishing mental image for tonight Guys!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's just down to confidence growing and caring less what others think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been a freak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's just down to confidence growing and caring less what others think. "

This

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Freaky? Or just open to having boundaries pushed. OP you certainly know how to push them.

I have Fab friends who are happy to help me explore a few things. I’m happy to help them push boundaries too!

My Fifties will be even more fabulous than my forties at this rate!

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Freaky? Or just open to having boundaries pushed. OP you certainly know how to push them.

I have Fab friends who are happy to help me explore a few things. I’m happy to help them push boundaries too!

My Fifties will be even more fabulous than my forties at this rate! "
Look forward to that party ??

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By *ockyjockyMan
over a year ago

G63 countryside

"I think it's just down to confidence growing and caring less what others think. "

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By *erfectly Average CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If this is the case 8m fearing for the future lol

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By *ife_guy85Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I’d say the older I get (not that old in the grand scheme of things, I’ll admit) the more accepting I am of myself and my own desires and preferences. Whether other people view them as kinky/freaky is up to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i went through a phase of it but now I'm really quite content

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By *andleCoolMan
over a year ago

Dundee

Personally think less freaky

. Was a wild one in my twenties. Now more content with a book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally think less freaky

. Was a wild one in my twenties. Now more content with a book.

Scud book?

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By *andleCoolMan
over a year ago

Dundee

"Personally think less freaky

. Was a wild one in my twenties. Now more content with a book.

Scud book?"

Scud book as in, dirty magazine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally think less freaky

. Was a wild one in my twenties. Now more content with a book.

Scud book?

Scud book as in, dirty magazine?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Freaky? Or just open to having boundaries pushed. OP you certainly know how to push them.

I have Fab friends who are happy to help me explore a few things. I’m happy to help them push boundaries too!

My Fifties will be even more fabulous than my forties at this rate! "

U still have a long way to go then to enjoy ur fifties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexually I'm definatly more open as I've got older. But in other areas as on friendships I've found I've become less tolerant of drama and have distanced myself from friends who cause it.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Wouldn’t say I was freaky. Certainly more confident, less inhibitions. I know what I like!

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By *imbo57Man
over a year ago

kilmarnock ish

For sure

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By *ife_guy85Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Wouldn’t say I was freaky. Certainly more confident, less inhibitions. I know what I like!"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn’t say I was freaky. Certainly more confident, less inhibitions. I know what I like!"

Starbars!

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

As I've gotten older I find that I can't hang upside-down from the chandelier for as long as I used to be able to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can still hang upside down, just takes longer to get there but there again take longer and am more attentive when get there

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Wouldn’t say I was freaky. Certainly more confident, less inhibitions. I know what I like!

Starbars! "

Damn right, Ruby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sexually I'm definatly more open as I've got older. But in other areas as on friendships I've found I've become less tolerant of drama and have distanced myself from friends who cause it.

This. I’m also less inclined to chase folk, friends who don’t bother unless I do. My circle of close friends has got smaller but a lot more trusting. I cannot be arsed with drama either.

I am definitely more adventurous sexually but partly that’s to do with the right partner after years with the wrong one lol.

Leo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope.

I was freaky in my 20s. Now a much quieter wee besom. Much calmer and less insane"
boring comes to mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm probably just as freaky as I've always been. I've just gotten better with practice.

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By *orny_in_LeithMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh Leith

Yes... Freaky is another term for more experienced at best or desperate at worst lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Nopw juat more intolorant of stupidity

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"As the years advance, and you become more set in your ways, do you become less open to idiosyncrasies in other people, and consequently, more closed minded to the vibrant life that Fab offers? Discuss...

I'm fighting turning into a grumpy old man whenever someone does something to piss me off on Fab. Are you...?!"
were you not always a grumpy old man ...runnnnssss lol

I think Im quite tolerant of stupid people & their their stupidity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fighting turning into a grumpy old man whenever someone does something to piss me off on Fab. Are you...?!"

I think in some respects you may feel resentment that time has passed you by and that your too old to play.

Personally I feel I have less fucks to give and that your never too old to play and that's what gives you a new lease of life. Live your life on your terms try something new each day only one life!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fighting turning into a grumpy old man whenever someone does something to piss me off on Fab. Are you...?!

I think in some respects you may feel resentment that time has passed you by and that your too old to play.

Personally I feel I have less fucks to give and that your never too old to play and that's what gives you a new lease of life. Live your life on your terms try something new each day only one life!!!"

I should also state I've alway been freaky curious interested or whatever you want to call it just had to many hang ups about what others think I suppose you could say with age come a certain freedom to live and learn

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Haven't become more freaky but I have become more risk averse in regard to where I meet etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup I have ...stuff I would do now I wouldnt have had the confidence years ago !!!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

No. I just become wiser.

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By *rMrsWTFCouple
over a year ago

Arbroath

I think I've become a bit of a prude concerned about what others think, I'd luv to back to not caring about others opions of me

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