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By *ustforfun1759 OP   Couple
over a year ago

IRVINE

how hard can it be to find a nice guy to join us in some fun, 32 views and no messages mags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys just don't message if you are looking for women only on your 'looking for' bit of your profile

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By *ustforfun1759 OP   Couple
over a year ago

IRVINE

thank you sorted mags

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Why don’t you just go on the prowl?

Find guys that take your fancy and message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys don't like to message as they are normally just deleted or maybe you aren't what they are looking for

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By *anditMan
over a year ago

irvine

Must admit i tend to stop messaging as it either gets ignored or deleted. But sayin that have had some nice replies back but mostly ignored lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how hard can it be to find a nice guy to join us in some fun, 32 views and no messages mags"

I think you’re really nice but I’m in Edinburgh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you look great be good to catch up with you both

I’d drive to meet you guysc

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Maybe add some more public pics of you both to see if that helps. Also try messaging guys yourselves rather than you wait for them to message you. Good luck.x

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By *ad bod000Man
over a year ago

Evanton

No messages sometimes guys are put off by couples. I think the guys that viewed your profile are just pic hunters & bi guys who are put off by straight couples. I like your profile & would have left a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it some people think it’s the guys place to make the first move?. Most guys are probably interested but won’t waste time messaging because they think they won’t get a reply. If a guy takes your interest message them, what’s the worst that can happen?

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

People like to snoop. It's human nature. Doesn't meant they have to get in touch though.

And most likely messages will pick up now it shows you're looking for single guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd never message a woman who has her fanny out on show as her profile pic or in her public pics.

That's just my opinion and maybe others think alike.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"how hard can it be to find a nice guy to join us in some fun, 32 views and no messages mags"

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It’ll come in time, all good things come to those who wait lol

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

why wait for the guy to make a move? if you like to the look a guy, message him

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By *lascumMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Most of us won’t message as we’ve been deleted or blocked for even having the audacity to contact a couple. No matter how polite we try to be it doesn’t suit some people so most wont bother for fear of being branded a pest or similar

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By *imbo57Man
over a year ago

kilmarnock ish


"Most of us won’t message as we’ve been deleted or blocked for even having the audacity to contact a couple. No matter how polite we try to be it doesn’t suit some people so most wont bother for fear of being branded a pest or similar "

My thoughts as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree most of our messages gets deleted without looking at your profile or some nasty comments back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally agree most of our messages gets deleted without looking at your profile or some nasty comments back"

I'm guilty of not always replying to messages but there's no need for a nasty reply if a guy has just messaged to say hello. Block and move on, you're not missing out on anything with folk like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how hard can it be to find a nice guy to join us in some fun, 32 views and no messages mags"

Interestingly, I messaged you 3 hours ago and you have been logged on a few times and never read the message.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"how hard can it be to find a nice guy to join us in some fun, 32 views and no messages mags

Interestingly, I messaged you 3 hours ago and you have been logged on a few times and never read the message."

Common misconception, if people don't log out of fab on their phones, every time they use the phone it'll show they're online. But they might not be on fab at the time at all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how hard can it be to find a nice guy to join us in some fun, 32 views and no messages mags

Interestingly, I messaged you 3 hours ago and you have been logged on a few times and never read the message.

Common misconception, if people don't log out of fab on their phones, every time they use the phone it'll show they're online. But they might not be on fab at the time at all x"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how hard can it be to find a nice guy to join us in some fun, 32 views and no messages mags"

I am amused and not surprised, after the points made by other posters about single males feeling they would be wasting their time messaging you to find 5 days after messaging you that my own message has been unread.

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By *umandgetus71Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Personally I'd never message a woman who has her fanny out on show as her profile pic or in her public pics.

That's just my opinion and maybe others think alike. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

up date - 7 days after the message was sent it was deleted without being read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"up date - 7 days after the message was sent it was deleted without being read.

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Ignore my good advice

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"up date - 7 days after the message was sent it was deleted without being read.

Ignore my good advice "

Not so good in this case....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how hard can it be to find a nice guy to join us in some fun, 32 views and no messages mags

Interestingly, I messaged you 3 hours ago and you have been logged on a few times and never read the message.

Common misconception, if people don't log out of fab on their phones, every time they use the phone it'll show they're online. But they might not be on fab at the time at all x"

OMG, I do that often

keep forgetting to log off on phone and sometimes on laptop

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