FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Scotland

Is The Social Side Of Fab Better than The Sex Side Of Fab ?

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is The Social Side Of Fab Better than The Sex Side Of Fab ?

As a few who have met me know I'm very comfortable in the social side of fab in any environment and as in regards to the sex side of it I like to keep it all discreet but I do have a blast ive noticed recently on a few posts some say they have no interest in the social side whatsoever and I mean even one to one socials.

So what you prefer the most, social side or the sex fun side or it all. I love it all but if there wasn't a social side I know for a fact I wouldn't be here.

What's your views on it folks and what

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No"

Can you expand on that please?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *anditMan
over a year ago

irvine

As a new member ive not been sure what to expect but spending time in the chatroom and forums chatting woth members i e realised that there can be a fun friendly element to the site not just sex. I think that one is just as important as the other on this site and look forward to enjoying both for a while yet.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"No"

Agreed, although social is ok as I gave up on sex here.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a new member ive not been sure what to expect but spending time in the chatroom and forums chatting woth members i e realised that there can be a fun friendly element to the site not just sex. I think that one is just as important as the other on this site and look forward to enjoying both for a while yet. "

Social and the sex side are brilliant n mixed together they are even better

I'm at a house party on Saturday and the social and fun side I just know are going to be fantastic.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

Can you expand on that please? "

We come here for 3sums. We go out with friends to socialise

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure what posts you've been looking at OP as a lot on the Scottish forum seem to be only into the social side of fab, which of course doesn't make any odds to me.

I'll carry on doing fab my way and the way it suits those I meet.

Thanks for asking though

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a new member ive not been sure what to expect but spending time in the chatroom and forums chatting woth members i e realised that there can be a fun friendly element to the site not just sex. I think that one is just as important as the other on this site and look forward to enjoying both for a while yet.

Social and the sex side are brilliant n mixed together they are even better

I'm at a house party on Saturday and the social and fun side I just know are going to be fantastic. "

When I said it was going to be a stripper party, I meant the wallpaper.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The social side was a big part of swinging in the past how do you think people actually got to know people in the days before magazines and social media?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is The Social Side Of Fab Better than The Sex Side Of Fab ?

As a few who have met me know I'm very comfortable in the social side of fab in any environment and as in regards to the sex side of it I like to keep it all discreet but I do have a blast ive noticed recently on a few posts some say they have no interest in the social side whatsoever and I mean even one to one socials.

So what you prefer the most, social side or the sex fun side or it all. I love it all but if there wasn't a social side I know for a fact I wouldn't be here.

What's your views on it folks and what "

I can even see more and more big socials happening as they are becoming total successes and lets people put a face to a name

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Being quite a sociable person I do love the social scene however don't think anything beats meeting with someone you really click with and take it that stage further ...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *40ffCouple
over a year ago

Anstruther

I like a mix of both always have a social 1st anyway but the sex side is also good as can the build up to a play meet also lots of msgs back n 4th ect

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *anditMan
over a year ago

irvine


"As a new member ive not been sure what to expect but spending time in the chatroom and forums chatting woth members i e realised that there can be a fun friendly element to the site not just sex. I think that one is just as important as the other on this site and look forward to enjoying both for a while yet.

Social and the sex side are brilliant n mixed together they are even better

I'm at a house party on Saturday and the social and fun side I just know are going to be fantastic.

When I said it was going to be a stripper party, I meant the wallpaper. "

Thank goodness ive no invite to that party hate decorating

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not interested in the real-life social side. It has brought far too much drama and hassle to my real life in the past.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

No.

That being said, I’m always a happy to be sociable

But it’s not better than the naughty side

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand folk wanting to socialise with likeminded folks but these socials dont always end well.

Just take a look at how users of this forum have their spats, when alcohol is added to the mix can you imagine what would happen?

I much prefer fireworks during sex

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, as the sex side is currently non existent for me on fab (my choice) it's a yes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I love the social side to fab but no its not better than the fun, fun is the main reason why we joined here after all

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

It’s like a lucky bag you don’t always get what you want though sometimes there’s a little gem to be found .

You can find a friend other times find lots of fun .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand folk wanting to socialise with likeminded folks but these socials dont always end well.

Just take a look at how users of this forum have their spats, when alcohol is added to the mix can you imagine what would happen?

I much prefer fireworks during sex

"

Are you saying that socials have ended in verbals or fisticuffs?

I'm not looking for details, btw.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I understand folk wanting to socialise with likeminded folks but these socials dont always end well.

Just take a look at how users of this forum have their spats, when alcohol is added to the mix can you imagine what would happen?

I much prefer fireworks during sex

Are you saying that socials have ended in verbals or fisticuffs?

I'm not looking for details, btw."

I’ve never seen that but I have seen people deliberately giving others a wide berth to avoid a confrontation

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That must make things uncomfortable.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand folk wanting to socialise with likeminded folks but these socials dont always end well.

Just take a look at how users of this forum have their spats, when alcohol is added to the mix can you imagine what would happen?

I much prefer fireworks during sex

Are you saying that socials have ended in verbals or fisticuffs?

I'm not looking for details, btw.

I’ve never seen that but I have seen people deliberately giving others a wide berth to avoid a confrontation "

It's just normal life although the ones recently there has been nothing but just fantastic nights

But if people cause hassle in th past I'd then expect them not be be invited back

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *atti JoWoman
over a year ago

Kemnay

For me, you cannot have one without the other. I need to be attracted and interested in chat.... socially have fuck spark and further curiosity. Which finally brings us to awesome sex. But thats what works for me.

But i am also interested in meeting like minded folk, i wont have attraction and fuck spark with but i will connect on the banter and chat.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me, you cannot have one without the other. I need to be attracted and interested in chat.... socially have fuck spark and further curiosity. Which finally brings us to awesome sex. But thats what works for me.

But i am also interested in meeting like minded folk, i wont have attraction and fuck spark with but i will connect on the banter and chat. "

Aww fuck that's me out

My banter is shite

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Im the same, I wouldnt be here if there wasn't the social side as well.

Although nsa has its place in my opinion swinging isnt swinging without both the sex and social parts to it xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Im the same, I wouldnt be here if there wasn't the social side as well.

Although nsa has its place in my opinion swinging isnt swinging without both the sex and social parts to it xxx "

You’re gonna have to get your tea making skills up to scratch then

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Im the same, I wouldnt be here if there wasn't the social side as well.

Although nsa has its place in my opinion swinging isnt swinging without both the sex and social parts to it xxx

You’re gonna have to get your tea making skills up to scratch then "
my kettles boiled dry lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Im the same, I wouldnt be here if there wasn't the social side as well.

Although nsa has its place in my opinion swinging isnt swinging without both the sex and social parts to it xxx

You’re gonna have to get your tea making skills up to scratch then my kettles boiled dry lol "

Now you tell me!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the social side even if it's meeting for coffee and a chat, I now only do social meets first before anything else is arranged

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Im the same, I wouldnt be here if there wasn't the social side as well.

Although nsa has its place in my opinion swinging isnt swinging without both the sex and social parts to it xxx

You’re gonna have to get your tea making skills up to scratch then my kettles boiled dry lol

Now you tell me!! "
lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Im the same, I wouldnt be here if there wasn't the social side as well.

Although nsa has its place in my opinion swinging isnt swinging without both the sex and social parts to it xxx

You’re gonna have to get your tea making skills up to scratch then "

Ill make you nice cuppa after I wax you

Xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I love the social side to fab but no its not better than the fun, fun is the main reason why we joined here after all "

Have to agree. My social life was fine without Fab but my sexual needs were not. I mainly joined to explore and experiment with like minded people without being judged. On saying thay i have had some lovely social encounters and made alot of lovely friends here.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *herubs Social EventsCouple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I love the social side of fab.. I always do a social before anything else happens , one you can't beat a cocktail with a gorgeous lady and two there has to be an attraction for me , but I did join fab to explore my fantasies the sexual side is what made me join. I don't need fab for sex but when you want to explore more intense levels of fantasy and sex you need to meet like minded people.I have met many people most of are now friends and fulfilled my fantasies but I'm sure it's been said before by many people fab is used in a variety of different ways for many people xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

The 2 are equally important to me.

R

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant have one without the other in my opinion.

Chatting to find common ground, discover the persons sense of humour are all important when it comes to attraction for me , chemistry and connection come through the social part . That's when it works !!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some times I think there should be a social work side to this place!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, you cannot have one without the other. I need to be attracted and interested in chat.... socially have fuck spark and further curiosity. Which finally brings us to awesome sex. But thats what works for me.

But i am also interested in meeting like minded folk, i wont have attraction and fuck spark with but i will connect on the banter and chat. "
can I steal Fuck spark please lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *litter and GrumpCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Cant have one without the other in my opinion.

Chatting to find common ground, discover the persons sense of humour are all important when it comes to attraction for me , chemistry and connection come through the social part . That's when it works !!! "

Totally agree with this x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think you can rate one above the other as for the majority their inextricably linked ,what I have noticed in various posts since I returned is people remarking how attractive etc they found such and such at a large social , when in Fab their profile never stood out or they aren’t photogenic, so after prattling, ,,,,, Definitely undecided

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *atti JoWoman
over a year ago

Kemnay


"For me, you cannot have one without the other. I need to be attracted and interested in chat.... socially have fuck spark and further curiosity. Which finally brings us to awesome sex. But thats what works for me.

But i am also interested in meeting like minded folk, i wont have attraction and fuck spark with but i will connect on the banter and chat. can I steal Fuck spark please lol "

No trade marked it!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *atti JoWoman
over a year ago

Kemnay


"For me, you cannot have one without the other. I need to be attracted and interested in chat.... socially have fuck spark and further curiosity. Which finally brings us to awesome sex. But thats what works for me.

But i am also interested in meeting like minded folk, i wont have attraction and fuck spark with but i will connect on the banter and chat.

Aww fuck that's me out

My banter is shite "

Leave that for someone else to point out Peter, makes it amusing! ??

Just mind the spark ??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think you can rate one above the other as for the majority their inextricably linked ,what I have noticed in various posts since I returned is people remarking how attractive etc they found such and such at a large social , when in Fab their profile never stood out or they aren’t photogenic, so after prattling, ,,,,, Definitely undecided"

They're just being nice when they do that. It makes them sound like nice people too

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think you can rate one above the other as for the majority their inextricably linked ,what I have noticed in various posts since I returned is people remarking how attractive etc they found such and such at a large social , when in Fab their profile never stood out or they aren’t photogenic, so after prattling, ,,,,, Definitely undecided

They're just being nice when they do that. It makes them sound like nice people too "
am

I such a trusting fool lol ? Actually I was meaning myself a few months back at a social from elsewhere . I spoke to one lady who was unrecognisable from her profile , shallow as it sounds I never would’ve chatted online , but now we’re close buddies

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are all ugly buggers.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me???am fucking pot ty lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top