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Perception Of Someone On Fab - Has It Changed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hopefully this is a good one for debate

We all use the site for different reasons and different way like the chat rooms, the forums, looking for meets, going to socials but last night I had a fantastic chat about our perception of someone on fab and has it changed.

Like reading someone's forum posts and you have a view of that person, good or bad or chatting or watching someone in a chat room and then eventually you see them at a social and has your view of them changed. Even changing your view of someone on the forum who you have just seen in the chat room etc...

So your Perception Of Someone On Fab - Has It Changed or stayed the same. No names now

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By *rish33Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah, I used to think there were some interesting topics posted on the forums... Then I realised it was the same people posting different stuff every day and it made me yawn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, I used to think there were some interesting topics posted on the forums... Then I realised it was the same people posting different stuff every day and it made me yawn"

Oooh...controversial

My opinions have changed. It's generally been for the better though. I've perhaps been too quick to judge then seen someone in a different light after speaking to them in the chatroom or via pm.

A few who I've thought were fuds and have acted accordingly.

And a couple who I don't particularly like but who regularly make me laugh with their forum posts! Which can be annoying.

Also a handful of sound folk who still seem sound.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah, I used to think there were some interesting topics posted on the forums... Then I realised it was the same people posting different stuff every day and it made me yawn"

Believe it or not there's not to many who post topics and if they do it's few and far between. Doesn't matter if it's the same people post, if it's a crap topic it won't last if it's a good topic then it will be busy enough. If the same people only start it cause others don't post then it doesn't mean they will continue to add to that particular post, up to others to debate on it if they want.

If someone starts a forum post about 'topics on forum used to be interesting but not now' don't blame me, your the one who game them ideas

Anyways that's a whole different ball game so what are your perceptions of people on fab, have they changed much ?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Tbh not really ...having met a lot of chatters and forumites over the years...personality wise no one has really surprised me ...generally can tell from their posts or interaction in chat what they are like in person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And yes my perception n views of people have changed and some have stayed the same. Some for the good, some for the worst.

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

I have one example which to this day annoys me. A female on here who I considered a friend and now who I wouldn’t piss on if they were on fire. The other one is a male we met at a club and he wasn’t very nice and we remembered him for that reason but he mailed us randomly and ever since then we have chatted regularly as he is in fact a nice guy.

Mrs

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Simple answer yes long answer cant be assed losing hours of my life typing them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as I dont really think about fab users. Some make me smile and some make me shake my head but I've never had any opinion on them to change. You're all just pixels on my screen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I read forum posts, threads started and interactions with myself and others on threads, private messages, status updates etc. I form my opinion based on consistency of message. This does not mean that I don't accept that people's views or minds change. But consistency and honesty or lack off will change my opinion. It has done, some for the better and some for the worse. Not that I am arrogant enough to think my opinions would make any real difference in the lives of those concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the forum as a way of sussing out who to avoid and who are the shit stirrers. My blocked list has got a lot longer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I use the forum as a way of sussing out who to avoid and who are the shit stirrers. My blocked list has got a lot longer "

Yeah I do that as well to a certain extent but has your views changed of anyone whom you met socially obviously not in a one to one but in a bigger social that you have been to or whom you have watched or chatted to in the chat room, even if your view changed in a pleasantly surprised way.

Off topic, it was the same up until year n a half ago but if you block 200 people then they were automatically unblocked. Not sure if this coding flaw was sorted

Anyways folks, back to topic. has your views/perception of people on fab changed ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say my perceptions of many have pretty much remained consistent.

I don't believe most of what people claim/claim to be on here.

Chatting to them usually confirms I've been right in the first place

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

The people I have met on here have been genuine and very polite, must have been lucky lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

My perceptions of most have been spot on,some proved me wrong some proved me right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go with my gut instincts and mostly been right.there are som cracking people on here and yes my perceptions have changed on some people due to their shit stirring xx but will always have fab friends regatdless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a difference between being a cynic and being realistic then? Taking people at face value until proven otherwise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use the forum as a way of sussing out who to avoid and who are the shit stirrers. My blocked list has got a lot longer

Yeah I do that as well to a certain extent but has your views changed of anyone whom you met socially obviously not in a one to one but in a bigger social that you have been to or whom you have watched or chatted to in the chat room, even if your view changed in a pleasantly surprised way.

Off topic, it was the same up until year n a half ago but if you block 200 people then they were automatically unblocked. Not sure if this coding flaw was sorted

Anyways folks, back to topic. has your views/perception of people on fab changed ?"

I don't chat in the chat rooms and have only been to one social. The people I met were lovely but it did confirm my suspicions that's its very cliquey on here(sorry Bunkie but it is )

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"I use the forum as a way of sussing out who to avoid and who are the shit stirrers. My blocked list has got a lot longer

Yeah I do that as well to a certain extent but has your views changed of anyone whom you met socially obviously not in a one to one but in a bigger social that you have been to or whom you have watched or chatted to in the chat room, even if your view changed in a pleasantly surprised way.

Off topic, it was the same up until year n a half ago but if you block 200 people then they were automatically unblocked. Not sure if this coding flaw was sorted

Anyways folks, back to topic. has your views/perception of people on fab changed ?

I don't chat in the chat rooms and have only been to one social. The people I met were lovely but it did confirm my suspicions that's its very cliquey on here(sorry Bunkie but it is ) "

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Don't think we've ever knowingingly met anyone that we've chatted to on the forums. Has been funny to send messages to people and not even had a reply but since met and played with them at parties and whatnot and chat now and again via messages. We're the same people who messaged before so what changed their views?

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By *ir laugh a lotMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I have no preconceived perceptions although suffice to say many I think have of me I have not met many folks from the site but I think my major stutter my hump and my Tourettes could possibly change not only peoples perceptions but opinions of me and I just have no idea why!

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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago

Anstruther

I met someone/people and they are super nice in person but online they don't come across like online they come acorss as someone I would not like so yea this has happened to me kinda in a way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah not from the forums, but people I've met in person. Only one really sticks out was completely not the person I thought they were. Other than that it's usually for the better.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"I use the forum as a way of sussing out who to avoid and who are the shit stirrers. My blocked list has got a lot longer "

Woooooohòooooo im not blocked

To your question Peter, i try not to make opinions of people through anonymous posts on an internet forum as people can come across very different from what they are really like face to face. Everyone can come across in the chatrooms differently, one persons funny as fck can be anothers cheaky cnut. One persons nice guy can be anothers arrogant bighead. I have a feeling what someone may be like but have been wrong in the past as to what they were like in person.

Take me and you peter, we have had our differences in the forums but i took them with a pinch of salt, i said in a past thread if we ever met at a social id buy you a beer, before even really knowing me you told me you would refuse my beer offer and would tell me why. Not everyone is the same in person as on a forum . Offer stands though lol.

Interesting topic.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"I'd say my perceptions of many have pretty much remained consistent.

I don't believe most of what people claim/claim to be on here.

Chatting to them usually confirms I've been right in the first place "

Do you mean chatting to them in person or chatting to them through keyboards ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say my perceptions of many have pretty much remained consistent.

I don't believe most of what people claim/claim to be on here.

Chatting to them usually confirms I've been right in the first place

Do you mean chatting to them in person or chatting to them through keyboards ?"

For me there isn't a huge difference sometimes. If they type shite, I'm gonna assume they talk shite so wouldn't be inclined to chat with them in person

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By *ot Quickie NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

By reading profile, status updates and forum posts/comments it's given me some insight into who people are or more so what sort of person they are.

With that in mind - After reading a number of profiles of people that might be of interest to me for the most part the majority of people come across as lovely and honest until i started reading their status updates and some of their forum posts/comments. I've noticed that some people are somewhat far removed from the person they profess to be on their profile. While mostly their mask stays in place it does at times slip and shows them to be far from the lovely friendly person they wish to be regarded as. I've started to use status updates and forum posts/ comments as a filter as to who to avoid having contact with.

But I have to say on the flip side I've also changed my opinion of a few people for the better from their status updates,forum posts/comments and the like.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"I'd say my perceptions of many have pretty much remained consistent.

I don't believe most of what people claim/claim to be on here.

Chatting to them usually confirms I've been right in the first place

Do you mean chatting to them in person or chatting to them through keyboards ?

For me there isn't a huge difference sometimes. If they type shite, I'm gonna assume they talk shite so wouldn't be inclined to chat with them in person "

So your point has no relevance to the OPS question. He is asking when you meet FACE TO FACE has your perception changed. We will assume your not in a position to answer from experience then merely a perception of your own judgement on people then . ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say my perceptions of many have pretty much remained consistent.

I don't believe most of what people claim/claim to be on here.

Chatting to them usually confirms I've been right in the first place

Do you mean chatting to them in person or chatting to them through keyboards ?

For me there isn't a huge difference sometimes. If they type shite, I'm gonna assume they talk shite so wouldn't be inclined to chat with them in person

So your point has no relevance to the OPS question. He is asking when you meet FACE TO FACE has your perception changed. We will assume your not in a position to answer from experience then merely a perception of your own judgement on people then . ?"

You can assume whatever you like, angelface

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say my perceptions of many have pretty much remained consistent.

I don't believe most of what people claim/claim to be on here.

Chatting to them usually confirms I've been right in the first place

Do you mean chatting to them in person or chatting to them through keyboards ?

For me there isn't a huge difference sometimes. If they type shite, I'm gonna assume they talk shite so wouldn't be inclined to chat with them in person

So your point has no relevance to the OPS question. He is asking when you meet FACE TO FACE has your perception changed. We will assume your not in a position to answer from experience then merely a perception of your own judgement on people then . ?"

.....actually....does the OP not also ask about opinions changing when you've read posts on the forum and then spoke in the chat room? (ducks)

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"I'd say my perceptions of many have pretty much remained consistent.

I don't believe most of what people claim/claim to be on here.

Chatting to them usually confirms I've been right in the first place

Do you mean chatting to them in person or chatting to them through keyboards ?

For me there isn't a huge difference sometimes. If they type shite, I'm gonna assume they talk shite so wouldn't be inclined to chat with them in person

So your point has no relevance to the OPS question. He is asking when you meet FACE TO FACE has your perception changed. We will assume your not in a position to answer from experience then merely a perception of your own judgement on people then . ?

.....actually....does the OP not also ask about opinions changing when you've read posts on the forum and then spoke in the chat room? (ducks)"

Ducks lol i like it.xx

I may be wrong but i think he means chatting by webcam which is as close as you can be face to face without actually standing in front of them , not typing i mean. Im sure horsey will clarify if i have misread his meaning.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd say my perceptions of many have pretty much remained consistent.

I don't believe most of what people claim/claim to be on here.

Chatting to them usually confirms I've been right in the first place

Do you mean chatting to them in person or chatting to them through keyboards ?

For me there isn't a huge difference sometimes. If they type shite, I'm gonna assume they talk shite so wouldn't be inclined to chat with them in person

So your point has no relevance to the OPS question. He is asking when you meet FACE TO FACE has your perception changed. We will assume your not in a position to answer from experience then merely a perception of your own judgement on people then . ?

.....actually....does the OP not also ask about opinions changing when you've read posts on the forum and then spoke in the chat room? (ducks)"

To be honest its all aspects, that's why I posted it.

Seeing someone post on the forums and then bump into each other at a big social. Seeing someone in the chat room and you have a view then seeing their posts on a forum and change your mind. Even reading statuses and then changing your mind after meeting them at an event etc...

There are people who make assumptions/views of me, it happens, am I like that person they think I am. I cannot say as I only know myself and they way I am which hopefully if people meet me they actually just enjoy my company enough in any capacity to think that they would enjoy my company again.

There are people I enjoy reading their posts, people I don't like and due to these assumptions and perceptions are sometimes right. I'm happy with my views but I know I give everyone the benefit of the doubt and I like to think I'm usually right in my views but I have been proven wrong by quite a few who are not what I originally perceived them to be, good or bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use the forum as a way of sussing out who to avoid and who are the shit stirrers. My blocked list has got a lot longer "

Yup. This

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"I met someone/people and they are super nice in person but online they don't come across like online they come acorss as someone I would not like so yea this has happened to me kinda in a way lol"

See I told you I was nice

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Quite a few of the forumite I’ve met over the last few months at socials or CJs. Most are lovely and I would happily sit and chat to in person as I think they are interesting people.

There are one or two who I’ve been surprised at with their attitudes in person as they act completely differently on the forums.

I hope to meet more of you at the next big social.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

My prescription has changed I’m sure it’s all the posts I’ve read but mibbae I’m just gettin auld .

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

So Peter has your perception of anyone changed and if so for the better or worse?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So Peter has your perception of anyone changed and if so for the better or worse?"

Well I've been on fab quite a while so yes. Actually had a few personal messages in regards to this post lol and I was saying that at the recent Ayrshire Social.

I had a view of the newbies and people I hadn't met and it was all good perceptions but my views of everyone including yourself after the event was even way better than I originally thought.

Some I even found out were amazing kissers and taught me a lot

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I use the forum as a way of sussing out who to avoid and who are the shit stirrers. My blocked list has got a lot longer "

Forum posts & status updates certainly help, although I tend to put a note on their profile rather than block.

R

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By *herubs Social EventsCouple
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"So Peter has your perception of anyone changed and if so for the better or worse?

Well I've been on fab quite a while so yes. Actually had a few personal messages in regards to this post lol and I was saying that at the recent Ayrshire Social.

I had a view of the newbies and people I hadn't met and it was all good perceptions but my views of everyone including yourself after the event was even way better than I originally thought.

Some I even found out were amazing kissers and taught me a lot "

Peter I'm so glad that the social gave people a chance to put names to faces the social events are for that purpose and each one creates an opportunity to meets others in a fun relaxed way we have so many great organised social nights in Scotland .. there was a lot of newbies at the Ayrshire social and the feedback I got was brilliant everyone had a great time no drama everyone felt welcome..

My way is to make your own mind up when you meet people not to listen to gossip or bitching ..because some people you get on with and some you don't ..I've certainly had my mind change when ive met people or saw how people are on the forums or how they behave towards others.. but its about having fun ,people use the site for many different reasons and each to their own.. it's about not following a crowd and deciding for your self who you meet and who you talk to most of all its about having fun. we only live once

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By *herubs Social EventsCouple
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I use the forum as a way of sussing out who to avoid and who are the shit stirrers. My blocked list has got a lot longer

Forum posts & status updates certainly help, although I tend to put a note on their profile rather than block.

R "

I keep forgetting about the wee note bit lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I use the forum as a way of sussing out who to avoid and who are the shit stirrers. My blocked list has got a lot longer

Forum posts & status updates certainly help, although I tend to put a note on their profile rather than block.

R "

Not sure what I said before but out of everything, status updates are the least that I take into account, mainly because my status updates are just usually a laugh or carry on etc... so not taken seriously and I'm the same with others.

I do admit, sometimes a status slips up with a single female's profile saying her BF are both looking for a meet, when sometimes that profile has started she is single.

I usually don't block, just add details to the private notes of that profile

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I use the forum as a way of sussing out who to avoid and who are the shit stirrers. My blocked list has got a lot longer

Forum posts & status updates certainly help, although I tend to put a note on their profile rather than block.

R

I keep forgetting about the wee note bit lol "

I think it's great & very handy at times.

R

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By *herubs Social EventsCouple
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I use the forum as a way of sussing out who to avoid and who are the shit stirrers. My blocked list has got a lot longer

Forum posts & status updates certainly help, although I tend to put a note on their profile rather than block.

R

I keep forgetting about the wee note bit lol

I think it's great & very handy at times.

R "

I'm going to start using that lol

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Someone once put a note on my profile describing me as 'luke warm' after exchanging a few messages ...... definitely not how he describes me now as we meet quite regularly.

R

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I use the forum as a way of sussing out who to avoid and who are the shit stirrers. My blocked list has got a lot longer

Forum posts & status updates certainly help, although I tend to put a note on their profile rather than block.

R

I keep forgetting about the wee note bit lol

I think it's great & very handy at times.

R

I'm going to start using that lol "

Been using private notes for years, probably my most used tool on fab and find it invaluable

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By *herubs Social EventsCouple
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I use the forum as a way of sussing out who to avoid and who are the shit stirrers. My blocked list has got a lot longer

Forum posts & status updates certainly help, although I tend to put a note on their profile rather than block.

R

I keep forgetting about the wee note bit lol

I think it's great & very handy at times.

R

I'm going to start using that lol

Been using private notes for years, probably my most used tool on fab and find it invaluable "

I'd completely forgot about the notes xx

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"So Peter has your perception of anyone changed and if so for the better or worse?

Well I've been on fab quite a while so yes. Actually had a few personal messages in regards to this post lol and I was saying that at the recent Ayrshire Social.

I had a view of the newbies and people I hadn't met and it was all good perceptions but my views of everyone including yourself after the event was even way better than I originally thought.

Some I even found out were amazing kissers and taught me a lot "

I never kiss and tell

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"I use the forum as a way of sussing out who to avoid and who are the shit stirrers. My blocked list has got a lot longer

Forum posts & status updates certainly help, although I tend to put a note on their profile rather than block.

R

I keep forgetting about the wee note bit lol

I think it's great & very handy at times.

R

I'm going to start using that lol

Been using private notes for years, probably my most used tool on fab and find it invaluable

I'd completely forgot about the notes xx "

I usually use them for people’s name as I’ve a terrible memory.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"I use the forum as a way of sussing out who to avoid and who are the shit stirrers. My blocked list has got a lot longer

Forum posts & status updates certainly help, although I tend to put a note on their profile rather than block.

R

I keep forgetting about the wee note bit lol

I think it's great & very handy at times.

R

I'm going to start using that lol

Been using private notes for years, probably my most used tool on fab and find it invaluable "

Just watch those GDPR forumites dont come a knocking

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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago

Anstruther


"I met someone/people and they are super nice in person but online they don't come across like online they come acorss as someone I would not like so yea this has happened to me kinda in a way lol

See I told you I was nice "

My veiw of you didnt change you are lovely online and in chat

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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago

Anstruther


"So Peter has your perception of anyone changed and if so for the better or worse?

Well I've been on fab quite a while so yes. Actually had a few personal messages in regards to this post lol and I was saying that at the recent Ayrshire Social.

I had a view of the newbies and people I hadn't met and it was all good perceptions but my views of everyone including yourself after the event was even way better than I originally thought.

Some I even found out were amazing kissers and taught me a lot

Peter I'm so glad that the social gave people a chance to put names to faces the social events are for that purpose and each one creates an opportunity to meets others in a fun relaxed way we have so many great organised social nights in Scotland .. there was a lot of newbies at the Ayrshire social and the feedback I got was brilliant everyone had a great time no drama everyone felt welcome..

My way is to make your own mind up when you meet people not to listen to gossip or bitching ..because some people you get on with and some you don't ..I've certainly had my mind change when ive met people or saw how people are on the forums or how they behave towards others.. but its about having fun ,people use the site for many different reasons and each to their own.. it's about not following a crowd and deciding for your self who you meet and who you talk to most of all its about having fun. we only live once "

We were so glad we picked the ayrshire social as our 1st it was an amazing night and while we cant make the next one we will definitely be at more that you do xxx

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By *herubs Social EventsCouple
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"So Peter has your perception of anyone changed and if so for the better or worse?

Well I've been on fab quite a while so yes. Actually had a few personal messages in regards to this post lol and I was saying that at the recent Ayrshire Social.

I had a view of the newbies and people I hadn't met and it was all good perceptions but my views of everyone including yourself after the event was even way better than I originally thought.

Some I even found out were amazing kissers and taught me a lot

Peter I'm so glad that the social gave people a chance to put names to faces the social events are for that purpose and each one creates an opportunity to meets others in a fun relaxed way we have so many great organised social nights in Scotland .. there was a lot of newbies at the Ayrshire social and the feedback I got was brilliant everyone had a great time no drama everyone felt welcome..

My way is to make your own mind up when you meet people not to listen to gossip or bitching ..because some people you get on with and some you don't ..I've certainly had my mind change when ive met people or saw how people are on the forums or how they behave towards others.. but its about having fun ,people use the site for many different reasons and each to their own.. it's about not following a crowd and deciding for your self who you meet and who you talk to most of all its about having fun. we only live once

We were so glad we picked the ayrshire social as our 1st it was an amazing night and while we cant make the next one we will definitely be at more that you do xxx"

Aww bless I'm so glad you came along and enjoyed we are lucky in Scotland we have a great social scene thanks to all the hosts who make these nights amazing .. I'l look forward to seeing you at more of my social nights cherub kisses

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By *lasgowlad73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm still relatively new to all this and i have met a couple of you guys at a social and you where all lovely and a good laugh. Looking forward to meeting more and enjoying your company!!

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